Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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HDIF about my spirituality?
HDIF about visiting a museum?
HDIF about the frequency of our dialogue?
Sometimes I worry about _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are aware of using our forgiving power to heal each other?
How well do I show my love to God? HDIFAT?
If I could have any vacation I wanted, I would _____. HDIFAT?
Death frightens me (or not). HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
HDIF about sleeping late?
HDIF when there is a last minute change of plans?
HDIF about the size of our family?
How do I believe I can help you at this time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see washing of the feet on Holy Thursday?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about days that we do not dialogue?
When, recently, did I take the time to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
What can I offer you to better our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our family activities?
HDIF when someone does a better job at work than I do?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to God? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA(s)?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people change the rules?
HDIF about praying the scriptures with you?
When I am busy, am I really accomplishing anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF planning a romantic time together?
I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT?
What can I do for you to help you cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
If I had this day to do over, what would I change? HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during church?
How do I see us living God's plan in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving myself?
Would I feel better having great opportunity or great experience? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple we have invited comes home from experiencing the weekend and thanks us?
How do I feel hearing about the power of our prayer? DILD.
How can I make myself a better treasure for God? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite time of year, and why? HDTMMF?
In any change, there is tension. HDIFAT?
What effect does sex with you have on me? HDIFAT?
What burdens of hate do I carry with me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we play a sport together?
What is my reaction to seeing couples we know and love working on their relationships? HDIFAT?
What part do I play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
HDIF when we would like to do something but can?t afford it?
What barriers keep me from sharing with you my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
What do I most need to change in my money habits? HDIFAT?
How has my attitude affected our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we appear as partners and not as individuals?
What could you do to increase my sexual anticipation? HDIFAT?
What difference does the Eucharistic celebration make in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that pain and disappointment are just part of life?
What is there about me that I have most difficulty accepting? HDIFAT?
How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you affirmed your love for me today?
What quality do I look for in others that helps me believe I can trust them? HDIFAT?
Do I believe in your love, even when it is not shown? HDIFAT?
I am in a life-long search for more _____. HDIFAT?
What is the greatest challenge we face as a couple?
Can I perform the Heimlich maneuver? HDIFAT?
Whom do I need to make peace with? HDIFAT?
How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about myself in the past year? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of our early days together? What do I remember most? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am away from my people?
HDIF on a date with you?
HDIF when I share an uncomfortable feeling with you?
HDIF about the life we provided for our children?
When I am embarrassed, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
How have I helped myself in the effort to help others? HDIFAT?
What changes would I like to make in response to my failures? HDIFTYT?
How has/would never having children affect my/our life? HDIF about this?
HDIF about having a drink with friends?
HDIF being with friends we knew before Encounter / Retrouvaille?
Jesus ascended into heaven. HDIFAT?
How have I let you down? HDIFAT?
In what areas are we equal partners in decision making? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building?
Whom do we share our joys with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you leave love notes around the house?
Do I find other women/men attractive? HDIFSTWY?
How would I feel about changing places with one of my people for a day if I could?
HDIF about our financial future?
What do I think is my most serious fault? HDIFAT?
What is the most important thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
What are your special qualities that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important? Describe in loving detail.
Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAMA?
What prevents me from asking questions about something I need to know or should know? HDIFAT?
The priest/religious/minister/etc. that has most helped me/us to experience God's love for us is/was... HDIFAMA?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children going back to school when fall comes?
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I exceed my limits, undertaking more than I can handle?
We have committed ourselves to loving each other for a lifetime. HDIFAT?
HDIF about people who arrive for work early?
HDIF making a list of what I need to get done this weekend?
HDIF when stock market trends reduce the value of our investments?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
What is one thing I would like to try differently when we have an issue to discuss? HDIFAT?
Christ is the unseen guest at every meal. HDIFAT?
When do I let my temper get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
When did God last surprise me? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about disciplining our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the boss?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAT?
How have I been separate from my people lately? HDIFAT?
What part does God play in our sexual communication! HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge you are angry with me?
If we were given ten thousand dollars cash, what would I want to do with it? HDIFAT?
When lately did I judge my feeling(s) was one(s) I should not have? Why? Describe the feeling in loving detail.
If I died without a chance to see you, what would I wish I could have told you? HDIFAT?
How do I like to celebrate New Years' Eve? HDIFAT?
When did I think I was listened to? HDIFAT?
How do we affect the marriages of others around us? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations of you as a wife? HDIFAT?
What opportunity did I have today to erase one of my failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spiders and bugs?
HDIF when you do not replace the toilet paper roll?
HDIF this week living in the modern world?
What does baptism mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF recalling the baptism of our children?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions to you?
HDIF when work keeps us apart?
My greatest goal in life has been _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am blamed for something that is not my fault?
HDIF ending my day lying in bed next to you?
HDIF about saying Grace at meals?
What one possession do I want most and cannot have? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you how important you are to me?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my co-workers?
How do I feel about my church? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when someone compliments one of our children?
HDIF when we miss dialogue for several days or weeks?
How do I feel about the coming Holidays? Describe in loving detail.' Emotions"
Am I more likely to take things too lighty, or worry too much? HDIFAMA?
What can we do to foster cooperative interaction in our family? HDIFAT?
Whom do we look up to as a couple? HDIFAT?
What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAMA?
What is the chaff I need to separate from the wheat in my life? HDIFAT?
How would I feel going to a school football game and sitting near the band? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue changed our lives? HDIFAT?
What emotions / feelings do I find most difficult to accept in myself? HDIFAT?
What do I think about when I cannot fall asleep? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth?
HDIF about helping other people who are out of work?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
Where would I turn for help if my family were not available? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted people's emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
How do I face the world each morning? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my life staying like this?
HDIF about the way we end our day together?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT?
What happens when I get mad? HDIFAT?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? What are my feelings about my answer?
How am I most likely to respond to my own failures? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we held hands in public? HDIFAT?
Who controls the conversation in the house? HDIFAT?
What is my most favorite holiday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to understand what is bothering me?
What was the last significant healing we had with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are proud of me?
What are my thoughts about us being special to Our Father? HDIFAT?
What quality of mine keeps me from being more involved with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you fall asleep in the recliner?
How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making the decision to love you?
HDIF about hiring help with yard work?
HDIF when you see an old boyfriend / girlfriend?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I realize God's answer is no? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy doing for the public good? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
HDIF when we agree on an important issue?
How do we handle conflict? HDIFAT?
Why do I want snow at Christmas? HDIFAT?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIF sharing this with you now?
How can I be loving to you even when we cannot make love? HDIFAT?
When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our dialog? Describe in loving detail.
Where would I most like to see growth in our relationship this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAT?
What dreams do I have for this year? Are they realistic? HDIFAT?
My favorite time with you is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the last time we solved a problem together?
How can we make God more present in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do I judge as the most important things I pray about? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I reveal an emotion / feeling that is difficult to share with you?
If I were to lose you, what about you would I miss the most? HDIFAT?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What can we do to renew our romance and passion? HDIFAT?
If I were an animal, what would I be? HDMAMMF?
How do I see you as a gift? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing you did for me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, You are just like your mother?
HDIF about our parish or church involvement?
HDIF about our couple prayer?
HDIF about our relationship with our priest or minister / pastor?
What probably not tonight signals do I use to say no to sex? HDIFAT?
What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT?
Why do I stay married to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my responsibilities as a married person?
In what areas am I most afraid to tell the truth about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how much money we give to our church or favorite charity?
HDIF when you leave things up to me?
HDIF when someone we ask to experience the weekend says no?
HDIF when you do not share your plans with me?
HDIF about the way we show God's love to other people?
HDIF when there are periods of moodiness in our sexual relationship?
What does failure do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
What thoughts help me to sleep at night? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive our children?
HDIF about your promotion potential?
HDIF when someone leaves a job unfinished?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
Where does our couple-centered attitude show the most? HDIFAT?
What does it mean when I do not pick up after myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going out to dinner together?
HDIF when I have to say, I do not know?
HDIF when I am traveling to new places?
HDIF when I have to mind my words to keep you from getting upset?
What is my happiest memory of the past month? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when I hear our favorite song?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love my people better? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about being ordained/taking vows every day? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF asking for romance?
What things should I make time for? HDIFAT?
You are my best friend. HDIFAT?
What strengths do I think I might have, but I am afraid to try or rely on? HDIFAT?
HDIF attending mass or church together?
HDIF when I am around very important or powerful people?
How do I feel this week living in the modern world? How do I feel sharing this with you?
What could we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
Recently, how have I been judgemental of my people? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about our friends who cohabit?
What do I most like about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you go out of your way to do something nice for me?
I am most likely to use sarcasm when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you show interest in your job, career or housework?
HDIF about the way I lived today?
HDIF when I am separated from my people?
HDIF when you confront me with a conflict between us?
What barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love you? HDIFAT?
How have I changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you greet me at the end of the day?
What is the nicest thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
What did I first long for immediately after we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF being committed to dialoguing regularly as a way of life?
How do I feel when someone close to me dies? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it?
HDIF sharing our dialogue with other people?
What can I do to listen to God better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something that disrupts my plans?
What is the nicest thing you have done for me? HDIFAT?
What changes would I like to make in response to my failures? HDIFAT?
If I were completely free right now, I would _____. HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? HDIFAT?
What areas of a couple's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
When you make me feel wanted, I feel _________.
What is my favorite childhood birthday party memory? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of mine in one of our children?
How do I feel about my home? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF trying to deal with people who are disorganized and irresponsible?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to dump on me?
When I am away from you, what am I most likely to do to keep from missing you? HDIFAT?
HDIF writing a dialogue letter to you?
HDIF when I see a new baby?
HDIF about keeping secrets?
Thinking about retirement, I feel... Describe in loving detail.
How do I succeed sometimes as a good listener? HDIFAT?
What do I want to change most in you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Natural Family Planning?
How does our financial situation affect our unity? How does it affect our intimacy? HDIFA my answers?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be _____? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the phrase, Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?
What is my favorite childhood memory? Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT?
How do we share our faith with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a sacrifice knowing Jesus sacrificed for me?
HDIF about this past workweek?
HDIF when you touch me?
When do I get impatient with you? HDIFAT?
When I am more romantic than you, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAT?
What issue do we have facing us that I have not shared my emotions / feelings with you about? HDIFAT?
What barriers or attitudes keep me from sharing with you my unmet needs? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called us in ministry as a couple? HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I see myself as a member of Christ's body? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help my people be happy? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from being as open in real life as I am in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
I judge I failed as/at... HDIFAMA?
What do you do that tells me you forgive me? HDIFAT?
Sitting very quietly, HDIF listening to Jesus say my name to me?
What aspect of dialogue is hardest for me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF thinking about the first time I knew you were for me?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
What happens to me when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you say no to me? Describe in loving detail.
My top priorities in life are... HDIFAMA?
HDIF about myself when I am with you?
I would like to go back to _____ one more time, with you. HDIFAT?
In what aspect of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people take advantage of me?
How many different jobs have I had in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone succeeds in fooling me on April Fool's Day?
HDIF about shopping in general?
HDIF about starting over again after a failure?
Who are my models for my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the septuplets?
Do I avoid telling others the truth to avoid offending them? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult emotion / feeling I have shared with you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF about growing old together?
HDIF sleeping with you at my in-laws' house?
How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
Where am I when things are demanded of me? HDIFAT?
What would I really like for an anniversary gift (not a purchased gift)? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I do not know something? HDIFAT?
Is our diet life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our experiences in the church?
What do I least want to talk with you about? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I come on a little too strong with people?
HDIF about spring weather?
HDIF about the level of respect between us?
HDIF about our child's current boyfriend / girlfriend / best friend?
Jesus asks, How are you living your life for me?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail.
How can I tell when you are nervous? HDIFAT?
Is thoughtfulness an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
What am I afraid to do? Why? HDIFAT?
What discourages me? Do I turn my discouragements over to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to hold in my anger?
HDIF on those occasions when I think about calling our relationship quits?
How do I feel when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I would like to say no, but do not think I can?
HDIF when I discipline our children?
HDIF about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment?
HDIF when I experience growth in our sexual relationship?
HDIF the last time we finished a household project?
HDIF when I am sexually aroused?
HDIF about your involvement with work?
We should give God the same place in our hearts that He holds in the universe. HDIFAT?
Do I ague with you to win, or do I argue to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What changes do I have to make to make you number one? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the whole family sings together?
What friend have I known the longest? HDIFAT?
What problems do we have because of differing values? HDIFAT?
Do I consider my emotions / feelings in making decisions that affect you? HDIFAT?
Do I think our love makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
What is the best way we can show our love to God? HDIFAT?
My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see other people making a mistake?
HDIF when I have the urge to surprise you with an unexpected gift?
A time when I/we went the extra mile to help someone out was. . . HDIF recalling this?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
HDIF about writing about my emotions / feelings?
When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____.
After we have had a fight, what is the most positive thing that comes out of it? HDIFAMA?
In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDMAMMF?
Do I (Did I) love my parents just because I respect them for all they've done (did) for me, or is there more to it? HDIFAMA?
If there were a death in our family this week, how would I feel? HDIFAT?
HDIF making a surprise dessert for you?
What excites me most about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple says no, they do not want or need to experience the weekend?
What am I capable of doing with the help of others that I cannot do by myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about unpleasant tasks?
How have we shared our relationship with others today? HDIFAT?
In the area of prayer what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? DILD.
HDIF when good friends of ours move away?
HDIF when you come up behind and hug me?
What is my greatest fear about war? HDIFAT?
Is our openness about our masculinity / femininity reflected in our children? HDIFAT?
What is the meaning of my birthday to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for what I need?
How has my confidence in you changed since our weekend? HDMAMMF?
Have I been critical of you or accepting of you this week? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you parents visit?
How would I feel after a thirty-minute brisk walk? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we say grace before meals? Or when we do not?
I need support from you in the following areas: _____. HDIFAT?
What dreams of mine do I need to take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say no to lovemaking?
HDIF about giving my two best friends a key to the house?
What are my attitudes about marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I decide to trust you with my emotions / feelings?
How do I feel when you tell me, 'We'll see,' and I think you really mean, 'No'? DILD.
HDIF when I consider what I had to give up to be successful?
HDIF when you are hungry for sex?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that affects them needs to be made? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I care about the same things you are happy about?
HDIF when we receive secret gifts and notes from a couple who supports us?
Which of my physical features do I like best and least? HDIFAT?
Considering my upbringing, what should I repeat with our children? HDIFAT?
How do we respond to disappointment? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my service to God?
What have I been holding back from you lately because I thought I was sure I knew what your reaction would be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
When I have a serious issue to discuss, what would help me the most? HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with you? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF about our relationship staying like this?
HDIF about my sense of humor, or lack of one?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAT?
In order to solve a problem, am I more likely to use common sense or imagination? HDIFAMA?
What would I like to do with you that we have never done before? HDIFAT?
There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, We'll dialogue after the next TV program?
What do I want most for our family this Christmas? HDIFAT?
How are we active in our parish or church? HDIFAT?
How does change affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about smoke detectors in our home?
What do I hope to gain in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What was our closest moment as a family this year? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I thanked my mother for being my mom? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying yes when I really want to say NO?
Do I complain about the problems in an otherwise good situation? HDIFAT?
What goals have I set for myself this year? HDIFAT?
When you are trying to learn something new, do I try to teach you, or do I try to help you discover how to do it yourself? HDIFAT?
What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT?
What miracle, small or large, did I experience today? HDIFAT?
Have I ever thought that you used me sexually? Describe how you felt, and feel in loving detail.
One of my heroes is _____. HDIFAT?
How are you like your mother? HDIFAT?
What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when you are driving and I am a passenger?
When we first met, what made me want to see you again? HDIFA this now?
HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt?
HDIF when I am not open with you?
Describe a stage in my life when I was not happy. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people with bad manners?
Can I sing a song all the way through? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people do not return things that they borrow from me?
What risk am I willing to take to love you sexually the way you want to be loved? HDIFAMA?
What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT?
Would I rather work for somebody fair but not kind, or kind but not fair? HDIFAMA?
What are my memories of the day we met? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go with you on vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we decide to dialogue on death?
How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are inspired by another couples' relationship?
How would I rate my mental health? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the amount of time we spend on foreplay? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
What gets in my way, preventing me from learning more about you? HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDTMMF?
HDIF about sex in the morning? (Better try first!)
Take and eat, this is my body. HDIFAT?
What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDIFAT?
How do I still let my mask (personality style) prevent me from making you number one? HDIFAT?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
With what age group do I feel least comfortable? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family reunions?
HDIF about going with you to a horror movie?
Which of our children most needs our help and understanding right now? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAT?
Since dialogue, am I more comfortable talking about sex and death with other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we use our spare time?
What are my goals for the coming year? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about the idea of having to spend Christmas without you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you forgive me?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cope successfully with a stress-filled situation?
HDIF when we must borrow money?
What can I do to show our children more love? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways do I see us responding to God's call to Unity? HDIFAT?
How well do I concentrate on my people's needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am waiting for you to come home in bad weather?
When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
God is kind and merciful, slow to get angry, and full of love.' -- Psalms 145:8. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAMA?
What is your best quality? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to deal with your past?
How has my love for you changed since our wedding? HDIFAT?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD.
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF when I am rushed into making an important decision?
When is my quiet time? HDIFAT?
How would I like you to romance me? HDIFAT?
When I am in trouble, do I keep my cool, or do I become impatient? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest fear about my death? HDTMMF?
What is my greatest hurt in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when faced with change? HDIFAT?
Do I act younger or older than I am? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am forced to make a decision sooner than I would like?
What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I feel when I realize I've done something thoughtless and hurt someone?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAMA?
How much do we touch each other now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people try to flatter me?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
HDIF about relaxing with you near a lake, river or seashore?
HDIF when I hold onto you in the labor room?
How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT?
What one thing has most united us this past week? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT?
How often do I think we should make love? HDIFAT?
If I could get away with it, would I break the rules? HDIFAT?
Have I seen a movie or TV show that encourages me about the future of our society? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
It is difficult for me to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my (or our) dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when walls build up between us?
What changes have I made during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want something we cannot afford?
HDIF when I have difficulty getting started on an important task?
What are my behaviors when I most need peace in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I made a mistake?
HDIF holding a child's hand?
Do I think you would consider me to be a romantic? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when the weather forecast is wrong?
HDIF when I hear there is a big storm coming and you are not home?
What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple?
My life is a prayer. HDIFAT?
What scares me? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am asked to do something I do not want to do? HDIFAT?
What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT?
Do I pray for love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt?
You have a busy schedule. HDIFAT?
What values of mine differ from yours? HDIFAT?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to influence my decisions?
When was the last time we sat together and listened to the quiet like hearing the wind blow? HDIFAT?
What kind of relationship do I have with your in-laws? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unmet expectations about our relationship?
HDIF when, non-verbally, you say no to lovemaking?
HDIF about doing something I have never done before?
When you feel threatened, I feel _____.
Describe a time when I felt abused. HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling jokes?
How do I feel about the phrase: 'My/Our needs are not problems, but gifts from God?' Describe in loving detail.
What is the level of our communication when we are home together? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT?
Romance is a decision. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
How is our sex life? HDIFAT?
What is my gift to you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about rearranging the furniture?
HDIF when someone hurts you?
HDIF when I win an argument?
What do I miss most when we are on vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF commemorating the Last Supper?
HDIF about my attempt to balance the checkbook?
HDIF when I hear The family that prays together stays together?
HDIF about paying for work before it is completed?
HDIF when other people notice our closeness?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
God has a job for us that only we can handle. HDIFAT?
What do we have to offer the world together, that I do not offer alone? HDIFAT?
The TV is on. HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear is... HDIF sharing this with you?
What have I given up for my calling that has helped me grow as a person? HDIF about this?
HDIF hearing Jesus say, Love each other as I have loved you?
Knowing what I know now, would I still choose you as a partner? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest joy in our marriage right now? HDIFAT?
I am being pressured to do something I do not want to do. HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting the year off with a budget we have agreed on?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving my people? HDIFAT?
What words please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What do I most want to be remembered for when I die? HDIFAT?
What has been the effect of your job or career on our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I want to spend time with you, but you do want to/are too busy/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
What re-evaluation of the way I am living do I need to make right now for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that you are proud of me?
How sexy am I? How sexy are you? HDIFAT?
As a child, what is the worst thing your parents made you do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are open with me?
HDIF about housework?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDIFAT?
If Jesus asked, What have we done to build the Kingdom?
What song can bring tears to my eyes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am relaxing and you are working?
What distracts me when I try to listen to you? HDIFAT?
How would I feel working a few hours a month in a soup kitchen? HDIFAT?
I most need you to love me when... HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something special for another couple?
What is my mask when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
Where is our relationship headed? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT?
How much anger do I carry in my heart? HDIFAT?
Is passion an important aspect of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about where we are this year compared to last year at this time?
How do I get re-energized? Is it the same way you do? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for belonging? HDIFAT?
Our decisions are frequently _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am under pressure?
HDIF when we have to face a crisis?
HDIF when you reject suggestions I have to offer?
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of our children fails at school?
HDIF when you expect more of me than I am capable of giving right now?
What steps can we take to make our impossible dream a reality? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my attitudes about sex?
What emotion / feeling have I not shared with you yet today? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest challenge my people and I face this week? HDIFAT?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT?
How have we benefited by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIFAT?
HDIF about myself when I make a mistake?
What emotions / feelings do I have about children?
What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations concerning our love making? Are they being met? Hdifama?
What are my feelings about keeping the Dream alive?
HDIF about letting other couples help us when we are hurting?
HDIF about spending a romantic evening alone with you?
Jesus is counting on us to make His love believable. HDTMMF?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
I must be true to _____. Can I be true to this and still be with you? HDIFAT?
What topics are most likely to result in me picking a fight? HDIFAT?
What gifts do we have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
What are my sexual desires? HDIFAT?
Do my words touch my people, or role off them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about gathering other people to pray?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
In what ways do I feel I?m taken for granted? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
Is there anything about your job that I avoid discussing with you? HDIFAT?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? How do I feel telling you this?
What compliment do I least like to receive about me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about secrets in a marriage?
HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time?
HDIF about your eventual death?
What are the positive signs of growth I see in us? HDIFAT?
What was the silliest thing I ever did with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that I cannot fill your needs for you?
HDIF about God?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about losing? Do I make excuses?
HDIF when I am naked in front of you?
When my attention is fully occupied, is it because I am concentrating or because I am worrying? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from trusting you completely? HDIFAMA?
What issue do we have facing us that I haven't shared my feelings with you about? What are my feelings about this issue? HDTMMF?
What do I resolve to do this year? HDIFAT?
Is (Was) our family (parents, children, etc.) being short changed by our Retrouvaille involvement, or are we setting a loving example for them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see an overflowing church on Easter Sunday?
In our relationship, do I tend to be detached or engaged? HDIFAT?
How have we benefitted by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIF sharing this with you?
If I had tons of money, what would I give you for Christmas? HDIFAT?
You are the sunshine of my life. HDIFAT?
HDIF about pacifiers?
Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIF sharing this with you?
What causes the most friction between my people and I? (Not conflict, but the little things that rub each other the wrong way.) HDIFAMA?
HDIF being around people who try to impress me?
HDIF about paying the bills?
HDIF about our ability or inability to have children?
HDIF about our marriage as a sign of love to others?
HDIF about our sexual relationship right now?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFTYT?
Where or when did I last know real happiness? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to my people's failures? HDIFAT?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your reaction when I fail at something?
HDIF about discussing our sexual relationship?
There really IS a New World somewhere! HDIFAT?
How do I feel being around a room full of children? Describe in loving detail.
Do I think I release my anger and frustration appropriately? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I attend a live musical performance?
What do I hope to gain in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing on death?
I need you because _____. HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
What is it about our charism of parenthood that calls other people? HDIFAT?
Do I believe life owes me? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to God? HDIFAT?
Would I rate the level of trust with my people closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAMA?
In order to learn to give, I also need to learn to receive. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship?
HDIF when you are holding me in your arms?
HDIF at social gatherings when I meet a lot of new faces?
HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face?
HDIF when we ask a couple to an information night?
What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
What music do I like to listen to when we make love? HDIFAT?
How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
Our sexual intimacy is prayer. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I visit you in the hospital?
In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT?
HDIF about eternity?
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our romance? HDIFAT?
HDIF about holding hands when we say grace over a meal?
HDIF when you become violently angry with me?
When I am angry, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT?
We tend to compete against each other in _______ . HDIFAT?
How does our closeness reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
I would like to reconsider these past compromises: _____. HDIFAT?
What makes it hard to ask for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt bored. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
HDIF about my promotion potential?
HDIF when you say, We'll dialogue after the next TV program?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about my appearance?
When you withdraw into your shell, HDIF?
How do I feel about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I judge (rather than accept) your emotions / feelings?
What do I need most in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship as open as our dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are with couples who are working on their marriages?
What is prayer to me? HDIFAT?
Does out family have any traditional things that we do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when winter is approaching?
How are we like the Holy Family? HDIFAT?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
HDIF when we stick to our budget?
Do I consult with my people when a decision that effects them needs to be made? HDIFAMA?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about family? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
How do I usually feel when I do not want to dialogue?
What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask? HDIFTYT?
HDIF about my prayer life?
What one specific thing would make our lovemaking even more beautiful? HDIFAT?
How do I want others to see me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am placed in charge of a group?
What is my favorite form of recreation? HDIFAT?
In an average week, what activities work against our relationship?
HDIF when I admit that I am wrong?
God loves you more than I do. HDIFAT?
When am I most likely to ignore you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a source of inspiration to you?
HDIF about my involvement with work?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDIFAT?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do now, so I will not regret not doing it twenty years from now? HDIFAT?
What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAMA?
Do my personal goals conflict with the goals God has for me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I know someone is cheating on their wife/husband?
HDIF about our wanting our relationship to succeed?
The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
What is most likely to distract me when I am trying to listen to you? HDIFAT?
What part does dialogue play in our hurting and healing? HDIFAT?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
How do I fail to listen to you when I am disillusioned? HDIFAT?
Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAT?
What are / were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAT?
What mistakes have I made because I did not learn my lesson the first time? HDIFAT?
Do I appreciate you enough? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my parish/church/convent/temple/etc. financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
What is my favorite memory of our dating days? HDIFAT?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest feeling? HDIF sharing this with you?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA? Expectations"
At parties, am I often bored or do I usually have fun? HDIFAT?
Under stress, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who have a compulsive need to please other people?
What limits do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
How does my attitude toward your mother affect us? HDIFAT?
If I could gain any one ability or quality, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the variety of our lovemaking?
What is most likely to result when I cry? HDIFAT?
What material things do I worry about most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving for a summer vacation?
HDIF about lovemaking by candlelight?
How does my pride get in the way of my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my sexuality?
HDIF when I need to trust someone who may take advantage of me?
HDIF when I have to get rid of the junk in my closets and drawers?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we have experienced God through each other?
What do I value most in my life? HDIFAT?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about deciding to love when there are no loving emotions / feelings?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I compete against my people? HDIFAMA?
Is frustration bringing us together or driving us apart? HDIFAT?
HDIF after doing a good deed?
HDIF about putting my life in God's hands?
What do I value most in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex in the morning?
What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAT?
When others expect a lot from me, I feel ______ and tend to ______ . HDTMMF?
What helps me get up and going in the morning? HDIF about this?
HDIF about going out on a date together?
HDIF about eating leftover food?
What do I want from this relationship right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we walk hand in hand along a nature trail?
What special qualities as a couple do we bring to other people? HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are listening? HDIFAT?
When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I show my love to God? HDIFAMA?
In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
What is one of my treasured values in life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about facing the bills when there are too many?
HDIF when I compare myself to _____?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in my life? HDIFAMA?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?
What realistic thing can I do this week to make it better than last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fun in our marriage?
In what area(s) do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAMA?
How can I give more of myself this Christmas season? HDIFAT?
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy about our relationship right now? HDMAMMF?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with God, or Have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
How can I most help you at this time? HDIFAT?
I forgot to buy you a card on this special occasion. HDIFAT?
HDIF in a competition?
What has our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille meant to me? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I still living a singles lifestyle? HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank my people for that I have not? HDIFAT?
How would I rate myself as a decision-maker? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about sex? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
Our child has a special talent. HDIFAT?
What about you am I grateful for today? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Do I listen better to you or to others?HDTMMF?"
What special qualities do I most admire in you? HDIFAT?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF about crying?
When was the last time I said Thank You to you? HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
Does TV take away valuable time from us as a family? HDIFAT?
Is our bedroom free of clutter? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am criticized?
Who controls the bed in the house? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift that suggests I need improvement?
What of my emotions / feelings do I have the hardest time accepting? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are intimate?
HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll?
What talent or quality as a parent do I most envy in you and HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an old boyfriend / girlfriend?
HDIF when I watch you play with our children?
What gift have you given me in the past month that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
How have I used my mask (personality style) this week? HDIFAT?
What is my present attitude toward writing a dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
How do I need to change to make you my favorite person? HDIFAT?
How do I control or deny my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What areas of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to mass or church together?
Here are two ways we are alike: _____ and _____. HDIFAT?
How important is physical affection to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about returning phone calls?
HDIF about the way Christmas Day went for us?
When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do I find most interesting about you? HDIFAT?
How was your love life-giving to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents?
HDIF about having a reality check in our marriage?
HDIF about sending and receiving cards?
God gave you to me. HDIFAT?
What have I done recently to bring joy or comfort to others? HDIFAT?
If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I have been living?
What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
When I sing Alleluia, am I enthusiastic? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I remember to say please when asking for something?
What do I want most for our children and HDIFAT?
What happens to me when I reveal more of what is behind my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see ?thanks? shining in your eyes?
How do I see you as a giving person? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What gift of my people do I take for granted or deem trivial? HDIFAT?
Is it important to be at the Easter Vigil to welcome new members into our church? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my dialog? Describe in loving detail.
What do I hope for each child? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's manners?
HDIF when we read the Passion during Holy Week?
When is the last time I truly felt listened to by you? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
What memories of Easter do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
What unfinished projects would I like finish? HDIFAT?
We are invited to a wedding of another faith expression. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you tell me, We'll see, and I think you really mean, No?
HDIF when I get up at night when the baby cries?
HDIF when we sing the Gloria?
The house is a mess. HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot keep the schedule I have set for myself?
What sacrifices am I willing to make for our daily Dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do I think and feel when I hear the statment: 'Love isn't love until you give it away?'
What kind of things frustrate me? HDIFAT?
What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am sulking?
HDIF when I consider that we are growing in mutual knowledge?
What joys or pleasures have our children given us? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you are passive and uninvolved?
What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making you feel good about yourself?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD.
HDIF about getting other people's advice on a personal problem?
Besides my normal place of worship, where would I most like to celebrate mass / worship? HDIFAT?
Is there ever a time when I should not reveal a negative emotion to you? HDIFAT?
Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
Where do we most need to grow in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cannot afford a night out together?
What area of my communication with my people do I think I need to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to be honest but am afraid of hurting you?
When I think about dying today, HDIF about our past week together?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAT?
How can I help you when you are under pressure? HDIFAT?
What is the most sensitive part of my body? HDIFAT?
When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who show no flexibility?
HDIF when we get together with family?
What values of mine differ from my people? How does this effect my relationship with them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think about us marrying each other each day?
HDIF when someone reaches out to me?
How do I respond to pressure? How does my response affect you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a dream vacation?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me The gift you have received, give as a gift?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate the health of our marriage a... HDIFSTWY?
What stage of love do I think we are in (Romance, Disillusion, Misery, Joy)? HDIFAMA?
What does your touch mean to me? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone close to me dies?
How do my goals for financial security affect our children? HDIFAT?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDTMMF?
HDIF when other people are impolite or rude to me?
How do I feel about our involvement with our church and the activities there? Describe in loving detail.
What is my dream for my involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you with myself? HDIF sharing this with you?
I need your love the most when _____. HDIFAT?
What are some of the things I pray for? HDIFAT?
HDIF being unforgiven?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not met? HDIFAT?
What more could I do with what I know? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAT?
How does striving to live God's plan give life to us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about sharing my emotions / feelings from the past?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDIFAT?
Is it enough for our home to have practical furnishings, or do I require a touch of style? HDIFAT?
Recently, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I propose a new sexual experience?
Can I ride a skateboard? A unicycle? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the hopes and dreams I have for our children?
HDIF when I think I have let you down?
Are we as close today as we used to be? HDIFAMA?
What is the hardest thing I have done emotionally? HDIFAT?
HDIF about part of our lives continuing through our children?
How do I feel when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession, ethnic background, gender, etc.? Describe in loving detail.
How well do I think you trust me? HDIFAT?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? How do I feel about my answer?
When am I most frustrated with my people? HDIFAMA?
If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when I cannot get a rise out of you?
HDIF when a member of my family is ill?
HDIF about my ability to speak to you freely about our sexual relationship?
If I did not need money, what would I be doing today? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
What regrets do I have about someone who has died? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your boss?
HDIF showing affection in front of our children?
What was our closest moment as a couple this month? HDIFAT?
How did our relationship reflect God's love today? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I need to relax but do not?
HDIF about the love I bring to our family?
HDIF about telling you what I like or do not like?
HDIF when I try to hold in my disappointment?
HDIF about the way I manage my time?
How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDIFAT?
Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear you say something complimentary about me?
How do I feel about donating money to the poor? Describe in loving detail.
Is the focal point of our lives God and the Church? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I have had a fight with one of my people?
How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not met? HDIFAT?
Lately I have felt closest to you when _____. HDIFAT?
What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAMA??
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving one of my people when I feel hurt? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I judge myself as inadequate, guilty, or unlovable?
How does dialoguing on our emotions / feelings help us discover our needs? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having God in our relationship?
How do our children's activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
When things are not going well between us, what do I think about? HDIFAT?
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