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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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What did not I do today that I wish I had? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you help me discover a new good quality?
What obstacles do I allow to inhibit me from speaking freely? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing a bag of popcorn and a movie?
How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you dump on me?
HDIF when TV sports controls meals and holidays in our home?
God's greatest treasure is you.HDIFAT?"
The last time you made me feel pampered was _____. HDIFAT?
How do you respond to your failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the power of our prayer?
How can we make this Advent a spiritual preparation for Christmas? HDIFAT?
What about you turns me on the most? HDIFAT?
What area is difficult for me to share my feelings about? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about the amount of money we pay in taxes?
HDIF about Operation Rescue?
HDIF when I am the center of attention?
HDIF when we are torn between our families?
How are you a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT?
What little annoyances am I having trouble accepting? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
In what important areas do I find it most difficult to listen to you? HDIFAT?
Is our family being short-changed by our Encounter / Retrouvaille involvement? HDIFAT?
Does our sexual relationship affect our closeness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
How do I behave in a group when they start talking about religion? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear from you that would allow me to be more open? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am on a diet?
HDIF in realizing our sexual union is God's command?
What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
What would I like to accomplish the season of Lent?
HDIF about writing about my emotions / feelings?
What good quality do you see in me that I doubt the most? HDIFAT?
If I could take you any place, where would I take you? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) am I wearing today? HDIFAT?
Is our lovemaking routine or passionate? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get overextended?
You have seniority at work. HDIFAT?
Why do I keep information from you? What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my creative juices are flowing?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIFAT?
As a couple, we are the lifeblood of the church. HDIFAT?
HDIF about having to work overtime to make ends meet?
HDIF about sex being a decision?
How can we continue to make our love visible in the church? HDIFAT?
How would I rate our level of intimacy? HDIFAT?
How do I see you as a giving person? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from you lately? HDIFAMA?
If I had known then what I know now about raising children, I would have _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear myself say things my mother or father said?
In what ways do I try to change myself to please my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when our children compete against each other?
What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail.
What did I do today to make life less difficult for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about healing?
HDIF about Santa Claus?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate the health of our marriage a... HDIFSTWY?
HDIF when I am given advice by others that I did not ask for?
How do I see you as a gift? HDIFAT?
How do we maintain passion and love in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you have not written your dialogue letter?
Do I ever regret that my vocation requires a vow of celibacy? HDIFAMA?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me?
How do I see you to be superior to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about relying on the extra speed I develop at the end of a job?
How does the weather affect how I am with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you can show me that I am a good person after all?
HDIF when people tell me they cheat on their taxes?
I was proud of you last month when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my temper and what I do when I lose it?
HDIF when we hear our song?
Do I love my people beyond the confines of my church, parish, synagogue, etc? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone?
How do we usually handle conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I sense God's love through you?
HDIF when you are sick?
HDIF about the expectations my family has for us?
How accepting of others have I been this week? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about someone who has died in our family?
HDIF when we are too tired for each other?
HDIF when someone else takes the lead?
HDIF when you serve me breakfast in bed?
What does being an open and honest couple mean to me? HDIFAT?
How have I experienced love in our relationship? HDMAMMF?
What struggle are we currently facing that we need to learn from? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we work on the family budget together?
HDIF when I am traveling to new places?
What do I long for in the depths of my being? HDIFAT?
Where is our relationship headed? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship affected when one of us is ill? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in our lives, HDIF about our past failings as a couple?
HDIF when I reveal my emotions / feelings, and you respond as expected?
HDIF about secrets in a marriage?
HDIF about sharing my emotional life with you?
HDIF when you are open with me?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person people think I am?
HDIF when other people break the rules?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
HDIF at the thought of your death?
HDIF when I listen to you with my heart?
HDIF when I say no to your request for lovemaking?
HDIF when we have been separated for a long time?
How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT?
Change makes me feel ________.
What is the most embarrassing thing I have ever said? HDIFAT?
What talent do I wish I had that I do not? HDIF telling you about this?
HDIF about the outside influences that are causing hurt between us?
You cannot control the love and fidelity of another person. HDIFAT?
What is the first thing I would put in a dream box? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our church's rituals?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when plans do not work out?
Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAMA?
If I could change one thing about myself, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for my involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
How well do we communicate with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about yelling?
HDIF when I am not open with you?
When did we go two miles with someone who ordered us to go one? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAT?
How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF tracing your face with my fingertips?
Do I always say what I mean and mean what I say? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about having children in daycare?
How does my mask (personality style) affect our purchases? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming end of the year and New Year?
I think we should remove these rules from our relationship: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we are managing our finances?
How do I feel when I realize that God is speaking to me through you?
Which of us usually makes the decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you become violently angry with me?
What were my emotions / feelings as we experienced the weekend finale on Sunday night? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results?
HDIF about how we use our money?
When I know I am wanted, I feel _____.
What are your special qualities that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hearing all seven readings on the Easter Vigil?
Will I choose burial or cremation at death? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have so little private time together?
We are different in how we make decisions about money. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not stand up for me?
The first Christmas I remember was _____. HDIFAT?
What happens to us when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see pressure getting to you?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF about telling you what enhances or reduces my pleasure during lovemaking?
How do I behave when I am experiencing disillusionment about us? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about marriage? HDIFAT?
How do I feel this week living in the modern world? How do I feel sharing this with you?
What do I control that I should give up to help improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
Does my true self come out under stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way my prayers are answered? HDIFAT?
My life is a prayer. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you stand by me, even when I am wrong?
HDIF when we wash dishes together?
Is God the center of my life? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we would like to do something but cannot afford it?
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to repeated failure? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our financial status after the holidays?
When something bad happens to me, do I let it hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are intimate?
What would be the hardest thing for me to give up for a week? Why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we dance together?
What is the most sensitive part of my body? HDIFAT?
What makes it hard to ask for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you change your mind after we have agreed on something, or made a decision?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
What are the major sources of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
It is difficult to write about feelings. HDTMMF?
HDIF recalling my first communion?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about marrying you every day? Describe in loving detail.
How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about today? HDMAMMF?
I would be more comfortable in our relationship if _____. HDIFAT?
If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
How have our children experienced our love this week? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about our relationship today?
The personal qualities I am most aware of in myself are as follows: _____. HDIFAT?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are late and I have to wait for you?
HDIF when I make encouraging comments to you?
Have any of your dreams come true? HDIFAT?
What stage of relationship am I in with my people, (Romance, Disillusion, Joy)? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when the checkbook does not balance?
Am I more like my mother or my father? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spanking?
What do I value most about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
HDIF about widening our circle of friends?
When we do a job together I feel _____.
HDIF when I am naked in front of you?
Does our home reflect our values? HDMAMMF?
HDIF telling you something I assume you are not going to like?
Do I believe it is important to take a yearly family vacation? HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that your family's problems are my problems?
How has dialoguing about Scripture made Jesus come alive for us? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship affected when we strive to love unconditionally? HDIFAT?
What was our closest moment, as a couple, this past week? HDIFTYT
HDIF when I consider how the household chores are divided up?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of mine in one of our children?
HDIF when I picture our family kneeling at the manger scene?
HDIF about making each day Valentine's Day, at least for a while?
When I want you to listen to me, do I also want you to agree with me? HDIFAT?
What does being a couple mean to me? HDIFAT?
As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others.' HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT?
HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
How do I like to celebrate New Years' Eve? HDIFAT?
How do I fel about the way our marriage influences other people? DILD.
HDIF when you are being too hard on yourself?
How are you like your mother? HDIFAT?
Is our diet life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the responsibility we have to other married couples?
What do I need from you when I am feeling crummy? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a drink with friends?
HDIF when I see you in our children?
HDIF when I listen to your gripes?
How can we best share our love with other people? HDIFAT?
What discourages me? Do I turn my discouragements over to God? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
What family atmosphere do I dream of for our home? HIDFAMA?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I know you have had a bad day?
What limits my ability to love you? HDIFAT?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?
Why did we marry each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our child's current boyfriend / girlfriend / best friend?
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
Do I harbor hurts, grudges, or hard feelings from past injuries? HDIFAMA?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIF sharing this with you?
What attitude do I want to change in myself? HDIFAT?
How are we living God's plan and what can I do to improve it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about playing bingo for money?
Where was I born? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAMA?
Do I keep my pain, hurt, or disillusionment to myself? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
What have I learned about myself in the past week? HDIFAT?
What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when God's will seems to be in conflict with my needs?
HDIF about my privacy or lack thereof?
What gift have you given me in the past year that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
What is a goal I have involving us together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving you a ten-second kiss every day?
What joy or pleasure do I receive when we pray together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about honoring the dead?
How do I feel when I see you cry after watching a movie together? Describe in loving detail.
The main reason I am afraid to commit to you is _____. HDIFAT?
Knowing the choice is ours to continue what the weekend started, HDIF?
If you died, what quality of yours would I miss most? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about the Trinity of God?
If I had to choose just one day to remember, I would choose _____ because _____. HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself well organized? HDIFAT?
What is my most favorite holiday? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex in the morning? (Better try first!)
How has my love for you changed since our wedding? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that God has spoken, or is speaking, to me through you?
How do I feel about our current financial situation? HDIF telling you this?
Am I afraid of something that God would give me strength to overcome, if I prayed to Him about it? HDIFAT?
My favorite time with God is _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I was overcome with the power of our love? HDIF?
How are we working for the coming of His kingdom? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make myself more sexy to you? HDIFAMA?
When a breakdown or mix-up stops everybody's work, my first reaction is to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hurry to answer the phone and it is only a solicitor?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT?
What do I most need to change in my money habits? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our children laugh?
HDIF when we reach out and are rejected?
HDIF about venerating the cross on Good Friday?
When have I felt alone this summer? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about being ordained/taking vows every day? Describe in loving detail.
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDMAMMF?
Our dialogue is our recurring yes to each other. HDIFAT?
Have I ever thought that you used me sexually? Describe how you felt, and feel in loving detail.
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see Christmas displays in October?
How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAMA?
What about our relationship can be improved? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time?
Why did I take my vows? Why do I keep my vows? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the honesty of our dialogue?
HDIF when a car pulls in front of me when I am stopped in traffic?
What place do fasting and sacrifice have in my spiritual life? HDIFAT?
Is there anything I need to share with you but have not? HDIFAT?
Do I compare my relationship with my people to other priest/religious with their people? HDIFAMA?
What steps can we take to talk more about us?
HDIF when you say, Please forgive me?
How do I see my favorite movie playing out in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we give a donation to charity?
What charism (strength) do I have from the Spirit that helps the world believe? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAMA?
HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship?
My ideal lovemaking would be _____. HDIFAT?
The quality I love most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving money?
What do I want most from you? HDIFAT?
What would I like to accomplish during this time of Lent? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to my people better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I sleep late?
How would I like you to romance me? HDIFAT?
In what way have you brightened my day today? HDIFAT?
What does the Fourth of July mean to me? HDIFAT?
I believe one of my people is being selfish when _____. HDIFAT?
How have I let myself down? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overwhelmed by household tasks or yardwork?
How do I feel about our current financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
There really IS a New World somewhere! HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of our children would want to enter the ministry? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your promotion potential?
Where do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAT?
You are my sounding board. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we have a large number of people over? Describe in loving detail.
How has our Lent prepared us for Holy Week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my gift of help, time, friendship, etc is refused?
HDIF about doing things nobody else wants to do?
HDIF about working many hours in a room with no windows?
What does my conduct say about my convictions? HDIFAT?
For our growth, we need God to be part of our love relationship. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about us today? Describe in loving detail.
What expectations do I have of your family?
HDIF when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine?
What environment is best for listening? HDIFAT?
What are the best and most beautiful things in our lives? HDIFAT?
When do I think that honesty is not the best policy? HDIFAT?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my responsibilities as a married person?
When do I most enjoy being with you? HDIFAT?
What can we do to promote peace? HDIFAT?
What can I do to improve my dialog? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am avoiding sharing something with you?
What are my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my career?
What can we do to improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
Is Mass a celebration for me? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for the New Year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are praying for me?
HDIF when I am following a schedule? When I am free of schedules?
When I look at you today, do I see you as my bride / groom? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your relationship with my family?
How often do I pray? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my people make a special effort to make me feel important? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel about telling others about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have judged others harshly?
What was our closest moment as a family this year? HDIFAT?
What gives me hope when I most need it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am short-changed at the store?
Would I change our parenting style considering the difficulties we have experienced? HDIFAT?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
What first prompted me to think about the priesthood, religious etc.? HDIFA this now?
What are my family's expectations of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I touch you?
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAMA?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
When you withdraw into your shell, HDIF?
How do we share our faith with each other? HDIFAT?
If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT?
Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the variety of our lovemaking?
How do I feel when one of my people feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get obligated to someone?
Where with our children do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our prayer life?
What expectations do I have of our children?
What would I give you an Oscar for? HDIFAT?
I see God smiling down on us as we make love. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the priorities of job or career versus relationship priorities?
HDIF about the people who prayed for us as we experienced the weekend?
What is it about our charism of parenthood that calls other people? HDIFAT?
If I could live anywhere, where would it be? HDIFAT?
What are your family's expectations of us? HDIFAT?
How supportive are we of our extended family? HDIFAT?
What is my most recent happy memory of us? HDIFAT?
What experience of romance happened today? HDIFAT?
Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT?
In the area of superiority what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
What weather-related term would I use to describe my normal disposition (warm, sunny, stormy, gloomy ...)?
In what areas do need to grow as a couple? HDIFAT?
What talent or quality do I wish I had that I do not? HDIFAT?
How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you leave love notes in my suitcase?
HDIF watching our parents grow older?
What conditions do I put on my love for you? HDIF sharing this with you? Love"
What can we do to renew our parish or church? HDIFAT?
What would I like you to do so I can better understand you? HDIFAT?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to stay married to you? HDIFAT?
What areas in our marriage are good? HDIFAT?
When do I last think I was listened to? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
What do I do that annoys you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am separated from you?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
What do I do to gain acceptance and profit emotionally? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am about to reveal something to you?
What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
How has our dialogue affected our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have difficulty remembering someone's name?
What are the strongest emotions / feelings I had during our times of trouble? HDIFAT?
How do I define love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your smile?
HDIF when I hear from other people that you have bragged about me?
When do I feel the most romantic? HDIFAT?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we talk about my family of origin?
HDIF about living with a budget?
When was the last time I did a Random Act of Kindness (RAK) for you? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
What was the best present I can remember getting? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I did not listen to you? HDIFAT?
What are my goals for our children's sexuality? HDIFAT?
How do my people help me up when I fall down? HDIFAT?
What effect does sex with you have on me? HDIFAT?
Happiness is inward and not outward; and so it does not depend on what we have, but on what we are.' -- Henry van Dyke. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am extremely tired?
When I realize I have hurt you, what are my feelings?
HDIF about giving our time to helping others?
How has our inability to live out God?s Plan for our marriage affected us?
How much do our marriage vows mean to me now? HDIFAT?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
Sometimes I forget to put you first. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the frequency of our dialogue?
When I am away from you, what am I most likely to do to keep from missing you? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
How much energy do I spend concealing, rather than revealing, who I really am? HDIFAT?
How did I show you today that you are my favorite person? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, are we living the World's Plan? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
What is the greatest gift we can give to each other this Christmas? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our marriage as a sign of love to others? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when people do not follow through on tasks I give them?
What Christ-like qualities do I see in you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take a drive together to see the beautiful fall foliage?
Happiness does not depend on what we have, but on what we are. HDIFAT?
What conditions do I sometimes place on you to be loved by me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you respond to my requests on your own time?
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to be with you and cannot?
HDIF when our daily routines do not allow us time for each other?
What problems do we have because of differing values? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you behaving tenderly with our children?
Where on my list of priorities did I place our dialogue today / this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our lovemaking is interrupted?
HDIF about heights?
Do I agree with the statement that folks are better off married? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my hurried schedule?
I am a better person because of my people. HDIFAT?
What miracle, small or large, did I experience today? HDIFAT?
Romance is a decision. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fix your supper?
HDIF when I am trying to describe an emotion / feeling of mine to you?
When working on a big project, am I more likely: to start at the beginning and take it step by step - start with the end and work my way back - or dive in somewhere in the middle? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave in public?
HDIF sharing my whole self with you?
Whom do I need to make peace with? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing I am forgiven for my sins?
What am I most thankful for? HDIFAT?
When do I nail down the lid on my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
I most need you to love me when _____. HDIFAT?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
Which is easier for me, abstinence or moderation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children compliment me?
What have I done to show Christ my love for Him? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
What do I have to be most thankful for? HDIFAT?
Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF if you are out when I get home?
What helped me be open to change during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who demand and expect perfection?
HDIF about spending more time together as a family?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
HDIF about my job?
How well do I accept my own aging? HDIFAT?
In what area would I most like to reach out to my people? Why? (or Why haven't I before?) HDIFAMA?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF the day after our lovemaking?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
HDIF about school being out?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? Describe in loving detail.
Who was the worst houseguest we have ever had? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest frustration in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am proud to be with you?
HDIF about hugging another couple?
Should we recommit to regular dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we exchange gifts?
What have I given up for our relationship that has held me back in my development as a person? HDIF about this?
What are my people's best qualities? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What can we do to improve our sex life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children needing Encounter / Retrouvaille someday?
Am I as close to my people as I used to be? HDIFAMA?
What do I like least about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How critical am I to my workplace? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a mistake and you point it out?
Can I recite anything from memory? HDIFAT?
HDIF as we begin this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the passion, or lack or passion, in our relationship?
HDIF about my job now?
How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy writing? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing something I have never done before?
What do I want to change about myself that I think would please you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am brooding over my mistakes?
When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I complete some big, unusual task around the house?
What methods do I find easiest to use in describing my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
When have I felt a negative emotion in response to physical affection? HDIFAT?
How do I see our lifestyle when we are retired? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am the avoider and you are the seeker?
I need support from you in the following areas: _____. HDIFAT?
I think your strengths are _____. HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAMA?
What does having good friends mean to me? HDIFAT?
What does the Lord's Prayer mean to me? HDIFAT?
Do I accept myself? Why or why not? HDIFAMA?
God wants our sexual relationship to be good. HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family?
HDIF when you accept a part of me that I had difficulty sharing?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAMA
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion?
HDIF about reading more books and watching less TV?
What is my greatest concern in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How can we bring new life into our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time we spend with your family?
Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
HDIF about watching a sunrise?
Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDMAMMF?
Why do (did) I choose to be baptized? HDIFAT?
What chore do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I criticize how you discipline our children?
What special joy or pleasure do you bring into my life? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I cried? HDIFAT?
How often do we need to see before we believe? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from listening to you? HDIFAT?
My top priorities in life are _____. HDIFAT?
How do we feed the hungry of the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not like the dialog question I have selected?
How would I like to be remembered as a grandparent? HDIFAT?
Even though you might not expect it, what changes do I need to make in my behavior that will help me grow closer to you?HDMAMMF?"
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT?
What was my strongest emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
HDIF about us having the power to heal each other?
How do we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT?
What comfort do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of my grandparents? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to overtures of friendship from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAT?
What is one thing I would like to try differently when we have an issue to discuss? HDIFAT?
What do I admire most about my parents? HDIFAT?
HDIF looking forward to our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary?
HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you?
What are my longings for me and my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we have had a fight?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAMA?
Why do I want snow at Christmas? HDIFAT?
What would I like to take back if I could? HDIFAT?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I lose control?
When do I get the most out of talking about us? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself as a conformist or a nonconformist? HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying love my people the way God loves me? HDIFAT?
What is our best quality as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I return from acting like a married single?
HDIF when I engage in self-pity?
HDIF when I am not getting through to you?
Is Jesus in control of my future? HDIFAT?
I would like to reconsider these past compromises: _____. HDIFAT?
When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people whose emotional ups and downs are very marked?
HDIF about the ways you show me that I am special?
Do I attempt great and small tasks with the same attitude? HDIFAT?
When I am really at odds with someone, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What one thing do my people do that helps bring me closest to them? HDIFFAMA?
IWhen do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us?
HDIF when I share an uncomfortable emotion / feeling with you?
HDIF when you make one of my priorities one of yours?
HDIF when I have to shovel the snow?
HDIF seeing animals in the zoo?
You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing the details of my workday with you?
How have our past failures helped us to grow? HDIFAT?
I have difficulty sharing my emotions / feelings about _____. HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF after yelling at our children?
HDIF when we pray with our children and hold hands?
What attitude am I struggling most with today? HDIFAT?
When am I most likely to ignore you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I first learned we were going to be parents?
HDIF about my daily routine?
What I need most to offer you to most tonight is... HDMAMMF?
What mask do I wear in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Is there time enough for me in my busy day? HDIFAT?
How can I be more gentle with myself? HDIFAT?
When were we closest this month? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
How much of a couple do I really want to be, and what am I willing to change to be that couple? HDMAMMF?
What are the activities we have planned that I want most to do this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how active I am in our children's schooling?
Why do not I trust you with helping me with sex? HDIFAT?
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
Am I a different person with you than I am with others? If so, how? HDIF sharing this with you?
Describe a time when I felt disappointed. HDIFAT?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
HDIF about traveling on the train?
What have I done to help other people in our family feel special? HDIFAT?
Would I want our child to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
On the weekend we heard that feelings are neither right nor wrong. What was your reaction to hearing this on your weekend? What is your reaction today? HDYAMMF?
What was the worst day of my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I pray, Our Father ... ?
What do I think is my most serious fault? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
When things piled up on me the worst, I felt _____. HDIFAT?
How do I show my love for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are worried?
What is my fondest memory of my father?
HDIF about the first day we met?
HDIF about my boss?
How does my mask interfere with my celebrating mass/worship service/etc.? HDIFAT?
HDIF about using the feedback technique in our communication with each other?
What do I like best and least about our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about the first car we ever owned?
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but haven't been able to, yet I haven't talked to you about? HDIFAT?
What is something I would like to try but have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your tears?
HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?
Where would we be if we had never experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
Does TV take away valuable time from us as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your tenderness with the children?
What ghosts and skeletons do I need to deal with? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going with you to a horror movie?
Where would I like to go with you on vacation? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way my ministry influences those around me?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Sometimes my burdens seem just too great to carry. HDIFAT?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
What do I own that I value most? HDIFAT?
What is my idea of heaven? HDIFAT?
If dialogue is so important to our relationship, why do we miss? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I initiate sex?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
What am I doing to bring joy to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
What changes should I, or should we, make to keep from being disillusioned? HDIFAT?
What does graduation mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel attending church together? HDIFTYT?
What hinders me from talking about money with you? HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help when I find I am in over my head? HDIFAMA?
When time is short, do I handle the situation well, or do I tend to go into panic mode? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start.'? Describe in detail.
HDIF when you feel hurt?
HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me?
HDIF about my current state of health?
How would I feel if I gave a compliment to three people each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing a dialogue letter with other dialoguing couples?
HDIF about our relationship with our priest or minister / pastor?
I think we need to negotiate the following: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about what we as a couple have to offer other people?
When did I feel closest to God and you in our lovemaking? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is the most important value I have? HDIFAT?
What gift can I give Jesus for Christmas this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me an unexpected hug?
How can we improve our sexual communication as a couple? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Dialogue is my gift of myself to you?' Describe in loving detail.
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
HDIF about spending a night with you at a local hotel or motel?
How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAT?
What are the sources of my pain or frustration? HDIFAT?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT?
Would people say I live in my own little world? HDIFAT?
What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you with myself? HDIF sharing this with you?
What expectations do I have for Valentine's day? HDIFA sharing this with you?
When do I get impatient with you? HDIFAT?
Do I cheat on my taxes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about one of our children being called to religion life?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I squeeze your hand?
Are there any hurts between us that I need to be healed of before our relationship can continue to grow? HDIFAMA?
Were my Valentine's Day expectations met? HDIFAT?
What does intimacy mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planting a flower garden?
HDIF when I let _____ borrow my stuff?
HDIF about our financial responsibility?
When I know you are praying for me, what are my feelings?
How important is spoken communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
How well do I trust my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not leveling with me?
What strengths do I think I might have, but I am afraid to try or rely on? HDIFAT?
I know there is a good chance we will make love tonight. HDIFAT?
HDIF about using credit cards?
Is it more important for me to be liked or to be right? HDIFAT?
I feel most uncomfortable with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we have been communicating this week?
At this time of my life, what I need most from you is _____. HDIFAT?
How do other people experience our sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I should reach out to you but do not?
HDIF when I share an uncomfortable feeling with you?
What song reminds me of our relationship right now? HDIFTYT?
How would I feel getting involved in the Habitat for Humanity project? HDIFAT?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family reunions?
Love is a gift I freely give to you. HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
The thing I most fear is _____. HDIFAT?
How would I like to be affirmed and recognized by my husband/wife? HDIFAMA?
What do I hope to gain in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
Which of my strengths do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel knowing that today could be my last day? Describe in loving detail.
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDMAMMF?
What thoughts help me to sleep at night? HDIFAT?
Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
In group tasks, do I feel better when cooperation is high or when efficiency is high? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our marriage influences other people?
HDIF when you encourage me?
What should we do about religious education for our children this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a parent into our home and caring for him or her?
How would I rate our communication skills? HDIFAT?
Our closest lovemaking expresses in miniature God's love for us. HDIFAT?
Birth control pills can work by preventing a fertilized egg from implanting. Did I know that? HDIF knowing that?
What do I like best and least about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you laugh at me? HDIFTYT (How Do I Feel Telling You This)?
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
Is passion an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of healing that calls other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my work?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, how am I experiencing you differently? HDTMMF?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cuddle?
What is my greatest joy in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What am I most disillusioned with in my life? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if someone else read my notebook? DILD.
When did I think I was listened to? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you call during the day just to say hello?
How do I feel when I see one of my people crying? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about introducing you as my husband or wife?
Which three qualities do I require in a friend? HDIFAT?
How does my work affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I complimented you? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of our early days together? What do I remember most? HDIF sharing this with you?
What are my feelings as we begin this week? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about my ability to speak to you freely about our sexual relationship?
HDIF when I need a hug but do not or will not ask for one?
HDIF about supporting the Encounter / Retrouvaille program?
HDIF about this Christmas compared with past ones?
HDIF when I am around negative people?
What attribute/ability/gift of yours am I most proud to share with others? How do I feel sharing this with you?
HDIF about sharing our dinner table with strangers?
HDIF when discussing our sex life?
HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?
How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting a priest or minister to our home?
What can I do to improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAMA?
How has our family benefited from our experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
Love is patient, love is kind. How does this apply to our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the variety of our lovemaking?
I am most likely to use sarcasm when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make the issue more important than the relationship?
HDIF about how our children spend their free time?
HDIF about praying aloud?
HDIF about going to bed earlier or waking earlier so we have time for us?
What do I like best and least about our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us moving?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest feeling? HDIF sharing this with you?
When do I have time for private prayer? HDIFAT?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you have to be the one to discipline our children?
Is there anything about your job that I avoid discussing with you? HDIFAT?
What positive actions will I take to change a pressure into a blessing? HDIFAT?
Do I think God led me to Retrouvaille or Retrouvaille led me to God? HDMAMMF?
How can we make God more present in our dialogue? HDIFAMA?
How was Lent special for us this year? HDIFAT?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT?
No offense by another person could possibly equal our guilt before God, yet He has forgiven us; are we not obligated to show the same mercy to others? HTMMF?
When we are not communicating as a family I feel _____. HDIFAT?
I lost a friend when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I made a mistake?
HDIF about escaping to a bookstore and having some fun?
HDIF making a surprise dessert for you?
What about my relationship with my people can be improved? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way I spend my spare time? Describe in loving detail.
What goals have I set for myself this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we first met?
HDIF when I agree to do it your way?
What sacrifices am I willing to make to be more romantic with you? HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear losing is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about writing a living will?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with us? HDIFAT?
Can I safely handle firearms? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiding a negative emotion from you?
How do I feel about our home? Describe in loving detail.
What is my favorite way of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
Today, I am most thankful for _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about my service to God?
I judged (one of) my people were being selfish when... How did I feel about this? Describe in loving detail.
What does it take for me to trust someone? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the courage to let people know what I stand for?
How would I feel using my favorite picture of you as a bookmark? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who show no flexibility?
HDIF when I see us together in photographs?
HDIF when I am giving you the silent treatment?
How do I react to compliments? HDIF?
HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building?
How close are we as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the charismatic style of prayer?
Has our love grown since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
What specifically do you do to me physically that turns me off? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at my naked body?
How do I see myself as a member of Christ's body? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
What kinds of compliments have I received most often as an adult? HDIFAT?
What quality does Mary or Joseph have as a parent that I would like? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking risks?
HDIF about contraception?
Do I go to church to give or to get? HDTMMF?
HDIF about your smile?
HDIF when I make a specific sacrifice for you?
What kind of listener am I? HDIFAT?
What visions and hopes do I have for us? HDIFAT?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAMA?
In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? What are my feelings about that?
I am romantic and you are not. HDIFAT?
What effect do the short days and long nights have on me? HDIFAT?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you say no to making love? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about crying?
What changes in our relationship have we taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF about switching to low fat milk? Using less salt? Eating less red meat?
What would a care package for our marriage look like? HDIFAT?
What is the first step I take to cope with the stress in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around opinionated people?
How does my attitude toward my father affect us? HDIFAT?
What listening skills could improve our relationship? HDIFTYT?
If I died without a chance to see you, what would I wish I could have told you? HDIFAT?
Is my faith growing or dying? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sending a card to you in the mail?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with my people better? HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with others this week? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDMAMMF?
Do I give or take too much from you/others? HDIFAMA?
What limits do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our sexual relationship?
HDIF when my people make a special effort to make me feel important?
Is family planning my job, your job, or ours? HDIFAT?
Are we having a lifestyle of forgiveness and healing? HDMAMMF?
What topics do we talk least about? HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our dialog? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about my relationship with your parents?
How do I behave when I am wrong? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone plays a practical joke on me?
In what way(s) do I need to alter my attitude to alter my life? HDIFAT?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our spending on clothing?
Our relationship to my family is _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to build a better community? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Who can I reach out to? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trading baby-sitting with friends so we can have some nights at home alone?
Do I give or take too much from you/others? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your health?
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDTMMF?
What do I like least about myself in the area of God and our faith?
What kind of criticism distresses me? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for help, my friends or God? HDIFAMA?
What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF?
Pray Ephesians 5:21-32 together. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go through the family album together?
How does my mask disappoint, frustrate, or annoy others? HDIFAMA?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
What do I think about our spiritual growth as a couple? HDIFAT?
What mistakes or disappointments most discourage me now? HDIFAT?
God wants to count me among His saints. HDIFAT?
In what area of Retrouvaille am I interested in investing our time, talents, support, and love in? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about watching TV during mealtime?
HDIF when every waking minute of our day is planned?
What is my earliest memory of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs?
What am I most disappointed with in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What does failure do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my self-image? Describe in loving detail.
To keep our marriage fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
As a child, what was I like? HDIF about the person I used to be?
If Jesus came to our house for a 24 hour visit, how would I feel?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you ask me to help you?
When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we have to work together on a project? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about eating leftover food?
When one of my people feels threatened, I feel... DILD.
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
Where do I look most for approval, inside or outside? HDIFAT?
How do I handle my jealous feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDMAMMF?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDIFAT?
How have we benefitted by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIF sharing this with you?
How can I put more romance in our marriage? HDIFAT?
How have my people helped me to become a better person? HDIFAMA?
How can we avoid non-productive fights? HDIFTYT?
HDIF when I shake out the rugs?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending time alone?
Our children want to play more. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the level of responsibility I have at work?
How do I feel about the amount of time we spend on foreplay? Describe in loving detail.
I think you misunderstand me in this area: _____. HDIFAT?
Our children are the two of us in one flesh. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know we're going to have sex?
What talent or quality as a parent do I most envy in you and HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not met? HDIFAT?
The most interesting thing you have taught me is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when others want me to take risks?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
How can we inspire other people to dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am criticized?
What are my thoughts about having the power to heal each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic time together?
What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAMA?
Our marriage is a sign of Christ's Love. How do I think others experienced our sign today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I am sorry?
Is frustration bringing us together or driving us apart? HDIFAT?
The one thing I admire and love the most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
How and why did we go back to dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
HDIF when a new situation comes up that conflicts with my plans?
What words please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF approaching Christ as a couple?
How can I be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT?
What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent?
What kind of listener was I before our Retrouvaille weekend? HDMAMMF?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT?
If I was about to die and could only tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it comes down to the last minute to finish getting something done?
What do I hope to gain in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What can we do to renew our romance and passion? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT?
What makes you cry? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our level of indebtedness?
My idea of a romantic evening is _____. HDIFAT?
When am I most comfortable serving my people? HDIFAT?
Whom do I blame most of the time when things go wrong? HDIFAT?
I am being pressured to do something I do not want to do. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing the Lord pursues me when I am astray?
HDIF about sending Christmas cards?
What are the qualities that first attracted me to you? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____.
HDIF when I go out of my way to please you?
HDIF when you avoid a conflict between us?
How do I behave when I am hurting? HDIFAT?
I forgot to buy you a card. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone compliments one of our children?
HDIF when you do something special for another couple?
HDIF when you kiss me unexpectedly?
What do I want most to achieve for us? When? How? HDIFAT?
What topic would I most like to see discussed in our community of couples? HDIFAT?
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