Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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God sees me as very special because _____. HDIFAT?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been... HDIFAT (besides disappointed)?
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF after yelling at our children?
What kind of a 'sign' do I think we have been to others this week? HDTMMF?
Happiness is inward and not outward; and so it does not depend on what we have, but on what we are.' -- Henry van Dyke. HDIFAT?
What is going on inside me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having God in our relationship?
HDIF about widening our circle of friends?
HDIF about using credit cards?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for the world? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our time (or lack there of) for relaxation and entertainment? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about starting a family?
HDIF when we argue about who is to be blamed?
How often do I want to make love but do not ask you? HDIFAT?
When did I last have an emotion / feeling I thought I should not have? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot go to a function our child wants me to attend?
HDIF when other people look me in the eye?
What was the center of my life today? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest defect in listening to you? HDIFAT?
What type of interests do we share? HDIFAT?
HDIF about leftovers?
How do I behave when I do not know something? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your travel schedule?
HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it?
HDIF when we attend a funeral?
HDIF when you are driving and I am a passenger?
HDIF when I am watching you and you do not know it?
What do I resolve to do this year? HDIFAT?
Do I build a wall between myself and others because I am afraid of being hurt? HDIFAT?
What good do I see in our children? HDIFAT?
What keeps us together as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you look at other women / men with obvious interest?
How well do I show my love to you? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
Do I allow God to work in me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children are praised by strangers?
HDIF when you win an argument?
How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love my people better? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my temper and what I do when I lose it?
It is difficult for me to listen to God when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF when you reach out to me after an argument?
HDIF when someone I do not know well offers me advice?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite way of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you agree to do it my way?
What kind of person am I? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we miss a day of dialog?
HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected?
What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAMA??
What specifically do you do to me during sex that I enjoy most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your saying no to me in sex?
HDIF about giving you space when you need it?
HDIF when I am fighting for what is right?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
What miracle, small or large, did I experience today? HDIFAT?
How do we lovingly pass on our family traditions? HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since our wedding? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAMA?
How do I love thee? HDIFAT?
I usually settle arguments by _____. HDIFAT?
What is the best thing you did for me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our family vacation time?
HDIF when you are not leveling with me?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
How do we usually handle conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
What thoughts help me to sleep at night? HDIFAT?
When I do not approve of the way a friend is acting, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you cry after watching a movie together?
What do I think God wants for us? HDIFAT?
Is it important to be at the Easter Vigil to welcome new members into our church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
My fondest dream for you since we experienced the weekend is _____. HDIFAT?
What are my reasons for keeping my distance? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been accused of something I did not do? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your job separates us overnight?
In what areas/ways do I think I am taken for granted for? HDIF about telling you this?
Do I allow Jesus to be in control of my life? HDIFAT?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF about death?
What is the nicest thing you did for me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are away and I miss you?
I learned a lot from this mistake: _____. What did I learn? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to improve my sense of humor? HDIFAT?
How has the temptation to live the World's Plan affected us? HDIFAT?
When we hold hands, what are we saying to each other? HDIFAT?
What are my best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
What would be the hardest thing for me to give up for a week? Why? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people? Describe in loving detail.
In what ways do I daily affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
After a fight am I still pretending not to care? HDIFAT?
When did I feel closest to you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have done something to make you happy?
HDIF when you brag on me to our children?
HDIF about embellishing the truth, especially if it makes for a good story?
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? How does remembering this MMF? Romance"
How has dialogue made you more important in my life?
How long would I like to live? HDIFAT?
What do I see in your life as life-draining? HDIFAT?
Can we hope to heal our relationship before we have clarified the issue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way you behave around my friends?
HDIF about leaving our children for a few days?
When I have a serious issue to discuss, what would help me the most? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAT?
What example do I imitate that is a not so good an example? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our growth (or lack of growth) in the area of sex?
HDIF when I react to you instead of responding to you?
What romantic things would I like you to do for me? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when you make one of my priorities one of yours?
HDIF when our plans are changed?
After a fight, is it easy or hard for my to ask for forgiveness? Why? HDIFAMA
Have I acquired any new qualities this lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we handle our finances?
What foods do I like the best? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I must explain my actions?
What is special about you today? HDIFAT?
What good effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me love taps?
Our garden is dying and we need the food. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures?
What Christ/God-like qualities do I see in you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What do I do that demonstrates my faith? HDIFAT?
The last time you made me feel pampered was _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a photograph of you?
What do I judge as the most important things I pray about? HDIF sharing this with you?
When I know I am wanted, I feel _____.
What kind of death frightens me the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you laugh at my jokes?
When was the last time we were really outrageous? HDIFAT?
What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning a holiday with you?
In general, do I give you more criticism or praise? HDIFAT?
If I could live my life over again, I would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you your hair looks great?
HDIF about wearing silk underwear?
HDIF about our trying to de-clutter our home?
HDIF when you change the subject before I am finished?
What sexual baggage am I dealing with? HDIFAT?
I experience rejection most when _____. HDIFAT?
What effect did my family's ideas, experiences, etc. of priest/religious life have upon me and the way I lead my life now? HDIFAMA?
When was the last time I brought Christ's love to the world? HDIFAT?
How have our in-laws contributed positive/negative change to our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's religious education?
How would I like to be affirmed and recognized by you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I try something different in my sermon/homily/prayer/etc. Describe in loving detail.
Can we listen better to each other? HDIFAT?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of you? HDIFAT?
What do I most need to take responsibility for today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven?
How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? How have I communicated this with you? HDMAMMF?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
HDIF immediately after I experienced the weekend?
HDIF when activities separate us?
In what area do I trust my people the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust my people, just the least) HDIFAMA?"
HDIF about letting priests / pastors / nuns / ministers know their importance to us?
HDIF about going out with you in the evening?
In what areas do I compete against my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we can spend a quiet evening together?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a massage?
The way to salvation is through Jesus. HDIFAT?
I judge I failed as/at... HDIFAMA?
Is Jesus Lord of our prayer life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding our sexual relationship?
Is our relationship alive and well in the eyes of other people? HDIFAT?
When am I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
The work I am doing now is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex in the morning?
HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us?
When someone expresses tender emotions to me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not say anything?
How can I reveal my emotions / feelings to you outside dialogue? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not say anything about something I have done?
HDIF when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me?
How patient am I with myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling others about the help we got from Encounter / Retrouvaille?
How do I behave when I am selfish? HDIFAT?
Eucharist is a family reunion. HDIFAT?
HDIF giving to other people?
HDIF when I cannot say I am sorry?
When do I feel most loved? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not dialogue?
In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? What are my feelings about that?
HDIF trying to put you first when our children are so demanding?
I have one more day to live. HDIFAT?
Till death us part. HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about you: dialoguing, or making love, or sharing our days, or quiet time together? HDIFAT?
What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with my celebrating mass / leading services? HDIFAT?
We have unfinished chores. HDIFAT?
How was Easter special for us this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my gift of help, time, friendship, etc is refused?
HDIF about your reaction toward sex?
What values do I want us to give to our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a tourist?
I tell a joke and no one laughs. HDIFAT?
How can I bring the joys of Christmas to other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to play a new sport?
Is it easy for us to agree on decisions? HDIFAT?
To keep my vocation fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we have had a long laugh together? Does laughter help heal?
Can I enjoy my successes for a while, or do I have to move on to the next challenge? HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine?
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you take most of the bed or most of the cover?
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
What do I do to gain acceptance and profit emotionally? HDIFAT?
How does my pride get in the way of my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
HDIF about you staying home with the children and being a homemaker?
HDIF about your body?
How old or young do I feel? HDIFAT?
What little annoyances am I having trouble accepting? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I know you are writing your dialogue letter?
HDIF when you call me by my pet name?
Do I see death as an end to our love relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I look at our children sleeping?
What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? HDIFAT?
When you are trying to learn something new, do I try to teach you, or do I try to help you discover how to do it yourself? HDIFAT?
When do I close my heart to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about looking out for Christ's coming?
Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way my ministry influences those around me?
Which three qualities do I require in a friend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive our children?
How has dialog changed my life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about your smile?
Jesus ascended into heaven. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I/you/we handle money?
We have activities, jobs and careers. What about us? HDIFAT?
What do I control that I should give up to help improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see myself in photographs?
Where do we go to be lifted up as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not reveal your emotions / feelings?
How has our dialogue enhanced our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
How does my poor self-image affect our couple prayer? HDIFAT?
I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing our dialogue with other people?
Do I believe it is important to take a yearly family vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about staying home with you?
HDIF when I am doing things nobody else wants to do?
Was I pushed to excel when I was young? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not do what I say I will do?
How do my childhood dreams of growing up compare to what I am now? HDIFAT?
Mary said yes to God. HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping in touch with my extended family?
HDIF when we stick to our budget?
HDIF when we are torn between our families?
How did it happen that we first met? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about you? HDIF sharing this with you?
I need support from you in the following areas. HDIFTYT?
How patient am I with the faults of others? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who always have both feet on the ground?
When a breakdown or mix-up stops everybody's work, my first reaction is to _____. HDIFAT?
What do I think about the difficulties of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
Our neighbor lives alone. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together after we dialogue?
How do I feel remembering a time when I was in trouble as a child? HDIF sharing this with you?
What areas of our relationship do I take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive each other?
What have I learned from looking backwards that can enrich my future relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the little things you do for me?
What does it mean to me to experience joy? HDIFAT?
Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
What values of mine differ from my people? HDIFAT?
You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein. HDIFAT?
How have I changed recently?
My favorite memory of us as a couple this year is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you change your mind after we've agreed on something, or made a decision on something? Describe in loving detail.
Can I identify with doubting Thomas? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most admire or respect your feelings?
Have I ever been followed, or thought I was? HDIFAT?
HDIF about letting others do the work, even if I know it will be partly wrong or incomplete?
In order to succeed as a priest or minister, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
What can we do to renew our parish or church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need to be loved?
If I had my life to start again, what would I change? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you smile?
How often do we pray as a family? HDIFAT?
What are your best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when sarcastic remarks are directed at me?
What frustration did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
Is our home in a good state of repair? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing things nobody else wants to do?
HDIF about our spending on gifts?
What was the first thing that worked against us after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
What event do I look back on with laughter now, that I did not think was funny at the time? HDIFAT?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing Jesus say, Love each other as I have loved you?
What in our relationship gives me the most joy? HDIFAT?
How can we avoid non-productive fights? HDIFTYT?
How do I feel about the way I spend my spare time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when a member of our family points out my good qualities?
HDIF when my life is disorderly?
What is the difference between hearing you and listening to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
Do I consider myself smoothly diplomatic or brutally honest? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my sense of humor, or lack of one?
I really wish I had started _____ earlier in life. HDIFAT?
Sometimes we argue over the children. HDIFAT?
If somebody does not treat me right, am I likely to forget or remember? HDIFAT?
When in the past week did I think your emotions / feelings were wrong to have? HDIFAT?
HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
The car needs major repairs. HDIFAT?
The saint you remind me most of is _____. HDIFAT?
Do I allow Jesus to be Lord of my life? HDIFAT?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty admitting it to you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I stop with you for ice cream?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT?
What do I value most in life? HDIFAT?
What attitude of mine keeps me from making our sexual relationship all it can be? HDIFAT?
Is my yes to you today unconditional? HDIFAT?
HDIF about holding hands when we say grace over a meal?
HDIF about Santa Claus?
How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear about someone who has been abused? Describe in loving detail.
What keeps me from being content? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am trying to be strong in the face of difficulty?
Have we changed enough since our weekend, that others have noticed the difference, too? HDIFAMA?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate the health of our marriage a... HDIFSTWY?
When was the last time we sat and watched falling stars together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize and accept Jesus' closeness in our daily lives?
Is my love for my people strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal father _____ . HDIFTYT?
What specialness do I see in our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone says, I know just how you feel?
HDIF when I see your best qualities in our children?
Take and eat, this is my body. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not replace the toilet paper roll?
HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear?
If I could try a new job for one day, I would try _____. HDIFAT?
How does my pride get in the way of my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIFAT?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the house looking neat for you?
We could improve the way we make decisions by _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting a priest or minister to our home?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about family? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you only share superficial things with me?
HDIF about honoring the dead?
How do I behave when my need for love is not met? HDIFAT?
In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT?
Christ is the unseen guest at every meal. HDIFAT?
I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not say you are sorry or ask forgiveness?
When have I felt the most loved ever? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are giving me the silent treatment?
What do I want this weekend? HDIFAT?
As a child, who was I closest too, and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when we walk hand in hand along a nature trail?
HDIF hearing you say you love me?
What feeling is most likely to be the source of my anger? HDIFAT?
How does our financial situation affect our unity? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to take risks?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
How has our family benefited from our experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
When I feel sad, angry, frustrated, etc. (pick one, or one of your own) what is the best thing you can do for me? HDIFAMA?
There are _____ shopping days until Christmas. HDIF about our finances?
HDIF being around people who are wrapped up in their careers?
When I think about the rate of inflation, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What little kindness did I do today to spread love around? HDIFAT?
What friend have I known the longest? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving people a second chance? A third chance? A fourth chance?
Is there enough laughter and relaxation in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents?
What has Our Father given us in the past year? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping my promises?
HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?
How do I feel when someone is making fun of me? Describe in loving detail.
What could I do to help myself understand God better? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think about us ten years from now?
HDIF recalling my first confession?
What are our biggest differences? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
Change makes me feel ________.
Do I consider myself a hawk or a dove? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the concept, 'Let go and let God'? HDMAMMF?
When we do a job together I feel _____.
HDIF about the last time I did something romantic for you?
Our dialogue is our recurring yes to each other. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you call during the day just to say hello?
HDIF as I reflect on the expectations I had on our wedding day for us?
HDIF about death and dying?
How do I feel when I say to you, 'Please forgive me. I was wrong.' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I am singing in the shower?
HDIF about the time I spend watching TV?
What do I expect from you? HDIFAT?
It was not raining when Noah built the ark. HDIFAT?
What activity helps me grow as a Christian?
What is the most difficult emotion / feeling I have shared with you recently? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT?
Would I rather celebrate Thanksgiving at our home or a relative's home? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed? Describe in loving detail.
How does our financial situation affect our intimacy? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am experiencing disillusionment about us? HDIFAT?
If this were our last Christmas, how would I like to spend it? HDIFAT?
HDIF about working out a budget and sticking to it?
God expects us to be our brother's keeper. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship as we begin this week?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when stress builds and you do not see the warning signals?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do before I die? HDIFAT?
In order to solve a problem, am I more likely to use common sense or imagination? HDIFAMA?
What non-verbal expression, gesture or behavior helps me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making love when we have a time limit?
How are we sexually attentive and responsive to each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are too tired to be lovers?
What do I like best about you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my home? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our pastor or spiritual director?
Whom have I ministered to lately? Was I lifted up by their gratitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our financial future?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
How are we behaving like married singles? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt bored. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I conceal my emotions / feelings?
HDIF having you to share special times with?
Is Jesus Lord of my prayer life? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
What do I think are our limits as a couple? HDIFAT?
If I could change my career, what would I like to do? HDIFAT?
When I finish a task, HDIF about relaxing before going on to the next task?
What gift can I give Jesus on His birthday? HDIFAT?
If I could change one thing about myself, what would it be? HDIFAT?
To keep our marriage fresh, am I open to new ideas? HDIFAT?
What power do I see in our prayer? HDIFAT?
When did I realize that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you? How do I feel recalling this? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
HDIF when the assumptions you made about me are not true?
In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? How do I think that has make you feel?
HDIF about giving to an Angel Tree or other project for needy people?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have lost control with our children?
HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying to love you the way God loves us? HDIF sharing this with you?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be _____? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I experience your total acceptance of me? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about our having a vacation this year? HDIFAT?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been... HDIF about this (besides disappointed)?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
Has our house ever caught fire? HDIFAT?
HDIF whenever relatives visit?
Is Jesus in control of our future? HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
When do I most need my people's support? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with my people?
HDIF when we have been separated for a long time?
In what ways am I still ?wrapped in a cocoon?? HDIFAT?
If I could live anywhere, where would it be? HDIFAT?
How many hours of TV do I watch a day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive you?
What is my favorite way of wasting time? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving massages?
Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
Do I make other things more important than my people? What? HDIFAMA?
What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
What do I want from this relationship right now? In the future? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our prayer life. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not like the dialog question I have selected?
My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I judge one of my people is better than me at something I take pride in my ability to do? Describe in loving detail.
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am gentle? HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you seem indifferent to me?
How do I feel when I judge the singing done by my people is praising God from the heart?
Do I listen better to you or to others?HDTMMF?"
How is God's love being reflected to other people through our love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the car behind me follows too close?
What am I afraid to say to you during our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
The person, place, or thing I miss the most is... HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive and when I am forgiven?
HDIF when a child disobeys?
What practical steps could we take to talk more about us? HDIFAT?
What is the possession I have that I like best? HDIFAT?
What are the major sources of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
What can I do this week to make memories? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about taking on extra work to advance my career?
What do I like best about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God being the one who brought us together?
If our house were on fire, what possession would I want to save? HDIFAT?
In what specific ways am I hopeful for the Church? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when our children are under stress? HDIFAT?
When is the last time I forgave you, and HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacle in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
What do I think our dialogue did for us as we experienced the weekend? During follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I unjustly scold our children?
How can we inspire other people to dialogue? HDIFAT?
What are the things that we have that money cannot buy? HDIFAT?
What quality in you am I most dependent on? HDIFAT?
What need of mine is not being met? HDIFAT?
How can I help you express your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to do something I really do not want to do?
What is the first step I take to cope with the stress in my life? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes and dreams for our future? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I unavoidably hit some small animal with the car?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving you when I feel hurt? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I see the once-a-year Catholics crowding the church on Christmas?
HDIF about helping teach someone?
HDIF about the last time we solved a problem together?
HDIF when some job or activity separates us?
HDIF about my self-worth as your lover?
HDIF about giving to a worthy cause?
In what way am I trying love my people the way God loves me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about making a list of our important documents and where we keep them?
HDIF when cashiers ask for several pieces of identification?
HDIF when good friends of ours move away?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to have the last word?
HDIF about our marriage being a living sign of love?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, am I experiencing you differently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reflect on what a gift you are to me?
What do I like least about myself in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
What does having good friends mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about gathering other people for prayer?
HDIF when you initiate our lovemaking?
HDIF when you encourage me?
How do my goals for financial security affect our children? HDIFAT?
Very few burdens are heavy when everyone lifts.' -- unknown author Do we share our burdens with others to lighten the load, or do we suffer by ourselves? HDIFAMA?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about family? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
Have any of our dreams come true? HDIFAT?
Can I expose my innermost sexuality to you? HDIFAT?
How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you sleeping?
HDIF when I am brooding over my mistakes?
What is my favorite room of the house and why? HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I wait patiently when you are late?
HDIF when you are jealous?
HDIF when we see the persons who first suggested we experience the weekend?
Where do I have an attitude of inferiority? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAT?
God wants our sexual relationship to be good. HDIFAT?
Is describing my emotions / feelings in a letter easy or hard to do? HDIFAT?
Please forgive me for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning a new dance step with you?
What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for every area of my life?
HDIF about our time together?
The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our preparations as Christmas approaches?
How could I make saying grace more meaningful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are aware of using our forgiving power to heal each other?
HDIF when I hear gossip?
How does our individuality strengthen us as a couple? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
Is your body yours or mine? HDIFAT?
What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas? HDIFAT?
Sometimes I forget to put you first. HDIFAT?
HDIF about snakes?
If I were to write twenty-five words in a telegram to you, what would I write? HDIFAT?
What effect does making love to you have on me? HDIFAT?
What area of my relationship with my people do I need to work on? HDIFAT?
How can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAT?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we spent last weekend?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take to remind me of you and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How would our children describe our marriage? HDIFAT?
You are the sunshine of my life. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the outside influences that are causing hurt between us?
HDIF when I am spending time alone?
How will my life change when our children are out on their own? HDIFAT?
Life is beautiful when shared with you. HDIFAT?
How can our kiss be more meaningful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Pray for me?
HDIF when work keeps us apart?
What does the season of Lent mean to me?
What is my purpose in life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are praying for me?
Who should I thank that I have not thanked? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together, just the two of us?
When was the last time we had an ice cream social type of evening together? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with my people when I am making plans? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we go to visit our families?
HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone?
What values of the church do I want to pass on to our children? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt threatened.
Is fighting a constructive means of communication between us?
HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me?
HDIF when I see washing of the feet on Holy Thursday?
How has my love for you changed since our dating days, wedding, or weekend (pick one)? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about how we share our possessions with others?
What is the most peaceful scene I can recall? HDIFAT?
HDIF about letting someone outside our family borrow our car?
In what area do I trust you the most? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about trying to maintain a cordial relationship with someone I dislike?
What family atmosphere do I dream of for our home? HDIFAT?
Is the focal point of our lives God and the Church? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the boss?
Do I have any dreams that I can not share with my people? HDIFAMA?
In what ways does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT?
Our marriage is a sign of Christ's Love. How do I think others experienced our sign today? HDTMMF?
HDIF when someone thanks us?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on our children? HDIFAT?
My top priorities in life are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am replaying one of our arguments in my head?
HDIF about the level of respect between us?
Am I more likely to take things too lighty, or worry too much? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I have to push others to get the job done right?
How do I feel when my people say no to God? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we are too tired for each other?
HDIF when I try something different in my prayer life?
How does our support community enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
When someone is aggressively angry with me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
Of the memories I formed while experiencing the weekend, which is most pleasant and why? HDIFAT?
What fun thing can we do today? HDIFAT?
When recently do I remember loving you beyond inconvenience or hurt? HDIFAT?
What gaps do you fill in my life? HDIFAT?
What will happen if I let down my guard? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to show our couple love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about deadlines in general?
How have I changed in ways that you are unaware of? HDIFAT?
Who can I reach out to? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
HDIF when I am a source of confidence to you?
HDIF when I see children praying?
HDIF when you are patient with me?
After I have had an argument with one of my people or my superior, what is the most positive that that comes out of it? HDIFAMA?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Can I see God in you? HDIFAT?
Was dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What do I think about the choices we have made in our friends? HDIFAT?
Where do I stand in my faith? HDIFAT?
What did I first long for immediately after I was ordained? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something special for another couple?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFTYT?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAMA?
How well do I think I show my love to God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone thanks me?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT?
I am better motivated to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we watch an old romantic movie together?
HDIF about our parish or church activities?
Am I more likely to put a decision off to the last minute, or make a decision immediately? HDIFAMA?
One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you serve me breakfast in bed?
How do I handle my jealous feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about taking time out for us?
What are your family's expectations of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone gives me a firm handshake?
HDIF thinking this could be our last dialogue letter?
HDIF when I try to build up your confidence?
What have I learned about myself in the past year? HDIFAT?
If I were an animal, what would I be? HDMAMMF?
The Bible is full of God's dialogue letters to us. HDIFAT?
How can I stop holding onto my fears? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT?
What part of my body do I judge to be sexually exciting to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make time for us?
HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are?
HDIF about this day?
In what kind of relationship (besides spousal) do I try to fill my needs? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
Our courtship can continue in some form for all our married lives. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our current financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
What can you do to help me understand you better? HDIFAT?
What would I tell Jesus about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you come home late?
What new friendships have I formed? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my unfinished projects?
HDIF when I look at the Christmas tree?
HDIF when I accomplish something I am proud of?
HDIF when one of our children excels and the others do not?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I am sorry?
HDIF when you do not defend me?
Do I always say what I mean and mean what I say? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we first met?
How has God blessed me this year? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me, do I allow it to affect my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
Is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I serve you breakfast in bed?
What type of people do I like to socialize with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Let me show you how?
HDIF when we are intimate?
HDIF today about all the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharng this with you?
HDIF about how we decide whether to make love?
HDIF when I ask you to forgive me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put away the laundry?
HDIF about giving you a backrub with no expectations of lovemaking?
What conditions do I put on my love of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the use of medicine in our family?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
HDIF when I surprise you with flowers?
HDIF when we disagree with each other? HDIFAT?
What do I think is keeping us out of romance right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you respond to my sexual advances?
Where do I trust others more than I trust you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our recent vacation?
HDIF when I realize I am not what you thought me to be?
HDIF when you heal me?
HDIF about the example we are setting for other couples?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAMA?
How do I behave so that others will accept me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about writing thank-you notes?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
What can I do to contribute to our family having a good time on vacation? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about discussing religion with someone who's views differ from mine? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
HDIF when I see the other man / other woman?
HDIF when I am talked into something I do not want to do?
HDIF when we wash dishes together?
How have I grown from the pain I have experienced in my life? HDIFAT?
How can I stop evil from happening? HDIFAT?
When I consider the story of the prodigal son, I feel _____.
Jesus is counting on us to reveal His love to other people. HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who try to impress me?
Do I sometimes write something different than what I feel in order to protect you or myself? HDIFAMA?
How does my relationship with my people compare to my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
How selective am I in selecting topics to argue with you about? HDIFAT?
What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT?
If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home? HDIFAT?
What caused me to begin to share my feelings with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to share something with you but do not?
HDIF when I think you are angry with me?
HDIF when I give you the benefit of the doubt?
What does this holiday mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have been fulfilled (sexually) by you?
HDIF reading the Song of Solomon?
HDIF about the way I dress around you?
Why have we not been dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT?
What, if anything, causes unnecessary stress and complication in my/our life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about visiting a nursing home?
How would I like to celebrate Thanksgiving? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the first day we met?
How have I experienced forgiveness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
If I could gain any one ability or quality, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
If I could bring faith and God to one person, who would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my plans run off the track?
HDIF when I am digging up the past?
HDIF about our communication techniques?
IWhat barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about hot-air ballooning?
What are my expectations concerning our lovemaking? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
Is there anything about your job that I avoid discussing with you? HDIFAT?
You keep growing more beautiful each day. HDIFAT?
What thing or activity would it be difficult for me to give up and why? HDIFAMA?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
What is my greatest talent in listening to you? HDIFAT?
The main reason I am afraid to commit to you is _____. HDIFAT?
What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to repeated failure? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children scream?
HDIF about our sexual relationship?
What special joy or pleasure do you bring into my life? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need the Lord's help? HDIFAT?
What are my goals for _____? HDIFAT?
What quality in you first attracted me to you? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I did not listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF about the way I want to celebrate Valentine's Day?
What is the atmosphere at our dinner table? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize I've done something thoughtless and hurt you? Describe in loving detail.
What do I miss most when we are on vacation? HDIFAT?
I cannot blame you for how I feel. HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to my father? HDIFAT?
What special moment do I remember? HDIFAT?
Is it more important to see possibilities or adjust to facts? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
I find it useless to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT?
When I am really at odds with someone, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What qualities in your mother do I also see in you? HDIFAT?
Do I think I have lost some of my independence since our Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAT?
What activities do I put ahead of the Lord? HDIFAT?
Would people say I live in my own little world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your parents come for dinner?
HDIF when our routines separate us?
HDIF driving home from a meeting of our follow-up or support group?
Long ago, I borrowed a book from a friend. HDIFAT?
If I had known then what I know now about raising children, I would have _____. HDIFAT?
Where do I feel superior to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we take a drive together to see the beautiful fall foliage?
HDIF about the way you affirmed your love for me today?
Where is my favorite place for dialogue? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about you recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
What do I do that annoys you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing the chores?
HDIF about watching football on TV?
HDIF when we play games with our children?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
What do I like best about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What talent of mine should I be using more, and how? HDIFAT?
What is my most pleasant memory from our dating days? HDIFAT?
HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song?
What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT?
Can I really accept God's plan for us? HDIFAT?
How do I think we can be more involved with each other? HDIFAT?
Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when I?m under stress? HDIFAMA?
HDIF knowing Jesus loves me unconditionally?
HDIF about the time I spend with my family?
Overnight guests made their own bed. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are receptive to suggestions I offer?
I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about our daughter being a priest / pastor / nun?
What strengths do I have that I am afraid to rely on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me for no special reason?
When am I most comfortable serving my people? HDIFAT?
God wants to count me among His saints. HDIFAT?
Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing?
What would other people say is my worst habit? HDIFAT?
Who are my models for my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our child's current boyfriend / girlfriend / best friend?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
What is your specialness to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put a child in time-out?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we look at pictures from our wedding? DILD.
In what specific ways am I hopeful for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there is silence between us?
Four things to learn in life: To think clearly without hurry or confusion; To love everybody sincerely; To act in everything with the highest motives; To trust God unhesitatingly.' -Helen Keller HD this quote MMF?
What talent or quality as a parent do I most envy in you and HDIFAT?
What do I say about you when you are not around? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my superior does not share their plans with me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
What stage of relationship am I in with my people, (Romance, Disillusion, Joy)? HDIFAMA?
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
What gifts did we give back to the Lord today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship today?
At meetings I feel _____.
Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT?
What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
My strengths are _____. HDIFAT?
Can I see God in other people? HDIFAT?
What would happen to the church without the Sacrament of Matrimony? HDIFAT?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
HDIF about tithing a portion of our income?
HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day?
HDIF knowing Jesus is our protector?
HDIF about the sport of hunting?
Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT?
When am I most frustrated with my people? HDIFAMA?
How many times have I been stopped by the police? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a little time to relax after I get home?
HDIF when I watch our children while you go shopping?
When do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the organization of my office space at work?
What is most likely to distract me when I am trying to listen to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you want to leave an event and I am not ready to go?
HDIF when we criticize each other?
It is difficult for me to listen to my people when _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone falsely accuses me of something? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when TV sports controls meals and holidays in our home?
As a child, who was I closest too? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you believe the rumors instead of me?
HDIF about revealing the Father to you?
What strengths do we have to offer others as a couple? HDIFAT?
When things bother me, can I tune them out? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT?
Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished. HDIFAT?
HDIF when my superior does not share their plans with me?
What do you do that I appreciate but have not told you? HDIFAT?
What do I find difficult to tell you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are swamped with responsibility?
How do I feel about going with you to a movie, or watching a TV show, about a love story? Describe in loving detail.
How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT?
How would I feel going to a school football game and sitting near the band? HDIFAT?
What areas in our marriage are good? HDIFAT?
The three things I like best about (each) child are _____. HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of your family? HDIFAT?
How could our sex life improve? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to drive the car in dangerous weather?
What was my greatest fear as a child? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I swear at you or engage in name-calling?
Do I consider myself to be vengeful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAMA???
How do I see God reflected through our minister, pastor, priest, or rabii? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the honesty of our dialogue?
HDIF about getting other people's advice on a personal problem?
When God forgives me, why can?t I forgive myself? DYFILD.
What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the freshness in our marriage?
HDIF when we are too busy for each other?
What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but haven't been able to, yet I haven't talked to you about? HDIFAT?
How have we been judgmental of our people? HDIFAT?
What were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about dialoguing on death?
HDIF when I am driving very fast?
HDIF about crying? About other people when they cry?
What do I find hardest to forgive in myself? HDIFAMA?
Our calendar is filled. HDIFAT?
Do I usually initiate friendships with my people, or do I wait for them? HDIFAMA?
What can I do next week to help people experience more of God's love? HDIFAT?
What is the best thing that happened to me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put me down?
What do I hope to accomplish this summer? HDIFAT?
What hinders me from talking about money with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
HDIF about trying new things that are just coming into fashion?
Do I criticize just to criticize, or with the intent of helping? HDIFAT?
We should give God the same place in our hearts that He holds in the universe. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together as a family at mealtime?
HDIF taking a walk with you on a beautiful spring day?
HDIF when we ask a couple to an information night?
HDIF when I hold the door for you?
When do I let my temper get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our activities in the marriage program?
What have you done recently to express your commitment to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me?
What happens when we are able to reveal all of ourselves to each other? HDIFAT?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
HDIF about singing in Latin?
HDIF about my role as a mother / father?
In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIF sharing this with you?
I want to be enthusiastic about life but _____. HDIFAT?
What gets in the way of my enjoyment of positive emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you? HDIFAT?
What do I do that annoys my people? HDIFAT?
What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
What feeling have I been experiencing lately, that I either have had a difficult time sharing, or have not shared, with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others?
What mask do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the size of our family?
What area do I least want to talk to you about? HDIF telling you this?
When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT?
What have I done recently to express my commitment to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am jealous?
What is my reaction to Mary's yes to God? HDIFAT?
What frustrates me most in working with others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting an arts and craft fair with you?
How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDMAMMF?
What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT?
Has this been a good year or not? HDIFAT?
What kind of listener was I before our Retrouvaille weekend? HDMAMMF?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF after I have spent a sleepless night?
HDIF about your openness to me in our lovemaking?
What could I do to help your spiritual growth? HDIFAT?
How do I see my favorite song playing out in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to be right?
HDIF when I make you laugh?
HDIF when you are under pressure?
HDIF about jaywalking? When other people jaywalk?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt close to you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we dance together?
What is it that most unites us? HDIFAT?
Persons with strong values will eventually have strong conflicts. HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about doing _____, something I have always wanted to do but have not done?
What anniversaries do I celebrate? HDIFAT?
My favorite memory of Christmas is _____. HDIFAT?
What is renewed in me now that summer is finally here? HDIFAT?
How does my negative or positive self-image affect me being life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to work each day?
How do I feel when I reveal my thoughts and feelings to you on an issue, and you respond as I expected you to? Describe in loving detail.
What changes should I make to keep from being disillusioned with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the pain-killers that I use (alcohol, drugs, hobbies, TV)?
Would I feel better having great opportunity or great experience? HDIFAT?
Do I think our love makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
What effect does it have on us when my needs are met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when others are impatient or rude with me?
When I have a choice, do I mostly prefer to do things by myself? HDIFAT?
The priest or minister that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
Jesus will never give us a task that is too big to handle. HDIFAT?
What steps can we take to talk more about us?
What expectation(s) of mine was not met this last week? HDIFAMA?
My strongest emotion / feeling about you today was _____.
HDIF when I say no to you in sex?
HDIF when our loved ones refuse to do anything to improve their marriage?
What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? What can I do to help you through it? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we want to make love and cannot?
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