Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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HDIF about working out a budget and sticking to it?
Do I think I, in my vocation, and my love for my people makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I decide to love?
What are my dreams for our sexual relationship? HDIF telling you this?
We are blessed by the love of our families. HDIFAT?
What part do I play in our sexual communication! WAFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
What thing or activity would it be difficult for me to give up and why? HDIFAT?
What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAMA??
HDIF when someone makes unreasonable demands on me?
HDIF when you recognize my needs?
HDIF when someone tries to get my professional advice in a social setting?
What fear to I keep from you? HDIFAT?
What is a meaningful sacrifice for me to make that will enrich my spiritual life? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I avoid being intimate with you? HDIFAT?
How did I choose my confirmation name? HDIFAT?
What difficulties am I most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision with one of my people? HDIFAMA?
When there seems to be no hope, do I give up or keep on trying? HDIFAT?
Which pressure in me is most affecting my dream for us today? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to you? What can I do to listen better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are hurting me intentionally?
What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAMA??
How do I avoid fighting? HDIFAT?
What feeling haven't I shared with you this week because I thought you wouldn't accept me?HDIFAMA?"
HDIF when you are hungry for sex?
What pain do I keep to myself? HDIFAT?
If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent?
HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple?
Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about eternity?
This week, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT?
HDIF right now about my job or career?
What is the side of me that I least like you to see? Describe it. HDIF sharing this with you now?
What visions and hopes do I have for my people? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dying today?
HDIF when we argue about who is to be blamed?
How do I behave when I am treated unfairly? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
How do I feel when I judge the singing done by my people is praising God from the heart?
How well do I forgive you when you ask for it? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who are hypersensitive?
What would I say most represents a symbol of our loving relationship? HDIFAMA?
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we attend a funeral?
How can we strengthen our relationship with our parents? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
How can we plan for a memorable Easter? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
I tell a joke and no one laughs. HDIFAT?
You keep growing more beautiful each day. HDIFAT?
How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have wasted time?
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not met? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time I spend watching TV?
We need to have more fun in our lives. HDIFAT?
Do I use alcohol, caffeine, or nicotine? If so, for what? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about discussing religion with someone whose views differ from mine?
What phobias do you have? HDIFAT?
How am I like my father? HDIFAT?
What do I remember most about our first date? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that you love me?
The person, place, or thing I miss the most is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I see us living God's plan in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
After conflict, am I still feeling hurt? DYFID?
In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDIFAT?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
HDIF when stock market trends increase the value of our investments?
HDIF when your job separates us overnight?
HDIF when people are not as loyal to me as I am to them?
How can I tell when you are bored? HDIFAT?
How can we live a simpler and more fulfilling life? HDIFAT?
My greatest hurt in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how active I am in our children's schooling?
What expectations do I have of our family?
HDIF when a member of my family is ill?
What expectations do I have of my Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
How can I make myself a better treasure for God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people look me in the eye?
What do I most need from you right now? HDIFAT?
The most important priority to me right now is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF alone in Church?
Which holiday do I like best? HDIFAT?
What stake do we have in the marriages of other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I secretly do something good for someone?
What is my greatest fear about my death? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing routine tasks?
HDIF about having God in our relationship?
Is my life a having and a getting or a being and a becoming? HDIFAT?
What qualities attracted me to you when we were dating? HDIFAT?
How close do I come to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
What is there about me that I have most difficulty accepting? HDIFAT?
When do I feel the love of my people the strongest? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling _____ about our problems?
HDIF about my volunteer work?
When over the last week did I not accept your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What material things do I worry about most? HDIFAT?
What part does dialogue play in our hurting and healing? HDIFAT?
I need support from you in the following areas. HDIFTYT?
What probably not tonight signals do I use to say no to sex? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I see the other man / other woman?
How does my mask interfere with our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the phrase, Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our friends that we never get to see?
HDIF about the hopes I have for our children?
HDIF about going on living with you?
What adjustments did we have to make when we were first married? HDIFAT?
When I am more romantic than you, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you totally open to me in our lovemaking?
What is the most embarrassing thing I have ever said? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me?
What good effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making the decision to love you?
Your most endearing quality today is _____. HDIFAT?
What potentials have you helped me develop? HDMAMMF?
What do I most need from you tomorrow? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
What is my biggest barrier to forgiving one of my people when I feel hurt? HDIFAMA?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT?
What topic gives me the most difficulty in listening to you? HDIFAT?
How could our dialogue be better? HDIFAT?
How have we grown as a couple over the last year? HDIFAMA?
What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are faced with too many bills?
HDIF when you respond to my sexual advances?
In what areas or ways do I compete against you? HDIFAT?
In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT?
What do we have to offer the world together, that I do not offer alone? HDIFAT?
What are some of the barriers to my forgiving you? HDIFAT?
Was my parent's relationship a healthy or unhealthy model for us? HDIFAT?
What happens when we are able to reveal all of ourselves to each other? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt?
The most interesting thing you've taught me is... HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you kiss me at night?
HDIF when I am direct and honest, putting all my cards on the table?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
Why have we kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
What was my favorite nursery rhyme? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sitting in the front at church?
If I could go back in time with you, what period would I like to revisit? HDTMMF?
We are a sacrament. What does this mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying the scriptures with you?
What do I remember most about the way we spent our first anniversary? HDIFAT?
We have a stake in other people's marriages and they in ours. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am being impolite or rude to other people?
If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
What non-verbal expression, gesture or behavior helps me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a walk with you?
What mask do I wear in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF about holding hands in public?
How much do we touch each other now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
What are the negative effects my mask (personality style) has on me? HDIFAT?
What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
What is the biggest continuous source of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
What specific event in my past has most affected my sexuality? HDIFAT?
What was the center of my life today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we have been communicating this week?
HDIF when outside activities keep us from spending time with our family?
What are my hopes for our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about seeing you at the end of our day apart?
What am I capable of doing with the help of others that I cannot do by myself? HDIFAT?
Holidays are a time for family togetherness. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I experience your total forgiveness?
What goal would I like to achive in the next few months? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I've had a very stressful day? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What outfit do I like best on you? HDIFAT?
I have made a promise and cannot keep it. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my self-image?
What power do I hold over my people that may be a barrier to me growing closer to them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are not recognizing my needs?
Do I give more than I receive, or receive more than I give? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I keep a promise I made to you?
What are my visions and hopes for tomorrow? HDIFAT?
WAMF about our family vacation time?
HDIF when you touch me?
What beauty do I see in my people? HDIFAT?
Can we listen better to each other? HDIFAT?
What do I have responsibility for that I would like to give up? HDIFAT?
What have I given up for my calling that has helped me grow as a person? HDIF about this?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFAT?
What area is difficult for me to share my emotions / feelings about? HDIFAT?
What am I prepared to forgive? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a will?
What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT?
How am I living the World's Plan for my life? HDIFAT?
What new friendships have I formed? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's manners?
What do I like best about you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF about renewing myself this Lent?
How computer literate am I? HDIFAT?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there is no time in the day for us?
HDIF about escaping to a bookstore and having some fun?
When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT?
My favorite time with God is _____. HDIFAT?
What negative emotions / feelings do I experience most frequently? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you say no to me? Describe in loving detail.
How can our kisses be more meaningful? HDIFAT?
We can do no great things, only small things with great love. (Mother Teresa) HDIFAT?
HDIF when things go wrong at home?
HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time?
HDIF when I am confronted with, or think of, that which I fear most?
HDIF about where I am this year compared to last year at this time?
If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? How do I feel telling you this?
Jesus will never give us more conflict than we can manage. HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Do I criticize just to criticize, or with the intent of helping? HDIFAT?
In what ways can I become a better listener for you? HDIFAT?
How did you fulfill the longings in my heart when I first met you? HDIFAT?
Do I believe I am taking everything too personally? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people notice our closeness?
Since we began dialoguing, what growth have I seen in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the weather?
What does Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need a hug but do not or will not ask for one?
What is the luckiest thing that has ever happened to us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we reach out and are rejected?
What do I think is missing in our experience of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship?
How do I feel when someone drops in unexpectedly? DILD.
What kind of a sign do I think we have been to others this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend?
HDIF holding hands during church?
HDIF when other people talk positively about me?
When I am being open to you, I am also being open to God. HDIFAT?
In what way do I try to modify my behavior to please you? HDIFAT?
How do my childhood dreams of growing up compare to what I am now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are being too hard on yourself?
HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time?
HDIF when someone we know is really sick or dies?
HDIF when I watch funny movies?
HDIF about the level of our spending on Christmas gifts?
How do I feel about our current level of involvement with our families? Describe in loving detail.
How can I be more open to you and to your love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the checkbook does not balance?
HDIF when you apologize to me?
HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven?
How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you heal me in dialogue?
HDIF about learning to play a musical instrument?
In what ways do I feel I?m taken for granted? HDIFAMA?
What would I like to accomplish during this time of Lent? HDIFAT?
Do I take credit for other's work? Do I give credit where credit is due? HDIFAMA?
Do I pray for love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you when I am filled with romance?
What strengths do you bring to our sexuality? HDIF sharing this with you now?
What have I done to help our parish or church grow in unity? HDIFAT?
What is the healthiest trait of our family? HDIFAT?
What do I judge to be my greatest weakness? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDIFAT?
When I realize I have hurt you, what are my feelings?
If you are not free to risk, you cannot grow. HDIFAT?
Can I expose my innermost sexuality to you? HDIFAT?
Am I more likely to take things too lighty, or worry too much? HDIFAMA?
What do our parents think about our marriage? HDIFAT?
How well do I communicate with you? HDIFAT?
What would you do if you had a magic wand that could grant any wish? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about learning to accept you as you are?
What did you do today that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
Whom do I admire that is not so good an example? HDIFAT?
Which of us comes to decisions more quickly? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I find it most difficult to reach out to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you smile at me?
Is (Was) our family (parents, children, etc.) being short changed by our Retrouvaille involvement, or are we setting a loving example for them? HDIFAMA?
On average, how much alcohol do I drink in a month? HDIFAT?
How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT?
I smiled today when I thought about _____. HDIFAT?
What did I first long for immediately after we experienced the weekend? HDIFAT?
Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sing the Gloria?
How do I feel when my priorities and actions are inconsistent with each other? HDMAMMF?
What kind of seed am I? HDIFAT?
What does this holiday mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when activities take the place of our lovemaking?
When do I close my heart to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am able to go beyond my anger and reach out to you?
What joy did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
How does dealing with my past make me feel?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT?
What has been the most painful experience in our family this past week and HDIFAT?
How do our possessions affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF about introducing you as my husband or wife?
What do I procrastinate on the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I care about the same things you are happy about?
HDIF when I introduce you to people at work?
HDIF when our children misbehave in public?
What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT?
HDIF when walls build up between us?
Am I afraid of something that God would give me strength to overcome, if I prayed to Him about it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am short-changed at the store?
Is our bedroom free of clutter? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
HDIF about the financial situation of my parish or church?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharng this with you?
What kind of Christmas present did I give you? HDIFAT?
What other obstacles do I let get in the way of making a good decision? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get too many irons in the fire? HDIFAT?
Our sexual relationship is a mirror of our total relationship. HDIFAT?
What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I lived today?
HDIF when we play games with our children?
Would I rather read the paper or have conversation? HDIFAT?
What talent or quality do I most admire in you? HDIFAT?
Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail.
Recently, I thought it was selfish/thoughtless of me to say to you... HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when our children compete against each other?
When others misjudge me, I feel... DILD.
HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women?
Sometimes I forget to put you first. HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
Other than clothing, do I have things I consider to be only mine? HDIFAT?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT?
Do I believe it is important to be on time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the opportunity to be alone, to enjoy some solitude?
HDIF about our long-term financial situation?
When I want you to listen to me, do I also want you to agree with me? HDTMMF?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDTMMF?
Do I see death as an end to our love relationship? HDTMMF?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
What precedents have we set with family members? HDIFAT?
HDIF about writing thank-you notes?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
Our dog's barking is going to disturb the neighbors. HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing God's words, I will never forget you?
What routine activity do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
When I am at a party, HDIF about helping to get things going?
Is one of us overly dependent on the other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when plans do not work out?
How much sleep do I need? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family?
HDIF when we plan dinner?
How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a new baby?
Our children are tempted by alcohol, drugs, sexuality. HDIFAT?
What are the outward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch scary movies?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAMA?
Have we thought about getting together with our friends to pray? HDMAMMF?
What do I like best and least about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
What would I choose as the time and circumstances of my death? HDIFAT?
Why do I keep information from you? What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
If our house were on fire, what one object would I most want to save? HDIFAT?
What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our having some time alone, away from each other?
What is the most important topic for us to discuss today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you laugh at my jokes?
What expectation(s) of mine was not met this last week? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about Jesus' resurrection?
Do I believe you tell me you love me enough? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the time we spend with our family and the quality of that time?
How can we incorporate prayer into our daily life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you cry after watching a movie together?
HDIF making a surprise dessert for you?
When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT?
How do I see God's love reflected through you? HDIFAT?
Of the people I know, whom do I judge has the best sense of humor? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to respect authority and follow the rules?
What difficulties are we most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision? HDIFAT?
What does my conduct say about my convictions? HDIFAT?
As a child, I missed _____. HDIFAT?
My top priorities in life are _____. HDIFAT?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to confront someone about a problem?
How am I preparing myself for Christ's birth? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the once-a-year Catholics crowding the church on Christmas?
What gets in my way, preventing me from learning more about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going out to dinner together?
How has my love for my people changed since my taking vows/ordination, or weekend? HDIFAMA?
If I could relive any moment from our past, what would it be? HDIFAT?
If I were to die, what would I most want to be remembered for? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDIFAT?
What is my fondest memory of last year? HDIFAT?
What fear have I not shared with you lately? HDIFAT?
What can we do to economize this Christmas? HDIFAT?
Do I close my eyes to my people's faults? HDIFAT?
I am about as happy as I make up my mind to be. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you gently touch me?
How do I usually feel when I don't want to dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF reflecting on the Scriptures used at today's Mass?
What changes have I made during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
How has never having children affected our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about putting my life in God's hands?
The quality I love most about you is _____. HDIFAT?
Where we live is _____ to me. HDIFAT?
What part of the day do I usually like the best? HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when God allows you to suffer?
Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. HDIFAT?
What role does faith play in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear about the sins of priests or ministers in the news?
If I did not need money, what would I be doing today? HDIFAT?
Who am I a hero to? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am refusing to make up?
Our missionary role is always to invite other people on our journey. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need you to give me space?
Do I believe you when you reveal my goodness? HDMAMMF?
What compliment do I least like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
In the area of child raising what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll?
How do I think my people perceive me? HDIFAMAM?
What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone blames me?
Have any of my dreams come true? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing expectations with you?
My top priorities in life are... HDIFAMA?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAT?
What was a time during our dialogue that I felt that you were really listening to me?HDMAMMF?"
HDIF about our bedroom?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about you recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
What helps me get up and going in the morning? HDIF about this?
How has our dialogue affected our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I deny my mistakes?
My whole life should be a prayer to God. How well do I live this? HDIFAMA?
What would I change about the way I was raised? HDIFAT?
How would I like to be remembered? HDIFAT?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT?
What good effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have judged you unfairly?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How important is flexibility to me? HDIFAT?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when God allows me to suffer?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when my life is fast-paced, structured and intense?
HDIF about the time we spend with my family?
What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAT?
HDIF about starting a dialogue support group?
How would I feel if I gave a compliment to three people each day? HDIFAT?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of death? HDIFAT?
What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend?
What can I do tomorrow to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT?
How has our dialogue made you more important in my life? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building? Describe in loving detail.
We are the church 7 days a week, not only on Sunday. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know our lovemaking is about to begin?
How is our day when we are not sexually desirous? HDIFAT?
What do I think about when I cannot fall asleep? HDIFAT?
HDIF about watching a love story on TV or at the movies?
HDIF when you fall asleep in the recliner?
What need of mine is not being met? HDIFAT?
Our dialogue is a prayer to our Father. HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing Scripture Dialogue?
HDIF on those occasions when I think I am most in love with you?
HDIF after yelling at our children?
HDIF when someone is making fun of me?
What kind of things frustrate me? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you when we are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about our Christmas tree traditions?
How do I try to control you? HDIFAT?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
What do I want for you this weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF waving palms on Palm Sunday?
In the last week, what one thing you said to me, really helped make my day or week? HDIFAT?
Why do I stay married to you? HDIFAT?
How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people who keep their enthusiasm under control?
Do I accept my mistakes and learn from them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we hold hands in public?
What type of TV shows do I choose to watch? HDIFAT?
If I were an animal, what would I be? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I wipe away your tears?
I love you because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF enjoying the present versus anticipating what lies just ahead?
What do I want most from you? HDIFAT?
How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our local community, or lack thereof?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my neighbors? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to play a new sport?
HDIF about our combined strengths?
HDIF about reminding a friend to return something recently borrowed?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT?
Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
When do I most need my people's support? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hug me?
How do I tell you I would like to make love? HDIFAT?
What makes it hardest for you to live with me? HDIFAT?
What do I think our dialogue did for us as we experienced the weekend? During follow-up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am talking to you and you do not seem to be listening?
HDIF when I see an old boyfriend / girlfriend?
What song reminds me of our relationship right now? HDIFTYT?
When was the last time we had an ice cream social type of evening together? HDIFAT?
The thing I most fear losing is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT?
Is it easy or hard for me to forgive myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you help me back up to my feet?
When our calendar is empty, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What does Valentine's Day mean to me? HDIFAT?
Here is a little quote from _Illusions_ by Richard Bach, 'There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands.' HDIFATS?
If I could live my life over again, I would. . . HDIFAT?
Today I want to thank you for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you get on my nerves?
HDIF about surprising you with flowers?
What is most likely to result when I cry? HDIFAT?
Do I come as close as possible to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
Why did I marry you? HDIF sharing this with you now?
If Jesus asked, What have we done to build the Kingdom?
What is the nicest thing that happened to me this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my dialog? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we are inspired by another couples' relationship?
I would be more comfortable in our relationship if _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unmet expectations about our relationship?
HDIF when I see you struggle?
What would I do differently in my life if I had the chance? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our recent vacation?
HDIF when you sing me a love song?
HDIF about planning a weekly family outing?
What have I learned about myself through the challenges I have faced? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism from you? HDIFAT?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not do what I say I will do?
What can I do to improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
A time when I/we went the extra mile to help someone out was... How do I feel recalling this?
HDIF when you cry?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I suppose our children feel when they see we are in love? HDIFAT?
Today, where am I with myself and with us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest fear about our children's future? HDIFAT?
What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? What not so good things have come from it? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to make myself more sexy to you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I hold you as you cry yourself to sleep?
HDIF about the time we spend with your family?
HDIF when we do not answer the telephone?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our lifestyle?
Have any of our dreams come true? HDIFAT?
HDIF about tattoos?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel knowing that today could be my last day? Describe in loving detail.
What do I need most in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Do I think we spend enough time together, or is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAMA?
What do I see as your uniqueness? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings as we begin this week? HDIFTYT?
Do I consider myself gullible or skeptical? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
HDIF when you lose interest in your job, career or housework?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving. HDIFAT?
We had hopes for each other on our wedding day. HDIFAT?
Do I wish to deepen the experience of God in our relationship? If so, how? HDMAMMF?
What duties do I have? How well do I honor my duties? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it?
The issues I cannot discuss with you are _____. HDIFAT?
I looked forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am caught by off-guard?
What do I want our children to remember about Christmas in our home? HDIFAT?
What words did I use today that may have caused others hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try repeatedly to phone you and it is busy or there is no answer?
HDIF when I realize my dependence on you?
What can I do to make God a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the outside influences that are causing hurt between us?
What are my expectations concerning our lovemaking? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
How do I see our weaknesses as a couple? HDIFAT?
When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How can I reduce the level of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our marriage influences other people?
HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIF sharing this with you?
If I could fix one thing in the world, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our activities in the marriage program?
HDIF before and after making a decision?
In what ways do I punish myself because of past mistakes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not there when I need you?
When I finish a task, HDIF about relaxing before going on to the next task?
How do I feel about the way we spend our Holidays? Describe in loving detail.
What do I most want for our family this New Year? HDIFAT?
What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDIFAMA?
How often do I worry about what others say and do? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the role God played in my vows? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I see another couple holding hands?
What keeps us from dialogue? HDIFAT?
I judge I cry... (freely, rarely, easily, etc.) What is _most_ likely to result in me crying? HDIFAMA?
What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the current political atmosphere in my/our country? DILD.
HDIF when we try something different in our lovemaking?
Where in my relationship with God do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
If I were to lose you, what about you would I miss the most? HDIFAT?
I cannot compromise on _____. Can I have this and still have us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think we are not as romantic as other people?
HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive our children?
HDIF when I have to work in a group?
In general, do I give you more criticism or praise? HDIFAT?
Lately, do I fall asleep easily or do I have trouble falling asleep? HDIFAT?
What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I unexpectedly have a day off?
HDIF sharing a bag of popcorn and a movie?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about paying for work before it is completed?
When I consider the story of the prodigal son, I feel _____.
If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing each member of my household, what would I draw and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about using the feedback technique in our communication with each other?
How does our method of birth control affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How can I help you discover ways or options to satisfy your needs? HDIFAT?
What friend(s) of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
Would people be more likely to call me warm and sympathetic, or cold and aloof? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling others about Encounter / Retrouvaille?
What qualities do I look for in a friend? HDIFAT?
How can I most help you at this time? HDIFAT?
What foods do I like the best? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot go to a function our child wants me to attend?
Thinking about retirement, I feel... Describe in loving detail.
Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT?
HDIF about widening our circle of friends?
Do I believe we should share household tasks? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try something different in my prayer life?
When other people want to help me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What family values do we have in common with the Jewish people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I say to you, 'Please forgive me. I was wrong.' Describe in loving detail.
What gift have you given me in the past week that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
What are my plans for this new year? HDIFAT?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
What am I doing for my own religious education? HDIFAT?
When I mean thank you, I say or do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you spend money on me?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about and why? HDIFAT?
How does stress affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
What changes would I like to make in response to my failures? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when I am under stress? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about finances? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are not in a pattern of regular dialogue?
HDIF when I am annoyed by the phone?
HDIF when I am working and you are relaxing?
What fear do I think you keep from me? HDIFAT?
If I were on trial for being a Christian, would there be enough evidence to convict me? HDIFAT?
Our calendar is filled. HDIFAT?
I would really feel special if _____. HDIFAT?
Do I judge I have enough freedom? HDIFAMA?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be our last day to love?
HDIF when I am standing in a packed elevator?
HDIF when you stand by me, even when I am wrong?
What is the best practical joke that was pulled on me? HDIFAT?
In what ways could I refocus my priorities to better serve my family, friends, neighbors, and God? HDIFAMA?
In what ways do I feel weak? HDIFAT?
What romantic things do you do for me that I hope you never stop doing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
God often allows our hearts to be broken so that He can beautify our soul. HDIFAT?
HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?
Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintences? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about singing praise to God?
Sometimes failure makes me want to give up. HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to you when we talk about death? Do I truly listen to you, or do I just hear you? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to you in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about let go and let God?
Do I believe in my / our Sacrament when I am down? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we compromise on an issue?
Lately, have I accepted my peoples feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF recalling my first communion?
HDIF about our relationship with God?
What possessions are most important to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you call during the day just to say hello?
What would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
What do I least want to reveal to you today about myself? HDIFAT?
Were my Valentine's Day expectations met? HDIFAT?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDIFAT?
What I need most from you tonight is _____. HDIFAT?
What good do I see in our children? HDIFAT?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT?
Are we as close today as we used to be? HDIFAMA?
In what ways am I still ?wrapped in a cocoon?? HDIFAT?
What makes me feel most united or coupled? HDIFAT?
What part of your body is most sexually exciting to me? HDIFAT?
Would I be willing to get professional help if our marriage was in trouble? HDIFAT?
What makes it hard for me to grant forgiveness? HDIFAT?
Is my life pretty much the same from week to week? HDIFAT?
How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAT?
What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIF about this?
In what area(s) do I compete against you? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when our child is sick?
Where do I like to make love? HDIFAT?
How do we show our love for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the ways you show me that I am special?
HDIF when you light candles?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive more criticism than praise?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
What do I most need from my people today? HDIFAMA?
When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you are controlling and manipulative?
HDIF about using the media to proclaim the Good News?
HDIF when you do something special for me?
When have I felt the most loved ever? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the last time I celebrated mass / preformed service?
My top priorities in life should be _____. HDIFAT?
Recently, I thought it was selfish/thoughtless of me to say to one of my people... HDIF telling you this?
HDIF knowing that I cannot fill your needs for you?
HDIF when I think about us being apart for several days?
HDIF about spending the rest of my life with you?
HDIF about the unmet expectations I have regarding your family?
What is most likely to distract me when I am trying to listen to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about staying home with you?
What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT?
Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the love I bring to our family?
HDIF about the way our children are reacting to our values?
HDIF when you do not share your plans with me?
If I could do anything I wanted with you, what would we do? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the influence of my mother in my life?
What memories are painful for me to recall? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going on a weekly date?
What impact do our children have on our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF looking back at our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary?
I believe one of my people is being selfish when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not in synch?
What am I searching for in life and how does it affect us? HDIFAT?
What would our children say about our marriage? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when we plan a vacation?
What struggle did we face that helped prepare us for this day? HDIFAT?
What became of the good resolutions I have made in the past? HDIFAT?
What weeds are growing in my life? HDIFAT?
Do I always reveal my true emotions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do something good or kind for someone else?
The greatest gift a father can give to his children is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I offer you a piece of candy?
What have I invested in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT?
What can we do to promote peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a little dispute threatens a long friendship?
HDIF about yard work?
If I could go back and record any moment from our past so we could watch it from time to time, what would it be and why? How do I feel remembering this? How do I feel about it now?
HDIF when I make encouraging comments to you?
What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am proud to be with you?
HDIF when I try holding my temper?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our _____. HDIFAT?
How does our relationship with God affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What specifically can I do this week to create a little more romance? HDIFAT?
What hopes do I have for our children and what can we do to help them? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me?
HDIF about the fun, or lack of fun, in our relationship?
What is my fondest memory of our early days together? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIF sharing this with you?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?
My greatest joy in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not say anything about something I have done?
What are the three closest moments we have shared together? HDIFAT?
Considering what I ask of myself and what I ask of others: Is this a double standard? HDIFAT?
Do I see our sexual relationship as an expression of our total relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when we are with couples who are working on their marriages?
What makes our house a home?
HDIF when I listen patiently to your heartaches?
With our children, am I more likely to be strict or permissive? HDIFAT?
What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself? HDIFAT?
God has a job for us that only we can handle. HDIFAT?
HDIF about going shopping with you?
How was Easter special for us this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF hearing you say you love me?
I have difficulty sharing my emotions / feelings about _____. HDIFAT?
Is the atmosphere in our home life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am sleepy and you want to make love?
What was the last romantic thing I did for you? HDIFAT?
Can I ride a horse? HDIFAT?
What is one thing about my health that bothers me? HDIFAT?
HDIF during the candlelight reading or singing of the Exultet on the Easter vigil?
Long ago, I borrowed a book from a friend. HDIFAT?
What experience has most affected our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot relax at home?
HDIF telling you something I assume you do not want to hear?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an overflowing church on Easter Sunday?
Can I call you a friend as well as a lover? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our checking account is overdrawn?
Sometimes people tell me I cannot do what I want to do. HDIFAT?
How can we improve our spiritual life as a couple? HDIFAT?
What have I been holding back from you lately because I thought I was sure I knew what your reaction would be? HDIFAT?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my people's uniqueness? HDIFAT?
How could I make saying grace more meaningful? HDIFAT?
How accepting of others have I been this week? HDMAMMF?
The main reason I am afraid to commit to you is _____. HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of God? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have that I am afraid to rely on? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot seem to find a polite way to say no?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own emotions / feelings, not you?
How do I feel about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can attend a weekend? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel when my superior does not share their plans with me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I reveal my emotions / feelings, and you respond as expected?
HDIF when you touch me in that certain way?
What gifts or talents am I embarrassed to share? HDIFAT?
What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an abortion rally?
What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are holding me in your arms?
HDIF when I arrive late to a meeting and people turn around to look?
What goals would I like to archive in the next few months? HDIFAT?
HDIF about receiving gifts?
What expectations do I have as we enter a new month? HDIFAT?
If we had to relocate, how would I feel?
HDIF after I go to confession?
HDIF when I am with someone who does not speak English?
Realistically, what do I expect of our relationship in the future? HDIFAT?
When have I felt alone this spring? HDIFAT?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
How can I change things to give you more time? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get tipsy?
How do I feel when I/you have an accident? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I make you happy?
What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT?
When I am away from you, what am I most likely to do to keep from missing you? HDIFAT?
After we have had a fight, what is the most positive thing that comes out of it? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put away the laundry?
HDIF when I know I have upset someone in my family?
Do I find other women/men attractive? HDIFSTWY?
What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
In what way has God worked in my life today? HDMAMMF?" God/Theology"
Do I cheat on my taxes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hold me in your arms?
What Dialogue has meant the most to me? HDIF telling you this?
Whom do we share our joys with? HDIFAT?
I am the loneliest when _____. HDIFAT?
Could any of my actions today, either purposely or unintentionally, have hurt someone else? HDIFAT?
How has my love for my people changed since my taking vows / ordination? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that makes me love them? HDIFAT?
My greatest goal in life is... HDIFA my progress?
HDIF about my relationship with my family?
If I could get away with it, would I break the rules? HDIFAT?
What changes would I welcome in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Right to Life issues?
What am I afraid to say to you during our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am trying to be strong in the face of difficulty?
What do I like best about you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF?
What has our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille meant to me? HDIFAT?
What negative emotion / feeling do I experience the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not getting along well and are with friends?
What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge myself inadequate?
Is our car in a good state of repair? HDIFAT?
When have I not listened to you lately? HDIFAT?
What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT?
Here are the things I like most about you: _____. HDIFAT?
What can you do to help me understand you better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have to accept God's plan for us?
I really wish I had started _____ earlier in life. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we have to work together on a project? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we meet a couple who, like us, has experienced the weekend and follow-up?
What is broken in my life and in need of mending? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I admit that I am wrong?
HDIF when work makes demands of you that seem unfair?
I try harder to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our involvement in the church?
Death frightens me (or not). HDIFAT?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about having to make a decision immediately?
Describe a time when I felt concerned. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about family vacations?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
HDIF when I tell you your hair looks great?
Have I ever been betrayed by a friend? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I think I can do a job better than someone else can? HDIFAT?
How do I control or deny my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank my people for that I have not? HDIFAT?
What regrets do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my failures?
HDIF about the pain-killers that I use (alcohol, drugs, hobbies, TV)?
If I was about to die, and only had time to tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I see others suffering or struggling?
The couple that has most helped me/us to experience God's love for me/us is/was... HDIFAMA?
In an average week, what activities work to enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
What would be a good family vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a couple says yes, they want or need to experience the weekend?
HDIF when I hear profanity? When I use profanity?
What is the most effective way I can communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
How well do I really listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the expectations your family has of us?
HDIF about our experiences in the church?
HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family?
In what aspect of my relationship with my people have I grown the most? HDIFAT?
What is our favorite Christmas memory? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I brought Christ's love to the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the person, Jesus, and how does this affect us?
What do I do that annoys you? HDIFAT?
Here is my description of the ideal husband: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we invite a couple to experience the weekend and they accept?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish or church? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you when we are trying to get through a difficult situation or period? How do I feel sharing this with you?
When do I avoid you and why? HDIFAT?
If I could change one attribute of my personality, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT?
How well do I handle change? HDIFAT?
Is religion something we do or something we live? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for our marriage? HDIFAT?
The way to salvation is through Jesus. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know we're going to have sex?
What do I least want to talk with you about? HDIFAT?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIF sharing this with you now?
When I have a serious issue to discuss, what would help me the most? HDIFAT?
How often do we pray as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your saying no to me in sex?
HDIF when I awake on Christmas morning?
HDIF planning a romantic evening with you?
Am I more likely to admit my mistakes, or try to cover them up? HDIFAMA?
What have I done recently that I should ask you for forgiveness, but have not? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have that detract from my experience of today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone close to me dies?
How do I feel when my people say no to God? Describe in loving detail.
What is my greatest concern for each child? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if someone in the family knew how to perform CPR? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the holidays this year?
What makes me feel holy? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship routine? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people notice our togetherness?
What value do I see in changing the world? HDIFAT?
As our marriage grows, so does the Church. HDIFAT?
How do we handle anger in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Was I pushed to excel when I was young? HDIFAT?
What could I do to help you understand me better? HDIFAMA?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people see our togetherness?
HDIF today about all the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas?
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
How do I feel when I see others suffering? DILD.
What hopes do I have for my people's future? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make it easier for my people to trust me with themselves? HDIFAMA?
What do I hope to gain in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How can you help me realize my good qualities?
Our sexual intimacy is prayer. HDIFAT?
HDIF about gathering other people for prayer?
HDIF when I remember that all good things are gifts to us from God?
HDIF when you say, I am sorry?
How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I think about calling our relationship quits?
How does my need for security prevent me from giving all of me to you? HDIFAT?
How was your love life-giving to me today? HDIFAT?
What hopes do I have for the coming weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when friends invite us but do not come over in return?
HDIF about going out on a date together?
Do I look for self-worth in possessions or activities? HDIFAMA?
What would I like to do now, so I will not regret not doing it twenty years from now? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you bring me a surprise? Describe in loving detail.
Why have we been unable to work out all our problems? HDIFAT?
Is our home in a good state of repair? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the influence of my father in my life?
Do I behave as if I am afraid of intimacy? HDIFAT?
I forgot to buy you a card on this special occasion. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our marriage as a sign of love to others?
What was our closest moment, as a couple, this past week? HDIFTYT
What is my biggest defect in listening to you? HDIFAT?
What gets me out of the mood? HDIFAT?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am upset with you? HDIFAT?
How have we affected other couples' marriages? HDIFAT?
How would I rate our adaptability, yours to me and mine to you? HDIFAT?
God already knows my heart. HDIFAT?
When do I think that honesty is not the best policy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to be honest but am afraid of hurting you?
The neighborhood dog is ruining our bushes. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the romance in our relationship?
What defense mechanisms do I use when I fail to please you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming of Christ?
How do I feel about your/my/our involvement with work? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our relationship staying like this?
Have I ever been fired, or had to fire someone? HDIFAT?
HDIF about doing _____, something I have always wanted to do but have not done?
Here are two ways we are alike: _____ and _____. HDIFAT?
How much am I in control of our relationship? HDIFAT?
What difficulties are me most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision? HDIFAMA?
I am turned off by people who _____. HDIFAT?
Where do I go to be lifted up as a priest or minister?
HDIF about our spending habits?
HDIF about newborns in our family?
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