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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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What can I do to improve my dialog? HDIFAT?
I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I decide to do things your way?
HDIF about making and keeping New Year's resolutions?
If we had to relocate, how would I feel?
I know I would never find another you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you come home from work?
I have made a promise to you and cannot keep it. HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying with our children?
In what areas am I most afraid to tell the truth about myself? HDIFAT?
What do I love most about you today? HDTMMF?
What would I like to accomplish during this time of Lent? HDIFAT?
Why did we get married? HDIFAT?
My image of God is _____. HDIFAT?
The priest or minister that has most helped us to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF looking other people in the eye?
HDIF about having to delay a decision until the last minute?
HDIF about having to do work that does not harmonize with my values?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
HDIF when I think you are looking forward to our dialogue?
HDIF when we disagree with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having this regular dialogue time with you?
HDIF about sharing my dreams with you?
What parts of your body are sexually exciting to me? HDIFAT?
After our last fight, who got hurt? How? HDIFAT?
We have unfinished chores. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at our children sleeping?
What is one thing about my health that bothers me? HDIFAT?
How much charity work do I do? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be affirmed and recognized by you? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest joy or pleasure for me in dialogue? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I experience your total acceptance of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving from our substance?
HDIF realizing that my attitudes and judgments have caused us pain?
HDIF about our sexual relationship this week?
What is fun for us as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I listen patiently to your heartaches?
HDIF when I try to hold my temper?
In what ways do I feel I?m taken for granted? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about having to make a decision immediately?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am holding on to resentment?
HDIF about family celebrations?
HDIF when you are hungry for sex?
Considering my upbringing, what should I avoid with our children? HDIFAT?
What I love most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about trying to rehabilitate our marriage?
HDIF when I sympathize with you while you are sick?
Because of my familiarity with you, do I sometimes treat you with less respect than you deserve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know our lovemaking is about to begin?
What can I do to contribute to our family having a good time on vacation? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if one of my family asked me to preform their marriage? Describe in loving detail.
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children drop by unexpectedly?
HDIF when I hear from other people that you have bragged about me?
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the coming end of the year and New Year?
How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start?
How well suited are we to each other? HDIFAT?
How patient am I with the faults of others? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
An admission of error is a sign of strength rather than weakness.' Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way I take care of my body?
HDIF when I have something important to say, and my mind goes blank?
What are some things others have done for me which have brought me joy or comfort? HDIFAT?
What is the most significant effect of our experiencing the weekend or follow-up sessions? HDIFAT?
When you are trying to learn something new, do I try to teach you, or do I try to help you discover how to do it yourself? HDIFAT?
HDIF driving home from a meeting of our follow-up or support group?
HDIF about laughter during lovemaking?
What role does dialogue play in our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for my attitude, good or bad?
How do I feel when we are torn between our families?
What beauty do I see in you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am running late?
HDIF when someone eats the last cookie?
What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about how much money we give to our church or favorite charity?
If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home?
What would a care package for our marriage look like? HDIFAT?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAT?
In the last week, what one thing you said to me, really helped make my day or week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend together doing things I enjoy?
It is difficult to write about feelings. HDTMMF?
What romantic things would I like you to do for me? HDIF sharing this with you?
What curse word do I use most often? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll?
What romantic thing would I like you to do for me? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I am seeking advice from _____?
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
HDIF about planning for our future?
What have I learned about the issues or problems we consider important? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we are on a trip and get a flat tire? Describe in loving detail.
If you are not free to be yourself, you cannot love. HDIFAT?
What was my favorite date with you? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I go to confession?
HDIF when cashiers ask for several pieces of identification?
Our separate interests are drawing us apart. HDIFAT?
What is the biggest challenge my people and I face this week? HDIFAT?
How does our family respond to illness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the car behind honks at me when I do not react fast enough to the green light?
HDIF about reminding a friend to return something recently borrowed?
Is lovemaking a value for us or merely an ideal? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the telephone interrupts something important?
One of my big successes in life is _____. HDIFAT?
When do I feel pressured by you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge myself inadequate?
When do I repress my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How could you help me grow spiritually? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people are impolite or rude to me?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT?
How do I think people perceive me? HDIFAT?
What can we do to promote peace? HDIFAT?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What did my parents praise me most for? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the coming end of the year and new year?
When do I most need your support? HDIFAT?
My favorite time with my people is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about where I am this year compared to last year at this time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we have unexpected company?
How does my mask cause me to be a married single? HDIFAMA?
When my attention is fully occupied, is it because I am concentrating or because I am worrying? HDIFAT?
Why am I most likely to tell you no when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
How would I rate our adaptability, yours to me and mine to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say YES but mean NO?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
The driving force behind my life is _____. HDIFAT?
Your most endearing quality today is _______. HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF being around people who are angry?
What gifts do I/we have to offer Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about God being the one who brought us together?
HDIF when I give in too easily and let others push me around?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, What can I do to help?
HDIF when you get upset?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me?
HDIF knowing Christ died in agony to show His love for us?
What do I value most about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
Do I look for self-worth in possessions or activities? HDIFAMA?
If I could take you any place, where would I take you? HDIFAT?
What are the inward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am short-changed at the store?
HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven?
In one word, my mother is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
Who are the people who lift us up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say exactly what is on my mind?
HDIF about our children leaving home and going out into the world to make their own choices?
How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say ours but really mean mine?
When am I jealous or selfish? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am replaying one of our arguments in my head?
What hobbies of mine get in the way of my spirituality? HDIFAT?
What are our biggest differences? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making better preparations for my eventual death?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAT?
What is most appealing to me about being married? HDIFAT?
In the presence of trouble, some grow wings, others will grow crutches. HDIFAT?
HDIF about setting up regular date nights and blocking them off in the calendar?
How do I feel when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me? Describe in loving detail.
What do I have responsibility for that I would like to give up? HDIFAT?
If I had the power, how would I redesign our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not able to handle the pressures in your life?
HDIF when we go through the family album together?
What are my thoughts about us being special to Our Father? HDIFAT?
What do I say about you when you are not around? HDIFAT?
How would I feel discovering that you are hurting right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you express need for leisure time?
HDIF about having to work overtime to make ends meet?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the demands people place on me?
What did not I do today that I wish I had? HDIFAT?
Have I told my friends how important they are to me? HDIFAMA?
When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT?
What fears keep me from wanting another child? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving money to street musicians?
When was the last time we really got silly together? HDIFAT?
How do I want you to remember me after I die? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am upset with you? HDIFAT?
Is my love for my people strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
How does my need for security prevent me from giving all of me to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we enjoy each other's sense of humor?
When was the last time I asked you for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I handle money?
What talent or quality do I wish I had that I do not? HDIFAT?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
Can I always count on you? HDIFAT?
How can I make it easier for you to say, Forgive me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our fertility?
Would I rate the level of trust in our relationship closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAT?
HDIF about discussing sex with you?
Which do I enjoy more, spending or saving? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you tomorrow? HDIFAT?
It is easier to leave angry words unspoken, than to mend a heart those words have broken.' -- unknown author Lately, have I said any words that were angry and may have hurt you? HDIFAMA?
What joy or pleasure do I receive when we pray together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you shower me with attention?
In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have completed a project?
Of the people I know, whom do I judge has the best sense of humor? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying Grace at meals?
What did I laugh at today? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAT?
Is there anything you have done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about joining a group? Describe in loving detail.
Why do I want to be fulfilled (sexually) by you? HDIFAT?
The greatest gift a father can give to his children is _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish, convent, etc.? HDIFAMA?
Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear gossip?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to influence my decisions?
Do I use alcohol, caffeine, or nicotine? If so, for what? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you massage my feet?
HDIF when I see our children respond to you?
Can I think of an event that has made a difference in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day together?
In the area of death what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
When I am hurt, I react by _____. HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself as an idealist or a realist? HDIFAT?
What specific changes do I want to make to live more intimately with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you have an attitude I cannot accept?
HDIF when I realize I am not coping effectively with stress?
HDIF about our relationship staying like this?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
How do I recognize Christ in you? HDIFAT?
What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am forced to swallow my pride?
HDIF when we have no private time together?
HDIF when we ask a couple to an information night?
HDIF when I wake up and you are not there?
HDIF when I had scheduled time with my family, but need to be with my people instead?
How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for the world? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I made the decision to love? HDIFAT?
Our garden is dying and we need the food. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
When I face more stress than I can handle, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
Company stops in when we are about to leave home. HDIFAT?
Is your body yours or mine? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you massage my head?
Today we had the opportunity to make our relationship stronger. Did we? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's grades?
HDIF about death?
What is our basic way of dealing with marital conflict? HDIFAT?
Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
When do we take down the Christmas decorations? HDIFAT?
How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I feel the least romantic?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you the more comfortable chair?
What is the most important topic for us to discuss today? HDIFAT?
How do I like you to touch me? HDIF when you touch me that way?
What do I hope to gain in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What couple, that we know, do I see as important to us and how have they affected our life? HDIFAT?
Where am I most selfish? HDTMMF?
How does my/our relationship with my/your parents affect us? HDIFAT? (You may want to pick one set of parents the first night, and the other the following night.)
HDIF when you make unreasonable demands on me?
HDIF when we plan the budget?
HDIF when we have so little private time together?
HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people?
What was the most important discovery I made about you as we experienced the weekend or after? HDIFAT?
What areas do I least like to dialogue on? HDIFAT?
HDIF about when I balance the checkbook?
In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when am coming home to my people after a long trip?
HDIF when we do not have much time to dialogue?
HDIF when we go out socially?
How can we do something as a family to help the poor? HDIFAT?
I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
Our missionary role is always to invite other people on our journey. HDIFAT?
How could we improve our couple prayer each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I clean the kitchen for you?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
HDIF when you tell me that you need me?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am moody?
What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people do little things to tease, annoy or insult me?
What mask do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about unexpected company?
How do I feel about being a sign of God's Love to our children or to other children? HDTMMF?
HDIF about our ability or inability to have children?
When over the last week did I not accept your feelings? HDIF telling you this now?
HDIF after I have exercised my right to vote?
How is today's society affecting our family? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about retirement?
What do I think and feel when I hear the statment: 'Love isn't love until you give it away?'
HDIF when our sacrament is a sign of love to others?
We had hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT?
When I have done everything I can, am I satisfied to wait on the outcome? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about making a will?
HDIF when we read our letters and then cannot think of much to say?
HDIF when it is time to file income tax forms?
HDIF when I write you a love note?
HDIF about going into debt for a purchase?
What was your strongest feeling today?HDIFAT?"
When I sin, I pound the nails deeper into Jesus' hands and feet. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you call me from work?
What could I do to help my own spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFTYT?
How do we maintain passion and love in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you liking me as a person?
HDIF about taking time out for us?
HDIF about us participating in competitive sports? When we win? When we lose?
HDIF when I forgive an enemy?
What is most likely to distract me when I am trying to listen to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you want something we cannot afford?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
How do you respond to my failures? HDIFAT?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
What values of mine differ from yours? How does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How are you like your father? HDIFAT?
What expectations of mine were not met this last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not talk after an argument?
What does listening mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone tells me to take it easy and relax for a while?
What can I do to share my strengths with other people? HDIFAT?
If our house burned down, could we dialogue on God's love the next day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, That was stupid?
HDIF when you hold my hand in public?
HDIF when I have to say, I made a mistake?
What does the Fourth of July make me thankful for? HDIFAT?
My idea of a romantic evening is _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving you a ten-second kiss every day?
Does our love make a difference in our community? HDIFAT?
How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
I would really feel special if _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you sing me a love song?
What are the outward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of mine in one of our children?
HDIF when you say, I was wrong?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
HDIF when outside activities keep us from spending time with our family?
I have one more day to live. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about the first car I ever owned?
HDIF about the importance of our relationship to our church?
How does our financial situation affect our unity? HDIFAT?
What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? Am I spending my time on what I vaule the most? HDIFAT?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about God having a stake in our marriage?
What do I most need from you today? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help you experience more of God?s Love? DYFID.
Do I measure myself by God's Standards, or the modern world's standards? HDIFAMA?
What actions or behaviors do you use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself mature for my age? HDIFAT?
In what areas of our relationship do I think I am number one with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about LK 16:9?
How can I help you when you are under pressure? HDIFAT?
How have we been a sign of love to our people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I/you have an accident? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I ask you to make love to me?
Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I accomplish something I am proud of?
Do I think I spend enough time with my people or is the time I spend with them quality time? HDIFAMA?
You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT?
I look forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT?
Do I accept criticism or try to suppress it? HDIFAT?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT?
What do I most need to take responsibility for today? HDIFAT?
We had many hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT?
HDIF about you staying home with the children and being a homemaker?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone lies to me?
Who can we go to when we need to be lifted up? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you love me just the way I am? HDIFAT?
What in our relationship gives me the most joy? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about surprising you with flowers?
What is my best quality? HDIFAT?
The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT?
What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIF about this?
What are my first reactions when I am under stress? HDIFAT?
What are your best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
How many times have I moved? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF if someone threw a rock through one of our windows on purpose?
Is our diet life-giving? HDIFAT?
What was our first year of marriage like? HDIFAT?
What have I done today to help others? HDIFAMA
HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car?
HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures?
HDIF when you are not there when I need you?
HDIF recalling the baptism of our children?
In what ways do I believe I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about donating money to the poor?
How do I behave when I am treated unfairly? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about having God in our relationship?
How have I changed in recent years? What made me change? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take down Christmas decorations?
What expectations do I have of my family?
Which of my people do I look up to? HDIFAT?
How much money would we need to retire on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we play games with our children?
HDIF about having a picnic in the park with our children?
HDIF about the way my voice sounds when it is recorded?
HDIF about our children's religious education?
What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
God so loved us that He gave us His only son. HDIFAT?
Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our having some time alone, away from each other?
HDIF when I think about our home?
If we could go anywhere, where would I most like to take you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt someone?
HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me 'The gift you have received, give as a gift.'?
HDIF about learning to accept you as you are?
Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What are the major sources of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
HDIF when I know you are writing your dialogue letter?
HDIF about our local community, or lack thereof?
What advice would I give a young bride or groom? HDIFAT?
What am I most disappointed with in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What realistic thing can I do this week to make it better than last week? HDIFAT?
What challenges did I face today in making you the center of my life? How do I feel about this? HDIF sharing this with you?
The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to relatives' homes for the holidays?
What bad effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Lent?
Where was I born? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something special for me?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
What do I like best about us in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Why am I afraid to tell you what pleases me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we eat by candlelight?
What am I like when I am sick? HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I let you make your own decisions, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
What is my favorite time of year and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the courage to let people know what I stand for?
Because of my familiarity with my people, do I sometimes treat them with less respect than they deserve? HDIFAT?
In the area of prayer what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? DILD.
What struggles do I go through trying to write my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are separated because of my job or career?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of you to say _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when job or career separates us?
Do I pray for love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply?
What kindness do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
When you are more romantic than me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone?
Can you count on me in a time of need? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone interrupts a task I am intent on completing?
How would I feel if we won the Lottery? HDIFAT?
Our sexual relationship is not what it could be. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am digging up the past?
HDIF when you are under pressure?
What does failure do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for you to trust me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you spend money on me?
What steps can we take to make our impossible dream a reality? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we play together?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAT?
What unresolved problems do I see in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
What does being a couple mean to me? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we held hands in public? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not being met? HDIFAT?
What did you do today that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a picnic in the park, just the two of us?
HDIF about our family activities?
What do I preceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood/ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
How well do I think I do at recognizing and trying to nourish my needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT?
When do I rely on emotions / feelings instead of on thinking? HDIFAT?
I believe you are being selfish when _____. HDIFAT?
Do I believe it is important to be on time? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT
How do I see our dialogue has changed our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I complete some big, unusual task around the house?
How often do we throw a party? HDIFAT?
Do I think I release my anger and frustration appropriately or inappropriately? HDIFAMA?
In what ways do I affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
What do I think about our spirituality (being lovers)? HDIFAT?
Do I have any dreams that I have not shared with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when my superior does not share their plans with me?
What do I want most to give our family? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are nervous? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming of spring (or other season)?
How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are hypersensitive?
HDIF when we invite a couple to experience the weekend and they accept?
If I could experience the weekend again, what part would I re-live and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting a dialogue support group?
HDIF when someone asks me to do something I do not want to do?
How does my / your traveling affects our relationship? HDIFAT?
How much privacy do I need in general? In our relationship? HDIFAT?
How have I freed myself up in our relationship? HDIFAT?
In lovemaking you are a gift of God to me. HDIFAT?
How supportive are we of our extended family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize we cannot give our children the best of everything?
HDIF when you recognize my needs?
Whom have I failed to love this week? HDIFAT?
How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I judge you did not listen to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sending Christmas cards?
Sometimes people tell me I cannot do what I want to do. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch you undress?
How do I respond to what I consider to be God's failures? HDIFAT?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAMA?
If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go, and why? HDIFAT?
Do I agree with the statement that folks are better off married? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our celebration of Thanksgiving?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
What was the most difficult thing I had to overcome to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
How does dealing with your past make me feel?
HDIF being around people who are chronically indecisive?
What weather-related term would I use to describe my normal disposition (warm, sunny, stormy, gloomy ...)?
HDIF when I cannot relax at home or at work?
If you died, what quality of yours would I miss most? HDIFAT?
Is our love worth celebrating? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me?
HDIF when I see thanks shining in your eyes?
HDIF when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine?
HDIF about the way you affirmed your love for me today?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a surprise?
HDIF about having a Halloween costume party?
As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others. HDIFAT?
How are we going to make better use of our free time this summer? HDIFAT?
What couple has been the clearest sign of Sacrament for me? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of our children excels and the others do not?
Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
HDIF about the last time we snuggled together?
Lately I have felt closest to you when _____. HDIFAT?
Do I think I release my anger and frustration appropriately? HDIFAMA?
Would people be more likely to call me warm and sympathetic, or cold and aloof? HDIFAT?
HDIF about today's meals?
HDIF when I am blamed for something that is my fault?
My favorite dessert is _____. How does that remind me of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch our children play in the snow?
What is an attitude I had about sex entering marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I listen to you with my heart?
How could we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT?
What gift can I give Jesus on His birthday? HDIFAT?
When I am pressured by time, How do I respond to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I lose my keys?
HDIF when I think about my current spirituality?
What do I want from this relationship right now? In the future? HDIFAT?
Can I see our children as gifts of God? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts about dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness?
In sex, I feel most inadequate about _____. HDIFAT?
What causes the most friction between us? (Not conflict, but the little things that rub each other the wrong way.) HDIFAMA?
What do I like best about us in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we share deeply with those around us?
Our children will be grown and gone too soon. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing my emotions / feelings express who I am?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIF when I think about them?
Would I treat God as I did you today? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I go to bed knowing you will be home late?
When did I feel closest to God and you in our lovemaking? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am holding something back from you?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAMA?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDTMMF?
HDIF about the way I express myself?
What makes it hard to ask for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
What do I like best and least about our family? HDIFAT?
My ears are my most important communication tools. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes?
What do I find relaxing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we reach out and are rejected?
Do I see death as an end to our love relationship? HDTMMF?
Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about the way we are managing our finances? Describe in loving detail.
Do my selfish desires create obstacle in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
I still have these doubts about us: _____. HDIFAT?
What topic would I most like to see discussed in our community of couples? HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts when we pray together? HDIFAT?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? What are my feelings about my answer?
How do I feel when I see you crying? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about smoke detectors in our home?
HDIF when I give you a sincere compliment?
HDIF when someone asks us, How is your dialogue?
HDIF when you minimize my emotions / feelings or pay no attention to them?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
HDIF when I have the urge to surprise you with an unexpected gift?
HDIF when we go to see your mother / father in the hospital?
HDIF when I have to make a difficult phone call?
What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our sex life?
How would I feel after a death in our family this week? HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for us as a dialoguing couple? HDIFAT?
How has never having children affected my life? HDIFAT?
Is it easier for me to overcome my enemies or overcome my desires? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone tries to get my professional advice in a social setting?
HDIF when I react rather than respond to you?
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMAs?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me?
HDIF about singing in Latin?
HDIF when you reject suggestions I have to offer?
When I am more romantic than you, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about skydiving?
What have I had to compromise to be with you? HDIFAT?
How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a little dispute threatens a long friendship?
Everything and everyone has its beauty, but not everyone sees it. Do I look for the beauty in others, or do I look at the surface? HDIFAMA?
What hopes do I have for the coming weekend? HDIFAT?
How do I handle my jealous emotions / feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for my priesthood or ministry? HDIFAT?
What one thing do my people do that helps bring me closer to God? HDIFAT?
What person in my family has lived the longest? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
Where am I when things are demanded of me? HDIFAT?
Does my touching you communicate caring and commitment? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we played with our children and just had fun? HDIFAT?
What did experiencing the weekend and follow-up sessions do for our faith in God? HDIFAT?
What foods do I dislike the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about honoring the dead?
HDIF when we are lost?
How can we use time for ourselves better? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people? Describe in loving detail.
How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF when God allows me to suffer?
Jesus is counting on us to reveal His love to other people. HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintences? HDIFAMA?
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do a job, task or chore together?
What were the most important aspects of our wedding ceremony to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people take up too much of my time?
What would I like to be appreciated for? HDIFAT?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How do I react when people sing Happy Birthday to me in public? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a love note packed in my sandwich?
HDIF when I get behind on my sleep?
HDIF when you say, I cannot do anything to please you?
What do I see in my people that I admire? HDIFAT?
Sitting very quietly, HDIF listening to Jesus say my name to me?
HDIF when I have to push others to get the job done right?
What do I put before God in my life? HDIFAT?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our romance? HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people who keep their enthusiasm under control?
HDIF when discussing our sex life?
What is my attitude toward discipline and HDIFAT?
In what ways can I deepen our spirituality? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
HDIF when you are patient with me?
Can I recognize when I?m under stress? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I sense God's love through you?
The personal qualities I am most aware of in myself are as follows: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I provide for our family?
Thinking about retirement, I feel _____.
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the changes taking place in our lives right now?
The time I feel most alive is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have time for vacation but no vacation money?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
What is romance? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about the upkeep of our home?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
God is kind and merciful, slow to get angry, and full of love.' -- Psalms 145:8. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAMA?
What do I do to get relief from emotional pain when I am tired, lonely, angry or hurting? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we dump on each other?
What kind of person would I like to become? HDIFAT?
What is our relationship with other people who share our faith? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, you or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we have to face a crisis?
Do I choose sexual intercourse to meet my need to be loved? HDIFAT?
What limits do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see baby Jesus in the manger?
How do I deal with conflict in my life? HDIFAT?
What kept me from making the most of this past weekend? HDIFAT?
Where do I generally have an attitude of superiority? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my physical appearance? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we help someone in need?
How accepting of others have I been this week? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about the use of medicine in our family?
Whose good opinion is important to me? HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding our family?
What friend(s) of my people would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAMA?
Besides my church/temple/etc. where would I most like to celebrate mass/conduct services/etc.? HDIFAMA?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAMA?
How is my father / mother still influencing my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about healing?
Since we began dialoguing, what growth have I seen in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I complain about the problems in an otherwise good situation? HDIFAT?
How much am I in control of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around opinionated people?
In what way does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, you or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I receive Christ's forgiveness in the Sacrament of Penance?
HDIF about the amount of time I spend on my work?
HDIF when I make sexual advances toward you?
Our sexual relationship is a mirror of our total relationship. HDIFAT?
If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDMAMMF?
Do I appreciate you enough? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
How does our stuff compare to our neighbor's stuff? HDIFAT?
When do I feel most loved? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living with a budget?
HDIF when I watch the sunset with you?
HDIF telling you something I know you do not want to hear?
I enjoy my relationship with people the most when. . . HDIFAMA?
What was our closest moment, as a couple, this past week? HDIFTYT
What I need most to offer you to most tonight is _____. HDIFAT?
How do you most help me? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that affects them needs to be made? HDIFAT?
How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I discover there is almost no gas left in the tank?
HDIF about the freshness in our marriage?
What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to overtures of friendship from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAT?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Can I eat with chopsticks? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not in synch?
How much a part of our marriage is God to me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am left out of your activities?
How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my health?
What memories of Easter do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am unable to control my temper?
HDIF when we plan a romantic evening together?
Has our lovemaking become just an activity? HDIFAT?
Where would I most like to see growth in our relationship this year? HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our sex life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the holidays this year?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF watching our parents grow older?
What is the reason that I keep from forgiving myself? HDIFAT?
How do I spend the first hour of my day? HDIFAT?
God expects us to be our brothers' keeper. HDIFAT?
What can I do for you to help you cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a drink?
How do I feel about our current financial situation? HDIF telling you this?
What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
I would like people to think of me as _____. HDIFAT?
What part of the Passion is most significant to me? HDIFAT?
Is there one thing you could begin doing, or stop doing, that would help our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I get you a new scarf?
HDIF about planning for a New Year?
Do I allow Jesus to be in control of my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something good or kind for someone else?
Our child has a special talent. HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying love my people the way God loves me? HDIFAT?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be _____? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I can trust God to guide our lives?
HDIF about our son being a priest / pastor?
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
When was my need for self-worth met this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF using the gifts of the Holy Spirit?
HDIF about making big financial decisions without you?
HDIF when you brag on me?
How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important?
HDIF when I know that you are proud of me?
What is the nicest thing you did for me this week? HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with others today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we spend an entire day communicating only with non-verbals? (Try it!)
What qualities in your mother do I also see in you? HDIFAT?
Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAMA?
Am I more concerned with my outer or inner appearance? HDIFAMA?
How do we respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you do not share your plans with me? Describe in loving detail.
Jesus will never give us a task that is too big to handle. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, If you really loved me, you would do this?
HDIF when I have to work in a group?
If I was about to die and could only tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What is my mask when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone reminds me of all the favors they have done for me?
When do I feel the least romantic? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing God planned for us to be together?
What steps can we take to talk more about us?
Have I affirmed my love for you today? HDIFAT?
More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them.' -Harold J. Smith Do I deny my mistakes or do I learn from them? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I decide to love?
HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me?
HDIF when we are torn between our families?
How has dialogue changed my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say yes to _____?
What gift have you given me in the last week, two weeks, month, etc., that I have really appreciated? How do I feel sharing this with you? (The gift can be a kind word at the right time, a hug when it was needed, a phone call, etc. It shouldn't be a material item.)
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
Are we still striving for a deeper loving marriage, or have we stopped because we judge we've done enough? HDIFAMA?
How does the image I try to project affect our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are overly scrupulous?
What qualities do I admire most in others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
When did I feel closest to God and you in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT?
How do I think you can best help me to be myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me after a rough day?
The thing I most fear losing is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our vacation plans this year?
HDIF knowing that death is inevitable?
HDIF when our dialogue goes beyond our emotions / feelings to address our needs?
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are with couples who are working on their marriages?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
In what areas do I fail to practice what I preach? HDIFAT?
Do I accept compliments easily? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you?
When I feel sad, angry, frustrated, etc. (pick one, or one of your own) what is the best thing you can do for me? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I realize that God has spoken to me through one of my people? Describe in loving detail.
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How important is spoken communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for romance?
HDIF when I lose? When I win?
What can I do to make myself more available to my people? HDIFAMA?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT?
Do I always say what I mean and mean what I say? HDIFAT?
What is the atmosphere at our dinner table? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
God wants to count me among His saints. HDIFAT?
I have discovered I am very dependent on you in these areas: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need you?
Our children are tempted by alcohol, drugs, sexuality. HDIFAT?
What do I most like about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
What is the greatest gift I could give my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I go out of my way to please you?
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we use our financial resources?
What are my dreams for us? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Do I try to control you sometimes? When? HDIFAMA?
What barriers or attitudes do I have that keep me from developing an intimate relationship with our friends? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about us today? Describe in loving detail.
How can our kiss be more meaningful? HDIFAT?
HDIF about proclaiming marriage to other people?
Should we recommit to regular dialogue? HDIFAT?
As a parent, could you do better? HDIFAT?
What are the maybes in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear you pray aloud?
HDIF when you are passionate?
HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face?
HDIF about encouraging our children to participate in sports?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about tithing the first part of my wages to the Lord?
What have I learned from looking backwards that can enrich my future relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
What is the meaning of my birthday to me? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism? HDIFAT?
How do I see God acting in our lives? HDIFAT?
Sometimes I do not take the time to say I love you. HDIFAT?
In what ways are you my best friend? HDIFAT?
What is our favorite Christmas memory? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me an unexpected hug?
HDIF when you come home in the evening?
How do I feel about my parish/church/convent/temple/etc. financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
Do we ever let material things interfere with our relationship? HDMAMMF?
How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I smile?
How would I feel if the angel Gabriel spoke to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I dress around you?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
What values do we want our children to have about money? HDIFAT?
Here are the things I like most about you: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF just before mass or church? HDIFAT?
How have I shown my love for you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about flossing my teeth?
HDIF when you show me that you love me?
HDIF about family reunions?
What quality do I not like in myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
We need medicine and the checkbook is low. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
I smiled today when I thought about. . . . HDIFAMA?
HDIF about driving inexpensive cars?
Have I been critical of you or accepting of you this week? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I react to you instead of responding to you?
HDIF being in our home alone, by myself?
HDIF when friends of ours are having marital problems?
What do I most need from my people today? HDIFAMA?
What emotion / feeling did I have today that I most want to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a large number of people over?
I need support from you in the following areas: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the roles I play in our marriage?
HDIF about receiving gifts?
What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when work makes demands of me that seem unfair?
HDIF about my expectations in our sexual relationship?
How does the season (spring, summer, winter, fall) affect me? HDIFAT?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me do I allow it to effect our relationship and/or my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT?
What anniversaries do I celebrate? HDIFAT?
When I am angry, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
HDIF knowing that God needs us?
What problems do we have because of differing values? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that today could be my last day on earth?
Looking back on this month, has it been a good month or a bad month? Why? HDIFAT?
What do I have responsibility for that I would like to give up? HDIF sharing this with you?
It is morning and I just got up. HDIFAT?
What frustrates me most in working with others? HDIFAT?
Is there a difference between writing to you and writing to a diary? HDIFAT?
HDIF about tattoos?
HDIF about my responsibilities as a married person?
Is our marriage bed sacred? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our lifestyle?
HDIF when you get all dressed up for me?
HDIF about praying together?
My most vivid good childhood memory is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about where we are this year compared to last year at this time?
Is there time enough for God in my busy life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of our children is honored and the others are left out?
What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAT?
What has Our Father given us in the past year? HDIFAT?
When I consider our past times together, do I have a better memory for the positive aspects or for the negative aspects? HDIFAT?
How would I describe you to Jesus? HDIFAT?
Recently I thought it was wrong, unreasonable or selfish of you to say _____. HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children?
What do I miss about school? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the tension between us?
What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFA This?
HDIF about contributing five percent of our income to charity?
How is the gift of the Eucharist special in our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you behave in public?
What brings us closest? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am brooding over my mistakes?
How was your love life-giving to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF giving advice to _____?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAMA?
How well do I really listen to you? HDIFAT?
What issue do we have facing us that I have not shared my emotions / feelings with you about? HDIFAT?
What things should I make time for? HDIFAT?
What was my strongest emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT?
Is there anything that I do that causes me to compromise my beliefs? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus Lord of my future? HDIFAT?
HDIF about shopping for furniture?
HDIF when people bore me with their problems?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about religious statues?
HDIF when someone rains on my parade?
What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAMA?
In general, do I give you more criticism or praise? HDIFAT?
What song can bring tears to my eyes? HDIFAT?
How can we best share our love with other people? HDIFAT?
Would I like to plan some changes in our life this next year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you sincerely compliment me?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
HDIF when work keeps us apart?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? HDIFAT?
How do my goals for financial security affect our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting a museum?
HDIF when I call you by your pet name?
HDIF when I get a surprise note or phone call from you?
If there were a death in our family this week, how would I feel? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you care about the things I like?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving you? HDIFAT?
What sexual fantasies do I have that I would like to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we mentioned Encounter / Retrouvaille to a couple? HDIFAT?
What gift of yours do I take for granted or deem trivial? HDIFAT?
During an average week, what activities enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
What is the one thing I like most about our Dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
What effect or lack of effect has our sexual desire had on us this week? HDIFAT?
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our marriage as a sign of love to others?
What are my expectations concerning celebrating mass, services, etc.? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we pray together as a family at mealtime?
How does my mask interfere with my celebrating mass/worship service/etc.? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my involvement with work?
How do I feel when we work together to get a tough job done in a short time? DILD.
HDIF about supporting our Encounter / Retrouvaille community?
How do I react to the emergencies that come up in my daily life? HDIFAT?
HDIF looking through a photo album or scrapbook?
Is our love starting to make a difference in the world? HDIFAT?
What happens when I get mad? HDIFAT?
HDIF about past Christmases (As a child)? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning a vacation?
HDIF when we have a candle-lit dinner?
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