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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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What is our favorite Christmas memory? HDIFAT?
Our decisions are frequently _____. HDIFAT?
What duties do I have? How well do I honor my duties? HDIFAT?
If I could get away with it, would I break the rules? HDIFAT?
How can we bring new life into our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest healing device I can offer you? HDIFAT?
In the presence of trouble, some grow wings, others will grow crutches. HDIFAT?
As a child, I missed _____. HDIFAT?
What area of my communication with my people do I think I need to improve? HDIFAT?
Do I give or take too much from you/others? HDIFAMA?
Since dialogue, am I more comfortable talking about sex and death with other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about relying on the extra speed I develop at the end of a job?
HDIF when I think about us ten years from now?
What are my attitudes about our sex life? HDIFAT?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my plans run off the track?
How does my mask (personality style) make me a married single? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have sexual fantasies about you?
What keeps me from trusting my people completely? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we have unexpected company?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
What evidence do I have in my life that dialogue is important? HDIFAT?
How do I still let my mask prevent me from putting you number one? HDTMMF?
What is my mask (personality style) when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT?
How did the absence of dialogue affect our communication and closeness? HDIFAT?
What is the riskiest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT?
What gift can I give Jesus on His birthday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I must deal with someone who is very assertive?
HDIF when our children compete against each other?
How do I feel about the concept, 'Let go and let God'? HDMAMMF?
Do I think God led me to Retrouvaille or Retrouvaille led me to God? HDMAMMF?
What are our plans for this new year? HDIFAT?
Sometimes people tell me I cannot do what I want to do. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you suffering? Describe in loving detail.
In the area of God and our faith, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you are jealous?
HDIF when you are critical of me?
HDIF when we appear as partners, not as individuals only?
When was the last time I complemented you? DYFID.
How do I feel when someone is making fun of me? Describe in loving detail.
What is my listening pattern when we talk about disciplining our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about putting more fireworks into our life?
Is our sexual relationship all it can be? HDIFAT?
When I look at you today, do I see you as my bride / groom? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I play cards to win? When I play just to be sociable?
HDIF about our spending habits?
What areas do I most like to dialogue about? HDIFAT?
HDIF about leftovers?
HDIF about laughter during lovemaking?
In the area of death, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your reaction when I fail at something?
HDIF when I hear you pray aloud?
What kind of seed am I? HDIFAT?
How has Lent prepared us for Holy Week?
When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let give up the reins and let Our Father decide for us?
HDIF when I hear profanity? When I use profanity?
How do I feel when I would like to say no, but don't think I can? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel when I have to take a risk with someone other than you? DILD.
What is my favorite pet name that you call me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to dump on me?
HDIF when I need you to give me space?
What memories of Easter do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave our children with a baby-sitter?
What topic would I most like to see discussed in our community of couples? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the responsibility we have to other married couples?
Do I allow my sexual values to interfere with my response to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when time and exhaustion keep us from being lovers?
HDIF when you try to mold me into someone else?
HDIF when you laugh at me?
My favorite memory of Christmas is... HDIF sharing this?
You cannot compromise another person's right to be themselves. HDIFAT?
In our relationship, what are my favorite evasive maneuvers? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my unfinished projects?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned? HDIFAT?
I try harder to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
What attitude am I struggling most with today? HDIFAT?
Which one of us worries more about money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me, but the compliment is not sincere?
In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you behaving tenderly with our children?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me?
What is the greatest gift my mother gave me? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate my services / masses? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me you love me?
What do I think is important for your happiness? HDIFAT?
How important is physical affection to me? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if you unexpectedly gave me a hug after a hard day? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way our marriage influences those around us? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I try holding my temper?
What would a care package for our marriage look like? HDIFAT?
How well have I used the ingredients that God gave me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our children are reacting to our values?
How can I tell when another couple is really in love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am short-changed at the store?
What do I remember most about our wedding day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we first met?
When recently have I shared an emotion / feeling that I did not want to have? HDIFAT?
How has my attitude affected our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unfinished business in our pasts?
Can I snow ski? Water ski? HDIFAT?
HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you?
Who do we look up to as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I think I deserve private time?
HDIF about revealing my negative emotions?
What is my idea of heaven? HDIFAT?
How do I behave in a group when they start talking about religion? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship need, the most? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about my inhibitions about sex?
I am happy to be alive today because _____. HDIFAT?
Can I, or can you, give me what I want from this relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my work?
What one specific thing would make our lovemaking even more beautiful? HDIFAT?
What do I perceive to be the biggest threat to our relationship? HDIFAT?
What of my emotions / feelings is most likely to lead to an expression of anger? HDIFAT?
How do I think the parish/church/temple/etc. finances affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAMA?
How much control would I have to give up to make things better for us? HDIFAT?
Jesus is counting on us to reveal His love to other people. HDIFAT?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAT?
Our children will be grown and gone too soon. HDIFAT?
More people would learn from their mistakes if they were not so busy denying them. HDIFAT?
How does our schedule affect our relationship? HDMAMMF?
What do I think God wants for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to heaven with you?
In what specific way did I help someone today? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I want to spend time with you, but you do want to/are too busy/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we attend Stations of the Cross?
What barriers keep me from sharing with my people my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me? Describe in loving detail.
What is my dream for my involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I am sorry?
How do I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
What gift have you given me in the last week, two weeks, month, etc., that I have really appreciated? How do I feel sharing this with you? (The gift can be a kind word at the right time, a hug when it was needed, a phone call, etc. It shouldn't be a material item.)
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with God, or have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
How much of me will I have to give up to make the marriage work? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What struggle did I face that helped prepare me for this day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone insults or belittles one of my ideas?
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not leveling with me?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with us? HDIFAT?
Why did I marry you? HDIFAT?
HDIF in my role as a father?
HDIF when work makes demands of me that seem unfair?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent? HDIFAT?
In our same-faith marriage, how close are we in celebrating our one faith? HDIFAT?
Do we share our joys with others, and spread the good news, or do we celebrate alone? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the Easter bunny?
If possible, I would like to reclaim these things I gave up for you: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring help with yard work?
Do I attempt great and small tasks with the same attitude? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about changing places with you for a day if I could?
What are my goals for the next two weeks? HDIFAT?
What gift can I give Jesus for Christmas this year? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the time we spend with our family and the quality of it? What would I like to change if I could? HDFTMMF?
HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you?
What do I like best and least about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making love when we have a time limit?
What is the most embarrassing situation I have been in? HDIFAT?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? HDIFAT?
How would I feel discovering that you are hurting right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going with you to an action movie?
How can I tell when you are bored? HDIFAT?
How have I experienced forgiveness in our relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I see baby Jesus in the manger?
HDIF when I help you carry in the groceries?
I love you today because _____. HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask you what you are worried about?
HDIF when someone does a better job at work than I do?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to you? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFA This?
HDIF about splitting of daily chores?
To which of my characteristics or traits do you object the most? HDIFAT?
When is my quiet time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about this Christmas compared with past ones?
Were my Valentine's Day expectations met? HDIFAT?
How do we promote intimacy in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving you a ten-second kiss every day?
How can we improve our sexual communication as a couple? HDIFAT?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDTMMF?
I look(ed) forward to celebrating this day with you because _______.
HDIF when I am being impolite or rude to other people?
As the basis of my goals in life, I want to be _____. HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about the way we are managing our finances? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you call me from work?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the amount of time we spend on foreplay? Describe in loving detail.
Where do I feel the need to be reconciled with myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the checkbook does not balance?
HDIF when you act on your emotions / feelings, content to let the chips fall where they may?
What is my favorite room of the house and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
What nickname do my co-workers or family members have for me? HDIFAT?
If I could start over again, what would I change? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Dialogue is my gift of myself to you?' Describe in loving detail.
What talent or quality of yours have I discovered in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your having to work overtime?
How do I see God reflected through our favorite priest or minister? HDIFAT?
What do I most want for our family this New Year? HDIF sharing this with you?
What are my expectations in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How has our Lent prepared us for Holy Week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not think you understand me?
How does my mask disappoint, frustrate, or annoy others? HDIFAMA?
Would I ever go through an 8-item checkout with 20 items? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our dialog? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about planning a holiday with you?
How would I rate our communication skills? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging people we do not know all that well?
HDIF when you apologize to me?
HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together?
HDIF when you ask me non-verbally to make love?
HDIF about dying today?
How do I see us living God's plan in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you have to make a sacrifice for us?
HDIF about following a schedule and making to-do lists?
HDIF about making a sacrifice so that others can get help for their marriage?
What was the silliest thing I ever did with you? HDIFAT?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone blames me?
HDIF when I hear the laughter of children?
HDIF when we would like to do something but cannot afford it?
HDIF about the way we spent last weekend?
What do I usually do about things that hurt me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about Holiday bustle? Describe in loving detail."
HDIF when we watch an old romantic movie together?
Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sending and receiving cards?
How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF realizing that my ministry is a gift from God?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have to change a tire?
HDIF about our involvement in the church?
What have I done recently that I should ask you for forgiveness, but have not? HDIF sharing this with you?
How has our non-verbal communication helped our relationship? HDIFAT?
What kind of person am I? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I have had a fight with one of my people?
What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
In what ways can I deepen our spirituality? HDIFAT?
Is Advent preparation for Christ's birthday or Santa Claus? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your relationship with my family?
What new desires for our relationship have we gained this week? HDIFAT?
What quality of yours do I experience when I am away from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are open to increasing the size of our family?
HDIF when I receive a gift?
What do I want for myself this weekend? HDIFAT?
What characteristic of yours do I find irritating? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I invite you to watch TV with me?
How has the temptation to live the World's Plan affected us? HDIFAT?
If I could fix one thing in the world, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What gifts did we give back to the Lord today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping in touch with my extended family?
What is my dream for tomorrow? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of your family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you smile?
Which of life's pleasures do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we had experienced the weekend, but before we left the facility?
HDIF knowing I am forgiven for my sins?
HDIF when I say good-bye to you at the airport?
What are my most important values for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not answer the telephone?
When was our last moonlight walk? HDIFAT?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDTMMF?
How do I feel about our involvement with our church and the activities there? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when one of our children says, I love you?
When have I felt alone this winter? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way we spend our Holidays? Describe in loving detail.
What are the changes I most need to make in myself for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
If you are not free to risk, you cannot grow. HDIFAT?
What expectation(s) of mine was not met this last week? HDIFAMA?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our local community, or lack thereof?
How do I respond to what I consider to be God's failures? HDIFAT?
When do I close my heart to my people? HDIFAT?
How close are we as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the house in a mess?
How important is the Eucharist to me? HDIFAT?
How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT?
How would our neighbors describe our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am asked to cut back or do without?
What do I want God to help us with? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about letting someone outside my/our family borrow my/our car? Describe in loving detail.
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I should reach out to you but do not?
Describe a time when I felt close to you. HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my self-image? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about you when I am filled with romance?
HDIF when things go wrong at home?
HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me 'The gift you have received, give as a gift.'?
Does my touching you communicate caring and commitment? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our secret code?
Should lovemaking be part of the healing process or reserved for afterward? HDIFAT?
Can we hope to heal our relationship before we have clarified the issue? HDIFAT?
How many diets have I tried? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize my priorities are inconsistent with my actions?
Who am I a hero to? HDIFAT?
Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest defect in listening to you? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAMA?
If I could live my life over again, I would. . . HDIFAT?
What strengths do we have to offer each other as a couple? HDIFAT?
What negative emotions / feelings do I experience most frequently? HDIFAT?
When did I feel closest to God and my people in celebrating mass/conducting service/etc.? HGIFAMA?
Would others notice any difference in us since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us as a family?
HDIF when you expect more of me than I am capable of giving right now?
I am a better person because of... (Think of someone other than your spouse). HDIFAT?
Can I think of an event that has made a difference in my life? HDIFAT?
How has your writing a dialogue letter to me, each time you do, affected our relationship? HDIFAT?
What was the most meaningful experience that I had today? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing an unusual ability or talent with others?
HDIF about how we live out our faith?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT?
What quality in you helped me trust in our young marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am talking to you and you do not seem to be listening?
HDIF when I have to make a difficult phone call?
What area do I least want to talk to my people about? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about fun in our marriage?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What gets in my way, preventing me from learning more about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing the things that you enjoy?
HDIF telling you something I assume you are not going to like?
How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone else insists on trying to run my life?
HDIF when we do not have much time to dialogue?
HDIF about the phrase, Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?
HDIF when I am driving very fast?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem to be holding something back from me?
HDIF when you are sick or hurt?
Where we live is _____ to me. HDIFAT?
What was my parents' relationship with God like? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship affected when we strive to love unconditionally? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are always coming up with new ideas?
HDIF sharing the holidays with you?
Do I judge I have enough freedom? HDIFAMA?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?
What I need most from you tonight is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car?
How do I feel when I realize that God is speaking to me through you?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF about exercising together?
How can I stop evil from happening? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to get up but you can sleep in?
Your specialness today was... HDIFAT?
What compliment do I most like to receive about me? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most admire or respect your feelings?
Is Jesus in control of my future? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we played with our children and just had fun? HDIFAT?
HDIF walking around in public with ashes on my forehead?
My strongest emotion / feeling about you today was _____.
HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
What is the healthiest trait of our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your carrying an organ donor card?
HDIF if one of our children died?
HDIF when you leave love notes in my suitcase?
HDIF when I realize that God has spoken, or is speaking, to me through you?
HDIF when we are separated because of your job or career?
HDIF when we have to accept God's plan for us?
HDIF when I see myself in photographs?
My greatest hurt in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
How can you help me recognize my good qualities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me to describe my emotion / feeling?
HDIF about my physical appearance?
HDIF about my fringe benefits?
When you touch me tenderly, without sex as a goal, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT?
Would I want our child to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you react instead of respond to me?
What is the most effective way to communicate forgiveness?
When I pray, do I listen? HDIFAT?
When were we closest this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
If we could go anywhere, where would I most like to take you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we are asked to do something, and I/we say 'yes' when I would rather say 'no?' Describe in loving detail.
In what area(s) do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAMA?
What do I like best about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loaning money to a friend or relative?
HDIF when I ask you to make love to me?
HDIF when someone plays a practical joke on me?
What are my longings and yearnings for us and our relationship? HDIFAT?
What impact do our children have on our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people tell me how contented and happy they are?
What is my least favorite household chore? HDIFAT?
Am I more concerned with my outer or inner appearance? HDIFAMA?
What little annoyance(s) have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
Is our bedroom free of clutter? HDIFAT?
What role does faith play in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's language?
HDIF when you say, I can never understand you?
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What makes it hard to live according to our own values? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a decision but someone has a different idea?
HDIF about our wanting our relationship to succeed?
HDIF when activities separate us?
How do I try to hide my faults? HDIFAT?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
What special gift have I prepared to give Him for His birthday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I lose an argument?
What faults do I dislike most about myself? HDIFAT?
What are the negative effects my mask has on me? HDMAMMF?
If I were to place a value on you, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the fun, or lack of fun, in our relationship?
What specific changes do I want to make to live more intimately with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive a phone call from an old friend we have not talked to in a long time?
Do I hide my true feelings from others? HDIFAMA?
How does our closeness reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving to an Angel Tree or other project for needy people?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT?
Is money in my pocket a priority? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I need a hug? Describe in loving detail.
When was the last time I went to God in prayer for the sake of our relationship? HDIF?
How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT?
Four things to learn in life: To think clearly without hurry or confusion; To love everybody sincerely; To act in everything with the highest motives; To trust God unhesitatingly.' -Helen Keller HD this quote MMF?
HDIF when I think about the first car we ever owned?
HDIF when I am shopping with you?
What is my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am about to reveal something to you?
HDIF when you tell me that you need me?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
How do I think my people perceive me? HDIFAMAM?
What aspect of myself do I still try to hide from others? How do I feel about my answer?
The couple that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about going out to dinner together?
HDIF when I remember you in my prayers?
When was the last time I called my special friends just to tell them I love them? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you do not take care of yourself?
You are my hero. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we spend an entire day communicating only with non-verbals? (Try it!)
HDIF when I attract attention to myself?
HDIF when sarcastic remarks are directed at me?
HDIF when you avoid a conflict between us?
What have I done recently to bring joy or comfort to others? HDIFAT?
What is the most important value I have? HDIFAT?
What more could I do with what I know? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
How do I fel about the way our marriage influences other people? DILD.
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDUFAMA?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What did I do today that I was proud of? HDIFAT?
The house is a mess. HDIFAT?
What do we have to offer the world together, that I do not offer alone? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue changed my life? HDIFAT?
How have I grown from the pain I have experienced in my life? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIF sharing this with you?
What things do I put first? HDIFAT?
Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
What did I learn about you last month? HDIFAT?
What do our parents think about our marriage? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT?
What is my dream for our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the changes taking place in our lives right now?
Do I see death as an end to our love relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I see you in our children?
HDIF about making romance a priority in our relationship?
Does your family have a reunion? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you change your mind after we have agreed on something, or made a decision?
What is getting in the way of my listening to you today? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I have to apologize even when I don't think I did anything wrong? Describe in loving detail.
How long would I like to live? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our children's religious education?
HDIF when we laugh during lovemaking?
HDIF laughing with you?
In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of death? HDIFAT?
What specifically could I do to break down the barriers between us? HDIFAT?
What are my priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sending Christmas cards?
HDIF when we heal each other in dialogue?
What smells have an emotional association for me? HDIFAT?
What did my parents praise me most for? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your volunteer work?
What have I learned about myself through dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not dialogue regularly?
When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning how to fix a leaky faucet or running toilet?
What is the best help you can give me when I am discouraged? HDIFAT?
What do I think you find difficult to tell me? HDIFAT?
How did your spouse propose? HDIFAT?
Do I come as close as possible to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
Have we been open in our daily dialogue? HDIFAMA?
Lately, have I accepted your feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite means of relaxation? HDIFAT?
What Christ-like qualities do I see in you? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
Can I laugh at myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you the more comfortable chair?
What area of our communication do I think I/we need to improve? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most grief, stress, enjoyment, etc. (pick one)? HDIF sharing this with you now?
Which three qualities do I require in a friend? HDIFAT?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
What kind of relationship do I have with your in-laws? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus Lord of my prayer life? HDIFAT?
Can I talk easily to people for as long as necessary? HDIFAT?
In what ways are you my best friend? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
We had hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT?
What would I say most represents a symbol of our loving relationship? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have of your family?
HDIF when I consider that pain and disappointment are just part of life?
HDIF when we make love with the lights on?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
HDIF looking back at our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary?
How would I describe you to Jesus? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you to cheer you up?
HDIF when I forgive an enemy?
How do I feel about giving our time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
HDIF about the number of children we have?
HDIF when our children get into trouble?
One thing I missed during my childhood was _____. HDIFAT today?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? How do I feel about my answer?
How can I tell that you have had a bad day? HDIFAT?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAT?
How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDMAMMF?
What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
When at a party, do we act like married singles? HDIFAT?
What one thing has most united us this past week? HDIFAT?
In what way have I seen my goodness through you today? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you are too tired to respond to me?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in my life, HDIF about my past?
HDIF about spanking?
How am I presently recognizing (affirming) my husband/wife? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we exchange gifts?
HDIF when the assumptions you made about me are not true?
HDIF recalling the birth of our children?
What topic would I most like to see discussed on Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about hugging our friends in public?
How well do I think I do at recognizing and trying to nourish my needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT?
Do I think our love makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
It is morning and I just got up. HDIFAT?
In what area do I trust my people the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust my people, just the least) HDIFAMA?"
HDIF about the coming of Christ?
Love is patient, love is kind. How does this apply to our family? HDIFAT?
How have we failed to be a sign of love to our people? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone in our family helps me?
HDIF when we are separated?
What effect does making love to you have on me? HDIFAT?
When you withdraw into your shell, HDIF?
What fear have I not shared with you lately? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my people say no to God? Describe in loving detail.
What can I do to make it easier for you to trust me? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAMA?
How have I helped myself in the effort to help others? HDIFAT?
What does my religion mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a member of my family is ill?
HDIF when I try to be punctual for your sake?
HDIF when my people show interest in what I do?
What barriers or attitudes keep me, or keep us, from being more romantic? HDIFAT?
Do I accept God's will? HDIFAT?
How do I react to pressure? How does my reaction affect you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you working too many hours?
Do I admit when I am wrong? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
HDIF when we have been separated for a long time?
HDIF about the amount of time I spend on my work?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
What makes our house a home? HDIFAT?
HDIF about discussing our sex life?
Of those whom I have loved and lost, whom do I miss the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch the sunrise with you?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDMAMMF?
How do I think we can be more involved with each other? HDIFAT?
Do I usually initiate friendships with my people, or do I wait for them? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAMA?
In raising our children, do I tend to be detached or engaged? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know I have upset someone in my family?
When others expect a lot from me, I feel ______ and tend to ______ . HDTMMF?
When I seek advice, am I really seeking what is best for me, or to get support for what I wanted all along? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home right now?
HDIF about our spending on clothing?
Is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____.
What feelings do I have when I think about us being apart for several days? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I react when people sing Happy Birthday to me in public? HDIFAT?
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me? HDIFAT?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances,? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
Jesus suffered and died for us. What can I do for Him? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I truly felt listened to by you? HDIFAT?
What family memories of spring do I have? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to bed angry?
Which of our anniversaries do I remember most fondly? HDIFAT?
Was I pushed to excel when I was young? HDIFAT?
HDIF realizing you might not come home tonight?
HDIF when you are late and I have to wait for you?
Other than clothing, do I have things I consider to be only mine? HDIFAT?
Whom do I share my joys with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes?
What have I learned about myself through dialogue? HDIFAMA?
What special strength do I see in my in-laws? HDIFAT?
Would what I do be missed if I was not here to do it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
HDIF when you come home late?
HDIF when I have wasted time?
HDIF when we have to face a crisis?
Would I like to plan some changes in our life this next year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about our financial position?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when discussing our sex life?
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me, or I am most uncomfortable with? (writing, listening, describing my feeling, etc.) How do I feel sharing this with you?
Do you feel better enjoying the present or anticipating the future?
HDIF about our sexual relationship right now?
Is your quality of life better or worst than 10 years ago? HDIFAT?
HDIF about snakes?
When I am angry, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that you can / cannot do CPR?
How does your lack of response to physical affection affect my mood? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the role God played in my vows?
What did I do to lift another person this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
When we have choices to make, do I take a minute to walk in your shoes? HDIFAT?
How do I get my jollies? HDIFAT?
What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted people's emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
HDIF when we agree on an important issue?
When, while experiencing the weekend or afterward, did I really begin to listen to you? HDIFAT?
One thing I missed out on in my childhood was... HDIFAMA?
When do I feel the most romantic? What are my feelings at those times? HDIF sharing this with you?
Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
When time is short, do I handle the situation well, or do I tend to go into panic mode? HDIFAMA?
How does success affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself a hawk or a dove? HDIFAT?
What is special about you today? HDIFAT?
What do I perceive to be the biggest threat to our relationship? HDIFSTWY?
Is dialogue a chore or a special time for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about working many hours in a room with no windows?
What is my least favorite holiday? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you bring me a surprise? Describe in loving detail.
What kind of criticism distresses me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our eye contact with each other when we are talking?
HDIF when I think you are hurting me intentionally?
What have I given up for my calling that has helped me grow as a person? HDIF about this?
HDIF about starting the year off with a budget we have agreed on?
What are my thoughts about asking for help with our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make you happy?
HDIF when I get the silent treatment from you?
How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear from you that would allow me to be more open? HDIFAT?
What values of the church do I want to pass on to our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT?
What are the qualities that first attracted me to you? HDIFAT?
What dreams do I have for this year? Are they realistic? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I offer you a piece of candy?
I am a better person because of my people. HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the role I play in a wedding? Describe in loving detail.
Lately, how have I responded to people's demands of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about yelling?
HDIF when you forgive me?
How has our dialogue affected our family? HDIFAT?
What I want you to remember most about me is _____. HDIFAT?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my expectations in our sexual relationship?
HDIF when I am sexually aroused?
What changes do I need to make in my behavior to grow closer to you? HDIFAT?
When meeting difficulties, am I more likely to alter them or to alter myself? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintences? HDIFAMA?
How would I describe you to a blind person? HDIFAT?
When do we take down the Christmas decorations? HDIFAT?
How do your insecurities affect me? HDMAMMF?
When working on a big project, am I more likely: to start at the beginning and take it step by step - start with the end and work my way back - or dive in somewhere in the middle? HDIFAT?
How do I gauge the blessings God has granted to us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the actions of other people come between us?
The main reason I am afraid to commit to you is _____. HDIFAT?
What is something we have suffered together in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDIFAT?
What might be fun for us in the future? HDIFAT?
Where do I have an attitude of inferiority? HDIFAT?
Are we still striving for a deeper loving marriage, or have we stopped because we judge we've done enough? HDIFAMA?
How can we, as a couple, meet Jesus' challenge to follow Him? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
What do I most need to change to be perfect as the Heavenly Father? HDIFAT?
When I think about the sacrifices Jesus made for me, HDIF?
Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT?
When do I have time for private prayer? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
Do I (Did I) love my parents just because I respect them for all they've done (did) for me, or is there more to it? HDIFAMA?
How accepting of others have I been this week? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I make the decision to love and have sex when I do not want to?
What was a time during our dialogue that I felt that you were really listening to me?HDMAMMF?"
Is my dialogue a real letter or does it just answer the question? HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect my life? HDIFAT?
Are we equal partners in our decision making? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our financial status now?
In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDIFAT?
How am I life-giving to you? HDIFAT?
When was I most aware of you today? HDIFAT?
What can we do to economize this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put activities before our relationship?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? How do I feel sharing this with you?
What does Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT?
When some issue comes between me and other people, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go, and why? HDIFAT?
How can I be more aware of the unique goodness and worth of my spouse?HDMAMMF?"
HDIF when I am the seeker and you are the avoider?
The Bible character you remind me most of is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when my priorities conflict with yours?
In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament/calling? HDIFAMA?
What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have so little private time together?
HDIF about involving our children in a Thanksgiving tradition?
HDIF about practical jokes?
HDIF when I wipe away your tears?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it?
HDIF about our sexual relationship?
How do I usually handle conflict with my people? HDIFAT?
Who are my models for my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we use incense at Mass?
HDIF when our families criticize our lifestyle and involvements?
What is my biggest fear about our financial situation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going out with you in the evening?
We have a stake in other people's marriages and they in ours. HDIFAT?
HDIF about payday?
HDIF when someone compliments you (but not me) on our family?
How would I feel if someone in the family knew how to perform CPR? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I have to do most of the work for a ministry project? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you win an argument?
HDIF when you put me first?
What do I most need from my people when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have lost control with our children?
HDIF when our children praise me?
HDIF when I delay acting on a good idea until it is too late?
How well do I think my people serve God? HDIFAMA?
How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together, just the two of us?
HDIF when I judge myself unlovable?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDTMMF?
Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT?
I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a photograph of you?
What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my attractiveness?
HDIF when I think you are paying more attention to others than to me?
What do I hope for next summer, how does that affect our family and HDIFAT?
What is the greatest challenge we face as a couple?
What do I see as my people's uniqueness? HDIFAT?
What more can I do in the time that I have left? HDIFAT?
What activities do I put ahead of the Lord? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you criticize me in front of other people?
How does our budget affect our intimacy? HDIFAT?
My greatest distraction while listening to you is _____. HDIFAT?
Is it easy for us to agree on decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when other people notice how much we love each other?
How do I feel when we are lost? Describe in loving detail.
What would I like most to change about our relationship? HDIFAT?
What areas of a priest's / pastor's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of parenthood that calls other people? HDIFAT?
What do I least want to reveal to you today about myself? HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be and why? HDIFSTWY?
HDIF about loaning my books or tools?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about watching TV in our bedroom?
HDIF when I eat with someone who is on a diet?
Lately, how much have we talked together about sex? HDIFAT?
How does stress affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking responsibility for my emotions / feelings?
Which of our possessions enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT?
For the sake of our relationship, what do I most need to do this weekend? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
Do I believe we should share household tasks? HDIFAT?
What quality does Mary or Joseph have as a parent that I would like? HDIFAT?
Who are my models for my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you that you have pretty eyes?
What can I do to listen to my people better? HDIFAT?
What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT?
Why did I marry you? Why do I stay married to you? HDIFAMA?
What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAMA?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
When recently has my mask (personality style) interfered in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I want from this relationship right now? HDIFAT?
Where do I get most of my enjoyment from TV? HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about you? HDIFAT?
Does our home reflect our values? HDMAMMF??
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are not in a pattern of regular dialogue?
Is control a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about proclaiming marriage to other people?
How do I see our strengths as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
When making an important decision, HDIF about ignoring my emotions / feelings?
When I think about living without you, what are my feelings?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDIFAT?
Whoever has a heart full of love always has something to give. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am get useful unsolicited advice from others?
When I know you are praying for me, what are my feelings?
How have we grown as a couple over the last year? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having more children?
How do I feel about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can attend a weekend? Describe in loving detail.
If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling you something I know you are not going to like?
We tend to compete against each other in _______ . HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone thanks us?
HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you?
HDIF being around people who are angry?
Is our love for each other unselfish? HDIFAT?
What experience of romance happened today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone succeeds in fooling me on April Fool's Day?
HDIF about forgiving myself?
How have I been separate from my people lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we use our financial resources?
HDIF sleeping in a strange bed?
What is the nicest thing I have done for someone anonymously? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if we won the Lottery? HDMAMMF?
What are my expectations for our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am forced to make a decision sooner than I would like?
What are my hopes and expectations for the summer? HDIFAT?
How can I tell that God loves us? HDIFAT?
Would I feel resentment if you died? HDIFAT?
The first Christmas I remember was _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about reading the Bible together?
What do I like best about us in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be _____? HDIFAT?
Is there anything about your job that I avoid discussing with you? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite sexual fantasy? Would I like it fulfilled? HDIFAT?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAMA?
Do I come across as sure of myself or as unsure? HDIFAT?
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDTMMF?
Do I believe God loves me? HDIFAT?
Do I cry at weddings? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
Do I think I release my anger and frustration appropriately? HDIFAMA?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it comes down to the last minute to finish getting something done?
In what areas am I most afraid to tell the truth about myself? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I let it hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
What gift would I like Jesus to give you this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF reading my favorite Scripture to you?
I have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with God, do I sometimes treat Him with less respect than He deserves? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I behave like a child? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going back to school at my age?
HDIF about our neighbors?
HDIF when I complete some big, unusual task around the house?
How well do I accept criticism from my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hold the door for you?
HDIF when I share my popcorn with you?
HDIF when I stop trying to figure out your emotions / feelings?
What mask (personality style) do I find most difficult to remove in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say YES but mean NO?
What am I doing to make the world a better place for those who come after me? HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am criticized or made fun of in public?
HDIF about sitting in the front at church?
At parties, am I often bored or do I usually have fun? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone phones me just to talk?
Since we have attended the Retrouvaille program, what need of mine have I identified through my sharing my feelings in Dialogue? HDMAMMF?
Should we start planning for a vacation this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your frown?
Do I still judge you and try to change your feelings in touchy areas? HDMAMMF?
How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when friends invite us but do not come over in return?
When was the last time we did something crazy? HDIFAT?
When we disagree, how can we do it more lovingly? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children drop by unexpectedly?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
What is our relationship with other people who share our faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together as a family?
HDIF when the weather forecast is wrong?
HDIF when you respond quickly to my requests?
HDIF when our loved ones refuse to do anything to improve their marriage?
Is my heart fully open to God? HDIFAT?
I believe I have failed as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am running late?
HDIF when I am asked to love, to give, or to forgive but will receive nothing in return?
HDIF about praying together?
HDIF when I run out of time and there is much left to do?
HDIF when I clean off the ice from my windshield?
How do I see myself through your eyes today? HDIFAT?
Can you count on me in a time of need? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you affirmed your love for me today?
HDIF when we laugh together?
When my work is set back by some unexpected difficulty, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What things are difficult to talk about as a family? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest memory of our past Thanksgivings? HDIFAT?
Why do I go to church? HDIFAT?
What challenges did I face today in making you the center of my life? How do I feel about this? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when your parents drop by unexpectedly?
HDIF about our private time together?
We need new clothes. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending an evening alone with you?
What part do I play in our sexual communication! WAFAT?
Do I love my people more for them, or for God? (Do I think my love for my people is more for them or for God?) HDIFAMA?
At this time of my life, what I need most from you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see your features in our child?
HDIF when you have a strong interest that I cannot share?
HDIF recalling my first communion?
Jesus is alive. HDIFAT?
HDIF when facing a deadline?
HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me The gift you have received, give as a gift?
HDIF about making New Year's resolutions?
Does our marriage lack vitality? HDIFAT?
What do I do that annoys my people? HDIFAT?
I forgot to buy you a card on this special occasion. HDIFAT?
What is my dream for Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person people think I am?
How can we live a simpler and more fulfilling life? HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people who go up like a rocket and come down like a rock?
How could our dialogue be better? HDIFAT?
Where do I feel superior to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF realizing my attitudes and judgments have caused you pain?
HDIF when I see you cry?
What do I have responsibility for that I would like to give up? HDIF sharing this with you?
If there were a death in our family this week, how would I feel? HDIFAT?
What was my greatest fear as a new bride / groom? HDIFAT?
What is my most cherished or prized possession? HDIFAT?
What new friendships have I formed? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
Something new I have discovered about you is _____. HDIFAT?
What about our lives would I like to change? HDIF telling you this?
What is my happiest memory of the past month? HDIFAT?
What are my most important values for our relationship? HDIFAMA?
Share with each other the things in life that make you content. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who have a compulsive need to please other people?
HDIF when our other activities become more important than the two of us?
Is our sexual relationship life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you reminding me to do things?
What is my impossible dream for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at the Christmas tree?
HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift?
HDIF about the role the priest or minister played in our wedding?
How does the season summer, affect me?
Why do I want to make you number one in my life? What stands in my way? HDIFAT?
Why have we not kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I am sidetracked by self-doubt?
How do I feel when my priorities and actions are inconsistent with each other? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you touch me in that certain place?
What part of your body is most sexually exciting to me? HDIFAT?
Our marriage is a sign of Christ's Love. How do I think others experienced our sign today? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
Life is not fair. HDIFAT?
How do I think the world will end? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we handle our finances?
Describe a time when I felt anxious. HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal father _____ . HDIFTYT?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIF sharing this with you now?
What does our church mean to me? HDIFAT?
I need to know how you really feel about _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to make the holiday season less materialistic? HDIFAT?
When am I most likely to lie to my people? HDIFAT?
After I have had an argument with one of my people or my superior, what is the most positive that that comes out of it? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our possessions, taken as a whole?
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
What do I think about our sacrament of Matrimony? HDIFAT?
Do we serve the world or God? HDIFAMA?
What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
Mary said yes to God. HDIFAT?
When we first met, what made me want to see you again? HDIFA this now?
What keeps us together as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Santa Claus?
How can I make Thanksgiving more meaningful? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way my priesthood/etc. influences other people? DILD.
HDIF knowing my emotions / feelings express who I am?
I am most likely to criticize you about... HDIFAMA?
HDIF making a surprise dessert for you?
HDIF when I consciously put aside my emotions / feelings and reach out to you?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT?
What is most appealing to me about being religious? HDIFAT?
In what way do I try to modify my behavior to please you? HDIFAT?
Sometimes failure makes me want to give up. HDIFAT?
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