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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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How well do I accept criticism? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with us? HDIFAT?
HDIF approaching Christ as a couple?
HDIF about the blessings and gifts God has given me?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about and why? HDIFAT?
What do I judge as the most important things I pray about? HDIF sharing this with you?
When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What distracts me when I try to listen to you? HDIFAT?
Which Retrouvaille couple do I feel closest to? Why? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMAs?
Can I see any new doors opening for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear the psalm, My God, My God, why have you abandoned me?
HDIF when someone makes unreasonable demands on me?
HDIF about going out with you in the evening?
Do I compare my relationship with my people to other priest/religious with their people? HDIFAMA?
Are we having a lifestyle of forgiveness and healing? HDMAMMF?
How do I want you to see me, and is it the same as I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
I forgot to buy you a card. HDIFAT?
How has dialogue made you more important in my life?
HDIF when you come home from work?
What is my reaction to seeing couples we know and love working on their relationships? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you believe the rumors instead of me?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
Do I believe God loves me? HDIFAT?
Where would we be if we had never experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
Can I ride a skateboard? A unicycle? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex being a decision?
Is our relationship alive and well in the eyes of other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF reading your favorite book?
What has been the greatest area of growth in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Faith goes up the stairs that love has made, and looks out the window which hope has opened.' -C. H. Spurgeon HDIFA this quote?
When I think of sexual desire, I think of _________.
HDIF after I go to confession?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT?
HDIF I can be more fully present to you?
HDIF about praying together?
Jesus came to bring us new life. HDIFAT?
When we are alone together, do we talk about us or do we talk about everything else but us? HDIFAT?
What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
How can our family gain strength from the Holy Family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
Lately, do I fall asleep easily or do I have trouble falling asleep? HDIFAT?
What are your best qualities as a parent? HDIFAT?
Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? HDIF Sharing this with you? Sex"
HDIF about our differences?
What changes would I resist in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my priorities and actions are inconsistent with each other? HDMAMMF?
Is it easy for me to accept help when I need it? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite thing to do that does not cost money? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of quality time we have spent together this week?
HDIF when we are not in a pattern of regular dialogue?
HDIF about singing praise to God?
What would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me non-verbally to make love?
What does the Lord's Prayer mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for what I need?
HDIF about my reaction toward sex?
The best vacation we ever had was _____. HDIFAT?
When I want you to listen to me, do I also want you to agree with me? HDTMMF?
What did I first long for immediately after we were married? HDIFAT?
What area of my relationship with my people do I need to work on? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt aggressive. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that you can / cannot do CPR?
My life is a prayer. HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of my family asked me to preform their marriage? Describe in loving detail.
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
How have I shown my love for you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF being in our home alone, by myself?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about life's unpredictability?
What are some of the family incidents our children will always remember? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our current level of involvement with our extended families?
HDIF when I am the seeker and you are the avoider?
How much caffeine do I drink in a normal day? HDIFAT?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFAT?
On most matters, do I already have an opinion? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving my people? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of our dating days? HDIFAT?
Will I choose burial or cremation at death? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with God?
HDIF being around people who name-drop?
How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we end our day together?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you massage my head?
HDIF being around people who are hypersensitive?
HDIF when I consider the amount of variety in my life?
My idea of a romantic evening is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not able to handle the pressures in my life?
What are my concerns about the future? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the coming New Year?
The work I am doing now is _____. HDIFAT?
What have I given up for our relationship that has held me back in my development as a person? HDIF about this?
How do I feel just before I tell one of my people something I don't think they will like? Describe in loving detail.
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
The best vacation we ever had was _____. HDIFAT?
How much hugging and cuddling do I need before and after lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live?
I felt proud of you this week when you _____. HDIFAT?
What specialness do I see in our family? HDIFAT?
When I finish a task, HDIF about going immediately to the next task?
What need of mine most needs to be nourished? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone interrupts a task I am intent on completing?
What do I most like about Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we talk about your family of origin?
HDIF when you say, I am sorry?
Do I believe I am taking everything too personally? HDIFAT?
How does my mask disappoint, frustrate, or annoy others? HDIFAMA?
HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you?
What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT?
Recently, when have I felt the most alone? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel about marrying you every day? Describe in loving detail.
What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but have not been able to? HDIFAT?
HDIF right now?
How would I rate our communication skills? HDIFAT?
How do we affect the marriages of others around us? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with you when I am making plans? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear from other people that you have complained about me?
How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt your feelings?
How do I feel about our involvement with our church and the activities there? Describe in loving detail.
What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am get useful unsolicited advice from others?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I stop doing something I want to do because other people are watching?
HDIF about one of or children becoming a priest or minister?
After our last fight, who got hurt? How? HDIFAT?
If I could change my career, what would I like to do? HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with you? HDIFAT?
I feel rejected most when... Describe in loving detail.
How can I be loving to you even when we cannot make love? HDIFAT?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?
What joy did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
What is today's gospel reading saying to me? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be affirmed and recognized by my husband/wife? HDIFAMA?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
What do I hope to achieve through dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about reaching out to other people today?
HDIF about the way we spend money?
HDIF when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me?
HDIF when I am not open with you?
What areas of a couple's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
I need to learn not to _____. HDIFAT?
How does someone know when they are in love? HDIFAT?
What was my biggest challenge in loving you today? HDIF sharing this with you?
When my attention is fully occupied, is it because I am concentrating or because I am worrying? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing you say you love me?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
How have I caused you to suffer? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone drops in unexpectedly? DILD.
HDIF about letting someone outside my family borrow my car?
HDIF when I have written my dialogue letter but you have not?
What is the reason I keep myself from seeking your forgiveness? HDIFAT?
What is the hardest thing I have done emotionally? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt disappointed. HDIFAT?
What romantic things do you do for me that I hope you never stop doing? HDIFAT?
What activities strengthen our relationship with God and Church? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the peer pressures our children are under?
Jesus is counting on us to make His love believable. HDIFAT?
What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about revealing my negative emotions / feelings?
Who controls the bed in the house? HDIFAT?
I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT?
What is the message of Lent for me? HDIFAT?
How do other people experience our sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
How much of a couple do I really want to be, and what am I willing to change to be that couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize God has spoken to me through you?
HDIF when we have a candle-lit dinner?
We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIF about the way they have changed?
HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF when our budget is tight?
What can I do to make God a bigger part of our life? HDIFAMA?
I have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my emotional life with you?
How do we experience unity? HDIFAT?
Where do I stand in my faith? HDIFAT?
Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people tell me how contented and happy they are?
HDIF about the periods when we do not dialogue?
What makes our house a home?
HDIF when you ask me to dance with you?
What is a goal I have involving us together? HDIFAT?
Has this been a good year or not? HDIFAT?
How many hours of TV do I watch a day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me halfheartedly?
HDIF about my temper and what I do when I lose it?
How has our failure to live God's plan for our marriage affected us? HDIFAT?
When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT?
What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the telephone rings in the middle of the night?
What regrets do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT?
When I am embarrassed, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
The biggest misconception people have about me is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you shower me with attention?
You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT?
What do I love most about you today? HDIFAT?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAMA
In what areas is it most difficult for me to let you know how I feel? HDIFAT?
Should lovemaking be part of the healing process or reserved for afterward? HDIFAT?
How long have we known each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my responsibility or irresponsibility in managing our finances?
HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion?
HDIF when I tell you that you have pretty eyes?
When have I experienced your acceptance of me this week? What are my feelings about this?
What are my expectations of tomorrow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the blessings and gifts God has given us?
HDIF about letting our teenager drive our car?
How well do I avoid temptation in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
What listening skills could improve our communication? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you up just to say Hi?
What advise would I give a young bride or groom (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
What do I consider my strengths? HDIFAMA?
In what area do we have hurt in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship need, the most? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about going to bed when we are both angry?
HDIF when I am able to tell you what bugs me?
As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me in a way that affirms my femininity / masculinity?
HDIF when you gently touch me?
HDIF realizing that you have given me the gift of being a father / mother?
HDIF about yelling?
Do I believe you taking everything too personally? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a love note from you?
HDIF reflecting on the Scriptures used at today's Mass?
What is my fondest memory of our courtship? HDIFAT?
What happens to us when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt close to you. HDIFAT?
What I think you love most about me is _____. HDIFAT?
The Bible character you remind me most of is _____. HDIFAT?
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAMA?
What activities weaken our relationship with God and Church? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I have said mass or given a service? HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
HDIF when I realize my spouse's family's problems become my problems & vice versa?HDIFTYT?"
What do I most need from my people when I/my people are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I go out of my way to please you?
When our calendar is empty, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How have we been a sign of love to our people? HDIFAT?
What more can I do in the time that I have left? HDIFAT?
Where am I most selfish? HDIF sharing this with you?
I would like to go back to _____ one more time, with you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
Would God be upset if I made you number 1? HDIFAT?
HDIF about renewing myself during Lent?
How have I changed in ways that my people are unaware of? HDIFAT?
HDIF about staying home with you?
What do I see as our greatest asset as a couple? HDIFAT?
What area is difficult for me to share my emotions / feelings about? HDIFAT?
How do I see our weaknesses as a couple? HDIFAT?
Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT?
What is one thing I would like to try differently when we have an issue to discuss? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you when we are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? How do I feel sharing this with you?
How do I feel about being missionary a for God? Describe in loving detail.
What can I do to make myself more available to my people? HDIFAMA?
The house is a mess. HDIFAT?
HDIF about what I am able to provide for our family?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
HDIF when we have to work together on a project?
HDIF when I am aware of growth in us?
My greatest distraction while listening to you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending the rest of my life at my current place of worship?
HDIF about myself when I am with you?
HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite room of the house and why? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we danced together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see baby Jesus in the manger?
How do I feel when an old friend of mine comes into town and wants to spend some time with me, but I already have commitments with my people?
Hurt is an inevitable part of a close relationship. HDIFAT?
HDIF about facial hair on men?
HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about how well I show my love for you?
How does my attitude toward your mother affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fix you a drink?
HDIF when good friends of mine move away?
When I have to do things according to a fixed schedule, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not answer the telephone?
When, recently, did I take the time to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
How do I see God reflected through priest or minister? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF being with people whose emotional ups and downs are very marked?
What can we do to make this a better world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am get useless unsolicited advice from others?
What are my thoughts when I think of you dying? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not open to discussing our sexual relationship?
How can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the pain-killers that I use (alcohol, drugs, hobbies, TV)?
HDIF when I think about our financial position?
What do I like best about us in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
Why have we kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
Has our love grown since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
How has dialogue changed my life? HDIFAT?
What have I done today to help others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do crazy things together?
In what area do I trust you the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust you, just the least) HDIFAMA?
HDIF going out alone at night?
HDIF about watching TV in our bedroom?
PS 34:18-21. HDIF as the Lord watches over us?
HDIF about criticism and sarcasm?
HDIF about donating money to the poor?
What would you most like me to change? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite hymn? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you after a long separation?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
What love do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
HDIF trying to deal with people who are disorganized and irresponsible?
What special gift of myself do I offer to God today? HDIFAMA?
What would I tell Jesus about you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make you laugh?
Who in my life do I have the most influence on? HDIFAT?
What is the most effective way to communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
When do I feel separated from you? HDIFAT?
What are the if's I put in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am buying you a gift?
How do I feel attending church together? HDIFTYT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the influence of my mother in my life?
It is easier to leave angry words unspoken, than to mend a heart those words have broken.' -- unknown author Lately, have I said any words that were angry and may have hurt you? HDIFAMA?
Am I more likely to take things too lightly, or worry too much? HDIFAMA?
What do I procrastinate on the most? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
Where would I like to go with you on vacation? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I complimented my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF sharing a dialogue letter with other dialoguing couples?
We could improve the way we make decisions by _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
HDIF when you kiss me at night?
This week, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are critical of me?
What did I most look forward to today? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our time together?
In any change, there is tension. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see thanks shining in your eyes?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
When I am frustrated, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to influence my decisions?
Eucharist is a family reunion. HDIFAT?
What kind of an example am I when I fail? HDIFAT?
Something new I have discovered about you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when you criticize how I discipline our children?
HDIF being around people who are angry?
HDIF about jaywalking? When other people jaywalk?
HDIF about our relationship today?
What things should I make time for? HDIFAT?
HDIF on a date with you?
HDIF when I admit my fears?
Would I rate the level of trust in our relationship closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly?
What is my favorite city, and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF when I take you for granted?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing you love me?
HDIF trying to put you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
What are ten qualities I want most in a partner? How do I measure up? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sitting in the front at church?
What can I do to show my love to other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when sarcastic remarks are directed at me?
HDIF about trying different parishes / churches?
HDIF about our last vacation?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am spending time alone?
There is so much to do before Christmas. HDIFAT?
What quality in us as a family do I like best? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are patient with me?
HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll?
How can we improve our sexual communication as a couple? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I've had a very stressful day? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF knowing Jesus is our protector?
HDIF when you say, If you really loved me, you would do this?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAT?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
I need support from you in the following areas. HDIFTYT?
HDIF about taking a walking tour through my old high school?
The time I feel most alive is _____. HDIFAT?
How does the season summer, affect me?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I consider that you love me?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
HDIF before and after making a decision?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
How has our relationship changed during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I would like to say no, but don't think I can? Describe in loving detail.
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDTMMF?
At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am driving very fast?
HDIF about hugging people we do not know all that well?
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
HDIF when we do a job, task or chore together?
The personal qualities I am most aware of in myself are as follows: _____. HDIFAT?
I see my people as very special because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me?
How do I feel about our relationship today compared to before our weekend? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I care about the same things you are happy about?
When I seek your forgiveness and you fail to respond, HDIF?
How does my attitude toward my father affect us? HDIFAT?
Is my love for my people strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
Do I consider myself emotional or detached? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask your forgiveness?
How have we accepted Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?
Are we as close today as we used to be? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the crucifixion of Jesus?
HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live?
What do we spend most of our time talking about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are traveling in bad weather?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? How do I feel about my answer?
Someone borrowed our car and returned it with a full tank? HDIFAT?
One of the happiest days of my life
HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT?
If I were an animal, what would I be? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I smile or laugh at other people's misfortunes?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when we try something different in our lovemaking? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF sharing a bag of popcorn and a movie?
HDIF when our children ask for expensive things?
God already knows my heart. HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic time together?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
How does the modern world keep us from reaching out to other people? HDIFAT?
Am I more like my mother or my father? HDIFAT?
HDIF confessing my sins aloud?
When things bother me, can I tune them out? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
When I resist change, I feel _____.
HDIF when you compliment me in front of other people?
What quality of mine keeps me from being more involved with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
How can we put more romance in our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship staying like this?
What kind of death frightens me the most? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our preparations as Christmas approaches?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not met? HDIFAT?
How does our stuff compare to our neighbor's stuff? HDIFAT?
HDIF about this Christmas?
HDIF when I get a sincere thank you note?
HDIF when you give me your undivided attention?
How have my values and lifestyle changed over the years? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
How can you help me recognize my good qualities? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of our courtship? HDIFAT?
Would I want our child to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAMA?
HDIF falling to sleep beside you? Waking up beside you?
What is the greatest healing device I can offer you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not listen?
HDIF when I have judged you unfairly?
How do I try to control you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when stock market trends increase the value of our investments?
How is our day when we are not sexually desirous? HDIFAT?
Outside of services, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have to apologize even when I do not think I did anything wrong?
How am I like the weather? HDIFAT?
What causes the most friction between my people and me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the size of our family?
What do I consider my strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
What kind of person am I? HDIFAT?
How did I choose my confirmation name? HDIFAT?
What barriers or attitudes keep me from sharing with you my unmet needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to start a project over again?
Do I have any dreams that I have not shared with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I accept feedback from you? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest pet peeve? HDIFAT?
If I were to give another couple a tip on marriage, what would it be? HDIFAT?
In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDIFAT?
A statement: 'As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others.' HDIFAT?
HDIF when I introduce you to people at work?
What have I done to help our little church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you?
HDIF about our first house or apartment?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of child raising ? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children compete against each other?
What gets in my way, preventing me from learning more about you? HDIFAT?
Death frightens me (or not). HDIFAT?
What keeps me from being content? HDIFAT?
At this time, what concerns me the most about our children? HDIFAT?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
What gives me hope when I most need it? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still living a singles lifestyle? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our family? HDIFAT?
What gifts do we have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAMA?
What are some of the most tranquil times we spend together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about World Marriage Day?
What little annoyance(s) have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our use of spare time?
If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our pastor?
HDIF about our spending on clothing?
How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDMAMMF?
Do I avoid telling you the truth to avoid offending you? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children reflect our good qualities?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
How well do I love others when I think they do not deserve it? HDIFAT?
What are the major sources of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How strong is my need for you to love me? HDIFAT?
When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What conditions do I sometimes place on you to be loved by me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you want some time alone?
When did I make the decision to love you lately? HDIFAT?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
In what ways has God blessed us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive secret gifts and notes from a couple who supports us?
HDIF when no one notices something I put a lot of work into?
HDIF when I want to spend time with you, but you are too busy?
The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT?
HDIF about renting one of my favorite movies for us to watch?
We have activities, jobs and careers. What about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging other people?
HDIF when we are asked to help the Encounter / Retrouvaille movement?
HDIF when I try to be punctual for your sake?
HDIF when you kiss me unexpectedly?
Does our sexual relationship affect our closeness? HDIFAT?
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not dialogue regularly?
HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results?
If I knew we had no tomorrow, how would I live today with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone I do not like loves me?
The song that I think represents our love the best is... Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do other people experience our lack of sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Thanksgiving tradition?
HDIF when we have unexpected company?
What is my least favorite household chore? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our romance? HDIFAT?
IWhat barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when work makes demands of you that seem unfair?
HDIF on those occasions when I think about calling our relationship quits?
HDIF about you staying home with the children and being a homemaker?
You are God's gift to me. HDIFAT?
Would I be willing to get professional help if our marriage was in trouble? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our family is alone together for a meal?
One of my heroes is... Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I act when my need for autonomy, self-worth, love, or belonging (agree on one) is not being met? HDIFAMA?
How would I like you to romance me? HDIFAT?
Which family rituals are really important to me? Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking?
How do I fare when I try to put myself in someone else's shoes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about eating leftover food?
HDIF about having a drink with friends?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate my services / masses? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I admit my sins?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for my people to trust me with themselves? HDIFAMA?
In what important areas do I find it most difficult to listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I attract attention to myself?
HDIF about taking risks?
HDIF when you leave love notes around the house?
Please forgive me for _____. HDIFAT?
How does Christmas buying affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What fear have I not shared with you lately? HDIFAT?
What is my plan to help you enjoy life on a daily basis? HDIFAT?
HDIF I am coming home to you after a long trip?
Is our involvement in this program helping us as a couple? HDIFAT?
Is my tongue sharp like a sword? HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since our dating days, wedding, or weekend (pick one)? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when someone gives me a firm handshake?
What need of mine am I most aware of as needing to be nourished? HDIFAMA?
I still have these doubts about us: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my fear of intimacy?
What was our first year of marriage like? HDIFAT?
I am being pressured to do something I do not want to do. HDIFAT?
How do we show our love for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to fight to stay awake?
In what areas do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I found out we are pregnant? HDIFAT?
If I were to receive a huge sum of money, how would I be changed by it? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult decision I have ever had to make? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about changing places with one of my people for a day if I could?
What is renewed in me now that summer is finally here? HDIFAT?
What does community mean to me? HDIFAT?
I am summoned to jury duty. HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to accept you as you are?
What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT?
Your specialness today was... HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted peoples feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you apologize to me?
What can I do to be more help to you? HDIFAT?
How does the weather affect how I am with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I laugh at you?
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
What are my sexual desires? HDIFAT?
In what area(s) do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAMA?
What helps me get up and going in the morning? HDIF about this?
Be not afraid. When I consider these words of Jesus, HDIF?
HDIF when your eyes sparkle?
HDIF about sharing our dinner table with strangers?
Do I believe in work before play? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
When do I feel most alone? HDIFAT?
To which of my characteristics or traits do you object the most? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am upset with you? HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get tipsy?
How do I see myself as a member of Christ's body? HDIFAT?
What about our lives would I like to change? HDIF telling you this?
Some of the blessings I have to be thankful for are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning a weekly family outing?
HDIF when I ask for help?
I am about as happy as I make up my mind to be. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cannot afford a night out together?
What was my parents' relationship with God like? HDIFAT?
What do I like to do best without the family and HDIFAT?
HDIF when we attend Stations of the Cross?
Considering what I ask of myself and what I ask of others: Is this a double standard? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?' Describe in loving detail.
How has Lent prepared us for Holy Week?
If I could bring faith and God to one person, who would it be? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAMA?
What have I learned about us through the challenges we have faced? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
HDIF about demonstrating one of my unusual talents for you?
HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple?
In what areas am I most afraid to tell the truth about myself? HDIFAT?
Do I find other women/men attractive? HDIFSTWY?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to overtures of friendship from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAT?
I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT?
What do I value most in life? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT?
How can we live a simpler and more fulfilling life? HDIFAT?
HDIF saying yes to lovemaking but only for the good of our relationship?
How do I feel remembering a time when I was in trouble as a child? HDIF sharing this with you?
What things crossed my mind this week that I have not bothered to mention? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
What struggle did I face that helped prepare me for this day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are hurting me intentionally?
If dialogue is so important to our relationship, why do we miss? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
In what area do I most need your help in living my sacrament/calling? HDIFAMA?
Am I more likely to look for the easiest way, or the right way? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about learning to play a musical instrument?
Have I ever thought that you used me sexually? Describe how you felt, and feel in loving detail.
I cannot blame you for how I feel. HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I forgave you, and HDIFAT?
HDIF when you only share superficial things with me?
Even though our masks are a barrier in our relationship, there is a reason we where them. They give us strength to deal with the world. If we can identify the strengths our mask give us, we can retain them when we lower the masks to be ourselves with our spouses. What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about listening to you when I am really busy?
HDIF about flying?
What is going on inside me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us?
I learned a lot from this mistake: _____. What did I learn? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to see your mother / father in the hospital?
What was my favorite pet? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are sick at an inconvenient time?
What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT?
When making an important decision, HDIF about trusting my emotions / feelings?
In one word, my mother is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
When is the last time you forgave me, and HDIFAT?
What environment is best for listening? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift I could give to you? HDIFAT?
Is control a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have lost control with our children?
I enjoy my relationship with people the most when. . . HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you call me just to say you love me?
When was the last time we mentioned Encounter / Retrouvaille to a couple? HDIFAT?
What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own feelings?
How can I make sure my gift to you is from my heart? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
When I am really at odds with someone, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
How am I pro-life? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAMA?
What is the happiest thing that ever happened to me? HDIFAT?
What makes me cry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car?
How well do I forgive me people when they ask for it? HDIFAT?
Who are my models for my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about housework?
If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT?
What did experiencing the weekend and follow-up sessions do for our faith in God? HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have that I am afraid to rely on? HDIFAT?
At this time of my life, what I need most from you is _____. HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take to remind me of you and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when you say, It is your fault?
How important are material things to me? HDIFAMA?
How do I fel about the way our marriage influences other people? DILD.
HDIF when I am assertive? When I am not assertive?
I really enjoy hearing you talk about _____. HDIFAT?
What things, actions, ideas, do I find the most threatening? HDIFAT?
I am happy being married to you today because _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you say no to making love? Describe in loving detail.
Which pressure in me is most affecting my dream for us today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to do something I really do not want to do?
HDIF when I am the first to say hello?
HDIF about the love I bring to this family?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I / we went the extra mile to help someone. HDIFAT?
What do I think is important for your happiness? HDIFAT?
Is my tongue like a double-edged sword? HDIFAT?
What is the touchiest area in our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what areas are we equal partners in decision making? HDIFAT?
What is fun for me? HDIFAT?
How have I let myself down? HDIFAT?
What do I seek in our relationship? HDIF sharing this with you?
What curse word do I use most often? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing Scripture Dialogue?
How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear Jesus' words, Love each other as I have loved you?
HDIF when you surprise me with flowers?
Mary was open to God's will. Are we? HDIFAT?
Would our children stand up for their faith if they were in a difficult or threatening situation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our Christmas tree traditions?
When I say, I love you, is it more of a habit or do I mean it? HDIFAT?
What prejudices do I hold? HDIFAT?
Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT?
Where do I see myself 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
What chore do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot keep the schedule I have set for myself?
What do I say about you when you are not around? HDIFAT?
When I let you make your own decisions, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in my life, HDIF about my past?
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
Is my yes to you today unconditional? HDIFAT?
What did I first long for immediately after I was ordained? HDIFAT?
Beside yours, what friendship has meant the most to me this week? HDIFAT?
What effect has my mother had on my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about heights?
HDIF when you ask me to describe my emotion / feeling?
If I knew we had no tomorrow, how would I live today with you?
HDIF when you give me a massage?
What do I need most in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have for our sexual relationship, and are they getting in the way? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAT?
What can we do to keep our marriage alive and growing? HDIFAT?
Would other people say I am a show-off? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are driving and I am a passenger?
I think we should remove these rules from our relationship: _____. HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt determined. HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of my grandparents? HDIFAT?
Do I see myself living the same as my parents or differently? HDMAMMF?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this week? HDIFAT?
How close are we as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
What is my fondest memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I want to celebrate Valentine's Day?
HDIF when you show off?
What am I like when I am sick? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about us being needed by others?
HDIF when some other interest seems more important to you than I do?
Can I identify with hurting couples? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt someone?
What little kindness did I do today to spread love around? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am wrong? HDIFAT?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
In the area of our friends what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
What are my dreams for our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
If Jesus were at the foot of our bed, would He be smiling? HDIFAT?
What activity helps me grow most as a Christian? HDIFAT?
How can we avoid non-productive fights? HDIFTYT?
What is my dream for Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply?
When we make love, I feel _____.
HDIF about your attitudes about sex?
My prayers are answered in God's time not my time. HDTMMF?
How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray the rosary?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
No matter how often I am right, I will sometimes be dead wrong. HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with my celebrating mass / leading services? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my job or career?
When things change too fast, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Do I give you my full attention when we make love, or do I get distracted by other things? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we work on the family budget together?
HDIF when my job separates us overnight?
Given the alternative, HDIF about growing old?
Can I sing a song all the way through? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about other couples supporting us? HDMAMMF?
When the going gets rough, I feel better if I _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about serving others in ways that will never be noticed?
HDIF when a new situation comes up that conflicts with my plans?
What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT?
How has my perspective changed over the last 5, 10, or 20 years? HDIFAT?
What divides us and causes us to become 'married singles'? HDTMMF?
What area of our communication do I think I/we need to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a member of our family points out my good qualities?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our bedtime ritual?
What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDTMMF?
HDIF about telling jokes?
HDIF when we sacrifice to help a couple to experience the weekend or follow-up?
HDIF about making a sacrifice so that others can get help for their marriage?
What special memory do I have when I look at old family photos? HDIFAT?
HDIF watching the children open Christmas gifts?
HDIF about our children going back to school?
Is there anything you've done that I have not forgiven you for? Why? How do I feel about my answer?
HDIF about dining out?
HDIF when I hug another Christian?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about turning off the TV at dinnertime?
Can I do math in my head or do I need a calculator? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way my priesthood/etc. influences other people? DILD.
When making an important decision, HDIF about ignoring my emotions / feelings?
Do I see death as an end to our love relationship? HDTMMF?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the stake we have in other people's marriages?
HDIF about going with you to an action movie?
In what way am I trying to love you the way God loves us? HDIF sharing this with you?
How did you get into to your life's work? HDIFAT?
What message am I sending others on how I want to be treated? HDIFAT?
HDIF when asked to keep a secret?
HDIF about the way we make our money?
Are our sacrifices meaningful or just a requirement of Lent?
In what areas or ways am I least responsive to you? HDIFAT?
What feeling haven't I shared with you this week because I thought you wouldn't accept me?HDIFAMA?"
HDIF when you surprise me with something nice?
HDIF about embellishing the truth, especially if it makes for a good story?
HDIF when we have time for vacation but no vacation money?
HDIF when someone I see often never bothers to learn my name?
HDIF when someone criticizes me?
HDIF when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others?
HDIF when I am unable to stop laughing, especially at an inappropriate time?
HDIF when I let you down?
You bring out and make me see my self-worth. HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about disciplining our children? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I judge one of my people is better than me at something I take pride in my ability to do? Describe in loving detail.
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
If we had twice our present income, would be happier? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt you?
What are my jobs in life? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
What is the best help you can give me when I am discouraged? HDIFAT?
What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT?
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.' -- Joshua 1:9. Have I given up when I should have prayed for strength? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about joining a group? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I see our couple love influencing other people around us?
I do not ever want to be seen as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF after we had experienced the weekend, but before we left the facility?
What is it about our sexual relationship that I find most enjoyable? HDIFAT?
When others expect a lot from me, I feel ______ and tend to ______ . HDTMMF?
When meeting difficulties, am I more likely to alter them or to alter myself? HDIFAT?
What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAT?
Do I accept my mistakes and learn from them? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way we spend our Holidays? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you put a love note on the bathroom mirror?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about sex? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
Jesus will never give us a task that is too big to handle. HDIFAT?
If possible, I would like to reclaim these things I gave up for you: _____. HDIFAT?
What is one of the greatest moments of my priesthood/etc.? How do I feel recalling this?
HDIF about life after death?
How close do I come to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day?
HDIF about helping other people who are out of work?
What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I notice our children taking on some of your characteristics?
HDIF when other men or women flirt with you?
What emotions / feelings do I have the most trouble expressing? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself a hawk or a dove? HDIFAT?
What sacrifices am I willing to make for our daily Dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the freedom or lack of freedom I have in our relationship?
Marriage should be full of the joy that God desires for us. HDIFAT?
Why did I take my vows/become ordained/take up my ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I consider that we are special to Our Father?
Recalling our Encounter / Retrouvaille weekend, what happened then that I am now most thankful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
What is the wildest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT?
Where would I turn for help if my family were not available? HDIFAT?
When do I most feel alone? HDIF at those times?
In the area of possessions what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
HDIF about how we decide whether to make love?
When do I avoid you and why? HDIFAT?
What do I think is important for my happiness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my unfinished projects?
Can I recognize when I am under stress? HDIFAT?
Who in my childhood most affected my life? HDTMMF?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
What one quality do I look for most in a friend? HDIFAT?
My thoughts contribute to my self-image. HDIFAT?
Now that the children have moved out, is the end of the family? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I compete against you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about pacifiers?
HDIF when we dance together?
Is there anything I did this week that I regret? HDIFAT?
Where on my list of priorities did I place our dialogue today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you have done something to make me happy?
Do I consider myself a good listener? HDIFAT?
What pain do I think you keep to yourself? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about finances? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
When did we go two miles with someone who ordered us to go one? HDIFAT?
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIFAT?
Are we free to ask our friends for help anytime we have a problem? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about Operation Rescue?
What mask do I wear in the area of death? HDIFAT?
When I have a choice, do I mostly prefer to do things by myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have hurt you?
HDIF when you surprise me with a gift?
HDIF about making big financial decisions without you?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to get some point across to me?
HDIF when I quarrel, judge, or reject your emotions?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty admitting it to you. HDIFAT?
Here are the things I like most about you: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving for a summer vacation?
Is it easy for me to describe my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging our friends in public?
Why do I want to make you number one in my life? What stands in my way? HDIF sharing this with you?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am alone?
What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAMA?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we leave our children for a few days?
HDIF when you are receptive to suggestions I offer?
HDIF about paying a therapist for advice?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
HDIF this week living in the modern world?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
HDIF hugging our son or daughter after I have disciplined them?
I judged (one of) my people were being selfish when... How did I feel about this? Describe in loving detail.
What place do fasting and sacrifice have in my spiritual life? HDIFAT?
How do I recognize Christ in you? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, you or God? HDIFAMA?
How has our life changed this past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hearing all seven readings on the Easter Vigil?
Romance is a decision. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our repeating our wedding vows?
In an average week, what activities work against our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people bore me with their problems?
What makes you cry? HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts about us being unique as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF using the gifts of the Holy Spirit?
HDIF sharing an ice cream cone?
HDIF when I watch our children play in the snow?
What impact do our children have on our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
When I hear the Lord's call, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What does it mean to forgive other people? HDIFAT?
What friends help us see our goodness? HDIFAT?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I receive a gift that is carelessly wrapped?
HDIF when you make unreasonable demands on me?
HDIF when I hear love each other?
HDIF when our children get into trouble?
HDIF about making big financial decisions without you?
HDIF about our vacation being over?
When a breakdown or mix-up stops everybody's work, my first reaction is to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with you?
HDIF when I see you sleeping?
HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song?
When something bad happens to me do I allow it to effect my relationship with my people and/or my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
How would I feel if someone else read my notebook? DILD.
Could I live without TV for a day? For a week? For a month? Forever? HDIFAT?
What are my best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
When was a time you touched my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have a list of phone calls to make?
How could I make saying grace more meaningful? HDIFAT?
When am I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent?
What illness do you fear most for yourself? HDIFAT?
If I died today, would I be ready to meet my Maker? HDIFAT?
If I did not need money, what would I be doing today? HDIFAT?
Is my life a having and a getting or a being and a becoming? HDIFAT?
The Bible is full of God's dialogue letters to us. HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still wrapped in a cocoon? HDIFAT?
What was the most significant part of our Encounter / Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize you are not all I thought you were?
HDIF about our children needing Encounter / Retrouvaille someday?
HDIF about the team couples whose presentations helped us experience the weekend and follow-up sessions?
If I could go back and record any moment from our past so we could watch it from time to time, what would it be and why? How do I feel remembering this? How do I feel about it now?
What prevents me from asking questions about something I need to know or should know? HDIFAT?
What was a time during our dialogue that I felt that you were really listening to me?HDMAMMF?"
HDIF when I remember our anniversary is coming up soon?
What changes in my relationship with my people have I taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you make a sacrifice for me?
What are my thoughts about love is a decision? HDIFAT?
Are we as close to each other as we were just after our Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
What do I value most in my life? HDIFAT?
When I am open to you, am I also open to God? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about my career now?
What does the season of Lent mean to me?
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