Dialogue Questions

Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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What comfort do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
If I had one wish, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
HDIF about getting up in the morning?
Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDIFAT?
Under stress, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What would be the hardest thing for me to give up for a week? Why? HDIFAMA?
My favorite time of day is _____. HDIFAT?
When others misjudge me, I feel _____.
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
HDIF when I realize you are only mine for today?
What gets in the way of my enjoyment of positive emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What do I like to do for pleasure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me?
When someone expresses tender emotions to me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about being missionary a for God? Describe in loving detail.
When we do a job together I feel _____.
HDIF when I know we are going to have sex?
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAT?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be and why? HDIFSTWY?
HDIF about the distance I have to travel to get to work?
HDIF when our budget is tight?
HDIF when you are not able to handle the pressures in your life?
Whoever loves is a child of God. HDIFAT?
In what areas of our relationship am I still private because I do not trust you to understand? HDIFAT?
HDIF about encouraging our older children to take a part-time job?
HDIF when I notice our children taking on some of my characteristics?
HDIF being around a room full of children?
HDIF when someone compliments you (but not me) on our family?
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
What makes me feel degraded? HDIFAT?
What is our relationship with other people who share our faith? HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDTMMF?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
How am I life-giving to you? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from my people? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF knowing God used us to bring about a conversion?
I believe I have failed at _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own emotions / feelings, not you?
HDIF when someone I do not know well offers me advice?
HDIF about one of or children becoming a priest or minister?
When God forgives me, why can?t I forgive myself? DYFILD.
When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT?
Am I as close to my people as I used to be? HDIFAMA?
HDIF if one of our children died?
What do I see in you that I admire? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the variety of our lovemaking?
In the presence of trouble, some grow wings, others will grow crutches.' Do I grow wings or crutches? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
How do I still let my mask (personality style) prevent me from making you number one? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you brag on me to your friends?
What conditions do I put on my love for you? HDIF sharing this with you? Love"
You have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
In the area of prayer, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe it
HDIF when we put our children ahead of us?
HDIF when I let give up the reins and let Our Father decide for us?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF when you compliment me?
Is there anything I did this week that I regret? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
HDIF about taking a dream vacation?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDTMMF?"
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAT?
Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
What do I need to do to make myself sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT?
What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
What area is difficult for me to share my emotions / feelings about? HDIFAT?
HDIF about turning off the TV at dinnertime?
What are my priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get behind on my sleep?
What do I want our children to be as an adult? HDIFAT?
How do we support other people in dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about jaywalking? When other people jaywalk?
HDIF when someone mentions my job title?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
How do I usually feel when I do not want to dialogue?
HDIF about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an overflowing church on Easter Sunday?
HDIF when we cannot afford a night out together?
HDIF about criticism? Does it keep me focused and innovative?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in my life, HDIF about my past?
Why do I want snow at Christmas? HDIFAT?
What do I want most to achieve for us? When? How? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you up just to say Hi?
How do I feel when I see others struggling? Describe in loving detail.
What gifts or talents am I embarrassed to share? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
My most favorite part of your body is _____. HDIFAT?
There really IS a New World somewhere! HDIFAT?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with my people, or have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about discussing our sexual relationship?
The one area which needs the most work in our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
We have had no time for recreation. HDIFAT?
HDIF about playing bingo for money?
Do I consider myself gullible or skeptical? HDIFAT?
What environment is best for listening? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing the things that you enjoy?
You are worth more than you are paid. HDIFAT?
HDIF when discussing our sex life?
How do I feel about the way my priesthood/etc. influences other people? DILD.
What do I expect from you? HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we cannot handle. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children needing Encounter / Retrouvaille someday?
Will we eat meat on Fridays this Lent? HDIFAT?
If I could change one thing, and only one thing, about the world, what would it be? HDIFAMA?
Can I read maps? HDIFAT?
What year of my life would I like to relive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty telling you. HDIFAT?
How well do I accept responsibility when it is put upon me? HDIFAT?
Why have we not kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you forgive me?
Would what I do be missed if I was not here to do it? HDIFAT?
What gifts has God given to me and how have I used them? HDIFAT?
I need to know how you really feel about _____. HDIFAT?
What are the best and most beautiful things in our lives? HDIFAT?
We are not Sacrament without passion. HDIFAT?
What was the worst day of my life? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDIFAT?
I see myself as I was at 10 years old. What do I see? HDIFAT?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time we spend with my family?
HDIF about watching TV in our bedroom?
What topic would I most like to see discussed on Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when asking a friend for a favor?
HDIF about involving our children in a Thanksgiving tradition?
What are my views about mid-life marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are sick at an inconvenient time?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
What needs to change for me to give an unqualified yes to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave?
HDIF when we receive the Eucharist together?
HDIF when work keeps us apart?
HDIF when I judge (rather than accept) your emotions / feelings?
My greatest goal in life has been _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when our family goes to mass or church together?
HDIF when I have written my dialogue letter but you have not?
HDIF about sending secret gifts and notes to another couple?
How was Easter special for us this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you really listen to me?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What re-evaluation of the way I am living do I need to make right now for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
Why did I choose you to be my lifetime partner? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
HDIF about shopping for furniture?
HDIF about the way you handle our children when they misbehave?
HDIF about having an egg hunt for the kids?
In what areas of our relationship do we most need to grow? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children reject our values?
HDIF when you serve me breakfast in bed?
HDIF about sleeping in a tent with you, outdoors?
HDIF when I bend the truth?
HDIF when I give you the silent treatment?
HDIF about family planning?
Where or when did I last know real happiness? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest joy in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about receiving the Eucharist with you?
HDIF after we have had a long laugh together? Does laughter help heal?
What are my hopes for this Lenten season? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with my people better? HDIFAT?
How can we make this Advent a spiritual preparation for Christmas? HDIFAT?
What do I think is my most serious fault? HDIFAT?
What were my emotions / feelings on Friday night as we began to experience the weekend? HDIFAT?
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate our sex life a... How could it improve? HDIFA sharing this with you?
How do I feel about my/our local community, or lack there of? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I find myself talking too much? When other people talk too much?
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
HDIF when I try to do too many things at once?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
How do we usually handle conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
What is our special character as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs?
How do I handle conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling our children I love them at least once a day?
What are the most difficult things for me when I write you a dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
HDIF when things go wrong at home?
HDIF when you get sick during the holidays?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth?
How do I feel when someone is making fun of me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about receiving Christmas cards?
In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIF sharing this with you?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What kind of an example am I when I fail? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving money?
What would it take for me to really commit myself to this marriage? HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT?
When am I not listening to you? HDIFAT?
How do I avoid fighting? HDIFAT?
HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with God?
What is your best quality? HDIFAT?
I know we are going to make love tonight. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our prayer life?
What do I like least about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you suffer?
HDIF when I need to relax but do not?
What do I like best about us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How can I give more of myself this Christmas season? HDIFAT?
What is the last good deed I did? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fail at something?
HDIF about John 17:21, so that the world may believe?
How have our children been affecting our relationship lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the values our children are choosing?
HDIF when we spend an afternoon looking at scrapbooks?
What mask do I wear in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the honesty of our dialogue?
Is there one thing you could begin doing, or stop doing, that would help our relationship? HDIFAT?
Today, I am most thankful for _____. HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt disappointed. HDIFAT?
What changes do I need to make Faith a value? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I accomplish something I?m proud of?
HDIF being responsible for my own needs?
What is my present attitude toward writing a dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
What unresolved problems do I see in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
When I part with my people, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT?
What is my most compulsive habit? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our son being a priest / pastor?
Our courtship can continue in some form for all our married lives. HDIFAT?
Are we as close today as we used to be? HDIFAMA?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
What area of my communication with my people do I think I need to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your reaction toward sex?
HDIF about we are the church?
What goodness do I see in you today? HDIFAT?
What is complicating my life? HDIFAT?
My strongest emotion / feeling about you today was _____.
Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF being around people who show no flexibility?
What do I want from this relationship right now? DYFID
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with God? HDIFAT?
In groups, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
There is sibling rivalry in our home. HDIFAT?
What Dialogue has meant the most to me? HDIF telling you this?
What do my people do that tells me thye forgive me? How do I feel afterwards?
HDIF about our parish or church involvement?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
What are the major remaining problems in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children compliment me?
What do I think is our song? HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this with you?
God expects us to be our brothers' keeper. HDIFAT?
What kind of things frustrate me? HDIF when it happens?
What limits my ability to love you? HDIFAT?
In an average week, what activities work against our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people with bad manners?
HDIF about trying to write a little poem for you?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT?
The couple that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
How close do I come to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
What would I like to be appreciated for? HDIFAT?
Does our parents' style of marriage have an effect on us? HDIFAT?
Does my attitude toward sex lock some doors in our relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF about sending a card to you in the mail?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDMAMMF?
HDIF using the gifts of the Holy Spirit?
What compliments have I received lately that I did not fully accept? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have no private time together?
How well do I avoid temptation in my life? HDIFAT?
I try NOT to be seen as _____ (weak, dumb, frivolous, impractical). HDIFAT?
My life is a prayer. HDIFAT?
What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
What memories of Easter do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you crying? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I see you sleeping?
You are the sunshine of my life. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when one of my people tells me, 'We'll see,' and I think they really mean, 'No'? DILD.
HDIF about the words, Do not ask?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our romance? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive an enemy?
The Lord is coming. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I handle money?
How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT?
What talent of mine should I be using more, and how? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it?
Why did I take my vows/become ordained/take up my ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your openness to me in our lovemaking?
What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
If possible, I would like to reclaim these things I gave up for you: _____. HDIFAT?
What was my biggest challenge in loving you today? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT?
One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT?
Am I more like my mother or my father? HDIFAT?
What makes it hard to live according to our own values? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put my arm around you?
What is my favorite love song? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a decision but someone has a different idea?
HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our current financial situation?
What music do I like to listen to when we make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT?
What does this holiday mean to me? HDIFAT?
What is getting in the way of my listening to you today? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
What I want you to remember most about me is _____. HDIFAT?
The house is a mess. HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAT?
What I love most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT?
What dreams do I have for this year? Are they realistic? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I had scheduled time with my family, but need to be with my people instead?
How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I want most for our family this Christmas? HDIFAT?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIFAT?
What barriers or attitudes keep me from sharing with you my unmet needs? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my own spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
When I am more romantic than you, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How do I live out the passion for our relationship? HDIFAT?
What quality do I look for in others that helps me believe I can trust them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I hear as I have loved you?
HDIF about your attitudes about sex?
Our calendar is filled. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am experiencing disillusionment about us? HDIFAT?
When I have done everything I can, am I satisfied to wait on the outcome? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making better preparations for my eventual death?
HDIF when you have to make a sacrifice for us?
When was the last time I asked you for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
Can I see God in myself? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help me understand God better? HDIFAT?
What quality does Mary or Joseph have as a parent that I would like? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you help me identify my emotions / feelings?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
How has our life changed this past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I do not know?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
How well have I been listening to you lately? HDIFAT?
How can we do something as a family toward world peace? HDIFAT?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we work on the family budget together?
What was our closest moment as a family this month? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about Holiday bustle? Describe in loving detail."
HDIF about you as my best friend?
HDIF when you say yes to _____?
What is the reason that I keep from forgiving myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive my partner's personal reflection and dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing on Scripture?
HDIF about hugging our friends in public?
How has dialogue changed my life? HDIFAT?
What is the possession I have that I like best? HDIFAT?
How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAMA?
If I could design my own children's TV show, what would it be like? HDIFAT?
What changes should I, or should we, make to keep from being disillusioned? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing an ice cream cone?
HDIF when you surprise me with flowers?
HDIF when I hold onto you in the labor room?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding our sexual relationship?
What do I think about when I cannot fall asleep? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite childhood memory? Why? HDIFAT?
How critical am I to my workplace? HDIFAT?
What can I do for you to help you cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
Our Lord calls us to love each other unconditionally. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone puts me down in front of others?
HDIF about facing the bills when there are too many?
HDIF when you run your fingers through my hair?
HDIF when I am on a diet?
What are my expectations concerning our lovemaking? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life at my current parish?
What have I given up for my calling that has helped me grow as a person? HDIF about this?
How do we show our respect for each other in front of others? HDIFAMA?
How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think we are not as romantic as other people?
HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship?
What Christ/God-like qualities do I see in my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about Lent?
What dreams do I have for our next year? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going on living with you?
In the last 24 hours, when was I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
In lovemaking you are a gift of God to me. HDIFAT?
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of mine in one of our children?
What is my most recent happy memory of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hold my hand in public?
In troubled times, do I resort more to tears or to sweat? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about having a baby during our middle years?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
HDIF when I clean out the car?
How does our relationship with God affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person people think I am?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFTYT?
When we first met, what made me want to see you again? HDIFA this now?
Only _____ days until Christmas. Is my heart ready? HDIFAT?
Where do we need to go in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What jobs would I most like to accomplish this weekend? HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to God better? HDIFAT?
Do I ever change what I write or say to avoid conflict or argument? Why? HDIFAMA?
Why have we been dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home right now?
How important is physical affection to me? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about the idea of having to spend Christmas without you? Describe in loving detail.
What was my greatest fear as a new bride / groom? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me to describe my emotion / feeling?
What type of people do I like to socialize with? HDIFAT?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
Is passion an important aspect of our relationship?
How do I fare when I try to put myself in someone else's shoes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT?
Considering what I ask of myself and what I ask of others: Is this a double standard? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for the Church? HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDIF when this is the only comfort I can offer someone?
How often do we need to see before we believe? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the expectations my family has for us?
HDIF about my promotion potential?
HDIF when I surprise you with flowers?
HDIF about someone who has died in our family?
What kind of a sign do I think we have been to others this week? HDIFAT?
When I know I am wanted, I feel _____.
HDIF when I (wife) / you (husband) do not wear make-up?
HDIF about our pastor?
In times of trouble, where do I go first for help and comfort: to you, to friends, or to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging other people?
What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAMA?
How have we accepted Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?
What aspect of my priesthood/religious life/etc. do I enjoy the most? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about springtime bursting forth all around us?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together as a family?
You are the light of the world. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? DILD.
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT?
The car needs major repairs. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spiders and bugs?
When was the last time I praised you? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself attractive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are lost?
If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go, and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making romance a priority in our relationship?
HDIF about sending a poor child to summer camp?
HDIF when I care about the same things you are happy about?
In the area of God and our faith, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What advice would I give a young bride or groom? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest hurt in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we must borrow money?
What was the most important discovery I made about you as we experienced the weekend or after? HDIFAT?
How could we improve our couple prayer each day? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAMA?
What is my biggest defect in listening to you? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of our children would want to become a minister? HDIFAT?
How computer literate am I? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we read our letters and then cannot think of much to say?
If I could change one attribute of my personality, what would it be? HDIFAT?
Do we still court each other? HDIFAT?
What is the thing I find most difficult to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
What is our couple image? HDIFAT?
What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT?
Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us?
HDIF when people are not as loyal to me as I am to them?
If I am not junk, then what am I? HDIFAT?
What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept your loving me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue reflections are similar?
How do I handle my jealous emotions / feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you bring up past hurts?
HDIF trying to deal with people who are disorganized and irresponsible?
What, if anything, causes unnecessary stress and complication in my/our life? HDIFAMA?
God is kind and merciful, slow to get angry, and full of love.' -- Psalms 145:8. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAMA?
What need of mine is not being met? HDIFAT?
How patient am I with myself? HDIFAT?
Do I believe I am taking everything too personally? HDIFAT?
How can I tell that God loves us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not trust you with my emotions / feelings?
My top priorities in life are... HDIFAMA?
Am I more likely to put a decision off to the last minute, or make a decision immediately? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I let you down?
HDIF when someone says, I know just how you feel?
How does my mask (personality style) make me a married single? HDIFAT?
What was my favorite nursery rhyme? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making you feel good about yourself?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
During an average week, what activities enhance our relationship?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
HDIF when I do not do what I say I will do?
HDIF when I find a love note packed in my sandwich?
HDIF when we take a drive together to see the beautiful fall foliage?
What changes do I have to do to make you number one? HDIFAT?
Where is our relationship headed? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about being in our C.O.R.E. or Sharing group? Describe in loving detail.
What kind of listener was I before our Retrouvaille weekend? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I am relaxing and you are working?
How does our support group enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT?
What do I think about our sacrament of Matrimony? HDIFAT?
HDIF about depending on you (rather than on things) for my happiness?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see you cry?
HDIF just before mass or church? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about relaxing with you near a lake, river or seashore?
HDIF about your having to work overtime?
Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAMA?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about experimenting in our sexual relationship?
Life is not fair. HDIFAT?
In what areas are we equal partners in decision making? HDIFAT?
How do I define living? HDIFAT?
When I withdraw into my shell, HDIF?
HDIF about giving and receiving the sign of peace?
What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself? HDIFAT?
What have I learned from looking backwards that can enrich my future relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
How has my love for my people changed since my taking vows/ordination, or weekend? HDIFAMA?
What are my thoughts when we pray together? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT?
How does our budget affect our intimacy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you heal me?
HDIF about our marriage as a sign of love to others?
HDIF when I think you are looking forward to our dialogue?
What of my emotions / feelings is most likely to lead to an expression of anger? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we use our money?
What are ten qualities I want most in a partner? How do I measure up? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is the side of me that I least like you to see? Describe it. HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF when I am rushed into making an important decision?
HDIF being with people who keep their enthusiasm under control?
For the sake of our relationship, what do I most need to do this weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you?
HDIF about God sending His son to be a human presence in the world?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for help, you or God? HDIFAMA?
How do other people experience our lack of sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about riding in the car with you?
If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to be right?
How can we create the atmosphere for intimacy in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let other people talk me out of pursuing a great idea?
Is there anything that is barrier in our communication with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about religious statues?
HDIF when I stand at attention during the national anthem?
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with my people, do I sometimes treat them with less respect than they deserve? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings knowing that somewhere, there is another weekend going on right now? How do I feel sharing this with you?
What was the most meaningful experience that I had today? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my strengths? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not stand up for me?
What could you do to increase my sexual anticipation? HDIFAT?
What puts me in the mood? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharng this with you?
HDIF when I am telling you about my failures?
HDIF about your hurried schedule?
Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT?
Sometimes failure makes me want to try harder. HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a test to predict Alzheimer's disease?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAMA?
What kind of Christmas present did I give you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about listening to rumors?
What do I hope to accomplish this summer? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus Lord of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our family spends money?
HDIF just before we make love? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment? Describe in loving detail.
What does intimacy mean to me? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for our involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIF sharing this with you?
In the area of use of time what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
In the last week, in what way have I been most supported by you? HDTMMF?
How do I feel when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the scandals in the church?
How do I feel about my sacrament as a sign of love to others? HDIFAMA?
God hears and sees all I do. HDIFAT?
What am I doing to bring joy to our relationship? HDIFAT?
Can I sail a sailboat? HDIFAT?
Is passion an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF taking time to get to know myself better?
What would I do differently in my life if I had the chance? HDIFAT?
Where do I trust others more than I trust you? HDIFAT?
Is there something I dislike about myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I stay within my limits, undertaking only as much as I can handle?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?
What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children reflect our good qualities?
What do I need to change in myself to become who I need to be? HDIFAT?
What would I give you an Oscar for? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying while I am driving or waiting in line?
If I could bring faith and God to one person, who would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about discussing our goals and values with you?
How would I feel if our TV were to break? HDIFAT?
How am I like the weather? HDIFAT?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite name for God? HDIFAT?
How do I get my jollies? HDIFAT?
I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT?
When I have to do things according to a fixed schedule, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when asked to keep a secret?
When I look at you today, do I see you as my bride / groom? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from being as open in real life as I am in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
What does the season of Lent mean to me?
In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?
Is our love strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
What is the chaff I need to separate from the wheat in my life? HDIFAT?
How do I try to control you? HDIFAT?
In what area do I trust you the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust you, just the least) HDIFAMA?
Has our relationship grown since last Valentine's Day? HDIFAT?
HDIF about shopping in general?
What do I put before God in my life? HDIFAT?
What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? Am I spending my time on what I vaule the most? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I judge you did not listen to me? HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
In social situations, do I worry about saying something stupid or uninformed? HDIFAT?
What are the activities we have planned that I want most to do this Christmas? HDIFAT?
How can we put more romance in our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I secretly do something good for someone?
Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT?
What part do I play in our sexual communication! WAFAT?
What do I think you most need from me tomorrow? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment makes me feel good? HDIFAT?
What causes me to criticize you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make love?
How does my poor self-image affect our couple prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about letting someone outside our family borrow our car?
HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people?
You are my sweetheart because _____. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not met? HDIFAT?
What do I need to do to improve my appearance? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you swear at me or engage in name-calling?
What attitude do I want to change in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
Was there a turning point in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you talk to others about our fights?
Listening is most difficult for me when... How do I feel about this?
What are my thoughts when I hear, ?God does not make junk??
How do I see God reflected through my people? HDIFAMA?
How do I usually deal with conflict in my relationships? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave civilization for natural surroundings?
HDIF when we get a call that our child is sick?
How do I act when my need for autonomy, self-worth, love, or belonging (agree on one) is not being met? HDIFAMA?
I am being pressured to do something I do not want to do. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear couples talking about their sexual relationship?
HDIF about going on a weekly date?
Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT?
Do I ague with you to win, or do I argue to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What are the sources of my pain or frustration? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spring cleaning?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
I enjoy hearing you talk about... HDIF sharing this with you?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to my people? HDIFAT?
How do we show our love for each other? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if we won the Lottery? HDMAMMF?
Is it important to be at the Easter Vigil to welcome new members into our church? HDIFAT?
What values of mine differ from my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend together doing things I enjoy?
HDIF in my bathing suit?
What mask do I wear in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children talk back to me?
HDIF when we get together with family?
HDIF when you apologize to me?
HDIF when I am the center of attention?
To keep our marriage fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
What area of our communication do I think I/we need to improve? HDIFAT?
How aware of you sexually have I been the last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you show off?
What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAMA?
What makes me feel holy? HDIFAT?
After a fight, is it easy or hard for me to ask for forgiveness? Why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am separated from my people?
HDIF about waking up beside you?
HDIF about planning a holiday with you?
HDIF when you listen to me?
How do I respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I react rather than respond to you?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAMA?
When I am hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____ . HDIFAT?
When was the last time I complimented you? HDIFAMA?
What would be my idea of a good family outing?
What do I want our priorities as a couple to be? HDIFAT?
Do I try to control you sometimes? When? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about picking up after our children?
HDIF when I think you have judged or rejected my emotions / feelings?
What mask (personality style) am I wearing today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we spend an evening alone together?
Thank God it is Friday. HDIFAT?
At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in my life? HDIFAMA?
How important is the Eucharist to me? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT?
What is my happiest memory of the past year? HDIFAT?
When we are alone, we usually talk about _____. HDIFAT?
If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home?
Where do I feel superior to you? HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAMA?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
HDIF about getting other people?s advice for solving our problems?
HDIF about renewing myself during Lent?
What gift of myself could I give to everyone this Christmas? HDIFAT?
How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
What would my profession be if money were no object? HDIFAT?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
Do I accept the burdens God has given me, or do I try to overcome in spite of them? HDIFAMA?
How are we behaving like married singles? HDIFAT?
What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the weather?
Is our dinner hour a pleasant time? HDIFAT?
How am I living God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship mean to me? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
What bad habit(s) would I like to give up? HDIFAT?
Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT?
I like to look at you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about myself when I am with you?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, am I experiencing you differently? HDIFAT?
If dialogue is so important, why do not we do it more often? HDIFAT?
Do I have any dreams that I can not share with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about having children in daycare?
How have I experienced forgiveness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a tourist?
How do I feel about my physical appearance? Describe in loving detail.
In what aspect of our relationship do I think we have grown the most? HDIFAT?
How can I make it easier for you to say, Forgive me? HDIFAT?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDTMMF?
When I am open to you, am I also open to God? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I hear of a new birth?
When was the last time we mentioned Encounter / Retrouvaille to a couple? HDIFAT?
How long would I like to live? HDIFAT?
How many hours do I watch TV in a typical day? In a typical week? HDIFAT?
What will we be doing when we are 80? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest change our family or friends have seen in us since we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
Do we have a role to fulfill in other couples' relationships? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when exhaustion keeps us from being lovers?
Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities this week? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
How can I be more gentle with myself? HDIFAT?
What expectation(s) of mine was not met this last week? HDIFAMA?
What gives me goose bumps? HDIFAT?
Who are some couples that I see Christ's love in? HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying to love you the way God loves us? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I get an answering machine instead of a live person?
HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me?
What quality of yours do I experience when I am away from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need you?
How do I behave when I am asked to do something I do not want to do? HDIFAT?
What was my most exciting emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
How do I handle my jealous feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDMAMMF?
What helps me learn the most about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF remembering a time when I was in trouble as a child?
HDIF when someone reaches out to us?
How do I respond to working under pressure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we share deeply with those around us?
HDIF when a friend helps me?
HDIF about roadside litter?
Is your body yours or mine? HDIFAT?
HDIF conversing one-on-one versus conversing in a small group?
I am most likely to criticize you about... HDIFAMA?
HDIF sharing our dialogue with other people?
In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
I see you as someone very special because _____. HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF?
What is the most sentimental possession I have? HDIFAT?
Recently I succeeded at _____. HDIFAT?
In what areas do I trust you more? HDIFAT?
Can I be romantic when I do not FEEL romantic? HDIFAT?
When I feel sad, angry, frustrated, etc. (pick one, or one of your own) what is the best thing you can do for me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our financial future?
HDIF about the last time we snuggled together?
What is my biggest block that keeps me from being sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do?
HDIF when someone succeeds in fooling me on April Fool's Day?
What little annoyance(s) have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
Lately, how much have we talked together about sex? HDIFAT?
You cannot compromise another person?s right to be an individual. HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying Grace at meals?
What is my most favorite holiday? HDIFAT?
What specific event in my past has most affected my sexuality? HDIFAT?
How much caffeine do I drink in a normal day? HDIFAT?
Knowing what I know now, would I still choose you as a partner? HDIFAT?
How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my relationship with our children?
How did I show you today that you are my favorite person? HDIFAT?
Do I accept compliments easily? HDIFAT?
What am I most thankful for on this holiday? HDIFAT?
How do we support the marriages of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our differences?
What do I like about being alone? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planting flowers in the spring?
HDIF about trimming the Christmas tree?
HDIF when I let you know what I am really afraid of?
HDIF when we disagree with each other? HDIFAT?
I most need you to love me when... HDIFAT?
What prevents me from asking questions about something I need to know or should know? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling others about Encounter / Retrouvaille?
How can I delight in my spouse's goodness without trying to possess him/her? HDMAMMF?
When I reflect on what a gift you are to me, I feel... HDTMMF?
In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? How do I think that has make you feel?
What are my longings and yearnings for us and our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I show my love for you? HDMAMMF?
What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are awakened at night by a crying child?
How do I feel about our current level of involvement with our families? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF after yelling at our children?
HDIF when you say, I can never understand you?
How will we celebrate Thanksgiving? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you touch me in that certain place?
Is our diet life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF walking hand in hand with you in the new-fallen snow?
HDIF recalling my first confession?
What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT?
HDIF laughing with you?
When was the last time we had an ice cream social type of evening together? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about winning? Do I brag about it?
How are we responding to our Lord's call to unconditional love in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about sex in general? HDIFAT?
When do we take down the Christmas decorations? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I saw myself as a failure? HDIFAT?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected?
How do I feel about the time we spend together and the quality of it? What would I like to change if I could? HDMAMMF?
How much do our marriage vows mean to me now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple says no, they do not want or need to experience the weekend?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? What are my feelings about my answer?
What is prayer to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about increased sexual intimacy?
What is my favorite form of recreation? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I laughed? HDIFAT?
I love you because _____. HDIFAT?
What part of my body do I judge to be sexually exciting to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning a new dance step with you?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
In what areas do I trust you less? HDIFAT?
When do I feel the most romantic? What are my feelings at those times? HDIF sharing this with you?
One of my heroes is _____. HDIFAT?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
What in my life is life-draining? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me to make love to you?
HDIF when I see pressure getting to you?
HDIF about missing work?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
HDIF about my first name or nickname?
What is my fondest memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are apart for several days?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAMA???
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
Lately I have felt distant from you when _____. HDIFAT?
What are my expectations concerning our love making?Are they being met? HHDIFAMA?"
Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am blamed for something that is not my fault?
How do I feel about the amount of time I spend preparing for mass/service/etc. Describe in loving detail.
What am I disillusioned about right now? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need to be loved is not being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not getting through to you?
More people would learn from their mistakes if they were not so busy denying them. HDIFAT?
How would I feel getting involved in the Habitat for Humanity project? HDIFAT?
What do I want for you this weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am placed in charge of a group?
The person, place, or thing I miss the most is... HDIFAT?
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you laugh at my jokes?
What am I most thankful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am proud to be with you?
Do my words touch my people, or role off them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are inspired by another couple?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us being needed by others?
HDIF when I have to push others to get the job done right?
What do I think are your plans for this new year? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I feel strong? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I think I might have, but I am afraid to try or rely on? HDIFAMA?
What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself?
HDIF about keeping secrets?
In what area(s) do I compete against you? HDIF telling you this?
How do I feel when I have to take a risk with someone other than you? DILD.
HDIF when you avoid a conflict between us?
HDIF when I realize you are not coping effectively with stress?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone takes up too much of my time?
Can I see God in you? HDIFAT?
Do I accept your praise? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
What are the things that bring me closer to God? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about you? HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for us as a dialoguing couple? HDIFAT?
Where have I experienced the greatest change in attitude? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt threatened.
How do I feel about the way I spend my spare time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you become violently angry with me?
I am romantic and you are not. HDIFAT?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness?
HDIF about the way our children dress?
How have I changed recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are sick?
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
What positive actions will I take to change a pressure into a blessing? HDIFAMA?
You are my sounding board. HDIFAT?
In what way has our dialogue made us grow in the last week? HDIFAT?
What sacrifices am I willing to make to be more romantic with you? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
Eucharist is a family reunion. HDIFAT?
What special qualities as a couple do we bring to other people? HDIFAT?
Can I, or can you, give me what I want from this relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my spirituality?
HDIF when I see you working too many hours?
What charism (strength) do I have from the Spirit that helps the world believe? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
What I need most to offer you to most tonight is... HDMAMMF?
How have I changed in ways that you are unaware of? HDIFAT?
How can we make God more present in our dialogue? HDIFAMA?
Does Romance Sex? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our dialogue? HDIFAT?
How would I feel after a thirty-minute brisk walk? HDIFAT?
How do I face the world each morning? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going shopping with you?
HDIF when you do not say you are sorry or ask forgiveness?
What would be a good family vacation? HDIFAT?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you come home unexpectedly?
How do I respond to others when I am away from my people? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make sexual advances toward you?
Our decisions usually revolve around _____. HDIFAT?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to you? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the coming of spring (or other season)?
HDIF when summer is approaching?
What did I first long for immediately after we were married? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are annoyed with me?
What fear have I not shared with you lately? HDIFAT?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend?
HDIF when our children praise me?
When I am angry, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
How do I like to have fun? HDIFAT?
HDIF about holding hands in public?
HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone in our family?
HDIF when you are passionate?
What defense mechanisms do I use when I fail to please you? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I do at recognizing and trying to nourish my needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAMA?
Share a memory from your past that you cherish. HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of healing that calls other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there is no time in the day for us?
What am I most disappointed with in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you reminding me to do things?
HDIF when I keep a promise I made to you?
What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT?
What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDUFAMA?
What changes would I resist in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planting a flower garden?
How does my relationship with you compare to my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
How well do I forgive me people when they ask for it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going on a monthly date?
HDIF ending my day lying in bed next to you?
HDIF when I tell you how important you are to me?
Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing you laugh?
HDIF about giving to an Angel Tree or other project for needy people?
What friends help us see our goodness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put a child in time-out?
HDIF when we attend a wedding ceremony together?
HDIF when I listen to you with my heart?
Does the level or tone of your voice affect me? HDIFAT?
What grudges do I hold? HDIFAT?
Do I spend enough time with relatives? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our vacation?
What areas do I most like to dialogue on? HDIFAT?
Does TV have a negative or positive effect on my life? HDIFAT?
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