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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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Is money in my pocket a priority? HDIFAT?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
When I finish a task, HDIF about relaxing before going on to the next task?
How has my love for my people changed since my taking vows/ordination, or weekend? HDIFAMA?
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDIFAT?
What visions and hopes do I have for my people? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you when we are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? HDIF sharing this with you?
The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT?
Do I allow God to work in me? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of your family?
When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I need a hug? Describe in loving detail.
If Jesus came back tomorrow, would I be ready? HDIFAT?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
HDIF when a member of our family compliments me?
HDIF when you respond quickly to my requests?
Who are my models for my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting our distant relatives?
How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAMA?
What parts of your body are sexually exciting to me? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I receive a card from you in the mail?
HDIF when I first learned we were going to be parents?
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my first funeral?
How do I feel about the amount of time I spend preparing for mass/service/etc. Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when our children say, I love you?
If Jesus asked, What have we done to build the Kingdom?
How do I behave when faced with change? HDIFAT?
Do I avoid telling my people the truth to avoid offending hem? HDIFAT?
Do I build a wall between myself and others because I am afraid of being hurt? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for our sexual relationship, and are they getting in the way? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking?
What can I do to make God a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
How can I show the rest of the family the love I have for them? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about trading places for a day? Describe in loving detail.
How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT?
What mistakes or disappointments most discourage me now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when, non-verbally, you say yes to lovemaking?
HDIF when you touch me in that certain way?
How well do I show my love to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going shopping with our children?
HDIF about my family's aging and health-related problems?
HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage?
HDIF when someone is making fun of me?
What is our relationship with other people who share our faith? HDIFAT?
What are the changes I most need to make in myself for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism from you? HDIFAT?
Why did I commit to you in the first place? HDIFAT?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
What part do our children play in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAMA?
If it were possible, I would like to become a _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF conversing one-on-one versus conversing in a small group?
How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a crucifix?
When do I let my temper get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
How have other couples affected our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my relationship with your parents?
In what areas do I fail to practice what I preach? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF at those times when you are controlling and manipulative?
HDIF when you show me that you love me?
HDIF about springtime bursting forth all around us?
What distracts me when I try to listen to you? HDIFAT?
What pain do I think you keep to yourself? HDIFAT?
Can I go one whole day without criticizing anyone or anything? HDIFAT?
What causes the most friction between us? HDIFAT?
What is your best quality today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the role God played in my vows?
What was my strongest emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trusting you?
HDIF when I make you laugh?
How do I feel about your/my/our involvment with work? Describe in loving detail.
What do I like best about you in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
What makes it hard for me to grant forgiveness? HDIFAT?
What did I accomplish today? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who always have both feet on the ground?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to my people? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
Outside of services, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAMA?
I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I think I do at recognizing and trying to nourish my needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not have enough money?
HDIF about winning? Do I brag about it?
HDIF when am coming home to my people after a long trip?
HDIF when I deny my mistakes?
HDIF about taking ballroom dancing lessons with you?
What can you do for me to help me cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift from you?
What is my wildest dream for us? HDIFAT?
You have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying to make something beautiful with my hands?
How does Christmas buying affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
If I died without a chance to see my people, what would I wish I could have told them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you listen to me with your heart?
HDIF about family planning?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
Our sexual relationship is not what it could be. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think I have let you down?
What have I always wanted to try but never did? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are easily irritated?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDTMMF?
Have I cut the apron strings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a dialogue letter from you?
Sometimes my burdens seem just too great to carry. HDIFAT?
In the area of use of time what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
In what ways does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know our lovemaking is about to begin?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
How have I shown my love for you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I go ahead and make love even when I do not want to?
HDIF about Operation Rescue?
HDIF when you demand I change before you will forgive me?
HDIF when I do not want to dialogue?
What do I enjoy about our relationship right now? HDMAMMF?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we pray aloud together?
What is my happiest memory of the past year? HDIFAT?
I would feel special if _______ . DYFID
What comfort do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
When in the past week did I think your emotions / feelings were wrong to have? HDIFAT?
In order to learn to give, I also need to learn to receive. HDIFAT?
What are the things that bring me closer to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I share my popcorn with you?
HDIF when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession / ancestry / gender?
What areas of our relationship do I take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent? HDIFAT?
What do I perceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood / ministry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not dialoguing?
HDIF about how much money we give to our church or favorite charity?
When I know I am wanted, I feel _____.
What memories of Easter do I cherish most?
What is the luckiest thing that has ever happened to us? HDIFAT?
What do I think I will always remember about our family? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me get in touch or stay in touch with you? HDIFAT?
What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we celebrate Easter?
I have seniority at work. HDIFAT?
In what ways am I seeking to love my wife as Christ loved the church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you make a sacrifice for me?
When was the last time I made a conscious decision to love you? HDIFAT?
What is one of the happiest times I remember spending with you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when things do not go according to plan? HDIFAT?
I am romantic and you are not. HDIFAT?
What does our church mean to me? HDIFAT?
The areas where I have seen the most growth in you are _____. HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about you? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if someone else read my notebook? DILD.
HDIF when I do not meet your expectations?
HDIF when we spend a day with our extended families?
In what area would I most like to reach out to my people? Why? (or Why haven't I before?) HDIFAMA?
HDIF about growing old with you?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDIFAT?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship routine? HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my God? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone I don't know well offers me advice? DILD.
HDIF about serving others in ways that will never be noticed?
HDIF when I receive a gift that is carelessly wrapped?
HDIF when I have to do something I really do not want to do?
How do parish or church finances affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
Which of our anniversaries do I remember most fondly? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you make unreasonable demands on me?
The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am away from you?
HDIF when I am short-changed at the store?
When I am given things to do, am I more likely to accept them or complain about them? HDIFAT?
We cannot return to innocence. HDIFAT?
God's greatest treasure is you.HDIFAT?"
How can we live a simpler and more fulfilling life? HDIFAT?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to you? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
What is something I would like to try but have not? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building? Describe in loving detail.
What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
When do I most feel alone? HDIF at those times?
HDIF about reaching out to other people today?
HDIF when I am given advice by others that I did not ask for?
HDIF when I feel the least romantic?
HDIF when you care about the things I like?
HDIF about our closeness when we dialogue on Scripture?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
HDIF about your eventual death?
What can my people do to help me understand them better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex in the morning?
HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship?
What conditions do I put on my love for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me you have a headache?
What words did I use today that may have caused others hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are separated because of your job or career?
If our house were burning down, and I could only save three things, what would they be and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship?
Do I believe we are part of God's plan? HDIFAT?
How does the modern world keep us from reaching out to other people? HDIFAT?
What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF?
What is my favorite way to unwind, relax and pamper myself? HDIFAT?
What is the most scared I have ever been? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to make a difficult phone call?
Love does not keep a record of wrongs. HDIFAT?
What can make money a source of conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when I hear our favorite song?
How could our dialogue be better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we spent last weekend?
HDIF when you ask me to help you?
What activity helps me grow most as a Christian? HDIFAT?
I have difficulty sharing my feelings about _____. HDTMMF?
HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am?
HDIF about myself when I make a mistake?
Is there anything I need to share with you but have not? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to my failures? HDIFAT?
How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when _____. HDIFAT?
The song that I think represents our love the best is _____. HDIFAT?
Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear you say something derogatory about me?
HDIF about school uniforms?
What do I see as my strengths? HDIFAT?
Where do I place my people on my list of priorities? HDIFAT?
What would be a good family vacation? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about our family? HDIFAT?
What is fun for us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What do I consider my strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I find other women/men attractive? HDIFSTWY?
What am I most disillusioned with in my life? HDIFAT?
It was not raining when Noah built the ark. HDIFAT?
As a couple, we are the lifeblood of the church. HDIFAT?
HDIF about talking in front of large groups?
What bad effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make the decision to love and have sex when I do not want to?
HDIF when I find a love note from you?
HDIF when you forgive me?
What gift would I like to give one of our children? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted your feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to help me understand my people better? HDIFAT?
What things make our life unnecessarily complicated? HDIFAT?
Is demanding a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am holding you close to me?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
Do I see our sexual relationship as an expression of our total relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when we can spend a quiet evening together?
HDIF when I have completed a project?
What makes it hardest for you to live with me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I have to take a risk with someone other than you? DILD.
HDIF about God?
Can I call you a friend as well as a lover? HDIFAT?
What do I want to do this Thanksgiving as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
When have I not listened to you lately? HDIFAT?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
Is our neighborhood safe? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we have to work together on a project? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about me staying home with the children and being a homemaker?
Is it important for us to have a romantic bedroom? HDIFAT?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still a mystery to myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you take most of the bed or most of the cover?
Do we accept each other as we are or do we try to remodel each other? HDMAMMF?
HDIF on those occasions when I think I am most in love with you?
How do I feel when we need to take out a lone for a major purchase? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our children's manners?
What did I most look forward to today? HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during church?
Is thoughtfulness an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I am sidetracked by self-doubt?
How has our dialogue helped me to keep you number one in my life? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of my family asked me to preform their marriage? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the way my ministry influences those around me?
What dream do I have for Retrouvaille in our area? HDIFAMA?
What barriers or attitudes do I have that keep me from developing an intimate relationship with our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look back at things I have done?
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
HDIF about the time we spend with your family?
How does my mask interfere with my celebrating mass/worship service/etc.? HDIFAT?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of your family? HDIFAT?
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.' -- Joshua 1:9. Have I given up when I should have prayed for strength? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am replaying one of our arguments in my head?
What makes it difficult for me to write my dialog letter? HDIFAT?
How have we grown in our sexuality and responsiveness to each other? HDIFAT?
How do I show my love for you? HDMAMMF?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAT?
How do I show my love for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at our children sleeping?
How do I feel about our church? Describe in loving detail.
How do our children affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How would I approach Advent and Christmas if I knew this would be our last Christmas season together? HDIFAT?
What would I do differently today if I knew I would not have you tomorrow? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from helping others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the amount of variety in my life?
How do I feel about the way we spend our Holidays? Describe in loving detail.
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
When did I realize that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you? How do I feel recalling this? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
Are we equal partners in our decision making? HDIFAMA?
Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT?
What am I afraid to do? Why? HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with God, do I sometimes treat Him with less respect than He deserves? HDIFAT?
Where do I need more patience in my life? HDIFAT?
How do I avoid fighting? HDIFAT?
It is a well-known fact that a child identifies his parents with God, whether or not the adults want that role.' -The Strong-Willed Child, p 171. What are my feelings on this passage? How do I feel being God to our children? HDIF sharing this with you?
What would be my idea of a dream job? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our first house or apartment?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF when we are too tired to be lovers?
HDIF about doing things nobody else wants to do?
What is the biggest change our family or friends have seen in us since we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself an optimist, pessimist, or realist? HDIF feel sharing this with you?
In life, have I mostly done what I had to do, or what I wanted to do? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
HDIF when I am talked into something I do not want to do?
HDIF when you interrupt me in conversation?
Do I consider myself an optimist, pessimist, or realist? HDIF sharing this?
Do I come across as sure of myself or as unsure? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my sacrifices to make the family meal enjoyable?
HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you?
What methods do I find easiest to use in describing my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How has never having children affected our life? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make myself more sexy to you? HDIFAMA?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How well do I show my love to my people? HDIFAT?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with God, or Have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
Where do we most need to grow in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we laugh during lovemaking?
Am I doing better accepting you as you are? DYFILD.
How do I see my favorite song playing out in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people change the rules?
How do I feel when I make a promise to do something, but need to break it because of something even more important? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about embellishing the truth, especially if it makes for a good story?
How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling did I have today that I most want to share with you? HDIFAT?
If I could go back and record any moment from our past so we could watch it from time to time, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
What divides us and causes us to become married singles? HDIFAT?
What effect or lack of effect has our sexual desire had on us this week? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What memories of Easter do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT?
What struggle am I currently facing that I need to learn from? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
HDIF when I hear of a new birth?
HDIF reflecting on the Scriptures used at today's Mass?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? What are my feelings about my answer?
How are you like my favorite flavor of ice cream? HDIFAT?
What is our best quality as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
HDIF when I am too excited to sleep?
When did I last have an emotion / feeling I thought I should not have? HDIFAT?
Do I wish to deepen the experience of God in our relationship? If so, how? HDMAMMF?
How has dialog changed our lives? HDIFAMA?
You are my mirror. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not getting along well and are with friends?
HDIF when I witness a baptism?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I show my love to you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What can we do to improve our dialogue? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about dining out or having a picnic together?
What do I do that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am brooding over my mistakes?
For what in my life do I feel most grateful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am unkind to you?
What experience of romance happened today? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you?
When was the last time I was overcome with the power of our love? HDIF?
How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT?
What do I think other people see in us as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when no one notices something I put a lot of work into?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
How much sleep do I need? HDIFAT?
How do I feel after I have forgiven one of my people? DILD.
In the area of possessions what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
What can our family do to increase religious vocations in our parish? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think people are looking at me, sizing me up?
How can I put more romance in our marriage? HDIFAT?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are asked to do something, and you say yes when I would rather say no?
What am I most afraid of losing by negotiating a compromise with you? HDIFAT?
How much a part of our marriage is God to me right now? HDIFAT?
What area do I least want to talk to my people about? HDIFAMA?
HDIF in high-pressure, difficult situations?
HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend?
What family values do we have in common with the Jewish people? HDIFAT?
Right now, is my life in balance or out of balance? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
What do I need from you when we are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? How do I feel sharing this with you?
Everything is beautiful in its own way. HDIFAT?
HDIF about watching TV?
HDIF about the death of one of our children?
What do I expect from you? HDIFAT?
I would describe myself as _____. HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with you, do I sometimes treat you with less respect than you deserve? HDIFAT?
What would be my idea of a good family outing?
HDIF when I hold onto you in the labor room?
HDIF when I remember that all good things are gifts to us from God?
What is complicating my life? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) cause me to be a married single? HDIFAT?
What new friendships have I formed? HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about you? (i.e. dialoguing, making love, sharing our days, quiet time together, etc.) HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I consider myself an introvert or extrovert? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we part in the mornings to go our separate ways?
How do I feel when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession, ethnic background, gender, etc.? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you say, Pray for me?
What is my favorite childhood birthday party memory? HDIFAT?
Which one of our friends am I most comfortable with? HDIFAT?
What are my family's expectations of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship today?
How do I deal with conceit when I succeed at something? HDIFAT?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I do knot know why I put up with you?
What struggle did we face that helped prepare us for this day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have hurt you?
Has my love for you changed since we were first married? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
What was my greatest fear as a child? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am frightened (or not frightened) by death?
What do I enjoy writing? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to my people's demands of me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way we make our money?
HDIF about the phrase, Dialogue is my gift of myself to you?
What aspect of myself do I still try to hide from others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to be honest but am afraid of hurting you?
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we read the Passion during Holy Week?
How do I feel about the role the Bishop played in taking my vows? Emotions"
What are the values I want to live now? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest block that keeps me from being sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about my people through the challenges we have faced together? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of your family?
What happens when we are able to reveal all of ourselves to each other? HDIFAT?
When I am lonely, I think of _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear myself say things my mother or father said?
HDIF about retirement?
HDIF when we pray with our children and hold hands?
HDIF when I remember our anniversary is coming up soon?
What love do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about your death, and what life will be without you?
As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others.' HDIFAT?
What have I done to help our little church? HDIFAT?
What is the difference between hearing you and listening to you? HDIFAT?
What friends help us see our goodness? HDIFAT?
When do I feel separated from you? HDIFAT?
How would I feel working a few hours a month in a soup kitchen? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone compliments you (but not me) on our family?
How would I feel if one of our children would want to enter the ministry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am around positive people?
What am I afraid to say to you during our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are reaching out to other people more than you are to me?
HDIF when our loved ones refuse to do anything to improve their marriage?
HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone?
Is my faith growing or dying? HDIFAT?
How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT?
We tend to compete against each other in _______ . HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me your undivided attention?
HDIF about doing Scripture Dialogue?
HDIF when I witness a marriage?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about death? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF after I have spent a sleepless night?
HDIF when I think about Christ's coming at Christmas?
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
Where do I spend most of my energy each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing you love me?
HDIF when I am avoiding sharing something with you?
HDIF when someone thanks me?
How much money would we need to retire on? HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fall weather?
What value do I see in changing the world? HDIFAT?
How do we show our love for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me I am sexy?
What fear to I keep from you? HDIFAT?
When I think about living without you, HDIF?
HDIF when we are talking about a touchy subject?
How do you respond to your failures? HDIFAT?
Do I act younger or older than I am? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want sex and you do not?
HDIF when I receive my partner's personal reflection and dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I lie back and look at the stars?
HDIF when I have to adjust to circumstances beyond my control?
If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I engage in self-pity?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
What strengths do you bring to our sexuality? HDIF sharing this with you now?
Do I put my independence above my trust in my people? HDIFAMA?
Why did I take my vows? Why do I keep my vows? HDIFAMA?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think of you dying?
HDIF when my people make demands of me that I think are unfair?
I know there is a good chance we will make love tonight. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spring cleaning?
God trusts me to reveal the unique facet of Him that I possess. HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize God has spoken to me through you?
What is one thing about my health that bothers me? HDIFAT?
What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time I spend watching TV?
Is sex pretty much all or nothing for me? HDIFAT?
Can I eat with chopsticks? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your tears?
What do I find difficult to tell you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our ability or inability to have children?
Does our parents' style of marriage have an effect on us? HDIFAT?
Is frustration bringing us together or driving us apart? HDIFAT?
Which of life's pleasures do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive an enemy?
My favorite time of day is _____. HDIFAT?
I have just confided in you. HDIFAT?
How would I react if someone said I was consistently reasonable? HDIFAT?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with my people, or have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to show my love to other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hurry to answer the phone and it is only a solicitor?
HDIF when I realize my spouse's family's problems become my problems & vice versa?HDIFTYT?"
What areas of a priest's / pastor's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
Last month I felt sad when _____. HDIFAT?
I smiled today when I thought about _____. HDIFAT?
The greatest gift a father can give to his children is _____. HDIFAT?
How does our ethnic background affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the reactions of our relatives to Encounter / Retrouvaille?
What effect does sex with you have on me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize God's answer is no? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am traveling to new places?
Is there anything I am doing by myself that I could involve you in? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
Do I think we spend enough time together, or is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAMA?
In our same-faith marriage, how close are we in celebrating our one faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I quarrel, judge, or reject your emotions?
HDIF about discussing sex with you?
What part does God play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
One thing I have always wanted to learn is _____. HDIFAT?
What are my reasons for keeping my distance? HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT?
I want to be enthusiastic about life but _____. HDIFAT?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift that suggests I need improvement?
HDIF about sex in the morning? (Better try first!)
HDIF when I get behind on my sleep?
How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT?
How have our children experienced our love this week? HDIF sharing this with you?
Of those whom I have loved and lost, whom do I miss the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the Easter bunny?
As we read _____ (pick some verse from Scripture), what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with you?
What do I most need from you when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, You are just like your mother?
What was our closest moment as a family this month? HDIFAT?
Do I allow my sexual values to interfere with my response to you? HDIFAT?
In sex, I feel most inadequate about _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when people say exactly what they mean?
How do I think you can best help me to be myself? HDIFAT?
What is it about our sexual relationship that I do not like? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
Do I love my people more for them, or for God? (Do I think my love for my people is more for them or for God?) HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone confronts me about a problem?
What miracle did I experience today? HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with people the most when. . . HDIFAMA?
When has expressing emotion / feeling strengthened our marriage? HDIFAT?
When you are more romantic than me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Lately, do I fall asleep easily or do I have trouble falling asleep? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT?
We have the ability to forgive each other. HDIFAT?
Since dialogue, am I more comfortable talking about sex and death with other people? HDIFAT?
What is my gift to you today? HDIFAT?
What feelings do I have about selecting dialogue questions that appear difficult? HDIFA sharing this with you?
When recently do I remember your loving me beyond inconvenience or hurt? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest joy in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about working many hours in a room with no windows?
HDIF when you hug me half-heartedly?
HDIF when I smile or laugh at other people's misfortunes?
What do we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you by your pet name?
HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start?
When I part with my people, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT?
What was the nicest thing someone did for me this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize that God is speaking to me through you?
HDIF about the level of respect between us?
Do I argue with my people to win, or to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when an old friend of yours/mine comes into town and wants to spend some time with you/me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when a couple says yes, they want or need to experience the weekend?
HDIF about the amount of money we pay in taxes?
What do I enjoy reading? HDIFAT?
What song reminds me of our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
My skills are outdated. HDIFAT?
What would you most like me to change? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have about discussing our sexual relationship with you? HDIFAT?
What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT?
What do I need most in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I remember as the most romantic moment in our relationship? What are my feelings remembering this? HDIF sharing this with you?
What aspect of my priesthood/religious life/etc. do I enjoy the most? HDIFAMA?
Is it easy or hard for me to forgive myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the values our children are choosing?
How do I control or deny my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we talk about your family of origin?
I am most confident when... HDIFAMA?
When time is short, do I handle the situation well, or do I tend to go into panic mode? HDIFAMA?
In what areas have we grown because of past failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I manage my time?
What am I prepared to forgive? HDIFAT?
Where or when did I last know real happiness? HDIFAT?
How important are material things to me?
HDIF about sharing work with someone who has lower standards?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF about planting a vegetable garden?
HDIF about paying a lawyer for advice?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
How do I want you to see me, and is it the same as I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when things go wrong at home?
In what ways do I feel I?m taken for granted? HDIFAMA?
What would I spend my last dollar on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a love note in with my lunch?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? How do I feel sharing this with you?
God expects us to be our brothers' keeper. HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying new things that are just coming into fashion?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I be more gentle with myself?HDMAMMF?"
HDIF when we are inspired by another couple?
What are my best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize one of my people about... HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
Our relationship is like what kind of carnival ride? HDIFAT?
The TV is on. HDIFAT?
Whom do I need to praise? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you can experience some of what I am feeling inside?
I get people to cooperate by _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make love?
HDIF as I reflect on the expectations I had on our wedding day for us?
HDIF when you put me first?
HDIF about the risk of pregnancy?
Some of the blessings I have to be thankful for are _____. HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me from sharing with you my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
I am most vulnerable when... HDIFAMA?
Do I challenge others to live their values? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about donating money to the poor? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I try holding my temper?
We have a meeting to attend and no baby-sitter. HDIFAT?
Is one of us the toucher and the other aloof? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the role God played in my vows? Describe in loving detail.
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What area is difficult for me to share my feelings about? HDIFTYT?
How could we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT?
Have I affirmed my love for you today? HDIFAT?
How would I feel discovering that you are hurting right now? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when our family goes to mass or church together?
Can I find the North Star at night? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people are impolite or rude to me?
In what way(s) do I need to alter my attitude to alter my life? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling did I have today that I want to share with you? HDIFAT?
What kind of childhood did I have? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt abused. HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I cried? HDIFAT?
What do I expect of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we handle our finances?
What is my favorite thing for us to do as a couple? HDIFAT?
Jesus is counting on us to make His love believable. HDIFAT?
Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFTYT?
I avoid sexual involvement with you when _____. HDIFAT?
What has dialogue taught you about yourself? HDIFAT?
What was my parents' relationship with God like? HDIFAT?
What changes would make this relationship right for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are praying for me?
I would like to go back to _____ one more time, with you. HDIFAT?
When God made me, what do I think were His dreams for me? HDMAMMF?
Have we been open in our daily dialogue? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am angry with you?
HDIF about giving to a worthy cause?
How do we affect the marriages of others around us? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about being ordained/taking vows every day? Describe in loving detail.
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have to work together on a project?
HDIF about family dialogue?
HDIF when I am asked to cut back or do without?
HDIF about the privacy of my room?
I am most likely to use exaggeration when _____. HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the once-a-year Catholics crowding the church on Christmas?
Here are two ways we are different: _____ and _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you lose patience with me?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
HDIF about the way we balance the checkbook?
What attitude of mine keeps me from making our sexual relationship all it can be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we attend a wedding ceremony together?
How much do we touch each other now? HDIFAT?
What about our lives would I like to change? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I am hoping you keep your emotions / feelings to yourself?
How would I feel about changing places with one of my people for a day if I could?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how I would rate the health of our marriage? HDIFAT?
Was there a turning point in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF I come across to other people?
HDIF when you ask me to make love to you?
HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women?
How do I feel about spending time with your/my family? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about kissing our children good night?
If we had to wait 5 years to receive our wedding license, would we still have married? HDIFAT?
How do I think the world will end? HDIFAT?
Today I want to thank you for _____. HDIFAT?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving one of my people when I feel hurt? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me?
HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together?
HDIF when I reach out to touch you?
How would I like to be remembered as a grandparent? HDIFAT?
When I am away from you, what am I most likely to do to keep from missing you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot say I am sorry?
HDIF when I realize my dependence on you?
How did I choose my confirmation name? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say no to your request for lovemaking?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
What attitude of mine helps me act in a loving way? HDIFAT?
HDIF about helping other people who are out of work?
HDIF about newborns in our family?
What do I like best about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for my people to trust me with themselves? HDIFAMA?
How is my father / mother still influencing my life? HDIFAT?
How do I want you to romance me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our communication techniques?
How do I feel when I see you suffering? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I fix you a drink?
In what ways do I daily affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I allow it to affect my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I picture our family kneeling at the manger scene?
Where do I go to be lifted up as a priest or minister?
How well do I think my people serve God? HDIFAMA?
What do you do that I appreciate but have not told you? HDIFAT?
I have one more day to live. HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am jealous?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty telling you. HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult decision I have ever had to make? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been followed, or thought I was? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt bashful. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results?
HDIF when you flirt with other men or women?
What quality in us as a family do I like best? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply?
What practical steps could we take to talk more about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we first met?
My top priorities in life are... HDIFAMA?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
What are my hopes and dreams for our future? HDIFAT?
When someone hurts me, do I seek revenge or forgiveness? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about giving our time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
How does our schedule affect our relationship? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when someone takes up too much of my time?
How much of a couple do I really want to be, and what am I willing to change to be that couple? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year?
HDIF when I want to share something with you but do not?
HDIF when you massage my feet?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when making big financial decisions?
HDIF trusting God to guide our lives?
HDIF when I see our children respond to you?
What couple, that we know, do I see as important to us and how have they affected our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about writing thank-you notes?
What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT?
What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDMAMMF?
What is the most difficult emotion / feeling I have shared with you recently? HDIFAT?
Who should I thank that I have not thanked? HDIFAT?
HDIF serving you breakfast in bed?
What was our closest moment as a couple this month? HDIFAT?
How would I describe you to Jesus? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch the sunset with you?
How can this holiday literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
To keep our marriage fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you with myself? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is going on inside me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I fail to listen to you when I am disillusioned? HDIFAT?
Our parents are growing older. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my people say no to God? Describe in loving detail.
What foods do I like the best? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear there is a big storm coming? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about widening our circle of friends?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
What has dialogue taught me about myself? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone else takes the lead?
HDIF when you say, What is your problem?
HDIF when you give me a butterfly kiss?
Do I always reveal my true emotions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I express opinions contrary to yours?
HDIF about the way we spent last weekend?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
HDIF about the phrase, Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAMA?
What changes can I make in my attitude toward my own failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a dog?
I still have these doubts about us: _____. HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with you? HDIF telling you this?
Where would we turn for help if our families were not available? HDIFAT?
What do I think about our spirituality (being lovers)? HDIFAT?
HDIF re-reading what I wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF about practical jokes?
Does our ability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me to dance with you?
What is most appealing to me about being married? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see Christmas displays in October?
HDIF when I am poking fun at other people?
HDIF when we pray together, just the two of us?
How can I improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am about to reveal something to you?
What needs to change for me to give an unqualified yes to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we plan a vacation?
What weaknesses do we bring to the Lord? HDIFAT?
How important are friendships to the health of our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you come home late?
What was the last romantic thing I did for you? HDIFAT?
What phobias do you have? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite Christmas tradition? HDIFAT?
Full-grown oaks are not produced in three years; neither are servants of God.' - Douglas Rumford How do I feel about my service to God? (Am I impatient, dissatisfied, ambivalent, etc.) Describe in loving detail.
What do I like least about you in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the anniversary of Roe versus Wade?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you?
When I am pressured by you, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
Is my life organized, under-organized, or over-organized? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone I see often never bothers to learn my name?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
When you make me feel wanted, I feel _________.
What strengths do we have to offer others as a couple?
In an average week, what activities work against our relationship?
Jesus came to bring us new life. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship today, compared to before we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF when I see couples we know working on their relationships?
How do I feel when we have a large number of people over? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF using the gifts of the Holy Spirit?
HDIF about sharing my emotions / feelings from the past?
HDIF about our vacation plans this year?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you recognize my needs?
When did I think I was listened to? HDIFAT?
When I am center of attention, does this feel natural or strange to me?
In what ways do I feel strong? HDIFAT?
I enjoy hearing my people talk about _____. HDIFAT?
How important is our dialogue to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
How do I suppose our children feel when they see we are in love? HDIFAT?
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
Holidays are a time for family togetherness. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it?
HDIF on a date with you?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate the health of my ministry or priesthood? HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping score?
God so loved us that He gave us His only son. HDIFAT?
My favorite way to have you touch me during our lovemaking is _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
What about my relationship with my people can be improved? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still living a singles lifestyle? HDIFAT?
Do I avoid telling you the truth to avoid offending you? HDIFAT?
What do I think God wants for us? HDIFAT?
What teachers of mine would I like to honor? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we play together?
How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
Would I like to plan some changes in our life this next year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people do not observe the speed limit?
HDIF about our vacation being over?
If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying different parishes / churches?
How important are material things to me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about sleeping in the nude?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
How has our dialogue enhanced our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
My image of God is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about us being apart for several days?
HDIF recalling our honeymoon?
Pray Ephesians 5:21-32 together. HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts when I hear, ?God does not make junk??
I judge I cry... (freely, rarely, easily, etc.) What is _most_ likely to result in me crying? HDIFAMA?
When I feel sad, angry, frustrated, etc. (pick one, or one of your own) what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAMA?
When do I avoid you and why? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our family? HDIFAT?
How sexy am I? How sexy are you? HDIFAT?
Our Sacrament calls us to a good marriage, not just an average one. HDIFAT?
What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your eyes?
How does our individuality strengthen us as a couple? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) frustrate, disappoint or annoy other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our bed?
When one of my people feels threatened, I feel... DILD.
In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
What would I choose as the time and circumstances of my death? HDIFAT?
What does it mean to me to experience pleasure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we put our children ahead of us?
When misfortune comes, do I laugh it off, wonder why, or make the best of it? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue more regular? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am rushed into making an important decision?
How do I feel about being a sign of God's Love to our children or to other children? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I find a note you have left for me?
What do I miss about school? HDIFAT?
What is my happiest memory of the past month? HDIFAT?
Can I program a VCR? HDIFAT?
When we have disagreements on Retrouvaille, do I/we play fair, or fight dirty? HDIFAMA?
How do I think our finances affect our relationship? HDIFAMA?
What do I like best about us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the current political atmosphere in the country?
Is St. Valentine's Day special to me or just another day? HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
If I was about to die and could only tell my people one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
Am I being honest and open in my dialog letter? HDIF about my answer?
HDIF when you surprise me by fixing one of my favorite meals?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home?
When was the last time I told you how special you are? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about the way we are managing our finances? Describe in loving detail.
What is today's gospel reading saying to me? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
How well do I really listen to my people? HDIFAT?
Here is a little quote from _Illusions_ by Richard Bach, 'There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands.' HDIFATS?
HDIF about the expectations your family has of us?
HDIF when I admit my fears?
Does our love make a difference in our community? HDIFAT?
How do I listen to you? What is my pattern? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone we ask to experience the weekend says no?
I need to know the answers to the following questions: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people talk negatively about me?
Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your emotions / feelings last night?
What can we do to renew our parish or church? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you bring me a surprise? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you apologize to me?
How do I see our finances affecting our relationship?
What Christ/God-like qualities do I see in you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What one gift would I most enjoy this Christmas? HDIFAT?
Is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing Jesus has called me by name?
Can I identify with doubting Thomas? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
What do I hope to gain in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about us being needed by others?
What roles do I play? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my experiences in the church?
How would I describe you to a blind person? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of us tries to manipulate the other?
How do I feel about my parish/church/convent/temple/etc. financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about marrying you every day? HDIFAT?
What is my reaction to Mary's yes to God? HDIFAT?
If I could change one and only one thing about the world, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
I know I would never find another you. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
How did you meet your spouse or significant other? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that death is inevitable?
What special gift of myself do I offer to God today? HDIFAMA?
What are some of the barriers to my forgiving you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way my prayers are answered? HDIFAT?
How does our marriage reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are faced with too many bills?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations of you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDMAMMF?
What would I really like for an anniversary gift (not a purchased gift)? HDIFAT?
How can I be more open to you and to your love? HDIFAT?
I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT?
I think we need to negotiate the following: _____. HDIFAT?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAMA?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT?
What sacrifices am I willing to make for our daily Dialogue? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we enjoy each other's sense of humor?
HDIF just before I tell you something you will not like to hear?
HDIF about criticism and sarcasm?
How do I feel about our current financial situation? HDIF telling you this?
How do I feel about the phrase: 'My/Our needs are not problems, but gifts from God?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
What promises did I make to you on our weekend? How well have I kept those promises? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive each other?
HDIF about my temper and what I do when I lose it?
HDIF about writing a living will?
HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes?
HDIF about the beginning of the school year?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
HDIF about walking together?
If I were completely free right now, I would _____. HDIFAT?
God has faith in you. He proved it by giving you life. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending an evening alone with you?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT?
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