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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your ambitions, whether great or small?
HDIF about the current political atmosphere in the country?
HDIF when you leave love notes around the house?
When time is short, do I handle the situation well, or do I tend to go into panic mode? HDIFAT?
What family atmosphere do I dream of for our home? HDIFAT?
If I had one wish, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about winning? Do I brag about it?
What areas of a couple's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people try to flatter me?
What burdens of hate do I carry with me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together before we dialogue?
Describe a time when I felt curious. HDIFAT?
What new awareness have I discovered in you this past week? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about criticism? Does it keep me focused and innovative?
You have seniority at work. HDIFAT?
How do I feel attending church together? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about the way my ministry influences those around me?
Where do I most take you for granted? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I missed you today?
When one of my people gives me a hug, I feel _____.
What did I like best that we did as a family this summer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask my forgiveness?
Which three qualities do I require in a friend? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDMAMMF?
Marriages around us are affected by how well they see ours working. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize God has spoken to me through you?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
HDIF when I know you are more than I dreamed?
What one gift would I most enjoy this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cannot afford a night out together?
Do I consider myself as an idealist or a realist? HDIFAT?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDMAMMF?
Is there anything troubling me right now? HDIFAT?
How much hugging and cuddling do I need before and after lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the little things you do for me?
My favorite memory of Christmas is _____. HDIFAT?
Do I challenge others to live their values? HDIFFAMA?
HDIF when my job separates us overnight?
Recently, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
What can I do to improve my dialog? HDIFAT?
HDIF about encouraging our children to participate in sports?
Our Lord calls us to love each other unconditionally. HDIFAT?
When we talk about Encounter / Retrouvaille, some reject us. HDIFAT?
How well do I think my people listen to me? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for the world? HDIFAT?
What do I think you find difficult to tell me? HDIFAT?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
What is my favorite childhood memory of Christmas? HDIFAT?
How important is physical affection to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the role the priest or minister played in our wedding?
HDIF when someone we ask to experience the weekend says no?
HDIF when I tell you how important you are to me?
What do I most need from my people? HDIF telling you this?
It was not raining when Noah built the ark. HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you today? HDIFAT?
As an adult, am I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I feel weak? HDIFAT?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
How do I see you as a gift? HDIFAT?
When do I let my temper get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
How does our ethnic background affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting another couple to dialogue with us regularly?
What talent do I wish I had that I do not? HDIF telling you about this?
What do I see in you that I admire? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT?
What would I say most represents a symbol of our loving relationship? HDIFAMA?
How can I put more romance in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What kind of listener was I before we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are too busy for each other?
HDIF about shaving on my day off?
HDIF when I send you a Valentine's card?
HDIF when I think about our financial position?
What couple has been the clearest sign of Sacrament for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my job now?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
Intimacy is a challenge for us. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
What things, actions, ideas, do I find the most threatening? HDIFAT?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I look at pictures from my ordination / marriage?
In order to succeed as a priest or minister, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I take care of my body?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my job? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Is money in my pocket a priority? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIF about this? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply?
I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when _____. HDIFAT?
When was I most aware of you today? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
If you are not free to reject, you cannot accept. HDIFAT?
HDIF when, non-verbally, you say no to lovemaking?
When was the last time I told you how special you are? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you sleep late?
When did I think I was listened to? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAMA?
When we have to change roles, how does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family celebrations?
HDIF when you win an argument?
How do I fail sometimes as a good listener? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming New Year?
HDIF about healing?
HDIF when I think of praying with you?
HDIF when you compliment me, but the compliment is not sincere?
Do I cope with my stress alone or do I share it with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF trying to put you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF right now about your job or career?
Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT?
When I do not know something, what am I most likely to do: pretend I do, ask, or ignore it? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my life is disorderly?
HDIF when we dump on each other?
HDIF when one of my people tells me We'll see when they really mean No?
How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from listening to you with my heart and HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I think about the couples and religious that will be making the next weekend?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
Of the memories I formed while experiencing the weekend, which is most pleasant and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are hungry for sex?
When was the last time I felt very close to Jesus? HDIFAT?
What do I like about being alone? HDIFAT?
HDIF I am coming home to you after a long trip?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
Our dialogue is a prayer to our Father. HDIFAT?
Is my tongue like a double-edged sword? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my superior does not share their plans with me? Describe in loving detail.
What do I want from this relationship right now? DYFID
What can I do this week to make memories? HDIFAT?
What acts of kindness did I do today? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I show my love to God? HDIFAMA?
Can we listen better to each other? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I've had a very stressful day? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF planning a romantic time together?
What about me am I most proud of right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
HDIF when I realize and accept Jesus' closeness in our daily lives?
HDIF about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment?
Is there a romantic location within walking distance of our home? HDIFAT?
What sexual values do I hold? HDIFAT?
HDIF watching a love story with you on TV?
Are we having a lifestyle of forgiveness and healing? HDMAMMF?
In what aspect of our relationship do I think we have grown the most? HDIFAT?
How does our closeness reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most stress? HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for my people? HDIFAT?
What friend of my people would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about family? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I work late?
HDIF about my co-workers?
When recently have I put your needs ahead of mine? HDTMMF?
When was the last time I laughed at myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my spiritual growth?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
How has our failure to live God's plan for our marriage affected us? HDIFAT?
Our sexual relationship is a mirror of our total relationship. HDIFAT?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about our diet or food choices at this time?
Is a daily routine a painful or comfortable way for me to get things done? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of quality time we have spent together this week?
How do I feel when I need a hug? Describe in loving detail.
There really IS a New World somewhere! HDIFAT?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I provide for our family?
As we read _____ (pick some verse from Scripture), what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
How do I measure up when I am given power? HDIFAT?
When we do a job together I feel _____.
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you up just to say Hi?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT?
What quality do I most admire in your mother / father? HDIFAT?
In what ways do we compete with each other? HDIFAT?
Our lifestyle is a reflection of our values. HDIFAT?
Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with others today? HDIFAT?
What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT?
In the presence of trouble, some grow wings, others will grow crutches. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the first day we met?
What do I think would make you happy? HDIFAT?
HDIF saying yes to lovemaking but only for the good of our relationship?
When I think about dying today, HDIF about our past week together?
Is there time enough for God in my busy life? HDIFAT?
What family memories of spring do I have? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending the rest of my life at my current place of worship?
How can I improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT decision now?
What area of my prayer life do I need to work on? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I let it hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I fail at something? Describe in loving detail.
What specifically do you do to me during sex that I enjoy most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about staying home with you?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF sharing our dialogue with other people?
What role does faith play in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we read a book together?
How well do I do trusting God to answer my needs? HDIFAT?
What is it about death that frightens me the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people who do not seem to have emotional ups and downs?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAMA?
What does the Lord's Prayer mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I see us living God's plan in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see children praying?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
How have we affected other couples' marriages? HDIFAT?
What areas of our relationship do I take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
What do I think are our limits as a couple? How do I feel about asking others for help in these areas?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAMA?
As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others.' HDIFAT?
What, if anything, causes unnecessary stress and complication in my/our life? HDIFAMA?
How have I experienced understanding in our relationship? HDMAMMF?
What do I hope for each child? HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when... HDIF about my answer?
What is it about our charism of prayerfulness that calls other people? HDIFAT?
Can I talk easily to people for as long as necessary? HDIFAT?
My greatest goal in life has been _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my appearance?
HDIF when I consider that we are special to Our Father?
At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT?
When am I jealous or selfish? HDIFAT?
In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not have much time to dialogue?
Where do we need to go in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are striving to be open and honest with each other?
If I could do anything I wanted with you, what would we do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
What was our closest moment as a family this year? HDIFAT?
How have my people helped me to become a better person? HDIFAT?
When someone hurts me, do I seek revenge or forgiveness? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I truly felt listened to by you? HDIFAT?
How does my relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider how the household chores are divided up?
What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me an unexpected hug?
What do I want this weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people talk negatively about me?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What strengths do we have to offer others as a couple?
HDIF about my spirituality?
What are the three closest moments we have shared together? HDIFAT?
What was my greatest fear as a child? HDIFAT?
God loves you more than I do. HDIFAT?
HDIF when others are impatient or rude with me?
HDIF when you express need for leisure time?
HDIF when people take advantage of me or push me around?
HDIF when we take a walk together?
If I could fix one thing in the world, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I cannot do anything to please you?
HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear?
What frustrates me most in working with others? HDIFAT?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
How do I feel after I have forgiven one of my people? DILD.
I looked forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about us being apart for several days?
What is my favorite thing to do that does not cost money? HDIFAT?
When you feel threatened, I feel _____.
How does our marriage reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our celebration of Thanksgiving?
In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT?
You can make me laugh when I see little to laugh about. HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people say no to God?
What romantic things do you do for me that I hope you never stop doing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you respond to my requests on your own time?
Our intimacy is renewed each time we communicate more deeply. HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about the first time I knew you were for me?
How do I respond to repeated failure? HDIFAT?
What behavior of yours most lets me experience myself as a man / woman? HDIFAT?
I see God smiling down on us as we make love. HDIFAT?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?
I was proud of you last month when _____. HDIFAT?
What activities are we involved in that cause friction in the family? HDIFAT?
When someone criticizes me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about housework?
What goals do I have that I have not shared with you yet? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you apologize to me?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharng this with you?
More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them.' -Harold J. Smith Do I deny my mistakes or do I learn from them? HDTMMF?
What do I like least about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we live out our faith?
HDIF when I am indifferent toward you?
HDIF about having to make a decision immediately?
What needs to change for me to give an unqualified yes to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our private time together?
What do I think there is to be thankful for this year? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help my people be happy? HDIFAT?
What topics are most likely to result in me picking a fight? HDIFAT?
How important are friendships to the health of our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about Washington politics?
HDIF when I do not trust you with my emotions / feelings?
When our calendar is empty, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending time alone, by myself?
What Christ-like qualities do I see in you? HDIFAT?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a little time to relax after I get home?
What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAMA?
What unfinished projects would I like finish? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, It is your fault?
What would I spend my last dollar on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am around positive people?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
How often do we throw a party? HDIFAT?
You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT?
What do I most need to change in my money habits? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to take things too lighty, or worry too much? HDIFAMA?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you liking me as a person?
In what way has our dialogue made us grow in the last week? HDIFAT?
What can I do to build a better community? HDIFAT?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot relax at home or at work?
What does baptism mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we balance the checkbook?
HDIF about what I am able to provide for our family?
How do I see us in service to the Lord? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest sexual fantasy? HDIFAT?
I am proudest of you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put away the laundry?
What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
Our sexual experience is an all-day thing. HDIFAT?
What keeps us from dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together?
In what area do I most admire or respect your feelings?
Someone borrowed our car and returned it with a full tank? HDIFAT?
What type of TV shows do I choose to watch? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a sacrifice so that others can get help for their marriage?
When our community reaches out to us, HDIF?
How would never having children affect my life? HDIFAT?
What prejudices do I hold? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you lost your patience with me?
How do I behave when I do not know something? HDIFAT?
When I am given things to do, am I more likely to accept them or complain about them? HDIFAT?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
How have I helped myself in the effort to help others? HDIFAT?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
How do we support other people in dialogue? HDIFAT?
What quality in you do I respect? HDIFAT?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDIFAT?
Which of my strengths do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
Pray Ephesians 5:21-32 together. HDIFAT?
HDIF remembering a time when I was in trouble as a child?
HDIF greeting you at the door when you come home?
I need support from you in the following areas. HDIFTYT?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
When I hear the Lord's call, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family?
HDIF when I give you the benefit of the doubt?
In what way has our dialogue made us grow in the last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have hurt you?
What gift of myself have I given to you today? HDIFAMA?
What of my emotions / feelings is most likely to lead to an expression of anger? HDIFAT?
What is an attitude I had about sex entering marriage? HDIF sharing this with you?
What part of my body do I like to have massaged? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I see children praying? Describe in loving detail.
What is the greatest pressure affecting me during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
We are the church 7 days a week, not only on Sunday. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing Jesus is our protector?
Our child has a special talent. HDIFAT?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
What is my least favorite household chore? HDIFAT?
HDIF today about all the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas?
If I could change one and only one thing about the world, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
Could our home be more Christ-centered? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our Encounter / Retrouvaille jobs keep us from being close?
HDIF when a child disobeys?
HDIF when you come home in the evening?
How would I describe heaven? HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our vacation?
How do I feel about discussing politics with someone who's views differ from mine? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll?
What does your touch mean to me? HDIFAT?
What romantic memories do I have from our dating days? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I forgave you, and HDIFAT?
What are my most important values for our relationship? HDIFAMA?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your emotions / feelings last night?
HDIF about learning another language?
One thing I missed during my childhood was _____. HDIFAT today?
What compliment do I most like to receive about me? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying together?
HDIF when activities take the place of our lovemaking?
HDIF when you are critical of me?
Is my faith growing or dying? HDIFAT?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish or church? HDIFAT?
How are we responding to Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you handle our children when they misbehave?
What makes it hard to live according to our own values? HDIFAT?
When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray aloud together?
What do I put before God in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone asks me to share?
HDIF about your openness to me in our lovemaking?
HDIF about making love in the evening?
I most need you to love me when _____. HDIFAT?
What Christ/God-like qualities do I see in my people? HDIFAMA?
How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDMAMMF?
How can we make God more present in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
If I knew we had no tomorrow, how would I live today with you?
HDIF when we have no private time together?
HDIF about summer weather?
What keeps me from trusting my people completely? HDIFAMA?
What happens to me when I reveal more of what is behind my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
HDIF about setting up regular date nights and blocking them off in the calendar?
Forgive us our sins as we forgive other people. When I pray this, HDIF?
What methods do I find most difficult to use in describing my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the number of hours you work?
How seriously do I take my social obligations? HDIFAT?
How many diets have I tried? HDIFAT?
What do I pray for? HDIFAT?
What bothers my conscience the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when you criticize how I discipline our children?
How would I like to spend our vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do some household or yard chore without being reminded to do it?
HDIF when you call me from work?
When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a dog?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
What is the touchiest area in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What are the negative effects my mask has on me? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I know our lovemaking is about to begin?
HDIF when I let give up the reins and let Our Father decide for us?
HDIF when I see our family together?
HDIF when you help me laugh at myself? When I help you do the same?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, are we living the World's Plan? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAT?
What have I held back because I was sure I knew what your reaction would be? HDIFAT?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to respect authority and follow the rules?
Where do I look for help in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
When I do the right thing, HDIF about what other people think?
Is there something I dislike about myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how much money we give to our church or favorite charity?
What about my relationship with God can be improved? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances,? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
If I were to list my strengths, what would stand out to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about putting my life in God's hands?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF when things are not done right?
HDIF about tattoos?
Have I ever felt the power of the Holy Spirit?
I forgot to buy you a card. HDIFAT?
What do I remember most about our first date? HDIFAT?
HDIF about installing dead-bolt locks on our outside doors?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our children respond to you?
HDIF about serving others in ways that will never be noticed?
What is my favorite time of year, and why? HDTMMF?
HDIF when we disagree with each other? HDIFAT?
How do I show my love for you? HDIFAT?
When I am embarrassed, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I admit that I am wrong?
What precedents have we set with family members? HDIFAT?
When did I feel closest to God and my people in celebrating mass/conducting service/etc.? HGIFAMA?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this?
Now that the children have moved out, is the end of the family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you come up behind and hug me?
In what ways do I try to change myself to please you? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?? Expectations"
When I have a choice, do I mostly prefer to do things by myself? HDIFAT?
How do I get re-energized? Is it the same way you do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask for your forgiveness?
What is it about our sexual relationship that I do not like? HDIFAT?
HDIF about moving from where we are now living?
What advise would I give a young bride or groom (pick one)? How do I feel about this?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
HDIF being around people who are easily irritated?
What has been the effect of my job or career on our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am extremely tired?
HDIF reading the Song of Solomon?
HDIF when no one refills the ice cube trays?
Do I think I spend enough time with my people or is the time I spend with them quality time? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when my life is fast-paced, structured and intense?
In the area of God and our faith what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
Our Lord calls us to love one another unconditionally. HDIFAT? HDMAMMF?
Do I come as close as possible to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you crying? Describe in loving detail.
What have I learned about myself in the past year? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of God? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I compete against my people? HDIFAMA?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
What do I like best about us? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to working under pressure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I squeeze your hand?
HDIF when I make encouraging comments to you?
How am I presently recognizing (affirming) my husband/wife? HDMAMMF?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
HDIF when we have unexpected company?
HDIF when making things with my hands?
Are we still striving for a deeper loving marriage, or have we stopped because we judge we've done enough? HDIFAMA?
In the area of sex what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
What do I like best about myself in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What part of the Passion is most significant to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling others about Encounter / Retrouvaille?
HDIF about roadside litter?
HDIF when I am talking about my personal life?
If our house burned down, could we dialogue on God's love the next day? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying new things that are just coming into fashion?
HDIF when I am assertive? When I am not assertive?
Lately, have I accepted peoples feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I pray, Our Father ... ?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAMA?
What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are faced with too many bills?
HDIF when we would like to do something but cannot afford it?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
How has our dialogue enhanced our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
Besides my normal place of worship, where would I most like to celebrate mass / worship? HDIFAT?
Our relationship to my family is _____. HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
What are your best qualities as a parent? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I allow circumstances to overtake me, making a decision for me?
HDIF when you watch me undress?
HDIF about our relationship today?
HDIF when I make encouraging comments to you?
In what ways do I behave like a child? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of my father?
What happened today that made me feel sad? HDIFAT?
When was a time we received support during our difficult times? HDIFAT?
What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession, ethnic background, gender, etc.? Describe in loving detail.
What do I hope to achieve through dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about depending on you (rather than on things) for my happiness?
HDIF when our other activities become more important than the two of us?
Do I run more on a schedule, or just take things as they come? HDMAMMF?
What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
How serious are our disagreements about parenting? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for this Lenten season? HDIFAT?
The Father knows me personally and has a plan for my life. HDIFAT?
What do I need to talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
In think I may have hurt you this month when _____. HDIFAT?
How have we grown in our pain as well as our joy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider what I find most attractive about you?
Lately, have I accepted your feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
What are the major sources of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I touch you?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about sex? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
In the last week, in what way have I been most supported by you? HDIFAT?
What would it take for me to really commit myself to this marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we miss a day of dialog?
Lately, how have I responded to people's demands of me? HDIFAT?
What are a few things I like to do with our family? HDIFAT?
How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I offer you a piece of candy?
HDIF when I have to put other people's needs ahead of my own?
What was our closest moment as a family this month? HDIFAT?
How important are material things to me? HDIFAT?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAMA?
What is it that most separates us? HDIFAT?
When, while experiencing the weekend or afterward, did I really begin to listen to you? HDIFAT?
What friends help me see our goodness? HDIFAT?
What happens to me when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our communication techniques?
HDIF when I do not think you understand me?
Where do we go to be lifted up as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask you about our children?
When you criticize me, my reaction is to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you brag on me to our children?
Whom have I ministered to lately? Was I lifted up by their gratitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around opinionated people?
HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it?
Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT?
What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT?
Lately, how much have we talked together about sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about part of our lives continuing through our children?
What have I learned from looking backwards at our history that can enrich our future relationship? HDIFAT?
What is our relationship with God, today? HDIFAT?
In any change, there is tension. HDIFAT?
What do I value least about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
When do I rely on emotions / feelings instead of on thinking? HDIFAT?
Would people be more likely to call me warm and sympathetic, or cold and aloof? HDIFAT?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDIFAT?
How well do I welcome people into our home? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I am sorry?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me after a rough day?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, my friends or God? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I/we receive a phone call from an old friend I/we haven't talked to in a long time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when your eyes sparkle?
How will we celebrate New Year's Day? HDIFAT?
How can we reach out to children outside our family? HDIFAT?
What is most likely to distract me when I am trying to listen to you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see one of my people suffering? Describe in loving detail.
In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
What is the biggest flaw in my personality? HDIFAT?
Do I/we seek support when I/we are struggling? HDIFFAMA?
If I could, what good time would I choose to relive with you? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling have I not shared with you yet today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we experiment and make love in different ways?
HDIF when I think people are looking at me, sizing me up?
What do I hope to gain in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What dreams do I have for our next year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am unloving?
Which of our possessions enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
How well do I think my people trust me? HDIFAT?
What are my best qualities? HDIFAT?
How did I know you love me today? HDIFAT?
On average, how many packs of cigarettes do I smoke a month? HDIFAT?
When am I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
What topics do we avoid talking about? HDIFAT?
Do I see myself living the same as my parents or differently? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I receive Christ's forgiveness in the Sacrament of Penance?
When we have disagreements on Retrouvaille, do I/we play fair, or fight dirty? HDIFAMA?
Where did you grow up? HDIFAT?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDTMMF?
I would like people to think of me as _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAMA?
Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAMA?
How do I hurt myself by judging others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you gaze into my eyes?
What good habit(s) would I like to start again? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my unfinished projects?
My most vivid good childhood memory is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself?
HDIF when I think about having a baby during our middle years?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT now?
When do I most need your support? HDIFAT?
What miracle did I experience today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we miss dialogue for several days or weeks?
Do I consider myself well organized? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we give a donation to charity?
I am better motivated to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking this could be our last dialogue letter?
HDIF about family dialogue?
HDIF about our preparations as Christmas approaches?
Of the people I know, who do I judge has the best sense of humor? HDTMMF?
What prevents me from listening to you? HDIFAT?
What need of mine most needs to be nourished? HDIFAT?
In our relationship, do I tend to be detached or engaged? HDIFAT?
HDIF when waiting in line at a crowded restaurant?
How does my poor self-image affect our couple prayer? HDIFAT?
When things are humdrum in our lives, do I compare us to other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I build a wall between us?
When I reflect back on the grades I got in school, HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we are managing our finances?
How does our financial situation affect our unity? How does it affect our intimacy? HDIFA my answers?
HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it?
HDIF when you sincerely compliment me?
HDIF when you believe me instead of the rumors?
Does my attitude toward sex lock some doors in our relationship? HDTMMF?
We are a sign - what do people see when they see our love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Christmas tradition?
What was our closest moment as a couple this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my sacrifices to make the family meal enjoyable?
Why is it often the little things that pull us apart? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest fear about our children's future? HDIFAT?
What talent or quality do I wish I had that I do not? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about trading places for a day? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we participate in a sport?
What good effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving money to street musicians?
Is there anything you are doing by yourself that I would like to be involved in? HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to my people when... HDIFAMA?
What were my emotions / feelings on Friday night as we began to experience the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our sexual relationship right now?
What emotions / feelings do I most like to share? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to build up your confidence?
HDIF when it has been a long time since we made love?
How do I feel about the role the pastor/priest/rabbi played in our wedding? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the beginning of the school year?
When am I most comfortable serving my people? HDIFAMA?
What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to dump on me?
HDIF about starting a family?
My ideal lovemaking would be _____. HDIFAT?
What lifetime dream am I still trying to realize? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?
How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the divorce rate in our community?
How has our non-verbal communication helped our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my career?
If I could design my own children's TV show, what would it be like? HDIFAT?
Which of our children most needs our help and understanding right now? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when things suddenly go against me? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make you smile more? HDIFAT?
How are we supporting couples after the follow-up period ends? HDIFAT?
What was my most exciting emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
The song that I think represents our love the best is... Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from being more involved in our church / parish / synagogue? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our family?
HDIF when I bring you a pillow?
When do I feel least recognized as a capable person?
HDIF when the house is a mess?
As a child, who most affected my life? HDIFAT?
In which direction are we heading? HDIFAT?
HDIF watching our children grow?
HDIF when I am unable to stop laughing, especially at an inappropriate time?
To which of my characteristics or traits do you object the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
What thought of you makes me smile? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT?
What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What was my favorite date with you? HDIFAT?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be and why? HDIFSTWY?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that God needs us?
HDIF when we meet a couple who, like us, has experienced the weekend and follow-up?
Can I recognize when you are under stress? HDIFAT?
What have I done to help other people in our family feel special? HDIFAT?
You are my sweetheart because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when work makes demands of me that seem unfair?
What is my most treasured memory? HDIFAT?
Am I honest with you about my feelings when I am stressed? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about taking a parent into our home and caring for him or her?
What are my thoughts about us being special to Our Father? HDIFAT?
My greatest hurt in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
Today I want to thank you for _____. HDIFAT?
What is my deepest hope for next year? HDIFAT?
Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. HDIFAT?
How has our dialogue helped us grow closer to each other? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings when I receive my partner's personal reflection and dialogue? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about my responsibilities as a married person?
What gift have you given me in the past week that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
Is our openness about our masculinity / femininity reflected in our children? HDIFAT?
How does dialoguing on our emotions / feelings help us discover our needs? HDIFAT?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been... HDIF about this (besides disappointed)?
When have I felt a negative emotion in response to physical affection? HDIFAT?
HDIF when dealing with your past?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am?
When we are alone, we usually talk about _____. HDIFAT?
What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my state of health? Do I take it for granted?
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
What are my dreams for us as we grow older? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about our involvement with our church and the activities there? Describe in loving detail.
In the area of prayer what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? DILD.
What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about us saying I do each day?
HDIF about the peer pressures our children are under?
What do I need to change in order to live my life right? HDIFAT?
Where do we most need to grow in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What did I enjoy most about our vacation? HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank you for that I have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking?
What was the last romantic thing I did for you? HDIFAMA?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I react to practical jokes? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life at my current parish?
Persons with strong values will eventually have strong conflicts. HDIFAT?
Where do I generally have an attitude of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the phone rings and they ask for you?
HDIF about sex as a healing force?
When do I last think I was listened to? HDIFAT?
What would be the hardest thing for me to give up for a week? Why? HDIFAT?
If I believe we are not heading in the right direction, what can I do to change it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage?
Mary was open to God's will. Are we? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing God's words, I will never forget you?
What would I give you an Oscar for? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to God's call to me? HDIFAT?
Who do we look up to as a couple? HDIFAT?
Who was the worst houseguest we have ever had? HDIFAT?
What does a family Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a costume party?
HDIF when I need a hug but do not or will not ask for one?
Have I been critical or accepting of you this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a time out when we are in conflict with each other?
When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What will happen if I let down my guard? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not met? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of my grandparents? HDIFAT?
HDIF buying a present for you?
How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to God? HDIFAT?
How often do I to church? HDIFAT?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
What stake do we have in the marriages of other people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the last time I celebrated mass/preformed service/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when the weather forecast is wrong?
HDIF about someone asking me to do them a favor?
What negative emotions / feelings do I experience most frequently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ride in a car with bad brakes or slick tires?
How would I rate our communication skills? HDIFAT?
When it is time to take action, I prefer to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a love note packed in my sandwich?
What kind of parent do I want to be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask your forgiveness?
After conflict, am I still feeling hurt? DYFID?
HDIF about giving my old clothes to charity?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you?
What have I learned about us through the challenges we have faced? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you love me just the way I am? HDIFAT?
How do I usually feel when I do not want to dialogue?
HDIF when I eat with someone who is on a diet?
How can I make sure my gift to you is from my heart? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone (not you) laughs at my mistakes?
HDIF when I see you working too many hours?
Does our home reflect our values? HDIFAT?
What chore do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
In what ways can we prepare ourselves for eternity? HDIFAT?
Whom do I admire that is not so good an example? HDIFAT?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message what would it be? HDIFAMA?
What is my reaction to Mary's yes to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about discussing sex with you?
How do I behave when I am upset with you? HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from my people lately? HDIFAT?
What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT?
If dialogue is so important, why do not we do it more often? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about you? HDIFAT?
What Modern World value am I embracing right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our parish or church activities?
Love does not keep a record of wrongs. HDIFAT?
How does my relationship with my people compare to my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in miracles? HDIFAT?
Has our sacrament been a visible sign to our family? HDIFAT?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
Can I do math in my head or do I need a calculator? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I wait patiently when you are late?
HDIF about God sending His son to be a human presence in the world?
If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I've lived the last few weeks? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I try to do too many things at once?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with you?
HDIF when things go wrong at work?
What is my idea of heaven? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to hold in my disappointment?
How often do we need to see before we believe? HDIFAT?
What have I kept from you in recent days? HDIFAT?
Am I open in our nonverbal communication? HDIFAT?
Is our family being short-changed by our Encounter / Retrouvaille involvement? HDIFAT?
When I part with family or friends, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given a task without guidance or clear expectations?
HDIF hearing you laugh?
Change makes me feel ________.
HDIF when our family is alone together for a meal?
HDIF when I decide to do things your way?
What special strength do I see in my in-laws? HDIFAT?
What gaps do you fill in my life? HDIFAT?
When you bring up a topic for discussion, HDIF?
HDIF when we leave our children for a few days?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving my people? HDIFAT?
I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
Our children will be grown and gone too soon. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not have time for each other?
HDIF looking other people in the eye?
What gift would I like Jesus to give you this Christmas? HDIFAT?
IWhen do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear the laughter of children?
What areas do I most like to dialogue about?
When you feel threatened, I feel... DILD.
HDIF when you give me a butterfly kiss?
HDIF about spending more time together as a family?
What do I perceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood / ministry? HDIFAT?
What was the last significant healing we had with each other? HDIFAT?
What couple, that we know, do I see as important to us and how have they affected our life? HDIFAT?
What is my most pleasant memory from our dating days? HDIFAT?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? How do I feel about my answer?
HDIF when I (wife) / you (husband) wear make-up?
Am I doing better accepting you as you are? DYFILD.
HDIF about your family's expectations of us?
HDIF about you reminding me to do things?
When was the last time I really made you laugh? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you react instead of respond to me?
How do I feel when we try something different in our lovemaking? Describe in loving detail.
When something bad happens to me do I allow it to effect our relationship and/or my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
When do I feel pressured by you? HDIFAT?
In what way have you brightened my day today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our child's college plans?
What stage of love do I think we are in (Romance, Disillusion, Misery, Joy)? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I judge the singing done by my people is praising God from the heart?
Our dialogue can be a way we say yes to each other. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get up but let you sleep?
The values I hold most important in my life are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get behind on my sleep?
HDIF about going out alone in the evening?
How have I changed recently?
HDIF about fall weather?
What am I most disappointed with in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I have a serious issue to discuss, what would help me the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I have said angry words that may have hurt you?
In our inter-faith marriage, do we celebrate aspects of both faiths in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
Where am I most selfish? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
What do I hope to accomplish this summer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planting a flower garden?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about and why? HDIFAT?
How often do I think we should make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up?
HDIF when someone succeeds in fooling me on April Fool's Day?
HDIF when you are jealous?
HDIF about the way our lovemaking affects my self-image?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am?
HDIF about living my daily life without to-do lists, using only my memory?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
What tricks do I use to get my way? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about letting someone outside my/our family borrow my/our car? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about having a quiet place in our home?
What defense mechanisms do I use when I fail to please you? HDIFAT?
How well do I concentrate on my people's needs? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of our children would want to become a minister? HDIFAT?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I be more assertive?HDMAMMF?"
How would I like to be romanced by you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my volunteer work?
Which of the beatitudes do I find it easiest and which hardest to live? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your involvement with work?
HDIF when you are digging up the past?
I am most happy when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
How do I feel when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed? Describe in loving detail.
Does the level or tone of your voice affect me? HDIFAT?
What are my goals for _____? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the stress building up in you? HDIFTYT?
What advise would I give a young bride or groom (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your reaction toward sex?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
What issue do we have facing us that I haven't shared my feelings with you about? What are my feelings about this issue? HDTMMF?
What are my memories of our first year of marriage? HDIFAT?
How do I handle my jealous feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDMAMMF?
Is my life a having and a getting or a being and a becoming? HDIFAT?
HDIF as the winning lottery numbers are being drawn?
Would I have been able to stay at the Garden of Gethsemane knowing what was going to happen? HDIFAMA?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIF sharing this with you?
Sometimes I forget to put you first. HDIFAT?
If Jesus came to our house for a 24 hour visit, how would I feel?
What am I searching for in life and how does it affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sacrifice to help a couple to experience the weekend or follow-up?
How would our children describe me as a husband or wife, especially to our grandchildren? HDIFAT?
What is the last good deed I did? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
HDIF when we talk about my openness to change?
HDIF when I borrow something and keep it too long?
HDIF when something goes wrong?
When am I most frustrated with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do something klutzy?
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What gets in my way, preventing me from learning more about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you look at other women / men with obvious interest?
If this were our last Christmas, how would I like to spend it? HDIFAT?
What do I most like to do in my free time? HDIFAMA?
What aspect of our lovemaking do I enjoy the most? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I behave when I am experiencing disillusionment about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need to trust someone who may take advantage of me?
How am I like my father? HDIFAT?
When things change too fast, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
When was a time you touched my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try holding my temper?
HDIF about your attempt to balance the checkbook?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
Could I live without TV for a day? For a week? For a month? Forever? HDIFAT?
Is our lovemaking routine or passionate? HDIFAT?
What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your having to work overtime?
HDIF about learning to accept you as you are?
HDIF about helping other people who are out of work?
What does trust mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone calls me Mommy or Daddy?
Which of your characteristics or traits cause me the most difficulty? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discuss politics with someone whose views are opposite of mine?
What quality do I not like in myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
How do we handle conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own emotions / feelings, not you?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing our possessions with other people?
HDIF giving to other people?
Do I pray for love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you express a need for more leisure time?
HDIF when I am on a diet?
Where would I like to go with you on vacation? HDIFAT?
What quality of yours makes me want to trust you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about using credit cards?
When God forgives me, why can?t I forgive myself? DYFILD.
It is suppertime and I have eaten too much. HDIFAT?
How would I describe you to a blind person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can experience the weekend?
HDIF about spending time with my family?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAT?
Recently I failed at _____. HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of you? HDIFAT?
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