Dialogue Questions

Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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How do I feel when I judge the singing done by my people is praising God from the heart?
What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT?
Is our life together a celebration of love? HDIFAT?
What do I long for in the depths of my being? HDIFAT?
I think our next household project should be _____. HDIFAT?
What is my favorite city, and why? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if someone in the family knew how to perform CPR? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am an object of someone's joke or ridicule?
HDIF about discussing our sex life?
In what area(s) do I compete against you? HDIF telling you this?
What is something I would like to try but have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
What is the nicest memory of our past Thanksgivings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do something for another couple?
HDIF when our family trust level has been broken?
How can I reveal my emotions / feelings to you outside dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you surprise me with flowers?
How do I behave when I am treated unfairly? HDIFAT?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
What negative emotion / feeling do I experience the most? HDIFAT?
How do you most help me? HDIFAT?
How do we feed the hungry of the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving people a second chance? A third chance? A fourth chance?
How does our relationship with God affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations of tomorrow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living our sacrament and what does this entail?
HDIF when we are intimate?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around opinionated people?
When do I feel unappreciated? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us on a hot issue?
HDIF about payday?
As a child, what is the worst thing your parents made you do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to visit our families?
How well do I think I do at recognizing and trying to nourish my needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help me understand God better? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about myself through the challenges I have faced? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I quarrel, judge, or reject your emotions?
What are the positive signs of growth I see in us? HDIFAT?
Is there anything you've done that I have not forgiven you for? Why? How do I feel about my answer?
When I think of sexual desire, I think of _____... HDIFAT?
When I think about all the couples and priest who made our Retrouvaille program possible, I feel ________
How has never having children affected our life? HDIFAT?
Where we live is _____ to me. HDIFAT?
How can we use this fight to strengthen our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that we are growing in mutual knowledge?
What is my fondest memory of our early days together? What do I remember most? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when someone else gets the parking place I am waiting for?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT?
When one of my people feels threatened, I feel... DILD.
HDIF when a couple says yes, they want or need to experience the weekend?
In what ways do I try to change myself to please my people? HDIFAMA?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing?
When my work is set back by some unexpected difficulty, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What are the changes I most need to make in myself for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Pray for me?
HDIF when we are not in a pattern of regular dialogue?
What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
Do I avoid telling you the truth to avoid offending you? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me The gift you have received, give as a gift?
If I could change one attribute of my personality, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to bed earlier or waking earlier so we have time for us?
Jesus said, If you believe in me, you will never die. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I invite you to watch TV with me?
When in the past week did I think your emotions / feelings were wrong to have? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest joy in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when other men or women flirt with you?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT?
Does out family have any traditional things that we do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear about the sins of priests or ministers in the news?
How do we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT?
HDIF the last time we finished a household project?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
Is it easy for us to agree on decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about turning off the TV at dinnertime?
Here are two ways we are different: _____ and _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do some household or yard chore without being reminded to do it?
What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT?
The personal qualities I am most aware of in myself are as follows: _____. HDIFAT?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get too many irons in the fire? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you behave in public?
HDIF when I visit people in the hospital?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
How would our children describe me as a husband or wife, especially to our grandchildren? HDIFAT?
Do I believe God created me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my daily routine?
What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIFAT?
What is the meaning of Easter to me? HDIFAT?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the time we spend with our family and the quality of it? What would I like to change if I could? HDFTMMF?
What in my life is life-draining? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put away the laundry?
How do I feel when we need to take out a lone for a major purchase? Describe in loving detail.
What experience of romance happened today? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAT?
What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do I think you most need from me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I eat with someone who is on a diet?
How would I feel if I had to lie to protect someone I love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people forget my birthday?
HDIF when I am rushed into making an important decision?
What feelings do I have when I think about us being apart for several days? HDIF sharing this with you?
Who or what am I guided by? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of my people is sick?
How do I feel when one of my people tells me, 'We'll see,' and I think they really mean, 'No'? DILD.
What do my people do that tells me they forgive me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the septuplets?
How has our love grown since our wedding day? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth?
HDIF when I help you balance the checkbook?
What do I think about my ability to accept your loving me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I witness a marriage?
When I feel distance in our relationship, what is it that challenges me to do something about it? HDIFAT?
When working on a big project, am I more likely: to start at the beginning and take it step by step - start with the end and work my way back - or dive in somewhere in the middle? HDIFAT?
HDIF about selecting dialogue questions that appear difficult?
HDIF about spending money during the holidays?
What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAT?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the way we celebrate Easter?
When do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in your love, even when it is not shown? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I begin to believe in my own good qualities?
HDIF when I see thanks shining in your eyes?
How do I feel about the role the Bishop played in taking my vows? Emotions"
What can I do for our parish or church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take a walk together?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about sex? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite time of day to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am the avoider and you are the seeker?
HDIF about the priorities of job or career versus relationship priorities?
HDIF about the use of medicine in our family?
What helps me confess my weaknesses to you? HDIFAT?
How can I be loving to you even when we cannot make love? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
How do I listen to you? What is my pattern? HDIFAT?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for our marriage? HDIFAT?
When do I most need your support? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
What little thing reminds me of you? HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I avoid fighting? HDIFAT?
Where was I born? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are hurting me intentionally?
What do I like best about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
HDIF on a date with you?
HDIF after I go to confession?
HDIF when I listen to your gripes?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you care about the things I like?
HDIF about crying?
HDIF about going out to dinner together?
HDIF when my plans run off the track?
Life is what happens while we are making other plans. HDIFAT?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see children praying? Describe in loving detail.
One thing I missed during my childhood was _____. HDIFAT today?
On average, how many packs of cigarettes do I smoke a month? HDIFAT?
What was the most tender moment we shared together this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
HDIF about Our Father calling us to lead other people?
HDIF when my people say no to God?
What percentage of my time do I spend thinking about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend on foreplay?
HDIF about saving up for things and paying cash?
Do I consider Jesus a friend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you surprise me with something nice?
HDIF when there is a last minute change of plans?
HDIF when you are gentle with me?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you?
What are my attitudes about marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the level of success I have achieved?
HDIF about the commercialism connected with Christmas?
HDIF about my promotion potential?
HDIF when we pray together, just the two of us?
What will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT?
How much anger do I carry in my heart? HDIFAT?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple?
What do I see in other marriages that I want for us? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I believe I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see children praying?
HDIF about having a quiet place in our home?
My most favorite part of your body is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you really listen to me?
HDIF when I see you in our children?
My ideal lovemaking would be... HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I behave when faced with change? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
Marriages around us are affected by how well they see ours working. HDIFAT?
What financial needs do I see coming between us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children reject our values?
I was proud of you last month when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know we're going to have sex?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, you or God? HDIFAMA?
What topic would I most like to see discussed on Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you yell at our children?
What do I like least about myself in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven?
HDIF when I hear of a death?
HDIF about my attempt to balance the checkbook?
I enjoy hearing you talk about... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about getting other people?s advice for solving our problems?
HDIF when my plans for the day, a project an outing, etc., are disrupted? Describe your feelings in loving detail.
What is my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know we are going to have sex?
If I am not junk, then what am I? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are critical of me?
How does my mask disappoint, frustrate, or annoy others? HDIFAMA?
What am I doing to bring joy to our relationship? HDMAMMF
HDIF about days that we do not dialogue?
HDIF about our bedtime ritual?
What do I most like to do in my free time? HDIFAMA?
HDIF on those occasions when my family makes demands on us?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from being more completely honest in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
If I had known then what I know now about raising children, I would have _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when people tell me they cheat on their taxes?
Do I agree with the statement that folks are better off married? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I provide for our family?
What specific changes do I want to make to live more intimately with you? HDIFAT?
God's greatest treasure is you.HDIFAT?"
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
What is my worst habit? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children?
What kind of store would I like to own and operate? HDIFAT?
What friends help me see our goodness? HDIFAT?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when there is not enough time for us?
Is our sexual relationship becoming routine? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?? Expectations"
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
What is my favorite childhood birthday party memory? HDIFAT?
What song would I dedicate to you today? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite love song? HDIFAT?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
What is the most impulsive thing I ever did? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most enjoyment? HDIFAT?
What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT?
In what area do we have hurt in our relationship? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
What does our relationship mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about exercising together?
In think I may have hurt you this month when _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAMA?
How do I succeed sometimes as a good listener? HDIFAT?
What are the inward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
Our love is a prayer. HDIFAT?
HDIF about roadside litter?
HDIF about starting to ride a bicycle again at my age?
How can I put more romance in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy reading? HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during church?
What do I want out of life? HDIFAT?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
How have in-laws contributed a positive change in our family? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our prayer life. HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT?
How do we support the marriages of our friends? HDIFAT?
Is God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to you better? HDIFAT?
How many trophies have I won? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt?
Whom do we share our joys with? HDIFAT?
Where do I place lovemaking on my list of priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF about springtime bursting forth all around us?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT?
If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not included in other people's activities?
HDIF about my volunteer work?
HDIF when you reach out to me after an argument?
What puts me in the mood? HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying to save something from every paycheck?
Jesus is counting on us to make His love believable. HDIFAT?
What is the role of a priest / pastor / minister in our lives? HDIFAT?
Do I make other things more important than my people? What? HDIFAMA?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
What do I think is needed for another child in our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?
HDIF when you suggest a change?
HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures?
HDIF asking for what I need?
Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself well organized? HDIFAT?
IWhat barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about making each day Valentine's Day, at least for a while?
I need your help specifically in _____. HDIFAT?
Recalling our Encounter / Retrouvaille weekend, what happened then that I am now most thankful for? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I've had a very stressful day? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I need to relax but do not?
HDIF when I hurry to answer the phone and it is only a solicitor?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with my people, or have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
What listening skills could improve our relationship? HDIFTYT?
HDIF when we have no private time together?
HDIF recalling my first communion?
HDIF when I hear about someone who has been abused?
I believe I have failed at _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize my priorities are inconsistent with my actions?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAT?
What am I most obsessive about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people make a special effort to make me feel important?
When was the last time I thanked my mother for being my mom? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest fear about our children's future? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? DILD.
How have I grown from the pain I have experienced in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about joining the Parent Teacher Association?
If I were to receive a huge sum of money, how would I be changed by it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your fringe benefits?
HDIF when I watch you play with our children?
We tend to compete against each other in _____. HDIFAT?
What good effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I judge one of my people is better than me at something I take pride in my ability to do? Describe in loving detail.
How do our children's activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we pray together?
How has our non-verbal dialogue improved during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to my people? HDIFAT?
How well suited are we to each other? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I/you initiate our love making? Describe in loving detail.
What did I enjoy most about last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the level of respect between us?
He is Risen! How does this make me feel?
What do I remember most about our first date? HDIFAT?
HDIF about past Christmases (As a child)? HDIFAT?
How can I bring the joys of Christmas to other people? HDIFAT?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be affirmed and recognized by my husband/wife? HDIFAMA?
In what ways am I seeking to love my wife as Christ loved the church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I send you a Valentine's card?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive each other?
HDIF about telling a lie?
HDIF on those occasions when you discipline our children?
Was there a turning point in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my dreams with you?
Do we make the time to pray with our friends? HDIFAMA?
When was the last time I thanked my mother for being a mom?
Is sex pretty much all or nothing for me? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most admire or respect your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF about today's movies?
What areas of our relationship do I take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
I must be true to _____. Can I be true to this and still be with you? HDIFAT?
What helped me be open to change during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about death? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing you laugh?
HDIF about the way I take care of my body?
HDIF when it is time to file income tax forms?
How does lack of money get in the way of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children going back to school when fall comes?
HDIF when we are torn between our families?
What would be my idea of a dream job? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children?
Jesus asks, How are you living your life for me?
What is the greatest gift I could give my people? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I forgave you, and HDIFAT?
What happens when I am still lonely or feel used after we make love? HDIFAT?
When am I most likely to ignore my people? HDIFAT?
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone gives me a firm handshake?
If I could live my life over again, I would. . . HDIFAT?
How well do I concentrate on your needs? HDIFAT?
What were my emotions / feelings as we experienced the weekend finale on Sunday night? HDIFAT?
HDIF just before I tell you something you will not like to hear?
What activity helps me grow as a Christian?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
What can I do this week to make memories? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do something that causes you to feel happy?
I know we are going to make love tonight. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a photograph of you?
Death frightens me (or not). HDIFAT?
Is the focal point of our lives God and the Church? HDIFAT?
Is our home in a good state of repair? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive more criticism than praise?
Is religion something we do or something we live? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not communicating?
What happens to me when I reveal more of what is behind my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you liking me as a person?
Do I give or take too much from you/others? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you are refusing to make up?
How can I give more of myself this Christmas season? HDIFAT?
If I could change any one thing about you, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
I am happiest when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the person, Jesus, and how does this affect us?
HDIF about discussing sex with you?
What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism from my people? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself mature for my age? HDIFAT?
What was the nicest thing someone did for me this week? HDIFAT?
How often do I think we should make love? HDIFAT?
God expects us to be our brothers' keeper. HDIFAT?
Can I sing a song all the way through? HDIFAT?
Would I feel better if someone found me practical or ingenious? HDIFAT?
How would I describe our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What am I working at believing about myself now? What makes it hard? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT?
Do you feel better enjoying the present or anticipating the future?
Recently, how have I been judgemental of you? HDMAMMF?
Has this been a good year or not? HDIFAT?
Is family communication a value of mine? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone takes up too much of my time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I find a love note packed in my sandwich?
HDIF being around people who are negative?
HDIF when you change your mind after we have agreed on something, or made a decision?
If you died, what quality of yours would I miss most? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
What are ten qualities I want most in a partner? How do I measure up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are worried?
How do I feel when I hear couples talking about their sexual relationship? Describe in loving detaiL.
What keeps me from trusting you completely? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I find out, after the fact, that _____ has lied to me?
In what areas of our relationship do I think I am number one with you? HDIFAT?
How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me halfheartedly?
How do we support other people in dialogue? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? HDIFAT?
In our inter-faith marriage, do we celebrate aspects of both faiths in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a walk with you?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let give up the reins and let Our Father decide for us?
Do I challenge others to live their values? HDIFAT?
Our marriage is a sign of Christ's Love. How do I think others experienced our sign today? HDTMMF?
HDIF about the way you behave around other men / women?
Do I behave as if I am afraid of intimacy? HDIFAT?
What part of the Passion is most significant to me? HDIFAT?
Do I run more on a schedule, or just take things as they come? HDMAMMF?
What about you am I grateful for today? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people with bad manners?
When I am lonely, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
Besides my church/temple/etc. where would I most like to celebrate mass/conduct services/etc.? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite form of recreation? HDIFAT?
What foods do I like the best? HDIFAT?
What hopes do I have for the coming weekend? HDIFAT?
Why do not I trust you with helping me with sex? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most grief, stress, enjoyment, etc. (pick one)? HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day?
How does my attitude toward my mother affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family planning?
For our growth, we need God to be part of our love relationship. HDIFAT?
What was your strongest feeling today?HDIFAT?"
HDIF when a couple says no, they do not want or need to experience the weekend?
How do I feel about spending time with your/my family? Describe in loving detail.
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me, or I am most uncomfortable with? HDIFAT?
Listening is most difficult for me when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider my accomplishments?
Are the activities our child(ren) involved in an ideal for me or a value? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish, convent, etc.? HDIFAMA?
What do I think is keeping us out of romance right now? HDIFAT?
How would I approach Advent and Christmas if I knew this would be our last Christmas season together? HDIFAT?
An admission of error is a sign of strength rather than weakness.' Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAMA?
When do I most feel the presence of God? HDIFAT?
What do I need to work on, in order to get better at it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making and keeping New Year's resolutions?
What quality, ability or gift of yours am I most proud to share with others? HDIFAT?
We need new clothes. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car?
What do I hope to achieve through dialogue? HDIFAT?
What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas? HDIFAT?
What was our favorite song when we were courting, and HDIF remembering or hearing it?
Has our relationship experienced any growth? HDIFAT?
How do I think people perceive me? HDIFAMA?
Do I consider myself smoothly diplomatic or brutally honest? HDIFAT?
What qualities do I look for in a friend? HDIFAT?
What listening skills could improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment?
How do I feel when I have to apologize even when I don't think I did anything wrong? Describe in loving detail.
Do I measure myself by God's Standards, or the modern world's standards? HDIFAMA?
Do I believe I will die before my spouse? HDIFAT?
HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend?
How can I stop holding onto my fears? HDIFAT?
Do my personal goals conflict with the goals God has for me? HDIFAMA?
What image do I have of myself as your sexual partner? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we talk about my openness to change?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT decision now?
HDIF when we cry together?
Where do cars fit into my life? HDIFAT?
What are the strongest emotions / feelings I had during our times of trouble? HDIFAT?
Whoever has a heart full of love always has something to give. HDIFAT?
What is the difference between hearing you and listening to you? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for my priesthood or ministry? HDIFAT?
In the area of prayer what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? DILD.
How did you fulfill the longings in my heart when I first met you? HDIFAT?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How would I rate our adaptability, yours to me and mine to you? HDIFAT?
If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing each member of my household, what would I draw and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you laugh at my jokes?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How can I most help you at this time? HDIFAT?
In what areas is it most difficult for me to let you know how I feel? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
I see you as someone very special because... HDIFSTWY?
HDIF about the time we spend with my family?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from you? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about you recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I allow it to affect my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFAT?
If we had to relocate, how would I feel?
What prejudices do I hold? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I clean off the ice from my windshield?
What do I like to do best without the family and HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
My top priorities in life should be _____. HDIFAT?
Is there time enough for God in my busy life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone misunderstands me?
How do I feel when one of my people feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAMA?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about sex? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about World Marriage Day?
HDIF dealing with imaginative people versus dealing with realistic people?
What is it about you that makes me want to ask your forgiveness? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment makes me feel good? HDIFAT?
What have I done to help our parish or church grow in unity? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you get sick during the holidays?
When you are trying to learn something new, do I try to teach you, or do I try to help you discover how to do it yourself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way?
What actions or behaviors do you use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT?
What role do friends play in our marriage? HDIFAT?
When our calendar is full, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are paying more attention to others than to me?
HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
HDIF about skydiving?
What can we do to enrich our prayer life this Lent? HDIFAT?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with God? HDIFAT?
As a couple, we are the lifeblood of the church. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to start a project over again?
Is there anything I need to share with you but have not? HDIFAT?
What crazy things have we done in the past month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I nag you?
HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time?
What realistic thing can I do this week to make it better than last week? HDIFAMA?
What have I learned about myself through dialogue? HDIFAT?
Do I believe we should have at least one family meal a day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children reflect our good qualities?
When I am upset, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
What can I do to build a better community? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spiders and bugs?
HDIF about Operation Rescue?
How do I feel about telling others about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
How is our community helped by our activity in Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
What is it that most separates us? HDIFAT?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our child is sick?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are taking a superior attitude into our dialogues?
What do I most want for our family this New Year? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I/you have an accident? Describe in loving detail.
To which of my characteristics or traits do you object the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our home? Is it Christ-like?
Ruth 1:16-17. HDIF about us as I reflect on these words?
HDIF about deadlines in general?
HDIF when I try to be punctual for your sake?
What is my favorite name for God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time we spend together and the quality of that time?
Why do I keep information from you? What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I need to be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you react instead of respond to me?
HDIF when we look back at what we have done for Encounter / Retrouvaille?
What perfume or cologne do you wear most often? HDIFAT?
My favorite memory of Christmas is... HDIF sharing this?
HDIF when you do something special for another couple?
What do I like least about you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt aggressive. HDIFAT?
Can I perform the Heimlich maneuver? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I really made you laugh? HDIFAT?
How can I make myself a better treasure for God? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the time we spend together and the quality of it? What would I like to change if I could? HDMAMMF?
What do I most like about Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
Right now, what need of mine (Love, Belonging, Self-worth, or Autonomy) is in most need of nourishment? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am buying you a gift?
How do I see our finances affecting our relationship?
HDIF about singing in mass or church?
What barriers or attitudes do I have that keep me from developing an intimate relationship with our friends? HDIFAT?
Do I ever change what I write or say to avoid conflict or argument? Why? HDIFAMA?
What priest or minister in my life has been an example for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when work keeps us apart?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt someone?
What blocks me from talking about money with you?
How do I get my jollies? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make love but do not ask in a clear way?
What does the Lord's Prayer mean to me? HDIFAT?
When we are alone, we usually talk about _____. HDIFAT?
What role does nature play in our marriage? HDIFAT?
How was Lent special for us this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we reach out and are rejected?
HDIF about our fertility?
HDIF about starting over again after a failure?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when the telephone rings in the middle of the night?
When I fight, am I more likely to get defensive, attack the other person, or withdraw? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest fear about my death? HDTMMF?
I think my people's strengths are _____. HDIFAT?
Am I a different person with you than I am with others? If so, how? HDIF sharing this with you?
How important do I think romance is in our relationship? How do I feel about making romance a priority in our relationship? HDMAMMF?
My prayers are answered in God's time or my time? HDMAMMF?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
How do I handle defeat? HDIFAT?
What has dialogue taught me about myself? HDIFAT?
What makes me cry? Do I cry often? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT?
What are the best qualities I see in our children? HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDTMMF?
Is our relationship ready for the Lord? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make God a bigger part of our life? HDIFAMA?
What side of me do I least like others to see? HDIFAT?
What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT?
What have I chosen not to do because I did not think it would make any difference? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAT?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAT?
Do I/we seek support when I/we are struggling? HDIFFAMA?
In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about fighting as a constructive means of communication between us?
How do I see my favorite song playing out in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we decide whether to make love?
What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? Am I spending my time on what I vaule the most? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten too much. HDIFAT?
How are my parents still influencing my life? HDIFAT?
What were the most important aspects of our wedding ceremony to me? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself attractive? HDIFAT?
In the area of death what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
HDIF the day after our lovemaking?
HDIF when I consider that your family's problems are my problems?
HDIF about the line cannot buy me love?
What song can bring tears to my eyes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us?
What is the first thing I would put in a dream box? HDIFAT?
What special moment do I remember? HDIFAT?
What makes our house a home? HDIFAT?
Will we take advantage of the Sacrament of Reconciliation this Lent? HDIFAT?
What kind of childhood did I have? HDIFAT?
In which direction are we heading? HDIFAT?
How do we make ourselves a sign of Jesus' love in our world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not leveling with me?
HDIF about telling our children I love them at least once a day?
When, recently, did I take the time to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
Each of us belongs to the other (I COR 7:3-5). HDIFAT?
When I consider the increasing rate of inflation, I feel _____.
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
How are we responding to our Lord's call to unconditional love in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do you set me free? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT?
If dialogue is so important to our relationship, why do we miss? HDIFAT?
We are a sign - what do people see when they see our love? HDIFAT?
Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAMA?
In our same-faith marriage, how close are we in celebrating our one faith? HDIFAT?
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What gift would I like Jesus to give you this Christmas? HDIFAT?
When I have a serious issue to discuss, what would help me the most? HDIFAT?
My favorite time with God is _____. HDIFAT?
In what ways do I punish myself because of past mistakes? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to working under pressure? HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
How do I think the world will end? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say yes to _____?
I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you behave around my friends?
How does my relationship with my people compare to my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own emotions / feelings, not you?
Knowing what I know now, would I still choose you as a partner? HDIFAT?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you flirt with other men or women?
What actions or behaviors do I use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT?
What area of our relationship do I, or do we, need to work on? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our son being a priest / pastor?
HDIF when I call you up just to say ?Hi??
HDIF when someone asks me for something and remembers to say please?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT?
What quality of yours do I experience when I am away from you? HDIFAT?
How do I like you to touch me? HDIF when you touch me that way?
How do I behave when I am upset with you? HDIFAT?
In what way does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we resolve conflicts in our relationship?
HDIF when I receive a gift that suggests I need improvement?
HDIF thinking this could be our last dialogue letter?
Do I believe that love takes time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your eyes?
HDIF when your parents drop by unexpectedly?
When God forgives me, why can?t I forgive myself? DYFILD.
What is my favorite childhood memory of Christmas? HDIFAT?
What emotions / feelings do I have about children?
Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
What would be my heart's desire right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I win at cards? When you win?
How has our dialogue affected our daily life as a couple? HDIFAT?
When misfortune comes, do I laugh it off, wonder why, or make the best of it? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIF sharing this with you?
When you feel threatened, I feel... DILD.
HDIF when your job separates us overnight?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness?
HDIF when I watch the sunrise with you?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAT?
When do I worry about a problem instead of really concentrating on a solution? HDIFAT?
What do I want most from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging other people?
We have no telephone. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way we spend our Holidays? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF knowing that I cannot fill your needs for you?
Where do I look for help in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize you are not coping effectively with stress?
How do I still let my mask prevent me from putting you number one? HDTMMF?
I am better motivated to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are home by yourself?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
Is there anything troubling me right now? HDIFAT?
If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT?
What one thing do my people do that helps bring me closest to them? HDIFFAMA?
What do I like best about us in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving money?
HDIF about spending the rest of my life with you?
I see my people as very special because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I complete some big, unusual task around the house?
HDIF about our experience with the Lord this past week?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT (besides disappointed)?
How can I make Thanksgiving more meaningful? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging our friends in public?
What do I procrastinate on the most? HDIFAT?
What keeps us from dialogue? HDIFAT?
As a child, what was I like? HDIF about the person I used to be?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most admire or respect your feelings?
How does my / your traveling affects our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is fun for us as a couple? HDIFAT?
How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt confused. HDIFAT?
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? How does remembering this MMF? Romance"
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?
How can I be more gentle with myself? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to my father? HDIFAT?
There really IS a New World somewhere! HDIFAT?
What is my most recent happy memory of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you after a long separation?
What do I like best about you in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are in some form of friendly competition, like cards?
Can I name three values we both share? HDIFAT?
What other obstacles do I let get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept your loving me? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite time of year and why? HDIFAT?
Is there enough laughter and relaxation in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What does a family Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT?
The most important thing in my life right now is _____. HDIFAT?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of myself? HDIFAT?
What role does dialogue play in our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our time together?
Is there anything that is barrier in our communication with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our lifestyle?
Am I honest with you about my feelings when I am stressed? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I consider that we are unique as a couple?
HDIF about the time we spend with our family and the quality of that time?
HDIF when we experiment and make love in different ways?
HDIF about shopping in general?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF when I am asked to love, to give, or to forgive but will receive nothing in return?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAMA?
How does dealing with my past make me feel?
HDIF when I notice our children taking on some of my characteristics?
HDIF when we are too tired for each other?
Which of the beatitudes do I find it easiest and which hardest to live? HDIFAT?
When I consider the story of the prodigal son, I feel _____.
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?
What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAT?
Is our Christmas season too busy for us to keep focused on Jesus? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are in each other's arms after we make love?
HDIF this week living in the modern world?
HDIF when I think about Christ's coming at Christmas?
What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are part of a community that supports marriage?
What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when _____. HDIFAT?
Where is our relationship headed? HDIFAT?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I realize I've done something thoughtless and hurt someone?
HDIF when we snuggle in front of the fireplace?
HDIF when you swear at me or engage in name-calling?
HDIF when I see someone parked illegally in a handicapped space?
How will we celebrate New Year's Day? HDIFAT?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAT?
It is difficult for me to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
Is it easier for me to give or to receive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the violence on TV?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with you?
HDIF when you show me that you love me?
HDIF when we are not together as a family?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on our children? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF about singing praise to God?
What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
Which one of us worries more about money? HDIFAT?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when rumors hurt my reputation?
Do we share our joys with others, and spread the good news, or do we celebrate alone? HDIFAMA?
Would people outside of our community be more likely to call me warm and sympathetic, or cold and aloof? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you do something that disrupts my plans?
How well do I take care of my true needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT?
If I become more committed to you, I might have to give up _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when dealing with your past?
HDIF about sharing my emotional life with you?
HDIF about planting a flower garden?
What fear do I think you keep from me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying the scriptures with you?
HDIF being with friends we knew before Encounter / Retrouvaille?
HDIF about my office dress code?
What do I most need from my people today? HDIFAMA?
When I let you make your own decisions, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I wait patiently when you are late?
How do I feel when I realize that God has spoken to me through you? Describe in loving detail.
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about death? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about looking the person in the eye when I say, I am sorry?
When have I felt a negative emotion in response to physical affection? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of us tries to manipulate the other?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
How do I act when my need for autonomy, self-worth, love, or belonging (agree on one) is not being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when our children praise me?
What have I done recently to bring joy or comfort to others? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about kissing you at midnight New Year's Eve?
Am I as close to my people as I was just after my Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I notice our children taking on some of your characteristics?
How do I feel when you tell me, 'I need a hug'? Describe in loving detail.
How can we share our Encounter / Retrouvaille experiences with non-Christians? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am late for an appointment and not near a phone?
God will give us nothing we cannot handle. HDIFAT?
How do we express our love for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF when our children challenge us?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
When you touch me tenderly, without sex as a goal, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning for our future?
When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to be right?
When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who brag about themselves?
If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDIFAT?
Sometimes people tell me I cannot do what I want to do. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you make a sacrifice for us?
What feelings do I experience when I share with you? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about taking a shower together?
I am happy to be alive today because _____. HDIFAT?
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I get a little time to relax after I get home?
When was the last time I complimented my people? HDIFAT?
How much energy do I spend concealing, rather than revealing, who I really am? HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from my people lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a crucifix?
HDIF when we wash dishes together?
What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear you say something complimentary about me?
HDIF when I am a tourist?
HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together?
HDIF about our goals as a couple?
HDIF trying to put you first when our children are so demanding?
What is my ideal date with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about the first time we made love?
What was my favorite pet? HDIFAT?
How was your love life-giving to me today? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about us through the challenges we have faced? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family celebrations?
HDIF about having regular medical and dental checkups?
HDIF when I have to work late?
HDIF about criticism? Does it keep me focused and innovative?
Can I ride a skateboard? A unicycle? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs?
What can we do to promote peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF about death?
HDIF when you are not able to handle the pressures in your life?
HDIF about how I spend my time?
HDIF when I (wife) / you (husband) wear make-up?
Is our neighborhood safe? HDIFAT?
One thing I missed out on in my childhood was... HDIFAMA?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How would I feel working a few hours a month in a soup kitchen? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself to be vengeful? HDIFAT?
HDIF about looking out for Christ's coming?
How did the absence of dialogue affect our communication and closeness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you make a special effort to make me feel important?
What did I want to be when I was little? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our spending on clothing?
HDIF when you do not stand up for me?
You cannot compromise another person?s right to be an individual. HDIFAT?
Our intimacy is renewed each time we communicate more deeply. HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAT?
In the little emergencies of everyday life, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
What fears keep me from wanting another child? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try something different in my prayer life?
HDIF about the periods when we do not dialogue?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I be more myself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about going to mass or church as a family?
Is it easy or hard for me to forgive myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I remember you in my prayers?
What am I like when I am sick? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our families criticize our lifestyle and involvements?
In what area do I trust you the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust you, just the least) HDIFAMA?
How have we shared our relationship with others this week? HDIFAT?
How do other people experience our lack of sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you watch me undress?
HDIF when I discuss politics with someone whose views are opposite of mine?
HDIF when I see you working too many hours?
Whom do I need to remember today in prayer? HDIFAT?
If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing each member of my family, what would I draw and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the love I bring to this family?
How does _____ (name a priest or minister) help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still a mystery to myself? HDIFAT?
If I died with no chance to talk to you, what would I regret not saying? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our children laugh?
In what ways do I behave like a child? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people do not return things that they borrow from me?
In the last week, in what way have I been most supported by you? HDTMMF?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDTMMF?
How good our marriage is affects other marriages around us. HDIFAT?
What part does dialogue play in our hurting and healing? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we have had a long laugh together? Does laughter help heal?
What did I learn about you last month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our Encounter / Retrouvaille jobs keep us from being lovers?
What charism (strength) do I have from the Spirit that helps the world believe? HDIFAT?
It is easier to leave angry words unspoken, than to mend a heart those words have broken.' -- unknown author Lately, have I said any words that were angry and may have hurt you? HDIFAMA?
What have I learned about my people through the challenges we have faced together? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about having God in our relationship?
HDIF when I take time to read to our children?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I sometimes provoke fights even if I don't start them? HDIFAMA?
How honest is our tax return? HDIFAT?
What specific event in my past has most affected my sexuality? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray aloud together?
Besides our bed, where would I most like to make love to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I bend the truth?
HDIF when I keep my needs and emotions / feelings from you?
How have I changed recently?
HDIF when my spirit of adventure triumphs over good sense?
How well do I accept criticism from you? HDIFAT?
What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDMAMMF?
For what in my life do I feel most grateful? HDIFAT?
Is a daily routine a painful or comfortable way for me to get things done? HDIFAT?
We are not Sacrament without passion. HDIFAT?
HDIF about working out a budget and sticking to it?
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.' -- Joshua 1:9. Have I given up when I should have prayed for strength? HDIFAMA?
If I could relive any moment from our past, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own feelings?
HDIF about how we live out our faith?
Do I give you my full attention when we make love, or do I get distracted by other things? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about having to do work that does not harmonize with my values?
What is the meaning of my birthday to me? HDIFAT?
What changes do I need to make in my behavior to grow closer to you? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for help, you or God? HDIFAMA?
What values do I hold that I would like the world to see? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for romance?
HDIF when someone snaps their fingers to get my attention?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have had a very stressful day?
How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT?
Would I have been able to stay at the Garden of Gethsemane knowing what was going to happen? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize that God is speaking to me through you?
HDIF about my boss?
Can I be romantic when I do not FEEL romantic? HDIFAT?
What kindness do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
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