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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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HDIF when I have the courage to let people know what I stand for?
HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend?
HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend on foreplay?
HDIF when you take most of the bed or most of the cover?
Why do I think you chose me to be your lifetime partner? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you laugh at me?
What are my jobs in life? HDIFAT?
What was our closest moment, as a couple, this past week? HDIFTYT
What gifts has God blessed me with? HDIFAT?
Is our family being short-changed by our Encounter / Retrouvaille involvement? HDIFAT?
What characteristic of yours do I find irritating? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the amount of variety in my life?
HDIF when we kiss in public?
When was the last time we made love spontaneously? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the changes taking place in our lives right now?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have something important to say, and my mind goes blank?
Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something that disrupts my plans?
HDIF when other people tell me that they love me?
What areas do I avoid in dialogue? Why do I avoid these areas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our family goes to mass or church together?
HDIF when I am forced to make a decision sooner than I would like?
How has our dialogue made you more important in my life? HDIFAT?
Hurt is an inevitable part of a close relationship. HDIFAT?
My most unusual ability/talent is... HDIF sharing this ability/talent with others?"
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been accused of something I did not do? HDIFAT?
Is it enough for our home to have practical furnishings, or do I require a touch of style? HDIFAT?
How does success affect my self-image? HDIFAMA?
I think we should remove these rules from our relationship: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about making each day Valentine's Day, at least for a while?
If I had my life to start again, what would I change? HDIFAT?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
What do I value least about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most grief, stress, enjoyment, etc. (pick one)? HDIF sharing this with you now?
When did I make the decision to love you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about Christ's coming at Christmas?
What particular event today caused me the most stress? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I/we are in a hurry to leave, and someone stops by and wants/needs to talk? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when work makes demands of you that seem unfair?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about death? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when our children ask for expensive things?
HDIF about learning to play a musical instrument?
What are my attitudes about our sex life?
HDIF when we look at our wedding album?
What hopes do I have for my people's future? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDIFAT?
What makes it hardest for you to live with me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are still not home and the weather is bad?
What changes should I, or should we, make to keep from being disillusioned? HDIFAT?
What example do I imitate that is a good example? HDIFAT?
How often do we throw a party? HDIFAT?
How do I need to change my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look back at things I have done?
HDIF when we share deeply with those around us?
What do I hope for in my heart for us? HDIFAT?
Is one of us the toucher and the other aloof? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loaning my books or tools?
What do I like least about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about spending time with my family?
Which holiday do I like best? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spring weather?
What type of TV shows do I choose to watch? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
Your needs are in conflict with mine. HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
HDIF about your carrying an organ donor card?
What can I do to show our children more love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about tithing the first part of my wages to the Lord?
HDIF when we do not have enough money?
HDIF when I have to deal with your past?
What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you asleep on the couch?
HDIF when you really try to reach out and accept my emotions / feelings?
HDIF about spending time alone?
HDIF when we dance in the livingroom?
When do I feel most loved? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when people do not observe the speed limit?
How do I feel about the way my ministry influences those around me? Describe in loving detail.
How was my name chosen? HDIFAT?
Our dialogue can be a way we say yes to each other. HDIFAT?
Why do I want to make you number one in my life? What stands in my way? HDIFAT?
How well do I forgive me people when they ask for it? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I called my special friends just to tell them I love them? HDMAMMF?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
What part of the day do I usually like the best? HDIFAT?
HDIF whenever relatives visit?
HDIF about the septuplets?
Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time I spend watching TV?
Is Jesus Lord of my prayer life? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt bored. HDIFAT?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
Who in my life do I have the most influence on? HDIFAT?
How can I help you when you are under pressure? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV?
What are your special qualities that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I judge I let you/others down? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing?
HDIF about doing a task when I do not have time to do it right?
HDIF about our ability or inability to have children?
How does stress affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
When I consider the story of the prodigal son, I feel _____.
HDIF approaching Christ as a couple?
What is the most important thing I will miss if you die? HDIFAT?
HDIF having you to share special times with?
HDIF when we are too busy for each other?
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
My ears are my most important communication tools. HDIFAT?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
What specialness do I see in our family? HDIFAT?
I have difficulty sharing my feelings about _____. HDTMMF?
Why is it often the little things that pull us apart? HDIFAT?
God wants our sexual relationship to be good. HDIFAT?
Is my tongue like a double-edged sword? HDIFAT?
How have I changed recently?
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when, non-verbally, you say no to lovemaking?
What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the reactions of our relatives to Encounter / Retrouvaille?
What can I do help you trust me more? HDIFAT?
In the last 24 hours, when was I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
HDIF when I decide to love?
Last month I felt sad when _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings regarding how I spend my time? HDIF sharing these thoughts with you?
When I do the right thing, HDIF about what other people think?
When was the last time we danced together? HDIFAT?
How can I put more romance in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the size of the family I was born into?
HDIF when I wipe away your tears?
HDIF about where we live?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have a chance to learn about art, culture and history?
How important is the Eucharist to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening?
What disappointments have I kept to myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about revealing my negative emotions?
Does the level or tone of your voice affect me? HDIFAT?
Would people say I live in my own little world? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt close to you. HDIFAT?
Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDIFAT?
What quality in you helped me trust in our young marriage? HDIFAT?
Is our love strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the openness of our dialogue?
Why do I keep information from you? What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our current level of involvement with our families? Describe in loving detail.
What have I learned about my people through the challenges we have faced together? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving you? HDIFAT?
What do I think about the difficulties of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
Some of the blessings I have to be thankful for are _____. HDIFAT?
After conflict, am I still feeling hurt? DYFID?
Where do I generally have an attitude of superiority? HDIFAT?
When we leave each other, do we make the effort to part with loving words in case we do not see each other again? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing my whole self with you?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIF when I think about them?
Do I believe that making love after an argument or misunderstanding is an easy way out? HDIFAT?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, am I experiencing you differently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone we know is really sick or dies?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am blamed for something that is not my fault?
God is my dialogue partner. HDIFAT?
What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAMA?
Sometimes I worry about _____. HDIFAT?
What does our church mean to me? HDIFAT?
My top priorities in life are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting a family?
HDIF when I am left out of your activities?
What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for belonging? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a Halloween costume party?
God expects us to be our brothers' keeper. HDIFAT?
What activities weaken our relationship with God and Church? HDIFAT?
What would I like to accomplish this summer?
What have I always wanted to try but never did? HDIFAT?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
Sometimes life is not fair. HDIFAT?
HDIF about offering sacrifices?
HDIF about watching football on TV?
In sex, I feel most inadequate about _____. HDIFAT?
How could we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT?
What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDIFAMA?
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAMA?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone thanks me?
How has my love for you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
I would feel special if _______ . DYFID
In our relationship, do I tend to be detached or engaged? HDIFAT?
Can I sail a sailboat? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted peoples feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone tells me to take it easy and relax for a while?
How have we benefitted by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIF sharing this with you?
What am I working at believing about myself now? What makes it hard? HDIFAT?
In what ways can I become a better listener for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fail at something?
If this were our last Christmas, how would I like to spend it? HDIFAT?
How are we supporting couples after the follow-up period ends? HDIFAT?
Is my lifestyle original or conventional? HDIFAT?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
What friends help me see our goodness? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the amount of time I spend preparing for mass/service/etc. Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about doing things nobody else wants to do?
HDIF about living my daily life without to-do lists, using only my memory?
HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
If Jesus were at the foot of our bed, would He be smiling? HDIFAT?
I am most vulnerable when... HDIFAMA?
If I could change one and only one thing about the world, what would it be? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
What part does God play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for the month of May? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spring cleaning?
What is my favorite memory of someone who has died? HDIFAT?
How have other couples affected our marriage? HDIFAT?
We need new clothes. HDIFAT?
HDIF about this Christmas compared with past ones?
HDIF when I reveal my emotions / feelings, and you respond as expected?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sexy lingerie?
HDIF on those occasions when I discipline our children?
When something bad happens to me do I allow it to effect my relationship with my people and/or my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you are digging up the past?
Is passion an important aspect of our relationship?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of our future? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with you?
Describe a time when I felt aggressive. HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of my prayer life? HDIFAT?
When I pray, do I really mean the words I am saying, or is it just rote? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking ballroom dancing lessons with you?
What new friendships have I formed? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear that friends of ours are separating / getting divorced?
In what area do I most need your help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT?
How do I like to celebrate New Years' Eve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am around strangers?
How does success affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF about someone asking me to do them a favor?
HDIF when a member of our family compliments me?
What helps me learn the most about you? (i.e. dialoguing, making love, sharing our days, quiet time together, etc.) HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about tattoos?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when activities take the place of our lovemaking?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about sex? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our spending on gifts?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I think about the couples and religious that will be making the next weekend?
What do I remember most about the way we spent our first anniversary? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see us together in photographs?
How do I feel when I'm invited to spend my leisure time with my people? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we share deeply with those around us?
If I did not know how old I was, how old would I be? HDIFAT?
What was my greatest fear as a new bride / groom? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how well I love our children?
HDIF about talking during lovemaking?
Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintences? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when other people say they do not dialogue?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What realistic thing can I do this week to make it better than last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF at a large party?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
HDIF when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession / ancestry / gender?
What values of mine differ from my people? How does this effect my relationship with them? HDIFAMA?
What gifts has God given to me and how have I used them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about watching TV during mealtime?
What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT?
How close are we today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trading places for a day? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite memory of us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue about who is to be blamed?
HDIF about leaving our children for a few days?
I see you as someone very special because _____. HDIFAT?
When God made me, what were His dreams for me? HDIFAT?
What do I feel most inadequate about in sex? HDIFAT?
When, recently, did I take the time to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts when I think of you dying? HDIFAT?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
Am I a leader or a follower? HDIFAMA?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
What is the level of our communication when we are home together? HDIFAT?
If I were to die, what would I most want to be remembered for? HDIFAT?
In the area of God and our faith, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there are periods of moodiness in our sexual relationship?
What comfort do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face?
HDIF when I experience your total forgiveness?
When I know you are praying for me, what are my feelings?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am talked into something I do not want to do?
Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you greet me at the end of the day?
HDIF when I do something good for someone else?
What is the luckiest thing that has ever happened to us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving from our substance?
When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch scary movies?
How do I feel when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed? Describe in loving detail.
What can I do this week to make memories? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling you each day in a dialogue letter that I love you?
In what areas do I most need the Lord's help? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am aware that you have had a bad day?
When have I felt the most loved this week? HDIFAT?
What are the qualities that first attracted me to you? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
With myself, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT?
How does our method of birth control affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAT?
One thing I missed from my childhood was. . . HDIFAMA?
When did we go two miles with someone who ordered us to go one? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give in too easily and let others push me around?
When was the last time I complimented you? HDIFAMA?
What, if anything, causes unnecessary stress and complication in my / our life? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my parish/church/convent/temple/etc. financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
How have our roles in our marriage changed? HDIFAT?
When we think we can handle it, I would like to try dialoguing on _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your smile?
HDIF about the demands people place on me?
HDIF when time and exhaustion keep us from being lovers?
What am I doing to promote Christian unity right where I am? HDIFAT?
What new activity or interest could I make space for in my life? HDIFAT?
What defense mechanisms do I use when I fail to please you? HDIFAT?
What do we have planned this holiday season that I would rather not do? HDIFAT?
HDIF attending mass or church together?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIF sharing this with you?
How can our family gain strength from the Holy Family? HDIFAT?
When do I close my heart to you? HDIFAT?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? How do I feel telling you this?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am asked to cut back or do without?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAMA?
What was my greatest fear as a child? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish, convent, etc.? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about visiting our distant relatives?
HDIF when I have judged others harshly?
HDIF about singing in Latin?
Christ is the unseen guest at every meal. HDIFAT?
What would I do differently today if I knew I wouldn't have you tomorrow? HDMAMMF?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? How do I feel about my answer?
What year of my life would I like to relive? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
HDIF when there is silence between us?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAMA?
What do I need from you as a family to help me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about splitting of daily chores?
HDIF about the way our children dress?
HDIF on those occasions when my family makes demands on us?
HDIF about myself today? Does that affect how I feel about you?
HDIF when I think about making a will?
What do I like to do best without the family and HDIFAT?
HDIF when sex is spontaneous?
HDIF when I reveal an emotion / feeling that is difficult to share with you?
What is the most pain I have ever experienced? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face?
HDIF about moving from where we are now living?
What inhibits me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I can trust God to guide our lives?
HDIF when I know we're going to have sex?
How do I feel about the Blessings and Gifts God has given me/us? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about us being important to the church and the world?
What do I have to be most thankful for? HDIFAT?
When I part with my people, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship mean to me? HDIFAT?
Besides my church/temple/etc. where would I most like to celebrate mass/conduct services/etc.? HDIFAMA?
What roles do I play? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone thanks us?
What is the last good deed I did? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people can be improved? HDIFAT?
What are the activities we have planned that I want most to do this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone takes up too much of my time?
HDIF when I try to understand what is bothering me?
HDIF about my co-workers?
The two of us are a little church. HDIFAT?
What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAMA?
HDIF being around people who are chronically indecisive?
HDIF about life after death?
What is my favorite memory of our dating days? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it? HDIFAMA?
What aspect of myself do I still try to hide from others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I engage in self-pity?
HDIF when you only share superficial things with me?
In what areas do I judge you are most frustrated because I do not listen? HDIFAT?
If I were completely free right now, I would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am get useful unsolicited advice from others?
I have little patience for _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
If I could change one thing about myself, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when God's will seems to be in conflict with my needs?
What fear to I keep from you? HDIFAT?
The first Christmas I remember was _____. HDIFAT?
Has our relationship grown since last Valentine's Day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you more about my job or career?
What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAMA?
What do I like best about us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF as we begin this week? HDIFAT?
What are some of the barriers to my forgiving you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our family is alone together for a meal?
HDIF about spending more time together as a family?
What role does dialogue play in our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing on the Sunday scriptures?
HDIF when the assumptions you made about me are not true?
Sometimes my burdens seem just too great to carry. HDIFAT?
What is my most vivid memory of our honeymoon? HDIFAT?
What is the best help you can give me when I am discouraged? HDIFAT?
Am I satisfied with my life? (What would I change? What wouldn't I change?) HDIFAM answer(s)?
Is it important for us to have a romantic bedroom? HDIFAT?
How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
How do you signal to me that you would like to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of our children fails at school?
The couple that has most helped us to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you when we are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? HDIF sharing this with you?
What are my expectations of you as a husband? HDIFAT?
In an average week, what activities work to enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are submissive to each other?
HDIF when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me?
HDIF about one of us becoming critically ill?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I be more myself? HDIFAMA?
Is it hard to find things to do that we both enjoy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get obligated to someone?
What gift of myself have I given to you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the last time we snuggled together?
HDIF sharing an unusual ability or talent with others?
Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
In what area of Retrouvaille am I interested in investing our time, talents, support, and love in? HDMAMMF?
Is privacy an issue in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we decide to dialogue on death?
HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?
How is our day when we are not sexually involved with each other? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put a child in time-out?
What year of my life would I like to relive? HDIFAT?
What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my job now?
Can I talk easily to people for as long as necessary? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do?
In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?
HDIF being loved by you?
HDIF when I am working and you are relaxing?
HDIF about learning another language?
Beside yours, what friendship has meant the most to me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
What was my favorite pet? HDIFAT?
Do I challenge others to live their values? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am sitting upright? When I am slouching?
HDIF when I am around negative people?
HDIF when I am get useless unsolicited advice from others?
As a child, was I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
Does our home reflect our values? HDMAMMF??
What was the silliest thing I ever did with you? HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of healing that calls other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about French kissing?
What does the Good Shepherd mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our credit card bills?
HDIF about my promotion potential?
HDIF about going to bed earlier or waking earlier so we have time for us?
Looking back over my day, what act or achievement makes me feel best about myself? HDIFAT?
What causes the most friction between my people and I? (Not conflict, but the little things that rub each other the wrong way.) HDIFAMA?
How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for our journey into this New Year? HDIFAT?
Do I believe my life, or parts of it, are predestined? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
What kind of relationship do I have with your in-laws? HDIFAT?
How do I handle defeat? HDIFAT?
How have I helped myself in the effort to help others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to push others to get the job done right?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
HDIF about our children?
HDIF when I am frightened (or not frightened) by death?
Would I ever go through an 8-item checkout with 20 items? HDIFAT?
Do I allow God to work in me? HDIFAT?
What was the most difficult thing we had to overcome as a couple? HDIFAT?
We are blessed by the love of our families. HDIFAT?
Would I feel better if someone found me practical or ingenious? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if you unexpectedly gave me a hug after a hard day? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying different things to see what works best, as opposed to seeking advice?
HDIF about getting our next pet from the animal shelter?
HDIF about spiders and bugs?
In what areas are we equal partners in decision making? HDIFAT?
Our children are tempted by alcohol, drugs, sexuality. HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs?
How do I react to the emergencies that come up in my daily life? HDIFAT?
What are your best qualities? HDIFAT?
What proof is there in my life that dialogue is important to my relationship with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from always being intimate with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am separated from my people?
Is our relationship ready for the Lord? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to God's call to me? HDIFAMA?
What are some of the things I pray for? HDIFAT?
What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but have not been able to? HDIFAT?
What makes me feel holy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we attend a wedding ceremony together?
HDIF about the amount of money we pay in taxes?
HDIF when you agree to do it my way?
What is the greatest pressure affecting me during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me I am sexy?
In the last week, in what way have I been most supported by you? HDTMMF?
This is Twelfth Night. Will we celebrate this day? HDIFAT?
Husbands, love your wives as your own bodies. HDIFAT?
When we talk about Encounter / Retrouvaille, some reject us. HDIFAT?
Is God the center of my life? HDIFAT?
Mary was open to God's will. Are we? HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I witness a marriage?
HDIF when I have to put other people's needs ahead of my own?
How do I succeed sometimes as a good listener? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you feel hurt?
Even though our masks are a barrier in our relationship, there is a reason we where them. They give us strength to deal with the world. If we can identify the strengths our mask give us, we can retain them when we lower the masks to be ourselves with our spouses. What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about joining a dialogue support group?
HDIF on those occasions when I think I deserve private time?
HDIF about exercising together?
Which of life's pleasures do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
When I want to retreat from our relationship, what do I do? HDIFAT?
Each of us belongs to the other (I COR 7:3-5). HDIFAT?
What was my most exciting emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of our courtship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you swear at me or engage in name-calling?
Of those whom I have loved and lost, whom do I miss the most? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about my people recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
What were my emotions / feelings as we experienced the weekend finale on Sunday night? HDIFAT?
What do I love most about you today? HDTMMF?
How do I feel when I have to do most of the work for a ministry project? Describe in loving detail.
Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFTYT?
What simple pleasure brings me the greatest satisfaction? HDIFAT?
What did I want you to hear but you did not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that we are special to Our Father?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in my life? HDIFAMA?
How do I make you present to me when we are not together? HDIFAT?
How can I make Thanksgiving more meaningful? HDIFAT?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on me? HDIFAT?
Are there any hurts between us that need to be healed of before our relationship can continue to grow? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think you do not believe me?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
God is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and full of love. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAT?
In our relationship, do I spend more time on the construction gang, or on the wrecking crew? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the stress building up in you?
What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you flirt with other men or women?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you say, Pray for me?
What could we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the peer pressures our children are under?
HDIF about giving to a worthy cause?
What effect has my mother had on my life? HDIFAT?
God does not make junk. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get up at night when the baby cries?
What gift of myself could I give to everyone this Christmas? HDIFAT?
Today, I am most thankful for _____. HDIFAT?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? HDIFAT?
How many times have I been stopped by the police? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
How often to we socialize with other couples? HDIFAT?
We cannot return to innocence. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the current political atmosphere in my/our country? DILD.
I know there is a good chance we will make love tonight. HDIFAT?
Where do I find peace when things are chaotic? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly?
HDIF about selecting dialogue questions that appear difficult?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the ways you show me that I am special?
Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT?
What do I think you secretly worry about the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you as a provider?
How do I feel hearing about the power of our prayer? DILD.
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt threatened.
HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves?
How can I tell when you are angry? HDIFAT?
Where do I trust others more than I trust you? HDIFAT?
When others expect a lot from me, I feel ______ and tend to ______ . HDTMMF?
HDIF about mid-life changes in a marriage?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDTMMF?
HDIF about hiring help with yard work?
What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
What am I most disappointed with in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the changes in my physical appearance (weight, age)?
What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be romanced by you? HDIFAT?
In lovemaking, all I have is yours - all you have is mine. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to mold me into someone else?
HDIF when someone drops in unexpectedly?
If I could fix one thing in the world, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What is special about us as a couple today? HDIFAT?
If I could live anywhere, where would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are annoyed with me?
HDIF when I need you?
How will my life change when our children are out on their own? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
What do I want our priorities as a couple to be? HDIFAT?
Who controls the bed in the house? HDIFAT?
How does our financial situation affect our unity? How does it affect our intimacy? HDIFA my answers?
HDIF about writing about my emotions / feelings?
HDIF walking around in public with ashes on my forehead?
Can I identify with hurting couples? DYFID.
What is my deepest hope for next year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people take up too much of my time?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
Do I give and get enough emotional support? HDMAMMF?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for you to trust me with yourself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
Is family communication a value of mine? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our closeness when we dialogue on Scripture?
How can we improve our spiritual life as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our vacation?
God sees me/us as very special because... HDIFAT?
How did I develop the mask (personality style) I wear? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt?
What is the main driving force in my life? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
Where would I turn for help if my family were not available? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my spiritual growth?
HDIF when I leave civilization for natural surroundings?
How have I been separate from my people lately? HDIFAMA?
What kept me from making the most of this past weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how our children spend their free time?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, are we living the World's Plan? HDIFAT?
Do I always reveal my true emotions? HDIFAT?
How long before missing dialogue affects our communication and closeness? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my conscience? HDIFAT?
Who do we look up to as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a surprise?
What do I dislike most about myself when we fight? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you go ahead and make love even when you do not want to?
Is our love for each other stronger today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children talk back to me?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
Can I go one whole day without criticizing anyone or anything? HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts when I hear God does not make junk? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up?
What do I most need from you today? HDIFAMA?
A time I felt closest to my people was... How do I feel recalling this?
How would I feel working a few hours a month in a soup kitchen? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cuddle?
What special features do I see in you that fill me with warmth and tenderness? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What attitude do I want to change in myself? HDIFAT?
What do I most want for our family this New Year? HDIFAT?
How does our individuality strengthen us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What do I procrastinate on the most? HDIFAT?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty admitting it to you. HDIFAT?
What are the maybes in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my family name, my family tree, my relatives, my ancestors?
HDIF about winter weather?
How will we celebrate Easter? HDIFAT?
We have the ability to forgive each other. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What helped me be open to change during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask? HDIFTYT?
HDIF when I am sleepy and you want to make love?
HDIF about our differences?
How do I feel when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others? DILD.
What would our children say about our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I clean out the car?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am direct and honest, putting all my cards on the table?
Today I want to thank you for _____. HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of our early days together? What do I remember most? HDIF sharing this with you?
Who is or was my favorite teacher? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are too tired for each other?
Describe a time when I felt betrayed.
HDIF when I see ?thanks? shining in your eyes?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about letting someone outside my/our family borrow my/our car? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about singing praise to God?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDIF when this is the only comfort I can offer someone?
What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
How has/would never having children affect my/our life? HDIF about this?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF sharing the details of my workday with you?
How well do I trust my people? HDIFAT?
How do we feed the hungry of the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF trying to deal with people who are disorganized and irresponsible?
I am most vulnerable when... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I think people are looking at me, sizing me up?
What quality do I look for in others that helps me believe I can trust them? HDIFAT?
HDIF at parties when guests have had too much alcohol?
HDIF when I am not getting through to you?
What is the nicest thing you did for me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are part of a community that supports marriage?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going with you to an action movie?
HDIF when you say, I told you so?
HDIF when it is time to leave a tip for the table server?
What grudges do I hold regarding you? HDIFAT?
What miracle, small or large, did I experience today? HDIFAT?
How do I see our relationship in the light of SIR 26:1-4, 13-16? HDIFAT?
Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT?
Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Scripture dialogue?
HDIF when I make the decision to love and have sex when I do not want to?
HDIF when you run your fingers through my hair?
Considering my upbringing, what should I avoid with our children? HDIFAT?
If I was about to die and could only tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to do too many things at once?
HDIF helping you prepare for our Thanksgiving meal?
HDIF when someone mentions my job title?
When one of my people feels threatened, I feel... DILD.
What does being a couple mean to me? HDIFAT?
How can I change things to give you more time? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT?
In order to solve a problem, am I more likely to use common sense or imagination? HDIFAMA?
It is difficult to write about feelings. HDTMMF?
How can I reveal my emotions / feelings to you outside dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear there is a big storm coming and you are not home?
What does Valentine's day mean to me? HDIF sharing this with you?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of you? HDIFAT?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I react to you instead of responding to you?
HDIF when I am running errands?
Have I been life-giving to you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
HDIF when you show interest in your job, career or housework?
HDIF about our materialistic lifestyle?
HDIF when we wash dishes together?
How do I recognize Christ in you?
HDIF when we laugh during lovemaking?
HDIF when I want to share something with you but do not?
HDIF when I am away from my people?
What are my most important values for our relationship? HDIFAMA?
I need you because _____. HDIFAT?
What expectations of mine were not met this last week? HDIFAT?
I feel the loneliest when... HDIF telling you this?
What do I least like about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for my attitude, good or bad?
HDIF when I laugh at you?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our home? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
HDIF when I leave our children with a baby-sitter?
In the area of use of time what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
Why do not I trust you with helping me with sex? HDIFAT?
Should lovemaking be part of the healing process or reserved for afterward? HDIFAT?
What would I spend my last dollar on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I smile or laugh at other people's misfortunes?
Sometimes failure makes me want to give up. HDIFAT?
Is thoughtfulness an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
How has our life changed this past year? HDIFAT?
When do I most feel alone? HDIF at those times?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAMA?
What struggles do I go through trying to write my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
What quality do I not like in myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
When do I feel least recognized as a capable person?
In what areas do I find it most difficult to reach out to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple?
HDIF when asking a friend for a favor?
How well do I love others when I think they do not deserve it? HDIFAT?
What are / were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my plans run off the track?
How long do I think family prayer should last? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who never laugh? Who laugh easily?
HDIF when you give me a mushy card?
HDIF about doing routine tasks?
HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family?
HDIF about payday?
HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected?
HDIF when we are not in synch?
What hopes do I have for our children and what can we do to help them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when stock market trends increase the value of our investments?
HDIF when I am overwhelmed by household tasks or yardwork?
When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about the first car I ever owned?
HDIF when I decide to trust you with my emotions / feelings?
Is it easy or difficult for me to apologize? HDIFAT?
Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT?
How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I keep my needs and emotions / feelings from you?
The issues I cannot discuss with you are _____. HDIFAT?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my physical appearance?
What would I change about the way I was raised? HDIFAT?
Can I speak in public easily or do I get scared? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make encouraging comments to you?
How do we make our sacrament a visible sign of God's love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving a month's worth of dialogue questions to a favorite couple?
What do I think are our limits as a couple? HDIFAT?
What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAT?
I look forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT?
In what areas of our relationship do I exercise the most control? HDIFAT?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
How do I recognize Christ in you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I invite you to watch TV with me?
What does Valentine's Day mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not answer the telephone?
Do I put my independence above my trust in you? HDIFAMA?
How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who always have both feet on the ground?
How do I feel about my self-image? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we watch an old romantic movie together?
When I let you make your own decisions, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Where do I place my people on my list of priorities? HDIFAT?
What is the most embarrassing situation I have been in? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing on death?
HDIF when we would like to do something but can?t afford it?
What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal wife: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed?
With our children, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment makes me feel good? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
Do I behave as if I am afraid of intimacy? HDIFAT?
In what area would I most like to reach out to my people? Why? (or Why haven't I before?) HDIFAMA?
HDIF when our children are praised by strangers?
HDIF about our use of alcohol?
IWhat barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love my people? HDIFAMA?
When our calendar is full, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How can I tell that God loves us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the latest trends and fashions?
I am most likely to criticize you about... HDIFAMA?
When was the last time I judge you did not listen to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to my people? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
When was the last time I took responsibility for my poor self-worth? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone misunderstands me?
HDIF about family reunions?
HDIF telling _____ about my problems?
HDIF when I pray, Our Father ... ?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions to you?
HDIF about sacrificing financially to attend an event for married couples?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about prayer or God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not like the dialogue question we are using?
Sex can be used as a tool to build us. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our son being a priest / pastor?
What is our relationship with God, today? HDIFAT?
How do we make ourselves a sign of Jesus' love in our world? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about kissing you at midnight New Year's Eve?
When I am away from you, what am I most likely to do to keep from missing you? HDIFAT?
What part do I play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am caught by off-guard?
HDIF about my relationship with your family?
Our love is a prayer. HDIFAT?
When do I repress my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite family tradition? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling social or polite lies?
Can we listen better to each other? HDIFAT?
What about you turns me on the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the other man / other woman?
HDIF re-reading what I wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT?
What have I kept from you in recent days? HDIFAT?
How are we going to make better use of our free time this summer? HDIFAT?
What do my deeds say about me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our marriage has a positive influence on our family and friends?
In our inter-faith marriage, do we celebrate aspects of both faiths in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite sexual fantasy? Would I like it fulfilled? HDIFAT?
I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hold onto you in the labor room?
How often do I worry about what others say and do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
God hears and sees all I do. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think of all those who helped us get our marriage back on track?
Why did we marry each other? HDIFAT?
How can I drop the conditions I put on my love for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone reaches out to us?
What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself?
Whose good opinion is important to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we talk about unresolved conflicts in our marriage?
HDIF when I think I do not have enough time?
My greatest distraction while listening to you is _____. HDIFAT?
What gift have you given me in the past month that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
What does decision mean to me? HDIFAT?
What good qualities do I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you an unexpected gift?
Our relationship is most like what sport? HDIFAT?
HDIF about this day?
HDIF when I only half-forgive you?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone asks me, How is your dialogue?
I was proud of you last month when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about paying a therapist for advice?
If I become more committed to you, I might have to give up _____. HDIFAT?
How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
Is Advent preparation for Christ's birthday or Santa Claus? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you down on yourself?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
I judge I cry... (freely, rarely, easily, etc.) What is _most_ likely to result in me crying? HDIFAMA?
How would I like you to romance me? HDIFAT?
What limits my ability to love my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Washington politics?
HDIF knowing I am forgiven for my sins?
What is an attitude I had about sex entering marriage? HDIF sharing this with you?
When do I nail down the lid on my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
Who would we be eager to tell if our child chose to enter religious life? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the concept, 'Let go and let God'? HDMAMMF?
What can I do to make the holiday season less materialistic? HDIFAT?
What example do I imitate that is a not so good an example? HDIFAT?
I find it easy to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
What is most appealing to me about being religious? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you surprise me with something nice?
How do I feel when I realize I've done something thoughtless and hurt you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF when I cannot keep the schedule I have set for myself?
HDIF when you gently touch me?
HDIF when you come home in the evening?
HDIF when I know you are praying for me?
HDIF when the car behind me follows too close?
Can I always count on you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling you what enhances or reduces my pleasure during lovemaking?
How do I see God acting in our lives? HDIFAT?
What am I disillusioned about right now? HDIFAT?
Do I believe life owes me? HDIFAT?
Do I pray for love? HDIFAT?
In what areas am I least responsive to you? HDIFAMA?
How can this holiday literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT?
How supportive are we of our extended family? HDIFAT?
What did I first long for immediately after we were married? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone leaves hair plugging the shower drain?
I am proudest of you when _____. HDIFAT?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt abused. HDIFAT?
What methods do I find easiest to use in describing my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear from you that would allow me to be more open? HDIFAT?
What makes it difficult for me to write my dialog letter? HDIFAT?
HDIF about when you balance the checkbook?
HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you?
I judged (one of) my people were being selfish when... How did I feel about this? Describe in loving detail.
I am most likely to complain about _____. HDIFAT?
In what aspect of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the violence on TV?
What qualities do I admire most in others? HDIFAT?
What characteristic of mine do I think you find irritating? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone makes unreasonable demands on me?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances,? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
When I think about all the couples and priest who made our Retrouvaille program possible, I feel ________
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate my services / masses? HDIFAT?
In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
When do I worry about a problem instead of really concentrating on a solution? HDIFAT?
Jesus would have died for me even if I was the only person on earth. HDIF about this?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
HDIF when our dialogue is interrupted?
Would the world be a different place if I were not here? HDIFAT?
When am I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
What is it about death that frightens me the most? HDIFAT?
What does it mean to forgive other people? HDIFAT?
Obedience belongs to us; results belong to God. HDTMMF?
How do I feel about the role the Bishop played in taking my vows? Emotions"
HDIF about wearing silk underwear?
What can I do to help you experience more of God's Love? HDIFAT?
HDIF lying in bed when you are sound asleep but I am wide awake?
Here are the things I like most about you: _____. HDIFAT?
Is our relationship alive and well in the eyes of other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to reconciliation?
My fondest dream for you since we experienced the weekend is _____. HDIFAT?
What is the meaning of Easter to me? HDIFAT?
When I do not approve of the way a friend is acting, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a photograph of you?
What am I searching for in life and how does it affect us? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I find out, after the fact, that someone has lied to me? Describe in loving detail.
How do I judge I've helped my people make God a special place in their hearts? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
What is my strongest emotion / feeling about money? HDIFAT?
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