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Retrouvaille & Marriage Encounter Dialogue Questions

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HDIF when I am trying to be strong in the face of difficulty?
Where do I get most of my enjoyment from TV? HDIFAT?
I looked forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF seeing animals in the zoo?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
HDIF taking time to get to know myself better?
During an average week, what activities enhance our relationship?
HDIF when I am asked to work overtime?
How important are material things to me?
HDIF at those times when I come on a little too strong with people?
HDIF about reading more books and watching less TV?
HDIF when my people say no to God?
What do I want from this relationship right now? In the future? HDIFAT?
Am I doing better accepting you as you are? DYFILD.
In what area of Retrouvaille am I interested in investing our time, talents, support, and love in? HDMAMMF?
What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?
How can I stop holding onto my fears? HDIFAT?
How well do I trust you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am moody?
How do you most help me? HDIFAT?
How do I think other people see us as a couple? HDIFAT?
You are my hero. HDIFAT?
I have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
What struggle did we face that helped prepare us for this day? HDIFAT?
How do your insecurities affect me? HDMAMMF?
How would I feel working under someone who is always kind but not so fair? HDIFAT?
When were we closest this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming New Year?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your smile?
What mask (personality style) do I find most difficult to remove in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAT?
How has never having children affected our life? HDIFAT?
Can I put you before myself? HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about working weekends?
Do I love my people beyond the confines of my church, parish, synagogue, etc? HDIFAMA?
What are my concerns about the future? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me after a rough day?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
In order for us to succeed as a couple, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
HDIF about John 17:21, so that the world may believe?
For our growth, we need God to be part of our love relationship. HDIFAT?
When was the last time we held hands in public? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAT?
How was Easter special for us this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving from our substance?
What need of mine is not being met? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIFAT?
In order to learn to give, I also need to learn to receive. HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still living a singles lifestyle? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a walking tour through my old high school?
HDIF when I fix you a cup of coffee?
HDIF about our friends who cohabit?
If I could change one and only one thing about the world, what would it be? HDIFAMA?
How does my mask (personality style) make me a married single? HDIFAT?
HDIF about widening our circle of friends?
When do I feel close to God? HDIFAT?
Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people make demands of me that I think are unfair?
As an adult, am I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing God planned for us to be together?
In groups, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give in too easily and let others push me around?
When I part with family or friends, do I make the effort to part with loving words in case I do not see them again? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we disagree with each other? HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with you? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF about the expectations my family has for us?
Do I see death as an end to our love relationship? HDTMMF?
When I am really at odds with someone, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me The gift you have received, give as a gift?
When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT?
What am I most disappointed with in myself? HDIFAT?
What stage of love do I think we are in: romance, disillusionment, misery, revival, or joy? HDIFAT?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?
I felt proud of you this week when you _____. HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDTMMF?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in your life, HDIF about your past?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you?
What do I need to change in order to live my life right? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that effects them needs to be made? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the romance in our relationship?
What mask do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way I spend my spare time? Describe in loving detail.
What was the silliest thing I ever did with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our plans are changed?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAMA?
After conflict, am I still feeling hurt? DYFID?
In what areas do need to grow as a couple? HDIFAT?
What has the strongest positive influence on my sexual experience? HDIFAT?
God loves me even with all my sins and flaws. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are loving in front of our children?
What expectations do I have of my job? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
How do I measure up when I am given power? HDIFAT?
How does our closeness reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving people a second chance? A third chance? A fourth chance?
HDIF about healing?
HDIF about how well I show my love for you?
I tell a joke and no one laughs. HDIFAT?
In order to solve a problem, am I more likely to use common sense or imagination? HDIFAT?
Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT?
How do I see our finances affecting our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about funerals?
HDIF when I try to hold in my joy?
Where have I experienced the greatest change in attitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our trying to de-clutter our home?
What do I think are your plans for this new year? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, are we living the World's Plan? HDIFAT?
Is there anything troubling me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I invite you to go bike riding with me?
Am I more likely to look for the easiest way, or the right way? HDIFAMA?
Have I achieved my values? HDIFAT?
When am I most frustrated with you? HDIFAT?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with my people better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about past Christmases (As a child)? HDIFAT?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge myself unlovable?
HDIF about the phrase, Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?
Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT?
What compliment do I most like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
How do I feel this week living in the modern world? How do I feel sharing this with you?
HDIF about family dialogue?
What thing or activity would it be difficult for me to give up and why? HDIFAMA?
Our love makes a difference in the world. HDIFAT?
The house is a mess. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am able to tell you what pleases me?
How is the gift of the Eucharist special in our lives? HDIFAT?
What specifically do you do to me physically that turns me off? HDIFAT?
What dream do I have for a better world? HDIFAT?
HDIF about people who arrive for work early?
I feel best about myself when I am _____. HDIFAT?
What do I most need from my people when I/my people are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? HDIFAMA?
To keep our marriage fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way my priesthood/etc. influences other people? DILD.
HDIF about the honesty of our dialogue?
What effect did my family's ideas, experiences, etc. of priest/religious life have upon me and the way I lead my life now? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple?
HDIF when I receive a special favor?
Do I allow Jesus to be Lord of my life? HDIFAT?
If I were to receive a huge sum of money, how would I be changed by it? HDIFAT?
What would I like to be appreciated for? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
How can I most help you at this time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your emotions / feelings last night?
HDIF when you say, I missed you today?
If I were an animal, what would I be? HDTMMF?
How does dealing with your past make me feel?
Is lovemaking a value for us or merely an ideal? HDIFAT?
If our house burned down, could we dialogue on God's love the next day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we dance in the livingroom?
HDIF about reminding a friend to return something borrowed long ago?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to my people? HDIFAT?
In what specific way have I brightened your day today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I squeeze your hand?
What am I most obsessive about? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
How do/would I feel if someone unexpectedly gave me a hug after a hard day? Describe in loving detail.
Do I challenge others to live their values? HDIFAT?
What can we do to make this a better world? HDIFAT?
There is no morality to consenting, loving sex. HDIFAT?
How do I see you as a gift? HDIFAT?
What do I love most about you today? HDTMMF?
I have seniority at work. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone lies to me?
In the area of prayer, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe it
What part do I play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear gossip?
HDIF when I say ours but really mean mine?
Besides our bed, where would I most like to make love to you? HDIFAMA?
How have we benefitted by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIF sharing this with you?
What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
What special memory do I have when I look at old family photos? HDIFAT?
What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself?
This is how you have helped me know love, and donate/give myself (to others). HDTMMF?
What are my expectations of you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What is my self-image? HDIFAT?
What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
In thinking about our current financial situation, what is my strongest emotion / feeling? HDIFAT?
If our house were burning down, what possessions would I most hope were spared and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the Trinity of God? HDIFAT?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
Sometimes life is not fair. HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people tell me that they love me?
What expectations do I have of our children?
How important is marriage to me? HDIFAT?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
When am I most frustrated with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF being with people whose emotional ups and downs are very marked?
HDIF about expanding our existing values to live God's plan?
HDIF when we attend a greet-off?
Our separate interests are drawing us apart. HDIFAT?
Is my heart fully open to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about wearing silk underwear?
What can I offer you to better our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about trusting in our Father's care for us?
What should we do about religious education for our children this year? HDIFAT?
I am happy being married to you today because _____. HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the checkbook does not balance?
HDIF when we are separate from each other?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
Who am I a hero to? HDIFAT?
Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I need a hug? Describe in loving detail.
What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT?
IWhen do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are refusing to make up?
How can we as a family keep the closeness of the Christmas Season alive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I surprise you with flowers?
Is it a priority for me to have money in my pocket? HDIFAT?
If I could change careers, what would I like to do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you?
How have I been separate from my people lately? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
When meeting difficulties, am I more likely to alter them or to alter myself? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift my mother gave me? HDIFAT?
If we had twice our present income, would be happier? HDIFAT?
My favorite dessert is _____. How does that remind me of you? HDIFAT?
Do I close my eyes to your faults? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about your job or career?
Do I believe my life, or parts of it, are predestined? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our last vacation?
HDIF about Our Father calling us to lead other people?
What are your best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
HDIF when a member of our family compliments me?
Who can we go to when we need to be lifted up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I engage in self-pity?
When we are not communicating as a family I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult emotion/feeling I've shared with you recently?
HDIF about our spending on gifts?
What are my feelings knowing that somewhere, there is another weekend going on right now? How do I feel sharing this with you?
How can this vacation literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT?
What do I remember about our wedding? HDIFAT?
What am I most disillusioned with in my life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I receive ashes?
HDIF when I need you?
What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT?
Where would I turn for help if my family were not available? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an overflowing church on Easter Sunday?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDMAMMF?
How many hours do I watch TV in a typical day? In a typical week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I keep a promise I made to you?
Do I allow Jesus to be in control of my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I visit you in the hospital?
What can we do to improve our dialogue? HDIFAT?
Is sex good or bad? HDIFAT?
What is the side of me I least like people (especially you) to see? HDIFAT?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDTMMF?
What would it take for me to really commit myself to this marriage? HDIFAT?
What have I done recently that I should ask you for forgiveness, but have not? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am forced to swallow my pride?
How has my perspective changed over the last 5, 10, or 20 years? HDIFAT?
What has been the most painful experience in our family this past week and HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see baby Jesus in the manger?
HDIF when we sing the Gloria?
HDIF about our children's education in music and art?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
HDIF when you stand by me, even when I am wrong?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
Marriage should be full of the joy that God desires for us. HDIFAT?
What are the things that bring me closer to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when summer is approaching?
How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail.
Are the activities our child(ren) involved in an ideal for me or a value? HDIFAT?
What was our favorite song when we were courting, and HDIF remembering or hearing it?
In what ways am I still ?wrapped in a cocoon?? HDIFAT?
HDIF about stopping for pedestrians in crosswalks?
During an average week, what activities enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you show off?
HDIF in my role as a father?
HDIF when I think about my current spirituality?
Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I afraid to grow old? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we resolve conflicts in our relationship?
How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from always being intimate with you? HDIFAT?
In what area do I trust my people the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust my people, just the least) HDIFAMA?"
HDIF when I smile?
The way to salvation is through Jesus. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that your family's problems are my problems?
What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
Does Romance Sex? HDIFAT?
What can I do for our parish or church? HDIFAT?
When am I most likely to ignore you? HDIFAT?
If we had to relocate, how would I feel?
Is there time enough for God in my busy life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to influence my decisions?
HDIF when I stay within my limits, undertaking only as much as I can handle?
When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other couples support us?
HDIF when we are in some form of friendly competition, like cards?
In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
Can I snow ski? Water ski? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I crave to be appreciated? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about discussing religion with someone who's views differ from mine? Describe in loving detail.
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF growing older with you?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from being generous to you and others? HDIFAT?
To which of my characteristics or traits do you object the most? HDIFAT?
Are there any hurts between us that I need to be healed of before our relationship can continue to grow? HDIFAMA?
If I could change my name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
Your most endearing quality today is _______. HDIF sharing this with you?
Is Jesus my shepherd? HDIFAT?
In what areas of our relationship do we most need to grow? HDIFAT?
What do I value most in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
What is the message of Lent for me? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for our love-making? HDIFSTWY?
How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT?
How can this holiday literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want sex and you do not?
HDIF when God allows us to suffer?
Do I believe it is important to take a yearly family vacation? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my self-image? Describe in loving detail.
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT?
God is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and full of love. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping score?
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
HDIF about the values our children acquire from TV?
HDIF about starting to ride a bicycle again at my age?
It is difficult to write about feelings. HDTMMF?
Describe a time when I felt threatened.
HDIF when friends of ours are having marital problems?
Am I as close to my people as I was just after my Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
I make many of my decisions by _____. HDIFAT?
What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF?
What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT?
What one couple has challenged us the most this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our involvement with our church / parish and the activities there? HDIFAT?
In general, do I give you more criticism or praise? HDIFAMA?
What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting an arts and craft fair with you?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF about introducing you as my husband or wife?
Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how I spend my time?
What bad effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
In order to succeed as a priest or minister, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
How good our marriage is affects other marriages around us. HDIFAT?
What was the first thing that worked against us after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
Is your body yours or mine? HDIFAT?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop holding onto my fears? HDMAMMF?
How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT?
What divides us and causes us to become 'married singles'? HDTMMF?
HDIF about the way we celebrate Easter?
In what area do we have hurt in our relationship? HDIF sharing this with you?
Long ago, I borrowed a book from a friend. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have been fulfilled (sexually) by you?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion?
I like myself best when _____. HDIFAT?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I consider that we are growing in mutual knowledge?
HDIF in a competition?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I made the decision to love? HDIFAT?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love my people better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my dreams with you?
How do I usually feel when I don't want to dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What do I do in a group of strangers to be accepted and HDIFAT?
HDIF when you dump on me?
If I was about to die, and only had time to tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIF telling you this?
My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
What causes me to criticize you? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help you experience more of God's Love? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF recalling my first communion?
What is it like to feel sexual anticipation? HDIFAT?
What is your best quality? HDIFAT?
I cannot compromise on _____. Can I have this and still have us? HDIFAT?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear The family that prays together stays together?
In what kind of relationship (besides spousal) do I try to fill my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see your best qualities in our children?
What are some of the most tranquil times we spend together? HDIFAT?
What kind of listener am I? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the latest trends and fashions?
Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities today? HDIFAT?
In troubled times, do I resort more to tears or to sweat? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
If Jesus came to our house for a 24 hour visit, how would I feel?
If I judge we are not heading in the right direction, what can I do to change it? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes?
I would like to go back to _____ one more time, with you. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our friends who abuse drugs or alcohol?
How do we lovingly pass on our family traditions? HDIFAT?
What have I done today to help others? HDIFAMA
When do I worry about a problem instead of really concentrating on a solution? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Natural Family Planning?
Do my words touch my people, or role off them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
What curse word do I use most often? HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of us has to be away on a long business trip?
HDIF relying on hunches or intuition when things cannot be proved?
When was the last time I called my special friends just to tell them I love them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us moving?
HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD.
How are we living God's plan and what can I do to improve it? HDIFAT?
What good habit(s) would I like to start again? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
HDIF about trying to maintain a cordial relationship with someone I dislike?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
Has our relationship experienced any growth? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
HDIF when I get a little time to relax after I get home?
What is the best way we can show our love to God? HDIFAT?
What do I perceive to be the biggest threat to our relationship? HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me from sharing with my people my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I take time to read to our children?
How important is financial security to me?
What is my happiest memory of the past month? HDIFAT?
What I need most from you tonight is . . .. HDMAMMF?
How do I behave when faced with change? HDIFAT?
What would I say most represents a symbol of our loving relationship? HDIFAT?
When people think about me, they probably remember me for my _____. HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of our dating days? HDIFAT?
Life is not fair. HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children drop by unexpectedly?
What do I like best about you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
Have we changed enough since our weekend, that others have noticed the difference, too? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are apart for several days?
What keeps me from trusting you completely? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we do not talk after an argument?
HDIF being responsible for my own needs?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
HDIF when someone asks us, How is your dialogue?
When our calendar is full, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship with our priest or minister / pastor?
One of the things I would miss most about you, if you were dead, is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the number of hours I work?
What would it be like for you if I died first? HDIFAT?
HDIF about myself today? Does that affect how I feel about you?
How much a part of our marriage is God to me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make the decision to love and have sex when I do not want to?
How can we improve our non-verbal communication as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am proud to be with you?
Is Jesus Lord of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
Do I agree with the statement that folks are better off married? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing the Lord pursues me when I am astray?
HDIF when my life is fast-paced, structured and intense?
How important is physical affection to me? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintences? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I fix your supper?
Sometimes I worry about _____. HDIFAT?
Recently I failed at _____. HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF after I have forgiven you?
HDIF when I am indifferent toward you?
Sometimes we argue over the children. HDIFAT?
What is the area I least want to discuss with you? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I behave like a child? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your relationship with your family?
What advise would I give a young bride or groom (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
What thought of you makes me smile? HDIFAT?
In the area of superiority what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAMA?
How could our dialogue be better? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about us being needed by others?
What kind of person would I like to become? HDIFAT?
In what way has God worked in my life today? HDMAMMF?" God/Theology"
Do I measure myself by God's Standards, or the modern world's standards? HDIFAMA?
How well do I think I listen to you? What can I do to listen better? HDIFAT and sharing this with you?
When am I most likely to lie to others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our sexual relationship?
How do I respond to overtures of friendhsip from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAMA?
What are my memories of the day we met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am on a diet?
Why do (did) I choose to be baptized? HDIFAT?
Do I spend enough time with relatives? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our celebration of Thanksgiving?
HDIF when I say no to you in sex?
What frustration did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hold me in your arms?
What can my people do to help me understand them better? HDIFAT?
How do I feel going out alone at night? Describe in loving detail.
How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about family celebrations?
I see my people as very special because... HDIFAMA?
Is there a decision that I have made recently that I perceive my people have disagreed with? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who brag about themselves?
HDIF when I see another couple holding hands?
HDIF about our family traditions or the lack of them?
What can I do to make God a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
Do I think you would consider me to be a romantic? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think about your death, and what life will be without you?
What did I do today to make life less difficult for someone else? HDIFAT?
How would I feel receiving a friendship card from you?
How are we teaching our children about sexuality? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling did I have today that I most want to share with you? HDIFAT?
Are there any hurts between us that need to be healed of before our relationship can continue to grow? HDIFAMA?
What Christ-like qualities do I see in you? HDIFAT?
What prevents me from helping others? HDIFAT?
Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT?
What image do I have of myself as your sexual partner? HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Christmas tradition?
HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves?
What do I see in other marriages that I want for us? HDIFAT?
What attitude do I want to change in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to have the last word?
What can we do to improve our sex life? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAMA?
What one thing has most united us this past week? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing my whole self with you?
HDIF when I see the house in a mess?
HDIF about planning a family budget with you?
Lately I have felt closest to you when _____. HDIFAT?
What would I like to take back if I could? HDIFAT?
The TV is on. HDIFAT?
More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them.' -Harold J. Smith Do I deny my mistakes or do I learn from them? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I bring you a pillow?
What do I hope to gain in the area of money? HDIFAT?
When I want you to listen to me, do I also want you to agree with me? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I run out of time and there is much left to do?
In social situations, do I worry about saying something stupid or uninformed? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how well I love our children?
I get people to cooperate by _____. HDIFAT?
What are a few things I like to do with our family? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me do I allow it to effect my relationship with my people and/or my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
What are my thoughts about having the power to heal each other? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend together doing things I enjoy?
HDIF about the little things you do for me?
When one of my people gives me a hug, I feel _____.
I experience rejection most when _____. HDIFAT?
We are called to be prophetic and missionary. HDIFAT?
What is the first step I take to cope with the stress in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are slow dancing?
I see my people as very special because _____. HDIFAT?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What does our non-verbal communication mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel after I have forgiven one of my people? DILD.
HDIF toward you when we have to make a decision together?
What expectations do I have of my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put a love note on the bathroom mirror?
Is religion something we do or something we live? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
How would I rate our adaptability, yours to me and mine to you? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of a Christmas past? HDIFAT?
What can I do help you trust me more? HDIFAT?
What does it mean when I do not pick up after myself? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite pet name that you call me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about demonstrating one of my unusual talents for you?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIF sharing this with you now?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of myself? HDIFAT?
My skills are outdated. HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAMA?
The Bible is full of God's dialogue letters to us. HDIFAT?
What quote do I want on my tombstone? HDIFAT?
How and why did you get back to dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about relaxing with you near a lake, river or seashore?
HDIF about the activities our children are involved in?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFAT?
Is our car in a good state of repair? HDIFAT?
How do we, as a couple, bring peace to each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF looking other people in the eye?
In what areas have we grown because of past failures? HDIFAT?
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
Where do cars fit into my life? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been followed, or thought I was? HDIFAT?
What changes do I have to make to make you number one? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we mentioned Encounter / Retrouvaille to a couple? HDIFAT?
Are we as close today as we used to be? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
In what areas do I trust you more? HDIFAT?
How do I react to pressure? How does my reaction affect you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my hurried schedule?
What do I like best about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our church's rituals?
When I feel distance in our relationship, what is it that challenges me to do something about it? HDIFAT?
What do I usually do about things that hurt me? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when our children are under stress? HDIFAT?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my fringe benefits?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this week? HDIFAT?
Is our involvement in this program helping us as a couple? HDIFAT?
If I were to write twenty-five words in a telegram to you, what would I write? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my role as a mother / father?
What example do I imitate that is a good example? HDIFAT?
How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT?
Which is harder for me to do, give without remembering, or take without forgetting? HDIFAT?
Is our love for each other stronger today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAMA?
What are my behaviors when I most need peace in my life? HDIFAT?
In our relationship, what are my favorite evasive maneuvers? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about looking out for Christ's coming?
HDIF when I realize God has spoken to me through you?
How well have I been listening to you lately? HDIFAT?
How do I think we can be more involved with each other? HDIFAT?
Can I do math in my head or do I need a calculator? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are part of a community that supports couples' growth?
How does my mask cause me to be a married single? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when one of my people feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
HDIF about sending a poor child to summer camp?
How have we grown in our sexuality and responsiveness to each other? HDIFAT?
Do I have any dreams that I can not share with my people? HDIFAMA?
Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAT?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see you in our children?
HDIF about the way we are managing our finances?
HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us on a hot issue?
HDIF when I am holding on to resentment?
HDIF about payday?
Do I believe we are part of God's plan? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am traveling to new places?
Why did I commit to you in the first place? HDIFAT?
I have a dream. HDIF when other people are skeptical?
HDIF after a good dialogue?
Whom have I failed to love this week? HDIFAT?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAMA?
What specifically can I do this week to create a little more romance? HDIFAT?
How can we make this Advent a spiritual preparation for Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get an answering machine instead of a live person?
HDIF sharing our faith as a couple?
When recently do I remember loving you beyond inconvenience or hurt? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about switching to low fat milk? Using less salt? Eating less red meat?
When have I felt the most loved ever? HDIFAT?
When I have a choice, do I mostly prefer to do things by myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you massage my head?
HDIF when I compare myself to _____?
What do I like best about us in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest frustration in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you more about my job or career?
How can we live a simple and more fulfilling life? HDIFTYT?
HDIF when we have to be away from each other for an extended period?
HDIF about giving back rubs?
HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures?
We have activities, jobs and careers. What about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a sincere thank you note?
HDIF asking for what I need?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
HDIF when you excel at something I thought I was rather good at?
How would I feel about changing places with one of my people for a day if I could?
HDIF when you can experience some of what I am feeling inside?
How can I communicate better with our children? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
How does our financial situation affect our unity? How does it affect our intimacy? HDIFA my answers?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
HDIF when I watch our children play in the snow?
HDIF when it is time to file income tax forms?
What do I like best and least about our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have had a very stressful day?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I find out, after the fact, that someone has lied to me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the poverty and simplicity of Jesus' birth?
What stage of love do I think we are in (Romance, Disillusion, Misery, Joy)? HDIFAMA?
Which of life's pleasures do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What ideal(s) do I pursue that could cause conflict with others? HDIFAT?
What quality of yours helps me to decide to be totally honest with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your ambitions, whether great or small?
What listening skills could improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
How do I judge I've helped my people make God a special place in their hearts? HDIFAMA?
Love is a gift I freely give to you. HDIFAT?
If I could, what good time would I choose to relive with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our dialogue is interrupted?
Lately, how have I responded to people's demands of me? HDIFAT?
Do I ever use our dialog letter for something other than sharing my feelings with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when making big financial decisions?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
How do I live out the passion for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look at pictures from my ordination / marriage?
HDIF asking you to help me when I fail?
HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us?
What fears do I have about our lovemaking? HDIF sharing this with you?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
When I am at a party, HDIF about leaving other people alone to enjoy themselves?
What changes would I resist in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your carrying an organ donor card?
If I could take you any place, where would I take you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I conceal who I really am?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help me understand you better? HDIFAT?
Has my love for you changed since we were first married? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are too busy for each other?
HDIF when I see a new baby?
Describe a time when I / we went the extra mile to help someone. HDIFAT?
How easy is it for me to trust others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us being a Sacrament?
These things support and reinforce me: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the charismatic style of prayer?
I am attracted to people who _____. HDIFAT?
How did I show you today that you are my favorite person? HDIFAT?
What would I like to accomplish the season of Lent?
In what aspect of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have sexual fantasies about you?
You are my best friend. HDIFAT?
What is your specialness to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine?
How do I feel when I have to apologize even when I don't think I did anything wrong? Describe in loving detail.
How much anger do I carry in my heart? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are with couples who are working on their marriages?
What power do I hold over my people that may be a barrier to me growing closer to them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we need to take out a loan for a major purchase?
What do I do that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT?
HDIF realizing that our sexuality is a gift from God?
How am I different from other priest/religious? HDIFAMA?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do something good for someone else?
How do I feel when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the way our lovemaking affects my self-image?
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.' -- Joshua 1:9. Have I given up when I should have prayed for strength? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when circumstances make me second guess one of my own decisions?
What strengths do I think I might have, but I am afraid to try or rely on? HDIFAT?
How am I hard on myself for things I have done in the past? HDIFAT?
Do I give and get enough emotional support? HDMAMMF?
Sometimes I want to escape and be by myself. HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling jokes?
I have just confided in you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you confront me with a conflict between us?
In what area(s) do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you show interest in your job, career or housework?
What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
How do I behave when my need for love is not met? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself well organized? HDIFAT?
What about our lives would I like to change? HDIF telling you this?
How do I feel when we spend a day with our extended families? Describe in loving detail.
What do I think about our sacrament of Matrimony? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me you have a headache?
How do we usually handle conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I nag you?
HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do?
HDIF about listening to you when I am really busy?
HDIF about life after death?
What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? How do I feel afterwards?
HDIF when I am a tourist?
HDIF thinking about the first time I knew you were for me?
HDIF when we criticize each other?
How do my goals for financial security affect our children? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings about the way we are managing our finances? Describe in loving detail.
In the area of use of time what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about sex in general? HDIFAT?
To keep my vocation fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our family spends money?
HDIF about visiting our in-laws?
HDIF about the way we handle our checking account(s)?
HDIF about my eventual death?
Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT?
We need new clothes. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot keep the schedule I have set for myself?
Jesus said, If you believe in me, you will never die. HDIFAT?
HDIF when making things with my hands?
Am I honest with you about my feelings when I am stressed? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
What is my most vivid memory of our honeymoon? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sleeping in the nude?
What are my best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
When was it hardest for me to decide to love you this week? HDIFAT?
Have I seen a movie or TV show that encourages me about the future of our society? HDIFAMA?
What would be the most unlucky thing that could happen to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about what we as a couple have to offer other people?
HDIF when I cannot say I am sorry?
HDIF falling to sleep beside you? Waking up beside you?
What is most appealing to me about being religious? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you initiate sex?
What is my earliest memory of you? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt confused. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you the more comfortable chair?
How well do I think you trust me? HDIFAT?
Whose good opinion is important to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children reflect our good qualities?
HDIF when you do not defend me?
HDIF recalling my confirmation?
HDIF about having a reality check in our marriage?
Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the time we spend together and the quality of it? What would I like to change if I could? HDMAMMF?
In what way have I changed recently? HDIFAT?
If you are not free to risk, you cannot grow. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I was wrong?
Do I accept God's will? HDIFAT?
You did not choose me. I chose you. HDIFAT?
What quality do I most admire in your mother / father? HDIFAT?
What is my mask when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we attend Stations of the Cross?
How critical am I to my workplace? HDIFAT?
HDIF about shopping in general?
HDIF when I forget other people's birthdays?
HDIF when I have to work in a group?
What do I seek in our relationship? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF knowing there is life after death?
What expectations do I have of our children?
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it?
HDIF about discussing our goals and values with you?
If I were an animal, what would I be? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I have to depend on others?
If I could change one thing about myself, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the life we provided for our children?
When there seems to be no hope, do I give up or keep on trying? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you by your pet name?
What do I love most about you today? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking risks?
Your specialness today was... HDIFAT?
What can I do to show our children more love? HDIFAT?
If I am not junk, then what am I? HDIFAT?
What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
What possessions are most important to me? HDIFAT?
How well do I avoid temptation in my life? HDIFAT?
When have I felt alone this winter? HDIFAT?
Am I smiling more now than I was three months ago? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have to compromise my integrity?
HDIF when there is silence between us?
What is the most important thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you apologize for me?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone asks me for something and remembers to say please?
What would be my idea of a good family outing?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of child raising ? HDIFAT?
What about our lives would I like to change? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I made a conscious decision to love you? HDIFAT?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I show my love to you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What quality in you helped me trust in our young marriage? HDIFAT?
What specialness do I see in our family? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone close to me dies? Describe in loving detail.
In what area of our relationship am I experiencing loneliness? HDIFAT?
Is there anything that is barrier in our communication with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving the children an allowance?
HDIF when we exchange gifts?
In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do crazy things together?
When lately did I judge my feeling(s) was one(s) I should not have? Why? Describe the feeling in loving detail.
In the area of possessions what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
How do we experience unity? HDIFAT?
HDIF about let go and let God?
Describe a time when I felt aggressive. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the steady, routine parts of my day?
What am I doing to promote Christian unity right where I am? HDIFAT?
Change makes me feel _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I handle money?
How does the weather affect how I am with you? HDIFAT?
What have I held back because I was sure I knew what your reaction would be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone says, I know just how you feel?
How do I feel when someone takes up too much of my time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I lose? When I win?
When am I most comfortable serving my people? HDIFAT?
What mask am I wearing today? HDMAMMF?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of you? HDIFAT?
What new awarenesses have I discovered in you this past week? HDIFAT?
When did I first realize I loved you? HDIFAT?
How does my attitude toward your father affect us? HDIFAT?
What talents do we have as a couple? HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDTMMF?
What do I like best about myself in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have about discussing our sexual relationship with you? HDIFAT?
What listening skills could improve our communication? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you say no to making love? Describe in loving detail.
Is privacy an issue in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What are some of the barriers to my forgiving you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your promotion potential?
HDIF when we use incense at Mass?
HDIF when our children challenge us?
A time I felt closest to my people was... How do I feel recalling this?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my friends? HDIFAT?
Who or what is my worst enemy? HDIFAT?
What have I enjoyed most in the challenge to dialogue? HDIFAT?
When you are more romantic than me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me in front of other people?
Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT?
If I died today, would I be ready to meet my Maker? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say YES but mean NO?
How has our inability to live out God?s Plan for our marriage affected us?
How much trust do people have in me? HDIFAT?
When I am upset, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
How patient am I with myself? HDIFAT?
What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overwhelmed by household tasks or yardwork?
Do I consult with you when I am making plans? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone questions my faith?
HDIF immediately after we make love?
What do I hope for next summer, how does that affect our family and HDIFAT?
What aspect of my priesthood / religious life do I enjoy the most? HDIFAT?
My favorite romantic song is _____. HDIFAT?
What one possession do I want most and cannot have? HDIFAT?
What little annoyance(s) have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see others struggling? Describe in loving detail.
What are the sources of my pain or frustration? HDIFAT?
How can I improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations for our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What do I need to do to make myself sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT?
How have my people helped me to become a better person? HDIFAT?
I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when _____. HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with you, do I sometimes treat you with less respect than you deserve? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate the health of my ministry/priesthood/brotherhood/parish/etc. a... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you compliment me in a way that affirms my femininity / masculinity?
How do I feel about Holiday bustle? Describe in loving detail."
Am I more concerned with my outer or inner appearance? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
HDIF when you go ahead and make love even when you do not want to?
When do I avoid you and why? HDIFAT?
In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I've lived the last few weeks? Describe in loving detail.
When was the last time we played with our children and just had fun? HDIFAT?
Is fighting a constructive means of communication between us?
HDIF when you say, I can do whatever I like?
What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking responsibility for my emotions / feelings?
HDIF when I awake on Christmas morning?
What was the most difficult thing I had to overcome to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? How does remembering this MMF? Romance"
What negative emotions / feelings do I experience most frequently? HDIFAT?
How do I believe I can help you at this time? HDIFAT?
HDIF after being with superstitious people?
HDIF about my responsibilities as a married person?
Is control a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I only half-forgive you?
Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having an Encounter / Retrouvaille information night in our home?
HDIF about the septuplets?
In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament/calling? HDIFAMA?
Where do I place my people on my list of priorities? HDIFAT?
What do I think and feel when I hear the statment: 'Love isn't love until you give it away?'
How have we most grown in our relationship over the past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our involvements?
HDIF about your having to work overtime?
What is the nicest thing you did for me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying yes when I really want to say NO?
What sacrifices am I willing to make to be more romantic with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone eats the last cookie?
What should our children be learning in school? HDIFAT?
HDIF when some job or activity separates us?
What part does dialogue play in our hurting and healing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we can spend a quiet evening together?
HDIF about my state of health? Do I take it for granted?
HDIF watching our children participate in sports?
HDIF about telling others about the help we got from Encounter / Retrouvaille?
Is our sexual union a joining of our hearts, minds, bodies and spirits? HDIFAT?
How can I change things to give you more time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you win an argument?
Do I believe I am taking everything too personally? HDIFAT?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
How have our past failures helped us to grow? HDIFAT?
What can you do for me to help me cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAMA?
What is the greatest pressure affecting me during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF about receiving back rubs?
How can I be more gentle with myself? HDIFAT?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
When I am given things to do, am I more likely to accept them or complain about them? HDIFAT?
What have I had to compromise to be with you? HDIFAT?
What do I really like about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
HDIF about the way you handle our children when they misbehave?
What are my goals for _____? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
What is the most exciting thing that ever happened to me? HDIFAT?
One thing I missed out on in my childhood was... HDIFAMA?
When do I most feel the presence of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when something goes wrong?
HDIF about practical jokes?
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
HDIF when I see you across the room?
HDIF about my current state of health?
What is our best quality as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the boss reprimands me?
What was the most tender moment we shared together this week? HDIFAT?
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