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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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HDIF about taking food to a shut-in?
HDIF when we are awakened at night by a crying child?
What are my feelings when I receive my partner's personal reflection and dialogue? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we laugh during lovemaking?
It is a well-known fact that a child identifies his parents with God, whether or not the adults want that role.' -The Strong-Willed Child, p 171. What are my feelings on this passage? How do I feel being God to our children? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF saying yes to lovemaking but only for the good of our relationship?
Do I appreciate you enough? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we appear as partners and not as individuals?
HDIF about our experiences in the church?
HDIF being sprinkled with holy water?
HDIF when I consider how the household chores are divided up?
HDIF when I realize and accept Jesus' closeness in our daily lives?
How did experiencing the weekend begin to meet my need to love and be loved? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family prayer?
Lately, have I accepted your emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning a winter holiday with you?
HDIF when our children please you?
How is God's love being reflected to other people through our love? HDIFAT?
How important is flexibility to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I / we are in a hurry to leave, and _____ stops by?
Do I believe that love takes time? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for love is not met? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the books I bought but never read?
How do the attitudes and behaviors of others affect our relationship? HDIFAMA?
Who is or was my best friend and why? HDIFAT?
What words did I use today that may have caused others hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you the benefit of the doubt?
Is there enough laughter and relaxation in our relationship? HDIFAT?
In our inter-faith marriage, do we celebrate aspects of both faiths in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Happiness does not depend on what we have, but on what we are. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am wrong? HDIFAT?
How did you get into to your life's work? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not there when I need you?
How was your love life-giving to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting the year off with a budget we have agreed on?
Does our ability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I watch romantic movies?
What do I like least about myself in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me I am sexy?
In what specific ways do I see us responding to God's call to Unity? HDIFAT?
Do I consider your feelings when making decisions that affect you? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I see you crying? Describe in loving detail.
Do I look for self-worth in possessions or activities? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we pray together before we dialogue?
HDIF when you reach over to cuddle with me when we first wake up?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
Here is my description of the ideal husband: _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I communicate with God? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I have to do most of the work for a ministry project? Describe in loving detail.
One thing I have always wanted to learn is _____. HDIFAT?
What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be romanced by you? HDIFAT?
What do I think is our song? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
We tend to compete against each other in _______ . HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment?
HDIF when we make time for us?
How do I behave when I believe in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
What do I think about our spiritual growth as a couple? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when faced with change? HDIFAT?
If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDMAMMF?
What have I given up for our relationship that has held me back in my development as a person? HDIF about this?
What are my feelings about keeping the Dream alive?
What was your strongest feeling today?HDIFAT?"
HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly?
HDIF about the ways I try to show you that you are special?
My favorite memory of us as a couple this year is _____. HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me from sharing with my people my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I work late?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on our children? HDIFAT?
Does our home reflect our values? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we take down Christmas decorations?
HDIF when I am the avoider and you are the seeker?
How do I see you as a gift? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the blessings and gifts God has given me? Describe in loving detail.
When am I most likely to ignore my people? HDIFAT?
Can I put you before myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to use a pistol or rifle?
How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about secrets in a marriage?
How did my family handle the subject of death or death itself? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I called my special friends just to tell them I love them? HDIFAT?
What is one of my treasured values in life? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when I hear our favorite song?
HDIF about praying aloud?
Persons with strong values will eventually have strong conflicts. HDIFAT?
What is my favorite city, and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am unable to stop laughing, especially at an inappropriate time?
What do I find difficult to tell you? HDIFAT?
I am most confident when... HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I sometimes provoke fights even if I don't start them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone does a better job at work than I do?
What kind of compliment makes me feel good? HDIFAT?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT?
Is our love for each other unselfish? HDIFAT?
Why do (did) I choose to be baptized? HDIFAT?
HDIF about getting in shape?
HDIF when we walk the dog together?
How do I respond to my failures? HDIFAT?
What area is difficult for me to share my emotions / feelings about? HDIFAT?
HDIF about flossing my teeth?
What are my thoughts when we pray together? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the blessings and gifts God has given us?
What have I learned from looking backwards at our history that can enrich our future relationship? HDIFAT?
What obstacles do I allow to inhibit me from speaking freely? HDIFAT?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch funny movies?
Would I treat God as I treated you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
I would like to go back to _____ one more time, with you. HDIFAT?
How could I make saying grace more meaningful? HDIFAT?
HDIF about following a schedule and making to-do lists?
How do I feel when I would like to say no, but don't think I can? Describe in loving detail.
In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
How well do I communicate with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not included in other people's activities?
How would I react if someone said I was consistently reasonable? HDIFAT?
When was a time we received support during our difficult times? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the importance of our relationship to our church?
When I mean thank you, I say or do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we put our children ahead of us?
My prayers are answered in God's time, not my time. HDIFAT?
What do I think is fun for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my expectations in our sexual relationship?
HDIF when I tell you that I really believe in you?
In what areas/ways do I think I am taken for granted for? HDIF about telling you this?
HDIF when I get up at night when the baby cries?
How can we avoid non-productive fights? HDIFTYT?
HDIF on those occasions when my family makes demands on us?
HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing?
Who was the worst houseguest we have ever had? HDIFAT?
Do I think I release my anger and frustration appropriately? HDIFAMA?
What has been the effect of your job or career on our relationship? HDIFAT?
Will I choose burial or cremation at death? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have a list of phone calls to make?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
HDIF about stopping for pedestrians in crosswalks?
HDIF when you say yes to lovemaking?
What non-verbal expression, gesture or behavior helps me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I try to change myself to please you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about learning to play a new sport?
How well do I show my love to my people? HDIFAT?
What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
How do your insecurities affect me? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about planting a vegetable garden?
Am I satisfied with our relationship? If so, should I be? If not, why? HDIFAMA?
How well do I do trusting God to answer my needs? Describe in loving detail.
In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when someone thanks me?
When I am sad, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear losing is _____. HDIFAT?
What compliment do I most like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when spring is approaching?
In what area do I trust my people the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust my people, just the least) HDIFAMA?"
What financial needs do I see coming between us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about writing about my emotions / feelings?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
Do I consider myself a good dancer? HDIFAT?
How does our individuality strengthen us as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
How do I behave when I crave to be appreciated? HDIFAT?
How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize that I am not who you thought me to be? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about my habits hurting our relationship?
HDIF about you as a provider?
In the area of prayer what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? DILD.
How many diets have I tried? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for Valentine's Day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people try to flatter me?
HDIF recalling my confirmation?
HDIF about the team couples whose presentations helped us experience the weekend and follow-up sessions?
HDIF when I know you are proud of me?
HDIF about the coming New Year?
What do I most want for Christmas this year? HDIFAT?
What do I want out of life? HDIFAT?
When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT?
What one thing can I change to improve the atmosphere in our home? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of TV our children watch?
What gives me hope when I most need it? HDIFAT?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone outside our family?
Am I afraid of something that God would give me strength to overcome, if I prayed to Him about it? HDIFAT?
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
How does lack of money get in the way of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about letting a relative drive our car?
What expectations do I have of you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me? Describe in loving detail.
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAMA?
In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?
HDIF about today?
What part does God play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIF when I think about them?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start?
What happens to me when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the periods when we do not dialogue?
HDIF when I have to say, I made a mistake?
What is the meaning of Easter to me? HDIFAT?
How well do I do trusting God to answer my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the anniversary of Roe versus Wade?
HDIF when I notice our children taking on some of your characteristics?
HDIF about having God in our relationship?
What does failure do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about family? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the romance that remains in our relationship?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
How often do I think we should make love? HDIFAT?
Do I accept compliments easily? HDIFAT?
How has Lent prepared us for Holy Week?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love God better? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel about the role the Bishop played in taking my vows? Emotions"
HDIF when I accomplish something I am proud of?
HDIF after I have said mass or given a service? HDIFAT?
What is one of the greatest moments of our marriage? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in our lives, HDIF about our past failings as a couple?
HDIF when our budget is tight?
How does my relationship with my people compare to my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
What are our biggest differences? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
HDIF when I am forced to make a decision sooner than I would like?
How is my father / mother still influencing my life? HDIFAT?
When I think about all the couples and priest who made our Retrouvaille program possible, I feel ________
What do I hope to achieve through dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? How do I feel afterwards?
What mask (personality style) do I find most difficult to remove in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How are we working for the coming of His kingdom? HDIFAT?
What thing or activity would it be difficult for me to give up and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV?
When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from my people when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT?
When I think of sexual desire, I think of _________.
The car ahead of me pays my toll? HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to you when... HDIFAMA?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
What is one of the greatest moments of my priesthood/etc.? How do I feel recalling this?
How has our family benefited from our experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
I have made a promise and cannot keep it. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see myself in photographs?
Would I feel resentment if you died? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself a trend setter or trend follower? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving one of my people when I feel hurt? HDIFAMA?
When was the last time we were really outrageous? HDIFAT?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
What frustration did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you help me identify my emotions / feelings?
What would be the hardest thing for me to give up for a week? Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving you a ten-second kiss every day?
You have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
How does our schedule affect our relationship? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
HDIF when you come home late?
Do I believe children should be seen and not heard? HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to you better? HDIFAT?
HDIF I am coming home to you after a long trip?
As a child, what is the worst thing your parents made you do? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your relationship with our children?
Someone borrowed our car and returned it with a full tank? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are tired? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about giving my old clothes to charity?
HDIF lying in bed when you are sound asleep but I am wide awake?
How does the busy-ness of our lives affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What quote do I want on my tombstone? HDIFAT?
Do I usually initiate friendships with my people, or do I wait for them? HDIFAMA?
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way?
Was dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
Our cash flow is low. HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to God's call to me? HDIFAMA?
Of those whom I have loved and lost, whom do I miss the most? HDIFAT?
What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift we can give to each other this Christmas? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from listening to you with my heart and HDIFAT?
HDIF about our friends that we never get to see?
If you are not free to be yourself, you cannot love. HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
Dialogue questions are sometimes silly. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt someone?
HDIF about putting my life in God's hands?
Our sexual experience is an all-day thing. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about giving my time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
What expectations do I have of my Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What helps me learn the most about you? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about other people keeping secrets from me?
HDIF when I do not think you understand me?
How specifically can we as a couple / priest be salt and light? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we cry after watching a movie together? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about receiving back rubs?
HDIF when we slip back into our old ways?
What grudges do I hold? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not listened to?
HDIF when I see our children laugh?
What qualities do I admire most in others? HDIFAT?
Have any of my dreams come true? HDIFAT?
What do I think about when I hear the word Christmas? HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? HDIFAT?
We had hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT now?
HDIF when I write you a love note?
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
Which of our possessions enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone I do not know well offers me advice?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our first year of marriage?
HDIF when I do something that causes you to feel happy?
What do I like best about you in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have been fulfilled (sexually) by you?
HDIF when other people do not return things that they borrow from me?
What hopes do I have for my people's future? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I react rather than respond to you?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my God? HDIFAT?
How can our kiss be more meaningful? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about disciplining our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending time alone?
I have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift?
HDIF when someone else gets the parking place I am waiting for?
How can we reach out to a single-parent family? HDIFAT?
Our children are the two of us in one flesh. HDIFAT?
HDIF about proclaiming marriage to other people?
What is it that most separates us? HDIFAT?
Where do I most take you for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have to work together on a project?
HDIF when I try something different?
What are my expectations for our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have to be away from each other for an extended period?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
HDIF when no one refills the ice cube trays?
What are my hopes and dreams for our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
I think our greatest strength as a couple is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive and when I am forgiven?
HDIF when we attend Stations of the Cross?
HDIF watching the children open Christmas gifts?
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
Can I see any new doors opening for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God?
HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?
What mask do I wear in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you work late?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with my celebrating mass / leading services? HDIFAT?
If I were President for a day, I would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not meet your expectations?
How have you helped me be a better person? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people?
What are my fears about discussing sex with you? HDIFAT?
Which is easier for me, abstinence or moderation? HDIFAT?
Which is harder for me to do, give without remembering, or take without forgetting? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite time of year and why? HDIFAT?
What is my best quality? HDIFAT?
How have our past failures helped us to grow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making love when I am tired?
Have I cut the apron strings? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have because of the mask (personality style) I wear? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF having an extra day to spend with you this month?
HDIF when you see me nude?
If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT?
God already knows my heart. HDIFAT?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIFAT?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when others think they don't need to dialogue? Describe the feeling in loving detail.
HDIF about walking together?
The house is a mess. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discover the assumptions I made about you are not true?
HDIF sharing a dialogue letter with other dialoguing couples?
HDIF when I am following a schedule? When I am free of schedules?
How do I feel when one of my people brings me a surprise? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I hear gossip?
HDIF when we need to re-establish our budget priorities?
HDIF when someone rejects me or does not love me?
My skills are outdated. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you excel at something I thought I was rather good at?
HDIF about the division of decision-making between us?
How can we reach out to children outside our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on a ministry as a couple?
HDIF about having God in our relationship?
How do I respond to pressure? How does my response affect you? HDIFAT?
What curse word do I use most often? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have judged others harshly?
How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not being met? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Dialogue is my gift of myself to you?' Describe in loving detail.
When was the last time I praised you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living one day at a time?
Looking back over my day, what act or achievement makes me feel best about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your travel schedule?
HDIF when people play tricks on me?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about violence, weapons and the martial arts?
HDIF when you give me love taps?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAT?
What brings us closest? HDIFAT?
When did I feel closest to you last weekend? HDIFAT?
Can I ride a horse? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our current financial situation? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
What of my emotions / feelings do I have the hardest time accepting? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about you? HDIFAT?
What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us being needed by others?
HDIF when I think of Our Father as always belonging to us?
What are my feelings about the Trinity of God?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What aspect of myself do I still try to hide from others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing on the Sunday scriptures?
Do I consider myself to be vengeful? HDIFAT?
How do other people experience our sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
How are we living the spirit of Christmas throughout the year? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I asked you for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we handle our checking account(s)?
HDIF dealing with imaginative people versus dealing with realistic people?
HDIF when you say, We'll dialogue after the next TV program?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
Is it enough for our home to have practical furnishings, or do I require a touch of style? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you get upset?
What negative feeling do I experience the most? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when doctors try to take control of my life?
When someone criticizes me, do I give it right back to them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you cry after watching a movie together?
HDIF when friends of ours are having marital problems?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
I want to be enthusiastic about life but _____. HDIFAT?
What are the maybes in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch the sunset with you?
What do I like best about our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about receiving massages?
How do we respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
How do I feel this week living in the modern world? How do I feel sharing this with you?
HDIF laughing with you?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
My ears are my most important communication tools. HDIFAT?
The priest or minister that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your reaction toward sex?
What is my favorite way of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling you something I know you are not going to like?
I enjoy hearing my people talk about _____. HDIFAT?
Can I ride a skateboard? A unicycle? HDIFAT?
What phobias do you have? HDIFAT?
When I am center of attention, does this feel natural or strange to me?
When was it hardest for me to decide to love you this week? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are happy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, What can I do to help?
When I am hurt, I react by _____. HDIFAT?
How does our stuff compare to our neighbor's stuff? HDIFAT?
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDIFAT?
I am in a life-long search for more _____. HDIFAT?
What would be my idea of a good family outing?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
Our intimacy is renewed each time we communicate more deeply. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an old boyfriend / girlfriend?
HDIF when my people show interest in what I do?
What is my favorite time of day to make love? HDIFAT?
What would I do differently today if I knew I would not have you tomorrow? HDIFAT?
What gift have you given me in the last week, two weeks, month, etc., that I have really appreciated? How do I feel sharing this with you? (The gift can be a kind word at the right time, a hug when it was needed, a phone call, etc. It shouldn't be a material item.)
What is the most sensitive part of my body? HDIFAT?
How close do I come to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
What happens when I am still lonely or feel used after we make love? HDIFAT?
WAMF when I think about us 10 years from now? Marriage"
HDIF when I say good things about you to other people?
Does TV have a negative or positive effect on my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the appearance of my teeth?
What part do our children play in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How can I tell that you?ve had a bad day?
HDIF about God sending His son to be a human presence in the world?
I think our next household project should be _____. HDIFAT?
Do you feel better enjoying the present or anticipating the future?
HDIF when I forgive you?
HDIF when our children get into trouble?
What do we have planned this holiday season that I would rather not do? HDIFAT?
Three people who admire me are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about miracles?
Do I try to control you sometimes? When? HDIFAMA?
Have I been critical of you or accepting of you this week? HDMAMMF?
What divides us and causes us to become married singles? HDIFAT?
I would feel really pampered if _____. HDIFAT?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize you about _____. HDIFAT?
What could you do to increase my sexual anticipation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see God's hand in mine?
HDIF about doing something I have never done before?
How does my mask (personality style) make me a married single? HDIFAT?
Which holiday do I like best? HDIFAT?
Do I hide my true feelings from others? HDIFAMA?
What gives me goose bumps? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me?
What can we do to improve our dialogue? HDIFAT?
How was Lent special for us this year? HDIFAT?
How am I like the weather? HDIFAT?
What possession is most likely to bring us into disillusionment? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living our sacrament and what does this entail?
HDIF when you are sick or hurt?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDIFAT?
What changes do I need to make Faith a value? HDIFAT?
HDIF as the winning lottery numbers are being drawn?
What did I do today that I was proud of? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone interrupts me while I am talking to you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you have a strong interest that I cannot share?
HDIF when you dump on me?
We tend to compete against each other in _____. HDIFAT?
In what way have you brightened my day today? HDIFAT?
How do I believe I can help you at this time? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am able to go beyond my anger and reach out to you?
HDIF about our friends who abuse drugs or alcohol?
HDIF when I make sexual advances toward you?
HDIF if someone else read my notebook?
What risk am I willing to take to love you sexually the way you want to be loved? HDIFAT?
What good habit can I use to overcome a bad habit of mine? HDIFAT?
How does my mask interfere with our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What friendship has meant the most to me this week and why (besides spouse)? HDIFAMA?
Which do I enjoy more, spending or saving? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I discipline our children?
I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT?
Few things are as confusing as one who gives good advice but sets a bad example. Do I live the values I profess, or do I say one thing but do another? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are not dialoguing?
When am I most likely to lie to you? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I judge you did not listen to me? HDIFAT?
Is my love for my people strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
What helped me be open to change during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
What can I do to improve my dialog? HDIFAT?
What beauty do I see in you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put a love note on the bathroom mirror?
How did I choose my confirmation name? HDIFAT?
HDIF when work makes demands of you that seem unfair?
HDIF about planning a vacation?
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
HDIF when my life is slow-paced, unstructured and laid back?
What expectations do I have of God? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
When someone is aggressively angry with me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAT?
What friend(s) of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest feeling? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I behave when I am not satisfied with the food or service at a restaurant? HDIFAT?
Can I think of an event that has made a difference in my life? HDIFAT?
We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say good-bye to you at the airport?
How would I feel if the angel Gabriel spoke to me? HDIFAT?
When I think about living without you, HDIF?
HDIF when a series of little things goes wrong?
How can I help you when you are under pressure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people break the rules?
When was the last time I laughed at myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people see our togetherness?
How do I see us living God's plan in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am doing things nobody else wants to do?
HDIF about learning another language?
Can I be romantic when I do not FEEL romantic? HDIFAT?
HDIF about summer weather?
What one thing has most united us this past week? HDIFAT?
Do I distort things to make myself look or feel better? HDIFAMA?
If our house were burning down, and I could only save 3 things, what would they be and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone I see often never bothers to learn my name?
HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion?
HDIF about going out to dinner together?
HDIF when someone misunderstands me?
HDIF about our long-term commitment to each other?
HDIF about sharing my emotional life with you?
How would our children describe me as a husband or wife, especially to our grandchildren? HDIFAT?
What makes our house a home? HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? How do I feel about my answer?
HDIF about sleeping in a tent with you, outdoors?
What do my deeds say about me? HDIFAT?
How do I want you to remember me after I die? HDIFAT?
How involved am I in our parish or church family? HDIFAT?
What do I admire most about my parents? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I agree to do it your way?
HDIF when I fix you a drink?
HDIF when I am around strangers?
HDIF when you respond quickly to my requests?
Have I brought healing to you recently? HDIFAT?
What am I most disappointed with in myself? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest confidence you give to me? HDIFAT?
Does our home reflect our values? HDIFAT?
HDIF about rearranging the furniture?
What gift can I give Jesus for Christmas this year? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus Lord of my prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize we cannot give our children the best of everything?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
What do I want most to achieve for us? When? How? HDIFAT?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
How do I feel being around a room full of children? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year?
HDIF about members of our extended family?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone makes unreasonable demands on me?
What do I like best about us in the area of death? HDIFAT?
When I think about dying today, HDIF about our past week together?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when winter is approaching?
HDIF when you forgive me?
What is it about you that arouses me? HDIFAT?
Where do we look for help in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAMA?
How much of me will I have to give up to make the marriage work? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our plans are changed?
What have I learned from looking backwards that can enrich my future relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite childhood memory of Christmas? HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we look at pictures from our wedding? DILD.
HDIF at those times when I come on a little too strong with people?
What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I think I deserve private time?
What do my people do that tells me they forgive me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a love note packed in my sandwich?
HDIF about having relatives over for the holidays?
HDIF about my physical appearance?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT?
God sees me as very special because _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about us being needed by others?
HDIF when you are open with me?
HDIF being around opinionated people?
What advise would I give a young bride or groom (pick one)? How do I feel about this?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDTMMF?
HDIF when something works out exactly as I planned?
How do I feel about the way my ministry influences those around me? Describe in loving detail.
How can our family gain strength in the Holy Family?
HDIF when I think I do not have enough time?
Lately, have I accepted your feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I say exactly what is on my mind?
What can I offer you to better our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
As our marriage grows, so does the Church. HDIFAT?
Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT?
What distracts me when I try to listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's involvement in sports or physical education?
What piece of music is especially meaningful to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue is interrupted?
What is my favorite room of the house and why? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have that I am afraid to rely on? HDIFAT?
I am happy being married to you today because _____. HDIFAT?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not dialogue regularly?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear profanity? When I use profanity?
When I reflect back on the grades I got in school, HDIFAT?
What holds us together as a couple? HDIFAT?
How many trophies have I won? HDIFAT?
What do I want done with my body after I die? HDIFAT?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
What probably not tonight signals do I use to say no to sex? HDIFAT?
What is my most favorite holiday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to compromise my integrity?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue helps our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for my involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT?
Is our love strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
Does our parents' style of marriage have an effect on us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are holding hands?
Where do I like to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our involvement with our church / parish and the activities there? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
I just realize the driver of the car has been drinking. HDIFAT?
Whom have I failed to love today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a drink?
How much am I in control of our relationship? HDIFAT?
Mary said yes to God. HDIFAT?
Considering my upbringing, what should I avoid with our children? HDIFAT?
What gifts do we have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about telling others about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
If I was about to die and could only tell my people one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about myself in the past year? HDIFAT?
What is the main driving force in my life? HDIFAT?
How do I love thee? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you greet me at the end of the day?
What limits my ability to love you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we would like to do something but can?t afford it?
How do I behave when I do not know something? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF about your involvement with work?
What fear have I not shared with you lately? HDIFAT?
Where with our children do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
I feel best about myself when I am _____. HDIFAT?
Which one of our friends am I most comfortable with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about my current spirituality?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding your family?
Is our sexual relationship all it can be? HDIFAT?
What keeps us together as a couple? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I remember that all good things are gifts to us from God?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
My favorite time with you is _____. HDIFAT?
What do I do that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT?
What side of me do I least like others to see? HDIFAMA?
In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most stress? HDIFAT?
What one thing has most united us this past weekend? HDIFAT?
What couple has been the clearest sign of Sacrament for me? HDIFAT?
In the last 24 hours, when was I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can attend a weekend? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about we are the church?
HDIF about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment?
When was the last time I made a conscious decision to love you? HDIFAT?
Are we as close to each other as we were just after our Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
Do we share the responsibility for making decisions? Explain. HDIFAMA?
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this?
When was the last time I gave you flowers? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that we are growing in mutual knowledge?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
How do I think we got together? Accident, fate or God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put me down?
HDIF about taking a walking tour through my old high school?
How are we growing closer or becoming more distant as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am holding on to resentment?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
Whom do I admire that is a good example? HDIFAT?
Which family rituals are really important to me? Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking you to make love?
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not getting through to you?
How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you brag on me to your parents?
How am I like my father? HDIFAT?
Who in my life do I have the most influence on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people notice our closeness?
What can I do to listen to my people better? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to stay married to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing with another couple?
HDIF when you avoid a conflict between us?
How did you learn the facts of life? HDIFAT?
When we disagree, will I keep pressing the issue or will I let it go? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to have the last word?
HDIF thinking about kissing you at midnight New Year's Eve?
HDIF about our use of spare time?
Do my personal goals conflict with the goals of my people? HDIFAMA?
These are my needs that still go unmet: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our possessions, taken as a whole?
What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my co-workers?
HDIF about giving to an Angel Tree or other project for needy people?
What are my expectations concerning celebrating mass, services, etc.? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about going back to school at my age?
HDIF inviting couples like us into Encounter / Retrouvaille?
What are my goals for _____? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from helping others? HDIFAT?
What is my mask (personality style) when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
What did I laugh at today? HDIFAT?
What gift that I received from you today am I most thankful for? HDIF sharing this with you?
What have I done to help our little church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are intimate?
HDIF when you believe me instead of the rumors?
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not met? HDIFAT?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about us saying I do each day?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during church?
We are not Sacrament without passion. HDIFAT?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
Where do I get most of my enjoyment from TV? HDIFAT?
What attitude of mine helps me act in a loving way? HDIFAT?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What role does nature play in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about observing Lent?
HDIF about my job?
How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT?
What song can bring tears to my eyes? HDIFAT?
Company stops in when we are about to leave home. HDIFAT?
In what ways has God worked in my life today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my attitudes about sex?
When I resist change, I feel _____.
HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself?
How do our children affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have as we enter a new month? HDIFAT?
Which is harder: admitting it when I am hurt, or asking you for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you sleeping?
What are my attitudes about our sex life?
What happens when I get mad? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Is one of us overly dependent on the other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about riding in the car with you?
What was the most meaningful experience that I had today? HDIFAT?
What gift of myself could I give to everyone this Christmas? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for our love-making? HDIFSTWY?
HDIF about life after death?
How important are friendships to the health of our relationship? HDIFAMA?
What do I do to gain acceptance and profit emotionally? HDIFAT?
How would I approach Advent and Christmas if I knew this would be our last Christmas season together? HDIFAT?
What has dialogue taught me about myself? HDIFAT?
What are my memories of the day we met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am late for an appointment and not near a phone?
HDIF when we talk about my family of origin?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love my people better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have hurt you?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am hoping you keep your emotions / feelings to yourself?
If I died today, would I be ready to meet my Maker? HDIFAT?
If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing each member of my household, what would I draw and why? HDIFAMA?
Where do we most need to grow in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I spend money on gifts?
What romantic things do I remember most from our dating or early marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my work?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way I manage my time?
If I could change any one thing about myself, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing the holidays with you?
In what specific areas of sexuality am I reluctant to open up? HDIFAT?
How have I shown my love for you today? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if you never changed from the way you are right now? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What are / were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAT?
I think you misunderstand me in this area: _____. HDIFAT?
My greatest goal in life is... HDIFA my progress?
Do we share our joys with others, and spread the good news, or do we celebrate alone? HDIFAMA?
When I pray, do I really mean the words I am saying, or is it just rote? HDIFAT?
What ideal(s) do I pursue that could cause conflict with others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the other man / other woman?
HDIF when my people make demands of me that I think are unfair?
HDIF when I am about to reveal something to you?
What do I want to change most in you? HDIFAT?
Have I done my best to make a difference? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us on a hot issue?
When I think about all those who made our Encounter / Retrouvaille program possible, I feel _____
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
What strengths do you bring to our sexuality? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are bored? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it has been a long time since we dialogued?
How does my work affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are making plans together?
What did I do today to make life less difficult for someone else? HDIFAT?
What do I most like about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
What do I judge as the most important things I pray about? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when we go to visit our families?
HDIF about your saying no to me in sex?
I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT?
HDIF about wearing a cowboy hat?
HDIF about praying while I am driving or waiting in line?
What is my most compulsive habit? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my involvement with work?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when the boss reprimands me?
How do I feel when one of my people says no to me? Describe in loving detail.
What does it mean to me to experience pleasure? HDIFAT?
I have not had time to write my dialogue letter to you. HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our prayer life. HDIFAT?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
What issue do we have facing us that I haven't shared my feelings with you about? What are my feelings about this issue? HDTMMF?
HDIF about your having to work overtime?
How can we, as a couple, meet Jesus' challenge to follow Him? HDIFAT?
How do I fail to listen to you when I am disillusioned? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I clean off the ice from my windshield?
HDIF when our children praise me?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about one of us becoming critically ill?
What visions and hopes do I have for my people? HDIFAT?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when there is no time in the day (week) for us? Describe in loving detail.
What environment is best for listening? HDIFAT?
If I had one wish, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our families criticize our lifestyle and involvements?
HDIF when I have difficulty getting started on an important task?
HDIF about killing someone in self-defense?
What do I think is missing in our experience of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAMA???
HDIF knowing my emotions / feelings express who I am?
I am most vulnerable when... HDIF sharing this with you?
What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding our family?
How is the gift of the Eucharist special in our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are critical of me?
What do I think you most want from me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our family spends money?
HDIF when I do not know where to find the information I need?
In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT?
What gift have you given me in the past year that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
Can I always count on you? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how active I am in our children's sports or other activities?
How well do I accept others outside of Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
Would I ever go through an 8-item checkout with 20 items? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family?
What do I like least about myself in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
How does our financial situation affect our intimacy? HDIFAT?
Who among our friends will walk with us in both good times and hard times? HDIFAT?
What special moment of the past holiday season will I always remember? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning how to fix a leaky faucet or running toilet?
Do I consider myself as an idealist or a realist? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself smoothly diplomatic or brutally honest? HDIFAT?
HDIF right now?
What routine activity do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF at social gatherings when I meet a lot of new faces?
What is my happiest memory of the past week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your health?
HDIF when people are not as loyal to me as I am to them?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
HDIF this week living in the modern world?
How would I feel after a death in our family this week? HDIFAT?
Do I allow my sexual values to interfere with my response to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a picnic in the park with our children?
HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song?
Where have I experienced the greatest change in attitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my body?
If we were given ten thousand dollars cash, what would I want to do with it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I saw snow for the first time?
Other than clothing, do I have things I consider to be only mine? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about sex? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about waving to children on school busses?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that effects them needs to be made? HDIFAMA?
Can I find the North Star at night? HDIFAT?
Faith goes up the stairs that love has made, and looks out the window which hope has opened.' -C. H. Spurgeon HDIFA this quote?
HDIF about my job or career?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me?
What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT?
What was our closest moment as a family this month? HDIFAT?
What negative emotion / feeling do I experience the most? HDIFAT?
In what area(s) do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you falsely accuse me of something?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
Under stress, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
Do I apply Gospel values to my job or career? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trusting you?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to my mother? HDIFAT?
When was the first time I knew you were the one for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear my favorite hymn?
What will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
How has God blessed me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I smile or laugh at other people's misfortunes?
HDIF about how we decide whether to make love?
HDIF about the level of our spending on Christmas gifts?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the pain-killers that I use (alcohol, drugs, hobbies, TV)?
HDIF about working weekends?
We are different in how we make decisions about money. HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAT?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF when I consider what I had to give up to be successful?
In what area do I most need your help in living my sacrament/calling? HDIFAMA?
What quality in you am I most dependent on? HDIFAT?
Where would we be if we had never experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
Which of our children most needs our help and understanding right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave civilization for natural surroundings?
HDIF when I have to depend on you when I am ill?
HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
Do we make the time to pray with our friends? HDIFAMA?
I smiled today when I thought about. . . . HDIFAMA?
How would I feel if I were there when Christ was crucified? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
Sometimes I worry about _____. HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAMA?
What is my greatest hurt in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my decisions are questioned?
HDIF about someone asking me to do them a favor?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
In what ways have I been living as a married single? HDIFAT?
What friend have I known the longest? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMAs?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
How well am I able to adjust to new ways of doing things? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there are periods of moodiness in our sexual relationship?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go out socially?
HDIF about trying to save something from every paycheck?
How important is the Eucharist to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are apart for several days?
If I could have any vacation I wanted, I would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children make demands?
Who among my friends will walk with me in both good times and hard times? HDIFAT?
What Christ/God-like qualities do I see in my people? HDIFAMA?
What quality of Jesus did I see in our priest / pastor today? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
When I think about the rate of inflation, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people whose emotional ups and downs are very marked?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?
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