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How well do I use the talents given to me by God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see other people making a mistake?
My most favorite part of your body is _____. HDIFAT?
God's greatest treasure is you. HDIFAT?
Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have the house looking neat for you?
HDIF when I am shopping with you?
HDIF when you say, I can never understand you?
When do I feel the most romantic? HDIFAT?
HDIF about discussing our sex life?
How can I be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing my relationship with God with you?
HDIF when I ask for your forgiveness?
HDIF when our children ask me to knock before entering their rooms?
What changes would I like to make in response to my failures? HDIFTYT?
Do my words touch my people, or role off them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when my job separates us overnight?
HDIF when cashiers ask for several pieces of identification?
How has my love for my people changed since my taking vows / ordination? HDIFAT?
The best vacation we ever had was _____. HDIFAT?
What did I most look forward to today? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about having a baby during our middle years?
HDIF when we meet a couple who really needs to experience the weekend?
You are the sunshine of my life. HDIFAT?
I appreciate your patience with me when I _____. HDIFAT?
Our Sacrament calls us to a good marriage, not just an average one. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our neighbors?
How have we come closer to Jesus through suffering? HDIFAT?
It is difficult for me to listen to my people when _____. HDIFAT?
He is Risen! How does this make me feel?
What is the first step I take to cope with the stress in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when no one notices something I put a lot of work into?
HDIF telling you each day in a dialogue letter that I love you?
When I am sad, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
What do I pray for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have let you down?
What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF re-reading what I wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAT?
We had many hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT?
God sees me/us as very special because... HDIFAT?
Is describing my emotions / feelings in a letter easy or hard to do? HDIFAT?
My favorite memory of us as a couple this year is _____. HDIFAT?
I have made a promise and cannot keep it. HDIFAT?
I need to learn not to _____. HDIFAT?
Can I do math in my head or do I need a calculator? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing with another couple?
Is thoughtfulness an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me?
HDIF when we say grace before meals? Or when we do not?
Is frustration bringing us together or driving us apart? HDIFAT?
Would other people say I am a show-off? HDIFAT?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
Do I think our love makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year?
What are the qualities that first attracted me to you? HDIFAT?
Where do I see myself 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I had to lie to protect someone I love? HDIFAT?
What are your special qualities that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our different interests separate us?
Have we been open in our daily dialogue? HDIFAMA?
What are my expectations of you as a wife? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV?
Should lovemaking be part of the healing process or reserved for afterward? HDIFAT?
Do I wish to deepen the experience of God in our relationship? If so, how? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I was first learning how to ride a bicycle?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue helps our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel going out alone at night? Describe in loving detail.
What is my greatest hurt in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about the size of the family I was born into?
HDIF when I find out, after the fact, that _____ has lied to me?
What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT?
How would I feel receiving a friendship card from you?
When was the first time I knew you were the one for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
HDIF about the Lord when I sin or fail to measure up?
HDIF about God being a compassionate God?
When is the last time I forgave you, and HDIFAT?
HDIF about funerals?
I feel rejected most when... Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about saving for a summer vacation?
What is the most important topic for us to discuss today? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about myself? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
What song would I dedicate to you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF around babies or small children?
How have we benefited by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you?
In what ways does my mask interfere with how I listen to you? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when someone questions my faith?
HDIF when we talk about my openness to change?
Have we changed enough since our weekend, that others have noticed the difference, too? HDIFAMA?
What was our closest moment as a couple this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when other people notice how much we love each other?
We have activities, jobs and careers. What about us? HDIFAT?
What frustrates me most in working with others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your openness to me in our lovemaking?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
What makes me feel most united or coupled? HDIFAT?
Jesus is counting on us to make His love believable. HDTMMF?
Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT?
So the Lord answers, 'Can a woman forget her own baby and not love the child she bore? Even if a mother should forget her child, I will never forget you. Jerusalem, I can never forget you! I have written your name on the palm of my hands.' Isaiah 49:15-16 What does this mean to me? HDIFAT?
When do I feel pressured by you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going into debt for a purchase?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting a priest or minister to our home?
When am I most likely to lie to others? HDIFAT?
How do we promote intimacy in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a source of inspiration to you?
HDIF when we go to see your mother / father in the hospital?
We have the ability to forgive each other. HDIFAT?
When do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
Can I see any new doors opening for us? HDIFAT?
How do you irritate me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when circumstances make me second guess one of my own decisions?
What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF?
What kind of store would I like to own and operate? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a flat tire?
How well do I listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about turning off the TV at dinnertime?
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.' -- Joshua 1:9. Have I given up when I should have prayed for strength? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you sincerely compliment me?
HDIF when your job separates us overnight?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make our relationship better? HDIFAT?
Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT?
What are the values I want to live now? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do for God with the time He has given me? HDIFAT?
What changes do I need to make Faith a value? HDIFAT?
In what way do I try to modify my behavior to please you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner?
HDIF about my job now?
If you are not free to risk, you cannot grow. HDIFAT?
Intimacy is a challenge for us. HDIFAT?
How do I see you as a giving person? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have about our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF about death and dying?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
What potentials have you helped me develop? HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying to love you the way God loves us? HDIFAT?
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about school uniforms?
HDIF about trying new things that are just coming into fashion?
Do I have a role to fulfill in couples relationships? HDIFAMA?
What am I doing for my own religious education? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making myself more appealing to you?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? HDIFAT?
HDIF laughing with you?
HDIF about French kissing?
HDIF when I see ?thanks? shining in your eyes?
What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
When you touch me tenderly, without sex as a goal, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
The way to salvation is through Jesus. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the urge to call you during the day, but do not?
HDIF about gathering other people to pray?
How does my mask cause me to be a married single? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
What do I need to do to improve my appearance? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think of one of our children dying?
HDIF when you do something special for me?
HDIF about telling jokes?
HDIF when you massage my feet?
HDIF when I see the beauty of God's creation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time we spend with my family?
What can I do to make myself more sexy to you? HDIFAMA?
Jesus came to bring us new life. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not seem able to reach you?
Am I satisfied with our relationship? If so, should I be? If not, why? HDIFAMA?
Everything and everyone has its beauty, but not everyone sees it. Do I look for the beauty in others, or do I look at the surface? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about people who arrive for work early?
How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I complete some big, unusual task around the house?
HDIF when you interrupt me in conversation?
Where do we need to go in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our family?
What friend of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I try to hold in my.... (anger, joy, disappointment, etc.)? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship?
Lately, how have I responded to people's demands of me? HDIFAT?
How do I want you to see me? Is this the way I want other people to see me too? HDIFAT?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
I find it easy to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our combined strengths?
What memories are painful for me to recall? HDIFAT?
Star bright nights stir emotions / feelings in me of _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we leave our children for a few days?
How do I behave in a group when they start talking about religion? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your boss?
HDIF when I watch you play with our children?
What is my dream for our marriage? HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT?
How well do I forgive me people when they ask for it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you brag on me to your parents?
As a parent, could you do better? HDIFAT?
What do I think other people see in us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What is our relationship with other people who share our faith? HDIFAT?
If our house were burning down, and I could only save three things, what would they be and why? HDIFAT?
How do I experience the trinity?
HDIF when someone eats the last cookie?
HDIF when I work late?
HDIF about someone asking me to do them a favor?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
When I resist change, I feel _____.
What quality of mine keeps me from being more involved in our church/parish/synagogue/etc.? HDIFAMA?
Do I act younger or older than I am? HDIFAT?
HDIF at the kiss of peace?
HDIF after yelling at our children?
How have we accepted Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?
For our growth, we need God to be part of our marriage. HDIFAT?
What acts of kindness did I do today? HDIFAT?
What good quality do you see in me that I doubt the most? HDIFAT?
What are your best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
Where do I look when I need strength? HDIFAT?
What are my longings for me and my people? HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to you better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem to appreciate me?
Do I consider myself a good listener? HDIFAT?
What area is the hardest for me to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
When I part with my people, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think we are not as romantic as other people?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDTMMF?
What is it about our charism of passion that calls other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home right now?
HDIF when you kiss me hello or good-bye?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I judge you are angry with me?
HDIF when I reflect on what a gift you are to me?
How selective am I in selecting topics to argue with you about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am indifferent toward you?
We are called to be prophetic and missionary. HDIFAT?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAMA?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to take things too lightly, or worry too much? HDIFAMA?
What simple pleasure brings me the greatest satisfaction? HDIFAT?
In thinking about our current financial situation, what is my strongest emotion / feeling? HDIFAT?
Does our sexual relationship affect our closeness? HDIFAT?
Who among my friends will walk with me in both good times and hard times? HDIFAT?
HDIF about school being out?
Is there anything I need to share with my people but have not? HDIFAT?
What is your best quality? HDIFAT?
What can I do help you trust me more? HDIFAT?
HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
HDIF when I tell you more about my job or career?
What does a family Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to my people when... HDIFAMA?
Would I treat God as I did you today? HDMAMMF?
I enjoy listening to you talk about _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing you care more about me than about anyone else?
HDIF when every waking minute of our day is planned?
Is St. Valentine's Day special to me or just another day? HDIFAT?
What areas of a couple's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the activities our children are involved in?
HDIF when you are sick?
HDIF about the mask (personality style) I wear with God?
When have I been aware of our light shining for all? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAMA?
What are ten qualities I want most in a partner? How do I measure up? HDIFAT?
Do I believe I will die before my spouse? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I go ahead and make love even when I do not want to?
HDIF when you are close to me?
What kind of death frightens me the most? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite time of year and why? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
Each of us belongs to the other (I COR 7:3-5). HDIFAT?
What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I ask your forgiveness?
HDIF when you touch me in that certain place?
HDIF about learning a new dance step with you?
HDIF when you compliment me in front of other people?
HDIF about the coming of Christ?
HDIF when you have to make a sacrifice for us?
As we read _____ (pick some verse from Scripture), what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
What do I value most in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming of spring (or other season)?
HDIF about using credit cards?
HDIF when you do not stand up for me?
HDIF when you laugh at me?
How do we experience unity? HDIFAT?
HDIF about pacifiers?
HDIF about the changes taking place in our lives right now?
If I hit and killed a dog, would I notify the owner? HDIFAT?
HDIF about members of our extended family?
Besides my normal place of worship, where would I most like to celebrate mass / worship? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for romance?
HDIF knowing God used us to bring about a conversion?
How accepting of others have I been this week? HDMAMMF?
When our calendar is full, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when, non-verbally, you say no to lovemaking?
Has our house ever caught fire? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am trying to describe an emotion / feeling of mine to you?
What do I preceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood/ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
What gift of yours do I take for granted or deem trivial? HDIFAT?
What do I find difficult to tell you? HDIFAT?
What was our closest moment as a couple this month? HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
When am I most frustrated with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex in the morning?
HDIF about discussing our goals and values with you?
HDIF about the way we use our financial resources?
HDIF when work makes demands of me that seem unfair?
HDIF after I have said angry words that may have hurt you?
HDIF when you say, It is my fault?
If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAT?
Do I allow God to work in me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDTMMF?
HDIF when we receive secret gifts and notes from a couple who supports us?
How can my family have more unity? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you totally open to me in our lovemaking?
What is the happiest moment I have had with you this week? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we ask a couple to an information night?
You are my mirror. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it?
In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a new situation comes up that conflicts with my plans?
If our house were burning down, what possessions would I most hope were spared and why? HDIFAT?
What is renewed in me now that summer is finally here? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your parents visit?
What little dreams do I keep in my heart? HDIFAT?
I am most happy when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
What limits my ability to love you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
Our children most need _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I flash you a smile?
HDIF about the time we spend with your family?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDMAMMF?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF knowing God planned for us to be together?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we try to settle arguments without asking God's help?
HDIF when I realize your family's problems become my problems and vice versa?
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDMAMMF?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
HDIF when I am talking to you and you do not seem to be listening?
HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way?
Where do I look for help when I find I am in over my head? HDIFAMA?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you excel at something I thought I was rather good at?
HDIF when I try to hold in my anger?
We are blessed by the love of our families. HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for this Lenten season? HDIFAT?
What memory of our courting days is most alive today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch funny movies?
What person in my family has lived the longest? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other couples think they do not need to dialogue?
HDIF when I have to respect authority and follow the rules?
HDIF when I see others suffering or struggling?
How have I grown from the pain I have experienced in my life? HDIFAT?
What do I most want for our family this New Year? HDIFAT?
How does my poor self-image affect our couple prayer? HDIFAT?
In the area of God and our faith what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
When have I felt a negative emotion in response to physical affection? HDIFAT?
With our children, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving one of my people when I feel hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spring weather?
Do I have any dreams that I have not shared with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I admit my fears?
What has kept me from being completely honest before now? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing our lifestyle with our families?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I unjustly scold our children?
HDIF about saying yes when I really want to say NO?
Where do I place my people on my list of priorities? HDIFAT?
What do I see as our greatest asset as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the level of responsibility I have at work?
What compliment do I most like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about staying home with you?
What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about tithing a portion of our income?
What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIFAT?
I see my people as very special because... HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our relationship with God?
How does TV affect our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF when TV sports controls meals and holidays in our home?
Who controls the bed in the house? HDIFAT?
How do I fare when I try to put myself in someone else's shoes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about donations to charity?
What are my attitudes in the area of our sexual relationship that could cause us not to be as close as we could be? HDIFAT?
What possession is most likely to bring us into disillusionment? HDIFAT?
What unresolved problems do I see in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at my naked body?
What is the most difficult part of my/our dialogue? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are inspired by another couples' relationship?
How do I feel when I have to apologize even when I don't think I did anything wrong? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when someone catches me in a lie?
What does success do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
How do you most help me? HDIFAT?
Mary is the mother of our Lord. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together?
What is it about our charism of healing that calls other people? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for our sexual relationship, and are they getting in the way? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am hoping you keep your emotions / feelings to yourself?
I think we need to negotiate the following: _____. HDIFAT?
If we were given ten thousand dollars cash, what would I want to do with it? HDIFAT?
How can I stop holding onto my fears? HDIFAT?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDIFAT?
What price am I paying right now for our financial situation? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAT?
What aspect of myself do I still try to hide from others? HDIFAT?
How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT?
I most need you to love me when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to influence my decisions?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own feelings?
HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend?
HDIF when you want to leave an event and I am not ready to go?
What does it mean to me to experience joy? HDIFAT?
What are my concerns about the future? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I only half-forgive you?
HDIF about part of our lives continuing through our children?
When I seek your forgiveness and you fail to respond, HDIF?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances,? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about the role the Bishop played in taking my vows? Emotions"
HDIF about going home for the holidays?
How well do I think I listen to you? What can I do to listen better? HDIFAT?
In what area do I trust my people the most? HDIFAMA?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAT?
If I could live in a different era, what era would it be? HDIFAT?
How many hours do I watch TV in a typical day? In a typical week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me?
HDIF about heights?
HDIF when I think you have let other people down?
Which do I enjoy more, spending or saving? HDIFAT?
How do I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I know you are worried?
HDIF about the way I dress around you?
What example do I imitate that is a good example? HDIFAT?
Am I as close to my people as I used to be? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I want to spend time with my people, but they do not want to/are too busy/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we would like to do something but cannot afford it?
HDIF when I am the avoider and you are the seeker?
The priest or minister that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
What fears do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT?
What area(s) of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when packing a love note in with your lunch?
How do I feel when I judge one of my people is better than me at something I take pride in my ability to do? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you surprise me with something nice?
HDIF when you say no to lovemaking?
HDIF when you and I are in competition?
What were my emotions / feelings on Friday night as we began to experience the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening?
HDIF when I am unloving?
I am better motivated to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
Would people be more likely to call me warm and sympathetic, or cold and aloof? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we dance in the livingroom?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue more regular? HDIFAT?
Do I believe we should share household tasks? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal wife: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our love affair with life?
HDIF when you smile?
What was our favorite song when we were courting, and HDIF remembering or hearing it?
HDIF when I picture us walking barefoot together on the beach?
HDIF about my education in music and art?
What would a care package for our marriage look like? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our children dress?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF about increasing our level of sexual intimacy?
HDIF when your parents drop by unexpectedly?
How does my work affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF serving you breakfast in bed?
HDIF when I admit that I am wrong?
What makes it hard to ask for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about teaching Sunday School / CCD / RCIA?
What do I see in you that I admire? HDIFAT?
What sexual baggage am I dealing with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt you?
What are some of the most tranquil times we spend together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do crazy things together?
If I could go back and record any moment from our past so we could watch it from time to time, what would it be and why? How do I feel remembering this? How do I feel about it now?
What love do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
HDIF this week living in the modern world?
What do I enjoy about our relationship right now? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
HDIF when I hear the laughter of children?
HDIF about ethnic jokes in general?
What is our basic way of dealing with marital conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a large number of people over?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the honesty of our dialogue?
How well do I show my love to God? HDIFAT?
What does the Lord's Prayer mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our parish or church involvement?
What is the most difficult situation facing us as a couple right now? HDIFAT?
For what reason am I most likely to tell you 'no' when you want to make love? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when it has been a long time since we made love?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth?
How do I feel when I judge I let you/others down? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you leave love notes around the house?
HDIF about installing dead-bolt locks on our outside doors?
Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we talk about your family of origin?
How would I describe you to a blind person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to my high school reunion?
What keeps me from being more completely honest in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
How am I hard on myself for things I have done in the past? HDIFAT?
How am I hard on myself for things I've done in the past? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I want to postpone our dialogue?
Why do not I trust you with helping me with sex? HDIFAT?
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we do something for another couple?
HDIF when we have to accept God's plan for us?
What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I found out we are pregnant? HDIFAT?
Does our inability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What could we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
What aspect of our lovemaking do I enjoy the most? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am about to make a very major purchase?
HDIF when I receive my partner's personal reflection and dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when, non-verbally, you say yes to lovemaking?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I/you/we handle money?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having breakfast in bed with you?
What is my mask when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
What do I see in your life as life-draining? HDIFAT?
How do I see myself through your eyes today? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about disciplining our children? HDIFAT?
How do I think we can be more involved with each other? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations concerning our love making?Are they being met? HHDIFAMA?"
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF walking around in public with ashes on my forehead?
HDIF when we exchange gifts?
What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear about the sins of priests or ministers in the news?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am?
HDIF about putting more fireworks into our life?
Have I come to the Lord sooner than other people? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from asking questions about something I need to know or should know? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear of a death?
What is the meaning of my birthday to me? HDIFAT?
I have difficulty sharing my feelings about _____. HDTMMF?
What parts of your body are sexually exciting to me? HDIF sharing this with you?
When I am depressed, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? What good things have come from it? HDIFAMA?
Whom do we share our joys with? HDIFAT?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? How do I feel afterwards?
HDIF knowing that today could be my last day on earth?
When you touch me tenderly, without sex as a goal, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Thanksgiving tradition?
If I was about to die and could only tell my people one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What is most appealing to me about being religious? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you respond to my sexual advances?
What barriers or attitudes keep me, or keep us, from being more romantic? HDIFAT?
What are my most important values for our relationship? HDIFAMA?
What do our parents think about our marriage? HDIFAT?
When have I felt the most loved ever? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying Grace at meals?
Sometimes failure makes me want to try harder. HDIFAT?
Is describing my feelings in a letter easy or hard to do? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the sex education program at our children's school?
HDIF when I?m alone?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
What aspect of my priesthood/religious life/etc. do I enjoy the most? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are not dialoguing?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
The greatest gift is love. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we appear as partners, not as individuals only?
Do I constantly redo decisions? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy most about having your arm around me? HDIFAT?
What do I want to do together as a family this summer? HDIFAT?
When we think we can handle it, I would like to try dialoguing on _____. HDIFAT?
If Jesus came back tomorrow, would I be ready? HDIFAT?
HDIF when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me?
HDIF when someone blames me?
Why did we marry each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF at social gatherings when I meet a lot of new faces?
HDIF about Easter?
My ideal lovemaking would be _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
What would I like to accomplish during this time of Lent? HDIFAT?
What do we spend most of our time talking about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hurt or when you?re sick?
What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDIFAT?
Would I like to plan some changes in our life this next year? HDIFAT?
HDIF in a competition?
HDIF toward you when we have to make a decision together?
Where do I look most for approval, inside or outside? HDIFAT?
What would other people say is my worst habit? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I find I lack confidence in dialogue? HDIFAT?
In company, do I initiate conversation or wait to be approached? HDIFAT?
If I died without a chance to see you, what would I wish I could have told you? HDIFAT?
Can I expose my innermost sexuality to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hot-air ballooning?
How do I feel being around a room full of children? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you apologize for me?
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
How can I tell that you?ve had a bad day?
HDIF when friends fail to do a promised favor?
HDIF about smoke detectors in our home?
Life is what happens while we are making other plans.' HDIFAT?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
When do I feel most alone? HDIFAT?
How am I pro-life? HDIFAT?
In think I may have hurt you this month when _____. HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What does the Good Shepherd mean to me? HDIFAT?
Is my love for God strengthened by the time I spend with Him? HDIFAT?
Do I avoid telling my people the truth to avoid offending hem? HDIFAT?
How is our sex life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting over after a reversal or failure?
What is most appealing to me about being married? HDIFAT?
Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that you love me?
How do I handle my jealous feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about when I balance the checkbook?
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I help you balance the checkbook?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply?
What feelings do I have when I think about us being apart for several days? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the commercialism connected with Christmas?
Describe a time when I felt bored. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take you to a movie?
How is our community helped by our involvement in the program? HDIFAT?
What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT?
HDIF realizing my attitudes and judgments have caused you pain?
HDIF about our church's teaching on Natural Family Planning?
Of the memories I formed while experiencing the weekend, which is most pleasant and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we had experienced the weekend, but before we left the facility?
The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing the Lord pursues me when I am astray?
Sometimes I do not take the time to say I love you. HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves?
HDIF when I clean off the ice from my windshield?
I have an interest you may not be aware of. HDIF telling you about it?
Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of me to say _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAT?
Do I come as close as possible to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be our last day to love?
Who has left the biggest mark on my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we end our day together?
HDIF about lovemaking by candlelight?
HDIF when I cannot finish what I had planned for the day?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to be right?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to God? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA(s)?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAT?
What special qualities do I most admire in you? HDIFAT?
How have our past failures helped us to grow? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
HDIF when you make a sacrifice for me?
In general, do I give you more criticism or praise? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there is silence between us?
When someone criticizes me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
When do I let my temper get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
What song reminds me of our relationship right now? HDIFTYT?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about the first car we ever owned?
How would I feel about the idea of having to spend Christmas without you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you are jealous?
HDIF about watching TV?
What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT?
What was my favorite pet? HDIFAT?
Sitting very quietly, HDIF listening to Jesus say my name to me?
HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
HDIF about the crucifixion of Jesus?
In what specific areas of sexuality am I reluctant to open up? HDIFAT?
Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT?
What problems do we have because of differing values? HDIFAT?
How do I see you as a gift? HDIFAT?
Who in my life do I have the most influence on? HDIFAT?
Is there anything that I do that causes me to compromise my beliefs? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the little things in our marriage relationship?
HDIF when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it?
HDIF when I express opinions contrary to yours?
What proof is there in my life that dialogue helps my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about giving our time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple?
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I allow it to affect my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? HDIF Sharing this with you? Sex"
The TV is on. HDIFAT?
How can we avoid non-productive fights? HDIFTYT?
HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it?
How patient am I with the faults of others? HDIFAT?
What environment is best for listening? HDIFAT?
What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not met? HDIFAT?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
What do I do that goes unappreciated? HDIFAT?
In the area of prayer, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe it
Who are our models for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I bring you a pillow?
In the area of possessions what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
What topics do we talk least about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I nag you?
In what way do I try to modify my behavior to please you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving money to people who solicit on the street?
HDIF when we reach out to other people as a couple?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when you say, We'll dialogue after the next TV program?
How would I describe you to Jesus? HDIFAT?
When I think about all those who made our Encounter / Retrouvaille program possible, I feel _____
Do I have any dreams that I can not share with my people? HDIFAMA?
What makes it hard to ask for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
What do I remember most about the way we spent our first anniversary? HDIFAT?
Life is beautiful when I can share it with you. HDIFAT?
HDIF about planting a flower garden?
What power do I hold over you that may be a barrier to our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the fun, or lack of fun, in our relationship?
What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask? HDIFTYT?
It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you listen to me?
If I had tons of money, what would I give you for Christmas? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
What is the one thing in life I have not done that I regret not doing? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our family?
When do I nail down the lid on my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes and dreams for us through our continued dialog? HDIFAT?
What was the last romantic thing I did for you? HDIFAT?
How does our method of birth control affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me?
If we could go anywhere for a romantic weekend, I would take you to _____. HDIFAT?
Do I allow Jesus to be Lord of my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying to save something from every paycheck?
HDIF falling to sleep beside you? Waking up beside you?
In what areas am I most afraid to tell the truth about myself? HDIFAT?
What inhibits me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How can I make sure my gift to you is from my heart? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
The couple that has most helped us to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
What was my biggest challenge in loving you today? HDIFAT?
How would our children describe me as a husband or wife, especially to our grandchildren? HDIFAT?
Can I identify with hurting couples? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not leveling with me?
HDIF when we dump on each other?
Do I compare my relationship with my people to other priest/religious with their people? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about giving my time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
What do I like best about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I invite you to go bike riding with me?
What do I do that annoys my people? HDIFAT?
Someone forgot to wipe the honey jar before putting it away. HDIFAT?
What do I hope for each child? HDIFAT?
What feelings do I experience when I share with you? HDMAMMF?
We should give God the same place in our hearts that He holds in the universe.' -- Anonymous Where is God's place in my heart? HDIFAMA?
What am I searching for in life and how does it affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone in our family?
HDIF when I am unable to stop laughing, especially at an inappropriate time?
HDIF when God allows me to suffer?
HDIF when I have to take risks?
HDIF singing the Pange Lingua on Holy Thursday?
How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT?
When I am among new people, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of prayerfulness that calls other people? HDIFAT?
Is my lifestyle original or conventional? HDIFAT?
HDIF about selecting dialogue questions that appear difficult?
HDIF when someone I do not like loves me?
How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I check on our children as they sleep?
What special moment do I remember? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I accept love as well as give it?
Why did I take my vows/become ordained/take up my ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I sense God's love through you?
HDIF about today?
HDIF about my mother?
How has our non-verbal dialogue improved during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
Are there any hurts between us that need to be healed of before our relationship can continue to grow? HDIFAMA?
How often do we throw a party? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you look at other women / men with obvious interest?
When do I feel close to God? HDIFAT?
How does God's love for us enable us to forgive each other? HDIFAT?
How much anger do I carry in my heart? HDIFAT?
How well suited are we to each other? HDIFAT?
How often do we invite people over? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you accept my emotions / feelings?
Where would I like to go with you on vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let disagreement ride just to keep the peace?
Four things to learn in life: To think clearly without hurry or confusion; To love everybody sincerely; To act in everything with the highest motives; To trust God unhesitatingly.' -Helen Keller HD this quote MMF?
How do I feel when we have to work together on a project? Describe in loving detail.
What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? How do I feel about my answer?
HDIF when I think about the first car I ever owned?
How much do our marriage vows mean to me now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am the center of attention?
Do I close my eyes to my people's faults? HDIFAT?
What do I want to be most remembered for? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people? Describe in loving detail.
What is the greatest joy in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes?
HDIF does just being married mean to me?
HDIF about telling you what enhances or reduces my pleasure during lovemaking?
How do I get re-energized? Is it the same way you do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have been fulfilled (sexually) by you?
HDIF when you are hungry for sex?
What do I like best about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?
In what ways do I believe I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF about criticism? Does it keep me focused and innovative?
When I do the right thing, HDIF about what other people think?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive you?
HDIF when I try to hold in my joy?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
What pain do I keep to myself? HDIFAT?
What person in my family has lived the longest? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not say anything?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
Is my love for my people strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning how to fix a leaky faucet or running toilet?
How do I see our finances affecting our relationship?
HDIF when we sing the Gloria?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? DILD.
I believe I have failed as _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning for a romantic time together?
What areas in our marriage are good? HDIFAT?
How does the image I try to project affect our dialogue? HDIFAT?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in your life, HDIF about your past?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we enjoy each other's sense of humor?
This week, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAMA?
Would others notice any difference in us since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
Do I sometimes write something different than what I feel in order to protect you or myself? HDIFAMA?
What place do priests / ministers have on our journey? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances? HDIFAT?
The song that I think represents our love the best is _____. HDIFAT?
When meeting difficulties, am I more likely to alter them or to alter myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you suggest romantic ideas?
HDIF about the love I bring to our family?
HDIF about having an Encounter / Retrouvaille information night in our home?
HDIF about taking on extra work to advance my career?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
What things do I put first? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I think you deserve private time?
Faith goes up the stairs that love has made, and looks out the window which hope has opened.' -C. H. Spurgeon HDIFA this quote?
What mask do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What goodness do I see in you today? HDIFAT?
What do I think our dialogue did for us as we experienced the weekend? During follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are submissive to each other?
If somebody does not treat me right, am I likely to forget or remember? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year?
HDIF when you encourage me?
HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start?
I am a better person because of... (Think of someone other than your spouse). HDIFAT?
Why do I stay married to you? HDIFAT?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are under pressure?
HDIF when people tell me I look tired or depressed?
Are the activities our child(ren) involved in an ideal for me or a value? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discover there is almost no gas left in the tank?
In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?
What were my emotions / feelings as we experienced the weekend finale on Sunday night? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
In the last 24 hours, when was I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
How do I cope with stress? How should I cope with stress? HDIFAT?
What do I need to talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
In troubled times, do I resort more to tears or to sweat? HDIFAT?
What power do I see in our prayer? HDIFAT?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
WAMF when I think about us 10 years from now? Marriage"
When was the last time we played with our children and just had fun? HDIFAT?
What kind of seed am I? HDIFAT?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting our distant relatives?
HDIF when I awake on Christmas morning?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT?
What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF attending a funeral or wake?
When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT?
What part of my body do I like to have massaged? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it? HDIFAMA?
Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct.' - Thomas Carlyle Do I live out my convictions? Where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have to change a tire?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for belonging? HDIFAT?
When did we go two miles with someone who ordered us to go one? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song?
Your most endearing quality today is _______. HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening?
HDIF when another couple asks, How is your dialogue?
What is my most pleasant memory from our dating days? HDIFAT?
How have I changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the concept, 'Let go and let God'? HDMAMMF?
This is how you have helped me know love, and donate/give myself (to others). HDTMMF?
HDIF when I clean out the car?
HDIF when I hear my favorite love song?
Would God be upset if I made you number 1? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can attend a weekend? Describe in loving detail.
How does our schedule affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying to live a simple and more fulfilling life?
What should we do about religious education for our children this year? HDIFAT?
To what extent do I feel responsible for our children's learning? HDIFAT?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our financial status now?
HDIF about moving from where we are now living?
What hopes do I have for my people's future? HDIFAT?
What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not open to discussing our sexual relationship?
HDIF about escaping to a bookstore and having some fun?
HDIF about the responsibility we have to other married couples?
What pain do I think you keep to yourself? HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help when I find I am in over my head? HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this with you?
How has dialogue made you more important in my life?
How do our children affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
Where do I find peace when things are chaotic? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about my attractiveness or lack of attractiveness?
What emotions / feelings do I have the most trouble expressing? HDIFAT?
What helped me be open to change during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF watching the children open Christmas gifts?
HDIF when you believe me instead of the rumors?
HDIF when I am jealous?
How do I define love? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children?
If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our pastor?
HDIF when you ask me to make love to you?
Are we having a lifestyle of forgiveness and healing? HDMAMMF?
What activities are we involved in that cause friction in the family? HDIFAT?
Thoughts of retirement days bring emotions / feelings of _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me that you need me?
HDIF about doing things nobody else wants to do?
What can we do to foster cooperative interaction in our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something that disrupts my plans?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
How are you like your mother? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you listen to me with your heart?
HDIF when people take up too much of my time?
If I could change my name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about my involvement with work?
What is it like to feel sexual anticipation? HDIFAT?
In the presence of trouble, some grow wings, others will grow crutches. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our local community, or lack thereof?
Is the money mine, ours, or yours? HDIFAT?
HDIF being sprinkled with holy water?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
What is prayer to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave in public?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT?
How does my relationship with my parents affect me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone outside our family?
What are my thoughts when I think of you dying? HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since our dating days? HDIFAT?
HDIF about mid-life changes in a marriage?
What areas of our relationship do I take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
How do I see our finances affecting our relationship? HDIFAT?
Would I rate the level of trust in our relationship closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAMA?
Have any of our dreams come true? HDIFAT?
Who or what is my worst enemy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are late and I have to wait for you?
When I feel distance in our relationship, what is it that challenges me to do something about it? HDIFAT?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I missed you today?
HDIF about the way we are managing our finances?
HDIF when I receive a gift from you?
Recently, I thought it was selfish/thoughtless of me to say to you... HDIF telling you this?
Do I always say what I mean and mean what I say? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the importance of making decisions as a couple?
I am one of God's gifts to you. HDIFAT?
When I think about living without you, HDIF?
What role does dialogue play in our life? HDIFAT?
What parts of your body are sexually exciting to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do something that I think pleases God?
HDIF when I have to do something I really do not want to do?
What is my wildest dream for us? HDIFAT?
If dialogue is so important, why do not we do it more often? HDIFAT?
HDIF commemorating the Last Supper?
Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? Is this a value or an ideal? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I say ours but really mean mine?
What was the last significant healing we had with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my work?
HDIF when I do what I should do instead of what I want to do?
If I could go back in time with you, what period would I like to revisit? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my creative juices are flowing?
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