Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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HDIF when I find out, after the fact, that _____ has lied to me?
How has my love for my people changed since my taking vows/ordination, or weekend? HDIFAMA?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
How would our children describe our marriage? HDIFAT?
In what way does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT?
Pray Ephesians 5:21-32 together. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, It is my fault?
HDIF about my service to God?
What traditions are meaningful to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I decide to trust you with my emotions / feelings?
In what ways am I seeking to love my wife as Christ loved the church? HDIFAT?
Have I been life-giving to you today? HDIFAT?
Do I keep my pain, hurt, or disillusionment to myself? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is most threatening to my spiritual growth right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying together?
HDIF knowing the Lord pursues me when I am astray?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAMA
What effect has my mother had on my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with you?
Do I consider myself an optimist, pessimist, or realist? HDIF sharing this?
Jesus came to bring us new life. HDIFAT?
Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities today? HDIFAT?
When I let you make your own decisions, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAT?
When have I felt alone this summer? HDIFAT?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDMAMMF?
How do I feel about a walk in the moonlight with you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you wink at me?
HDIF when you are close to me?
I just realize the driver of the car has been drinking. HDIFAT?
What is my dream for my priesthood or ministry? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when one of my people tells me, 'We'll see,' and I think they really mean, 'No'? DILD.
HDIF when we give a donation to charity?
Do I think I, in my vocation, and my love for my people makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
What do I think is fun for you? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest continuous source of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
How have our roles in our marriage changed? HDIFAT?
On most matters, do I already have an opinion? HDIFAT?
How has the temptation to live the World's Plan affected us? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest sexual fantasy? HDIFAT?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children leaving home and going out into the world to make their own choices?
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in our lives, HDIF about our past failings as a couple?
When do I nail down the lid on my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
In what areas is it most difficult for me to let you know how I feel? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize that God is speaking to me through you?
What advice would I give a young bride or groom? HDIFAT?
What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT?
How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
When was I most aware of you today? HDIFAT?
How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT?
Why have we been dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT?
How can we share more of ourselves with our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone questions my faith?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge you are angry with me?
Where would I like to go with you on vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you sleeping?
HDIF about the way you behave around my friends?
Do I (Did I) love my parents just because I respect them for all they've done (did) for me, or is there more to it? HDIFAMA?
What part of the day do I usually like the best? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest defect in listening to you? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you?
How well do I use the talents given to me by God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our vacation?
When I am embarrassed, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
What do I hope for in my heart for my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when job or career separates us?
How do I judge I've helped my people make God a special place in their hearts? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
What do I most need from my people? HDIF telling you this?
In what specific way did I help someone today? HDIFAT?
When I seek advice, am I really seeking what is best for me, or to get support for what I wanted all along? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I stop doing something I want to do because other people are watching?
When I think of the friends in our life, I feel _____.
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
My skills are outdated. HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
What do I see as my people's uniqueness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see Christmas displays in October?
How well do I think I show my love to God? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about marrying you every day? Describe in loving detail.
Do I have any dreams that I can not share with my people? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I try something different in my sermon/homily/prayer/etc. Describe in loving detail.
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue more regular? HDIFAT?
Where do we need to go in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I feel distance in our relationship, what is it that challenges me to do something about it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt?
How well do I forgive me people when they ask for it? HDIFAT?
How well do I communicate with my people? HDIFAT?
I have made a promise to you and cannot keep it. HDIFAT?
How is today's society affecting our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I lie back and look at the stars?
How am I preparing myself for Christ's birth? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____.
HDIF when I consider that you love me?
Is there anything about your job that I avoid discussing with you? HDIFAT?
I look forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
HDIF when I stand at attention during the national anthem?
Whose good opinion is important to me? HDIFAT?
What did I enjoy most about last week? HDIFAT?
Who are our models for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are separated because of my job or career?
HDIF when I make a mistake?
Where in my relationship with God do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am not satisfied with the food or service at a restaurant? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the actions of other people come between us?
What nickname do my co-workers or family members have for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am working and you are relaxing?
HDIF when you say, You are just like your mother?
How do I see God reflected through my people? HDIFAMA?
How does our closeness reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we enjoy each other's sense of humor?
How specifically can we as a couple / priest be salt and light? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, my friends or God? HDIFAMA?
When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you respond to my sexual advances?
When do I feel closest to my mother? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we walk the dog together?
HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building?
Describe a stage in my life when I was not happy. HDIFAT?
What topic would I most like to see discussed in our community of couples? HDIFAT?
How was my name chosen? HDIFAT?
What are my first reactions when I am under stress? HDIFAT?
When someone criticizes me, do I give it right back to them? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I trust you more? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to deal with low-level, nitty-gritty details?
It is morning and I just got up. HDIFAT?
Your needs are in conflict with mine. HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT?
What do I value most in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Who is or was my best friend and why? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I/we are in a hurry to leave, and someone stops by and wants/needs to talk? Describe in loving detail.
Has our house ever caught fire? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing I have done for someone anonymously? HDIFAT?
Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I do not know where to find the information I need?
HDIF about the role the priest or minister played in our wedding?
God is kind and merciful, slow to get angry, and full of love.' -- Psalms 145:8. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAMA?
How important is non-verbal communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
What would I say most represents a symbol of our loving relationship? HDIFAMA?
What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our long-term commitment to each other?
HDIF about giving you a backrub with no expectations of lovemaking?
HDIF when I hear God does not make junk?
When others misjudge me, I feel _____.
How has dialogue changed our lives? HDIFAT?
How does someone know when they are in love? HDIFAT?
What family values do we have in common with the Jewish people? HDIFAT?
What do I think are our limits as a couple? How do I feel about asking others for help in these areas?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that affects them needs to be made? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for love? HDIFAT?
What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our going out together alone more often?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite way to unwind, relax and pamper myself? HDIFAT?
Do I behave as if I am afraid of intimacy? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our love affair with life?
Is our involvement with Encounter / Retrouvaille done as a couple? HDIFAT?
Is there anything I need to share with my people but have not? HDIFAT?
If I had known then what I know now about raising children, I would have _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my first funeral?
What was the most difficult thing I had to overcome to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people only share superficial things with me?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAMA?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish or church? HDIFAT?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAMA?
This week, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you sleep late?
HDIF when I hear that friends of ours are separating / getting divorced?
Where do I most take you for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am annoyed by the phone?
HDIF when you say, I told you so?
HDIF about unexpected company?
HDIF at those times when you are passive and uninvolved?
HDIF about our savings and retirement plans?
What divides us and causes us to become married singles? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cry after watching a movie together?
How well do I think I listen to God? HDIFAT?
What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAT?
How serious are our disagreements about parenting? HDIFAT?
Our dialogue can be a way we say yes to each other. HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to accept you as you are?
How are we like the Holy Family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
We are called to be prophetic and missionary. HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
HDIF serving you breakfast in bed?
HDIF when I watch romantic movies?
How have I given up control in our relationship lately? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for tomorrow? HDIFAT?
What can our family do to increase religious vocations in our parish? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling did I have today that I want to share with you? HDIFAT?
I COR 14:4-7. HDIF about these words as I reflect on our relationship?
To what extent do I feel responsible for our children's learning? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you up just to say Hi?
Do I love my people more for them, or for God? (Do I think my love for my people is more for them or for God?) HDIFAMA?
HDIF when sarcastic remarks are directed at me?
The driving force behind my life is _____. HDIFAT?
God made you a part of my life. HDIFAT?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
What has our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille meant to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to bed angry?
Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch scary movies?
HDIF about the way we start our day together?
Given the time and money for a long trip, where would I want to go? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making big financial decisions without you?
Can people tell we love each other when they see us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try repeatedly to phone you and it is busy or there is no answer?
HDIF about the level of respect between us?
HDIF when I tell you your hair looks great?
HDIF when I saw snow for the first time?
HDIF when you dump on me?
HDIF when you feel hurt?
When was the last time we were really outrageous? HDIFAT?
HDIF about members of our extended family?
The best vacation we ever had was _____. HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see you working too many hours?
What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to admit my mistakes, or try to cover them up? HDIFAMA?
HDIF singing the Pange Lingua on Holy Thursday?
What possession is most likely to bring us into disillusionment? HDIFAT?
We can do no great things, only small things with great love. (Mother Teresa) HDIFAT?
HDIF when I go out of my way to please you?
What is romance? HDIFAT?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? HDIFAT?
HDIF helping you prepare for our Thanksgiving meal?
An admission of error is a sign of strength rather than weakness.' Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we go to mass or church together?
Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you express need for leisure time?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
What is my gift to God today? HDIFAT?
What are the qualities that first attracted me to you? HDIFAT?
What kind of person am I? HDIFAT?
What has been the greatest area of growth in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What is your best quality? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I cried? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my relationship with our children?
How do I feel about our home? Describe in loving detail.
Describe a time when I felt curious. HDIFAT?
What happens to me when I reveal more of what is behind my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
I am happiest when _____. HDIFAT?
How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAMA?
What would our children say about our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF reading the Song of Solomon?
If I did not know how old I was, how old would I be? HDIFAT?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDIFAT?
How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to confront someone about a problem?
HDIF knowing that death is inevitable?
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I feel when I look at pictures from my ordination/taking vows/etc.? DILD.
In what ways do I daily affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
The song that I think represents our love the best is... Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
What would I like most to change about our relationship? HDIFAT?
How would I rate the emotional support we give each other? HDIFAT?
How long would I like to live? HDIFAT?
HDIF making a surprise dessert for you?
What kind of an example am I when I fail? HDIFAT?
What needs of yours do I see me being able to help with? HDIFAT?
When I know I am wanted, I feel _____.
HDIF after a good dialogue?
HDIF when I ask you to make love to me?
Do I argue with my people to win, or to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAMA?
He is Risen! How does this make me feel?
If I were to list my strengths, what would stand out to me? HDIFAT?
What couple has most affected our life? HDIFAT?
How do I want to romance you? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about my ability to speak to you freely about our sexual relationship?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
With what age group do I feel least comfortable? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us? HDIFAT?
What do my people do that tells me they forgive me? HDIFAT?
The last time you made me feel pampered was _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Christmas tradition?
Right now, is my life in balance or out of balance? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our sexual relationship. HDIFAT?
Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about how well I love our children?
How important are material things to me?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
How can we make this Advent a spiritual preparation for Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am away from you?
HDIF when I have hurt you?
What have I learned about myself in the past year? HDIFAT?
How does my attitude toward my father affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
What have I given up for my calling that has held me back in my development as a person? HDIF about this?
What have I kept from you in recent days? HDIFAT?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage?
HDIF when there is silence between us?
How do I react when people sing Happy Birthday to me in public? HDIFAT?
HDIF after hearing the story of the prodigal son?
HDIF about taking a trip with you to the mountains?
HDIF about your carrying an organ donor card?
How do I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
The time I feel most alive is _____. HDIFAT?
Why do I want to be fulfilled by you? DYFILD.
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home?
What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say exactly what is on my mind?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
HDIF about having a reality check in our marriage?
HDIF about going to reconciliation?
HDIF when I am indifferent toward you?
HDIF when you treat me with tenderness?
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
How are we responding to Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our lifetime goals?
Do I allow Jesus to be in control of my life? HDIFAT?
When I do not know something, what am I most likely to do: pretend I do, ask, or ignore it? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with my people better? HDIFAT?
What do I think you most want from me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my ability to share my relationship with God with you?
How would I describe you to our children after your death? HDIFAT?
What steps can we take to talk more about us?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
How do I try to hide my faults? HDIFAT?
What quality in you do I respect? HDIFAT?
The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT?
If God is for us, who can be against us? HDIFAT?
What in my life is life-draining? HDIFAT?
HDIF about renewing myself during Lent?
What attitude am I struggling most with today? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important?
What are my thoughts when we should ask for help with our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAMA?
How does the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in my life make me feel about my past (your past)?
What are some of the family incidents our children will always remember? HDIFAT?
How does my relationship with my people compare to my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
What would my profession be if money were no object? HDIFAT?
How does success affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
How can we live a simple and more fulfilling life? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about the way we spend our holidays?
How can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAT?
How can I reduce the level of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting another couple to dialogue with us regularly?
HDIF when you recognize my needs?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF when I call you to cheer you up?
How do I feel when one of my people feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDIFAT?
How could I make saying grace more meaningful? HDIFAT?
What is the meaning of my birthday to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for my attitude, good or bad?
How does my mask cause me to be a married single? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we appear as partners, not as individuals only?
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
How have I experienced love in our relationship? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when someone asks me to share?
Why did I commit to you in the first place? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I did not listen to you? HDIFAT?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
What foods do I dislike the most? HDIFAT?
When we are alone, we usually talk about _____. HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am?
What mask (personality style) did I wear today? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. HDIFAT?
HDIF about facial hair on men?
Do I believe we are part of God's plan? HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people who keep their enthusiasm under control?
I am most confident when... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF after I have said mass or given a service? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my privacy or lack thereof?
When did I last have an emotion / feeling I thought I should not have? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me half-heartedly?
Lately, have I accepted people's emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
How will my life change when our children are out on their own? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our family traditions or the lack of them?
What am I most afraid of losing by negotiating a compromise with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a love note packed in my sandwich?
HDIF when you hold my hand going to communion?
HDIF sharing our possessions with other people?
When you feel threatened, I feel _____.
What hopes do I have for the coming weekend? HDIFAT?
What kept me from making the most of this past weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving up for things and paying cash?
Who in my childhood most affected my life? HDTMMF?
Now that the children have moved out, is the end of the family? HDIFAT?
Can I see Christ in all people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing a task when I do not have time to do it right?
HDIF about myself when I am with you?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
Have I been critical or accepting of you this week? HDMAMMF? What am I willing to do for the sake of our relationship to make this better?
HDIF when I receive Christ's forgiveness in the Sacrament of Penance?
What one couple has challenged us the most this year? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you do something that disrupts my plans? Describe in loving detail.
What fun thing can we do today? HDIFAT?
What does our non-verbal communication mean to me? HDIFAT?
What frustrates me most in working with others? HDIFAT?
What is our relationship with God, today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAMA?
How have I encouraged or affirmed you today? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to pressure? How does my response affect you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my parents come for dinner?
HDIF when we have unexpected company?
How have we been judgmental of our people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have judged you unfairly?
HDIF about making each day Valentine's Day, at least for a while?
What kind of listener am I? HDIFAT?
Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT?
HDIF beginning another year with you?
What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? What can I do to help you through it? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the little things you do for me?
Can I speak in public easily or do I get scared? HDIFAT?
HDIF about miracles?
When you put your arms around me in public, I feel _____.
How do we respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when things suddenly go against me? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to my failures? HDIFAT?
What is my deepest regret of last year? HDIFAT?
What is it like being married to me today? HDIFAT?
How would I describe our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel just before I tell one of my people something I don't think they will like? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you and I are in competition?
HDIF about trying to save something from every paycheck?
HDIF when people do little things to tease, annoy or insult me?
HDIF about taking a short trip with you?
The issues I cannot discuss with you are _____. HDIFAT?
How can we use this fight to strengthen our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple?
Is my life organized, under-organized, or over-organized? HDIFAT?
If I died with no chance to talk to you, what would I regret not saying? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dying today?
When I close myself to you, I close a channel of God's grace. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I work late?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
On average, how many packs of cigarettes do I smoke a month? HDIFAT?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIF when I think about them?
HDIF when we spend an entire day communicating only with non-verbals? (Try it!)
HDIF about my appearance?
What precedents have we set with family members? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship?
What is the greatest healing device I can offer you? HDIFAT?
Where do I like to make love? HDIFAT?
What did I do to lift another person this week? HDIFAT?
How have I let you down? HDIFAT?
What do I think is needed for another child in our lives? HDIFAT?
Mary is the mother of our Lord. HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
HDIF when I watch the sunrise with you?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about and why? HDIFAT?
What power do I hold over my people that may be a barrier to me growing closer to them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our activities in the marriage program?
As we read _____ (pick some verse from Scripture), what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
When recently did I experience some romance in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
What have I done to help our parish or church grow in unity? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, am I experiencing you differently? HDIFAT?
What one specific thing would make our lovemaking even more beautiful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you warn me that I am about to make a mistake?
HDIF when I stop with you for ice cream?
HDIF when you surprise me with a gift?
How do I feel when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in? Describe in loving detail.
What do I want most out of life and why? HDIFAT?
What area of my communication with God do I need to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my career?
Do I put conditions on my love for you? HDIFAMA?
What sexual values do I hold? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if the angel Gabriel spoke to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about letting priests / pastors / nuns / ministers know their importance to us?
How long do I think family prayer should last? HDIFAT?
How has dialoguing about Scripture made Jesus come alive for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about surprising you with flowers?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
If dialogue is so important to our relationship, why do we miss? HDMAMMF?
Would I rather read the paper or have conversation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other couples support us?
HDIF about setting up regular date nights and blocking them off in the calendar?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I/you/we handle money?
I need your help specifically in _____. HDIFAT?
How has our dialogue enhanced our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I fix you a cup of coffee?
HDIF about taking a walking tour through my old high school?
HDIF about Natural Family Planning?
HDIF about watching a sunrise?
Do I consider myself a trend setter or trend follower? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hold my hand in public?
What do you expect from me that is most difficult to give? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing on Scripture?
What is the side of me I least like people (especially you) to see? HDIFAT?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am treated unfairly? HDIFAT?
HDIF about teaching our children to cook?
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
What is complicating my life? HDIFAT?
Is lovemaking a value for us or merely an ideal? HDIFAT?
What difficulties am I most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision with one of my people? HDIFAMA?
How do I want to spend our golden years? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our financial responsibility?
HDIF when someone reaches out to me?
HDIF when my family makes demands on us?
HDIF realizing that you have given me the gift of being a father / mother?
What do I hope to gain in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when I?m under stress? HDIFAMA?
When I consider our past times together, do I have a better memory for the positive aspects or for the negative aspects? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling jokes?
Have I brought healing to you recently? HDIFAT?
When do I close my heart to my people? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite form of recreation? HDIFAT?
HDIF the first time we could not pay a bill?
What do I think about living God's plan for our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are in each other's arms after we make love?
What did I do to make my parents proud of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our communication techniques?
Is frustration bringing us together or driving us apart? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I acted like a little kid? HDIFAT?
One of the happiest days of my life
HDIF about our couple prayer?
HDIF when I call you by your pet name?
What are my dreams for our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What effect did my family's ideas, experiences, etc. of priest/religious life have upon me and the way I lead my life now? HDIFAMA?
What strengths do I have because of the mask (personality style) I wear? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be remembered? HDIFAT?
Holidays are a time for family togetherness. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are asked to do something, and you say yes when I would rather say no?
Recently, I thought it was selfish/thoughtless of me to say to you... HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I am frightened (or not frightened) by death?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism from you? HDIFAT?
Do I think God led me to Retrouvaille or Retrouvaille led me to God? HDMAMMF?
Is our Christmas season too busy for us to keep focused on Jesus? HDIFAT?
What could we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted your emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
What quality of yours makes me want to trust you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the openness of our dialogue?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
HDIF about making New Year's resolutions?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
HDIF about sleeping in a tent with you, outdoors?
HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start?
HDIF about giving a month's worth of dialogue questions to a favorite couple?
Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAMA?
At this time of my life, what I need most from you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am under pressure?
HDIF about my co-workers?
HDIF when I unavoidably hit some small animal with the car?
HDIF about God?
What do I hope to gain in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
When am I most comfortable serving my people? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
Can I program a computer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when we have saved to buy something special?
HDIF when I am direct and honest, putting all my cards on the table?
HDIF about paying a therapist for advice?
HDIF when I am holding you close to me?
HDIF when I think you have judged or rejected my emotions / feelings?
How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT?
How do you signal to me that you would like to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way Christmas Day went for us?
How can you help me recognize my good qualities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me in front of other people?
What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I were there when Christ was crucified? HDIFAT?
Do I close my eyes to my people's faults? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am brooding over my mistakes?
HDIF about keeping score?
How have we shared our relationship with others this week? HDIFAT?
What type of interests do we share? HDIFAT?
Where do we most need to grow in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to what I consider to be God's failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the outside influences that are causing hurt between us?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
What financial needs do I see coming between us? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I fail to practice what I preach? HDIFAT?
Why did we get married? HDIFAT?
Have I affirmed my love for you today? HDIFAT?
In the area of child raising what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding your family?
How do I get my jollies? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you have let other people down?
What did I accomplish today? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest fear about war? HDIFAT?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDTMMF?
HDIF attending mass or church together?
Would others notice any difference in us since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how active I am in our children's schooling?
HDIF about the appearance of my teeth?
HDIF on those occasions when I think you deserve private time?
Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
What is our basic way of dealing with marital conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I deny my mistakes?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you express a need for more leisure time?
HDIF when we are lost?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
HDIF about the birth of one of our children?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about my career now?
How do I usually handle conflict with my people? HDIFAMA?
What mask do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear people discussing salaries?
What expectations do I have of God? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What have I done to make you number one today? HDIFAT?
Would I rather leave the big decisions to others? HDIFAT?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
When I sing Alleluia, am I enthusiastic? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take a walk together?
What compliment do I most like to receive about me? HDIFAT?
Is one of us the toucher and the other aloof? HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me from sharing with my people my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
How has our life changed this past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to see your mother / father in the hospital?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What simple pleasure brings me the greatest satisfaction? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you help me identify my emotions / feelings?
HDIF when you can experience some of what I am feeling inside?
HDIF when we eat by candlelight?
HDIF when I resist the efforts of others to control me?
HDIF about the need for priests / ministers?
HDIF when I need to relax but do not?
I am most likely to criticize you about... HDIFAMA?
If our house were on fire, what possession would I want to save? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not in the mood, but I am?
HDIF about the life we provided for our children?
What do I think is missing in our experience of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are wrapped up in their careers?
What quality does Mary or Joseph have as a parent that I would like? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most admire or respect your feelings?
You are God's gift to me. HDIFAT?
How does my self-image keep me from being open to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a mistake and you point it out?
How do I respond to my people's failures? HDIFAT?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I sometimes write something different than what I feel in order to protect you or myself? HDIFAMA?
How do I measure up when I am given power? HDIFAT?
What are the negative effects my mask (personality style) has on me? HDIFAT?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
How do I handle conflict? HDIFAT?
Is there something I dislike about myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we use our financial resources?
What do I find most interesting about you? HDIFAT?
How did you fulfill the longings in my heart when I first met you? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
How well do I think you trust me? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that I cannot fill your needs for you?
My whole life should be a prayer to God. How well do I live this? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people can be improved? HDIFAT?
What does it mean to me to experience pleasure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I react to you instead of responding to you?
What do I judge to be my greatest weakness? HDIF sharing this with you?
What expectations do I have for involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with you, do I sometimes treat you with less respect than you deserve? HDIFAT?
Can I forgive myself for my faults and mistakes, and then move on? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children make demands?
What have I learned about you recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDMAMMF?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I have forgiven one of my people?
When was a time you touched my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family prayer?
HDIF when our children whine?
How did our relationship reflect God's love today? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I do something that causes one of people to feel happy?
HDIF when I forgive you?
HDIF when I see a new baby?
HDIF trying to deal with people who are disorganized and irresponsible?
How do I feel about our marriage as a sign of love to others? Describe in loving detail.
It is time to clean the yard. HDIFAT?
How much of a couple do I really want to be, and what am I willing to change to be that couple? HDMAMMF?
What barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT?
Is our light under a bushel basket or on a lamp post? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you heal me in dialogue?
HDIF when you are refusing to make up?
HDIF knowing that today could be my last day on earth?
It is a well-known fact that a child identifies his parents with God, whether or not the adults want that role.' -The Strong-Willed Child, p 171. What are my feelings on this passage? How do I feel being God to our children? HDIF sharing this with you?
What gifts has God given to me and how have I used them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my family name, my family tree, my relatives, my ancestors?
What can we do to economize this Christmas? HDIFAT?
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAMA?
The three things I like best about (each) child are _____. HDIFAT?
What am I afraid to say to you during our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT?
HDIF when waiting in line at a crowded restaurant?
HDIF about our bedroom?
HDIF about the cross I must carry?
Can we hope to heal our relationship before we have clarified the issue? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I handle money?
What did you do today that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT?
When am I most likely to ignore God? HDIFAT?
When I am hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____ . HDIFAT?
When was the last time I saw myself as a failure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you criticize me?
HDIF about giving away what I have?
What year of my life would I like to relive? HDIFAT?
Is one of us overly dependent on the other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our family spends money?
When I think about all the couples and priest who made our Retrouvaille program possible, I feel ________
What have I learned about myself in the past month? HDIFAT?
What is the most scared I have ever been? HDIFAT?
HDIF when TV sports controls meals and holidays in our home?
Recently, how have I been judgemental of you? HDMAMMF?
What stresses me out the most on a daily basis? HDIFAT?
What has been the effect of your job or career on our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I have difficulty putting full trust in God? HDIFAT?
How are we responding to our Lord's call to unconditional love in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What talents do we have as a couple? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you do not like the dialog question I have selected?
For the sake of our relationship, what do I most need to do this weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF about using credit cards?
HDIF when we plan dinner?
HDIF when you come home in the evening?
I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when... HDIF sharing this with you?
Are we free to ask our friends for help anytime we have a problem? HDIFAMA?
Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAMA?
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not met? HDIFAT?
What do I think God wants for us? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think you do not believe me?
What is my favorite means of relaxation? HDIFAT?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAT?
Does TV take away valuable time from us as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a series of little things goes wrong?
Can I see God in our children? HDIFAT?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
Am I smiling more now than I was three months ago? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I put a child in time-out?
HDIF when I am aware that you have had a bad day?
What is the most embarrassing thing I have ever said? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am hurting? HDIFAT?
How do I like to celebrate New Years' Eve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to hold in my joy?
Do I consider myself as a conformist or a nonconformist? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see washing of the feet on Holy Thursday?
What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
What does graduation mean to me? HDIFAT?
The work I am doing now is _____. HDIFAT?
How many trophies have I won? HDIFAT?
What can I do for you to help you cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I feel weak? HDIFAT?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAT?
What family Christmas memory will I always remember? HDIFAT?
HDIF about death and dying?
What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of my father?
What are my expectations for our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
Who among our friends will walk with us in both good times and hard times? HDIFAT?
I most frequently criticize you concerning _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about rearranging the furniture?
What do I think about our spirituality (being lovers)? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the little things in our marriage relationship?
What expectations do I have as we enter a new month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you yell at our children?
I believe I have failed at _____. HDIFAT?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty telling you. HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since our dating days? HDIFAT?
HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for our involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIF sharing this with you?
What are a few things I like to do with our family and HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need to be loved is not being met? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing you have done for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together?
What activity helps me grow most as a Christian? HDIFAT?
You cannot compromise another person?s right to be an individual. HDIFAT?
One thing I missed out on in my childhood was... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we receive the Eucharist together?
HDIF after re-reading the notebook I used as we experienced the weekend?
HDIF when you flirt with other men or women?
I enjoy hearing my people talk about... HDIFAMA?
HDIF about driving inexpensive cars?
When we have choices to make, do I take a minute to walk in your shoes? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been followed, or thought I was? HDIFAT?
What regrets do I have about someone who has died? HDIFAT?
Even though our masks are a barrier in our relationship, there is a reason we where them. They give us strength to deal with the world. If we can identify the strengths our mask give us, we can retain them when we lower the masks to be ourselves with our spouses. What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
What is our marriage language like? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider my accomplishments?
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me, or I am most uncomfortable with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am being obsessive?
HDIF when you gently touch me?
How do I feel about being ordained/taking vows every day? Describe in loving detail.
What am I prepared to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people notice our closeness?
HDIF about having more children?
I feel trapped because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a candle-lit dinner?
HDIF about violence, weapons and the martial arts?
If I were President for a day, I would _____. HDIFAT?
Looking back over my day, what act or achievement makes me feel best about myself? HDIFAT?
What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if we won the Lottery? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day?
HDIF about our pastor?
Do we ever let material things interfere with our relationship? HDMAMMF?
Do I cry at weddings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift that suggests I need improvement?
How do I feel when I need a hug? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about us when I am sick?
In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite way of wasting time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we celebrate Easter?
What do I like best about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What is the area I least want to discuss with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reflect on what a gift you are to me?
When have I felt alone this spring? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting a nursing home?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about family? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
I find it difficult to listen to my people when _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have so little private time together?
How do I handle my jealous emotions / feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt confused. HDIFAT?
What does being an open and honest couple mean to me? HDIFAT?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT?
When I pray, do I listen? HDIFAT?
What feeling have I been experiencing lately, that I either have had a difficult time sharing, or have not shared, with you? HDIFAT?
Where am I most selfish? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I judge myself as inadequate, guilty, or unlovable?
Is family communication a value of mine? HDIFAT?
How do parish or church finances affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
Do I presume the best or worst about my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I hear my favorite hymn?
HDIF when I think about having a baby during our middle years?
HDIF about planning for a romantic time together?
How much do we touch each other now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the words, Do not ask?
HDIF when someone mentions my job title?
If I could go back in time with you, what period would I like to revisit? HDIFAT?
How is Good Friday important to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about your/my/our involvement with work? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I am naked in front of you?
HDIF about discussing religion with someone whose views differ from mine?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my boss?
What did I do specifically for God (not myself, my people, etc.) today? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about going with you to an action movie?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem to be holding something back from me?
Is our love for each other greater today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
HDIF about today's meals?
How easy is it for me to trust others? HDIFAT?
What makes our house a home?
HDIF when our children reflect our good qualities?
How would I feel working a few hours a month in a soup kitchen? HDIFAT?
What are the outward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
What is my attitude toward discipline and HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to do too many things at once?
HDIF knowing God used us to bring about a conversion?
Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT?
How has our relationship changed during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
How can I drop the conditions I put on my love for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying yes when I really want to say NO?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAMA?
What disappointments have I kept to myself? HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF recalling my confirmation?
HDIF when I hear gossip?
HDIF when our marriage has a positive influence on our family and friends?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for comfort, you or God? HDIFAMA?
You cannot control the love and fidelity of another person. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say good things about you to other people?
HDIF about you as a provider?
HDIF about offering sacrifices?
HDIF about the boss?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
Is my burden easier when I share it with Christ? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me?
HDIF when I am overwhelmed by household tasks or yardwork?
What qualities do I see in my people that I would like to develop in myself? HDIFAT?
What is my wildest dream for us? HDIFAT?
Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAMA?
Recently, when have I felt the most alone? HDIFAT?
What do I want done with my body after I die? HDIFAT?
HDIF about where we live?
HDIF when I have to mind my words to keep you from getting upset?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA? Expectations"
What chore do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT?
After our last fight, who got hurt? How? HDIFAT?
When I think of sexual desire, I think of _________.
Does out family have any traditional things that we do? HDIFAT?
If we could go anywhere, where would I most like to take you? HDIFAT?
How important are material things to me? HDIFAMA?
What image do I have of myself as your sexual partner? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite childhood memory of Christmas? HDIFAT?
TESTING - THIS USED TO BE CATEGORY DEATH. What do I hope to gain in the area of death? HDIFAT?
Jesus would have died for me even if I was the only person on earth. HDIF about this?
Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
What do I wish I had known five years ago about sex? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift we can give to each other this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF during the candlelight reading or singing of the Exultet on the Easter vigil?
My favorite way to have my people respond to me after church is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel towards you when I am filled with romance? HDIF sharing this with you?
When I get pressure from you, do I tend to become more withdrawn or more aggressive? HDIFAT?
What quality do I most admire in your mother / father? HDIFAT?
Only _____ days until Christmas. Is my heart ready? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I am sorry?
HDIF about crying?
How do I usually feel when I don't want to dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
How do I behave when I do not know something? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the phrase, 'Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start.'? Describe in detail.
If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I have been living?
HDIF when I think you are beating around the bush rather than giving me a straight answer?
How has my perspective changed over the last 5, 10, or 20 years? HDIFAT?
Recently, when have I felt the most alone? Describe in loving detail.
If you died, what quality of yours would I miss most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the people who prayed for us as we experienced the weekend?
HDIF as the winning lottery numbers are being drawn?
Where do we look for help in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
What do I like least about myself in the area of God and our faith?
HDIF when we reach out and are rejected?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?
What would happen to the Sacrament of Matrimony without the church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of our children is honored and the others are left out?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the Easter bunny?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone lies to me?
HDIF when you undress in front of me?
As a parent, could you do better? HDIFAT?
When do I have time for private prayer? HDIFAT?
In sex, I feel most inadequate about _____. HDIFAT?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAMA???
In the little emergencies of everyday life, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
At this time, what concerns me the most about our children? HDIFAT?
When we do a job together I feel _____.
What family memories of spring do I have? HDIFAT?
What quality in us as a family do I like best? HDIFAT?
When I know you are praying for me, what are my feelings?
HDIF about having a quiet place in our home?
How do I face the world each morning? HDIFAT?
What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? Am I spending my time on what I vaule the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about cooking dinner together?
HDIF about trying new things?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
What are the inward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we dialogue?
Have we been open in our daily dialogue? HDIFAMA?
What family atmosphere do I dream of for our home? HDIFAT?
What new desires for our relationship have we gained this week? HDIFAT?
How old or young do I feel? HDIFAT?
What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
How can I keep the winter doldrums from affecting me and those around me? HDIFAT?
There is sibling rivalry in our home. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone?
HDIF about receiving gifts?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
In what way do I try to modify my behavior to please you? HDIFAT?
When we first met, what made me want to see you again? HDIFA this now?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, are we living the World's Plan? HDIFAT?
HDIF when cashiers ask for several pieces of identification?
HDIF when friends fail to do a promised favor?
What about my relationship with God can be improved? HDIFAT?
When have I felt a negative emotion in response to physical affection? HDIFAT?
My greatest goal in life is _____. HDIF about my progress?
HDIF when I witness a marriage?
How do I feel when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
How good our marriage is affects other marriages around us. HDIFAT?
HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes?
How am I different from other priest/religious? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see you totally open to me in our lovemaking?
Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT?
HDIF about tattoos?
What gift have you given me in the past year that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
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