Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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What do I think other people see in us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What is there about me that I have most difficulty accepting? HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize you about _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone drops in unexpectedly?
What emotion / feeling did I have today that I want to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you help me laugh at myself? When I help you do the same?
Is there time enough for me in my busy day? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest challenge we face as a couple? HDIFAT?
I think our greatest strength as a couple is _____. HDIFAT?
How do I make decisions? HDIFAT?
We have the ability to forgive each other. HDIFAT?
We are blessed by the love of our families. HDIFAT?
What is the most sensitive part of my body? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to heaven with you?
How do I feel about being in our C.O.R.E. or Sharing group? Describe in loving detail.
What kind of example am I to the children around me? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations concerning our love making?Are they being met? HHDIFAMA?"
How often do I pray? HDIFAT?
Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I judge I let you / others down?
HDIF about visiting a nursing home?
Why am I afraid to tell you what pleases me? HDIFAT?
How important is spoken communication to our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we hear our song?
What are my hopes for our relationship? HDIFAT?
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I wipe away your tears?
HDIF when you sleep late?
When I do not know something, what am I most likely to do: pretend I do, ask, or ignore it? HDIFAT?
Is what I do useful? HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when... HDIF about my answer?
When did I feel closest to you last weekend? HDIFAT?
How can we use prayer to draw us closer together? HDIFAT?
What makes me cry? HDIFAT?
What gifts or talents am I embarrassed to share? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my failures?
HDIF when you are driving and I am a passenger?
HDIF about increasing our level of sexual intimacy?
HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to you?
HDIF about making big financial decisions without you?
HDIF about visiting a museum?
HDIF when you see me nude?
God trusts me to reveal the unique facet of Him that I possess. HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during mass or church?
When things change too fast, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when someone questions my faith?
Do I consider myself funny or serious? HDIFAT?
What illness do you fear most for yourself? HDIFAT?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not seek love and find it anyway?
HDIF when it has been a long time since we made love?
HDIF alone in Church?
Do I believe it is important to take a yearly family vacation? HDIFAT?
How do I define living? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about us marrying each other each day?
The song that I think represents our love the best is... Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about violence, weapons and the martial arts?
HDIF about the time I spend with my family?
HDIF whenever relatives visit?
What emotions / feelings about sex do I find most difficult to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I arrive late to a meeting and people turn around to look?
What do I think are your plans for this new year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I do knot know why I put up with you?
How important is our dialogue to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship today?
Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFTYT?
I must be true to _____. Can I be true to this and still be with you? HDIFAT?
What am I afraid of? HDIFAT?
How do I think we got together? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we are on a trip and have a breakdown or flat tire?
How did our relationship reflect God's love today? HDIFAT?
When have I been aware of our light shining for all? HDIFAT?
If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing my spouse, what would I draw? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the birth of one of our children?
HDIF when you get sick during the holidays?
What are my expectations for my people's participation in mass/service/etc.? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I do not listen?
HDIF about praying with our children?
HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it?
HDIF about you as my best friend?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
HDIF about the frequency of our dialogue?
When you feel threatened, I feel _____.
When do I most feel alone? HDIF at those times?
How do I feel when I want to spend time with you, but you do want to/are too busy/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we disagree in front of others?
What distracts me when I try to listen to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes?
What kind of person would I like to become? HDIFAT?
HDIF about exercising together?
How can I help you discover ways or options to satisfy your needs? HDIFAT?
When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway?
When do I most need your support? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you bring me a surprise? Describe in loving detail.
What do I like least about myself in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of healing that calls other people? HDIFAT?
I judge I cry... (freely, rarely, easily, etc.) What is _most_ likely to result in me crying? HDIFAMA?
How often do we invite people over? HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying to love you the way God loves us? HDIFAT?
In what aspect of my relationship with God have I grown the most? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my conscience? HDIFAT?
What miracle did I experience today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my boss?
When do I feel least recognized as a capable person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the last time we snuggled together?
How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about reaching out to other people today?
Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? HDIF Sharing this with you? Sex"
HDIF when we make time for us?
What makes me feel most united or coupled? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we fight fairly? When we fight unfairly?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
HDIF when I am the underdog?
I am lucky to be married to you. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I fail at something? Describe in loving detail.
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my neighbors? HDIFAT?
What is the most embarrassing situation I have been in? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift that is carelessly wrapped?
How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when our children challenge us?
HDIF just before I tell you something you will not like to hear?
HDIF taking time to get to know myself better?
Can I see God in our children? HDIFAT?
What favorite weapon do I use when I do not fight fair? HDIFAT?
What do I see in my people that I admire? HDIFAT?
How is our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
What do I value most in life? HDIFAT?
Our children want to play more. HDIFAT?
What is my dream for my priesthood or ministry? HDIFAT?
How can I make Thanksgiving more meaningful? HDIFAT?
What do I think about the statement, open to you, open to God? HDIFAT?
If I could fix one thing in the world, what would it be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the power of our prayer?
HDIF when I only half-forgive you?
HDIF when we ask a couple to an information night?
In the area of death, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What talent do I wish I had that I do not? HDIF telling you about this?
What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but have not been able to? HDIFAT?
What values of the church do I want to pass on to our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our materialistic lifestyle?
HDIF about one of our children being called to religion life?
In what ways do I behave like a child? HDIFAT?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIFAT?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with God, or Have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
What effect or lack of effect has our sexual desire had on us this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize I've done something thoughtless and hurt someone?
If our house were on fire, what one object would I most want to save? HDIFAT?
How is the gift of the Eucharist special in our lives? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening?
HDIF when the alarm goes off in the morning?
HDIF when you respond quickly to my requests?
How has Lent prepared us for Holy Week?
HDIF about how much money we give to our church or favorite charity?
What kind of person am I? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see an overflowing church on Easter Sunday?
What can we do to foster cooperative interaction in our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask for help?
Have I brought healing to you recently? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our _____. HDIFAT?
Do I prefer grand ideas, plans, and dreams, or more achievable ideas, plans, and dreams? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I choose sexual intercourse to meet my need to be loved? HDIFAT?
Do I consult with you when I am making plans? HDIFAT?
How are we different from other couples? HDIFAT?
What quality does Mary or Joseph have as a parent that I would like? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about crying? About other people when they cry?
HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us?
What do I expect from you? HDIFAT?
What one couple has challenged us the most this year? HDIFAT?
TESTING - THIS USED TO BE CATEGORY DEATH. What do I hope to gain in the area of death? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our involvement with our church / parish and the activities there? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you tell me, 'I need a hug'? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about spanking?
HDIF when our sacrament is a sign of love to others?
HDIF when you kiss me at night?
What do I see in God that makes me love Him? HDIFAMA?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
One of the happiest days of my life
HDIF about our children going back to school when fall comes?
HDIF when we have to work together to help others experience the weekend?
Do I ever use our dialog letter for something other than sharing my feelings with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF knowing we have experienced God through each other?
When do I feel unappreciated? HDIFAT?
How long have we known each other? HDIFAT?
What things are difficult to talk about as a family? HDIFAT?
How does my pride get in the way of my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I do not know?
Can I ride a horse? HDIFAT?
Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you to cheer you up?
How would I feel if I had to lie to protect someone I love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about lovemaking by candlelight?
We should give God the same place in our hearts that He holds in the universe.' -- Anonymous Where is God's place in my heart? HDIFAMA?
What family values do we have in common with the Jewish people? HDIFAT?
What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF?
What do I like least about you in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
When you are more romantic than me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone asks us, How is your dialogue?
HDIF after we dialogue?
HDIF when I make you laugh?
I see you as someone very special because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our possessions, taken as a whole?
Have we changed enough since our weekend, that others have noticed the difference, too? HDIFAMA?
What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
How do I see our lifestyle when we are retired? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about where I am this year compared to last year at this time? Describe in loving detail.
If I were a Christmas present, how would I be wrapped under the tree? HDIFAT?
Is there anything troubling me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about serving others in ways that will never be noticed?
Jesus will never give us a task that is too big to handle. HDIFAT?
How have our roles in our marriage changed? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living God's plan for us?
God sees me/us as very special because... HDIFAT?
What was our first year of marriage like? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I remember our wedding day?
HDIF about joining a dialogue support group?
What precedents have we set with family members? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a large monetary purchase?
HDIF when we are near, but cannot be with each other for several hours?
In groups, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have a chance to learn about art, culture and history?
HDIF when making things with my hands?
When you make me feel wanted, I feel _________.
HDIF when my plans for the day are disrupted?
How would I describe heaven? HDIFAT?
What is an attitude I had about sex entering marriage? HDIFAT?
The issues I cannot discuss with you are _____. HDIFAT?
How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Everything and everyone has its beauty, but not everyone sees it. Do I look for the beauty in others, or do I look at the surface? HDIFAMA?
What challenges did I face today in making you the center of my life? HDIFAT?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for help, you or God? HDIFAMA?
What of my emotions / feelings do I have the hardest time accepting? HDIFAT?
What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have written my dialogue letter but you have not?
How have I experienced love in our relationship? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to have the last word?
When I am hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____ . HDIFAT?
When meeting difficulties, am I more likely to alter them or to alter myself? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?
HDIF falling to sleep beside you? Waking up beside you?
What caused me to begin to share my feelings with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF re-reading what you wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF when friends invite us but do not come over in return?
HDIF when I do not like the dialogue question we are using?
HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results?
Our closest lovemaking expresses in miniature God's love for us. HDIFAT?
Is our life together a celebration of love? HDIFAT?
How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT?
My most unusual ability or talent is _____. HDIFAT?
What do we have planned this holiday season that I would rather not do? HDIFAT?
Do I believe romance is a sign of weakness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship?
Our children are the two of us in one flesh. HDIFAT?
What do I control that I should give up to help improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
What gift that I received from you today am I most thankful for? HDIFAT?
If I were to list my weaknesses, what would stand out to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch our children while you go shopping?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our Christmas tree traditions?
If I were to die, what would I most want to be remembered for? HDIFAT?
Do I give and get enough emotional support? HDMAMMF?
When did I feel closest to God and you in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my family?
What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAMA?
The greatest gift is love. HDIFAT?
Why am I most likely to tell you no when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
What did I enjoy most about last week? HDIFAT?
I love you today because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a source of inspiration to you?
What compliment do I most like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
Am I as close to my people as I was just after my Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I take a walk with you?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
With what age group do I feel least comfortable? HDIFAT?
What grudges do I hold regarding you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are with good friends?
When did I feel closest to God and my people in celebrating mass/conducting service/etc.? HGIFAMA?
I feel rejected most when... Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about my level of education?
HDIF about making a list of our important documents and where we keep them?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
What conditions do I put on my love for you? HDIFAT?
How much sleep do I need? HDIFAT?
How do I handle defeat? HDIFAT?
How do I want to spend our golden years? HDIFAT?
Our dialogue is a prayer to our Father. HDIFAT?
What risk am I willing to take to love you sexually the way you want to be loved? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I consider the amount of variety in my life?
In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? What are my feelings about that?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned? HDIFAT?
In thinking about our current financial situation, what is my strongest emotion / feeling? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you have had a bad day?
Are the activities our child(ren) involved in an ideal for me or a value? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT?
How do our children's activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we end our day together?
HDIF when I am trying to describe an emotion / feeling of mine to you?
HDIF about our communication techniques?
If I could change one and only one thing about the world, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about going on a weekly date?
In the area of prayer what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? DILD.
Is my life pretty much the same from week to week? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that I cannot fill your needs for you?
HDIF about giving to a worthy cause?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What perfume or cologne do you wear most often? HDIFAT?
In an important conversation, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my experiences in the church?
How and why did you get back to dialogue? HDIFAT?
The Bible character you remind me most of is _____. HDIFAT?
When I?m lonely, I think of _________ . HDMAMMF?
If I could, what good time would I choose to relive with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am singing in the shower?
As a child, what is the worst thing your parents made you do? HDIFAT?
What quality of Jesus did I see in our priest / pastor today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our differences?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about the little things you do for me?
HDIF about our eye contact with each other when we are talking?
HDIF when I am asked to cut back or do without?
HDIF when things do not go according to plan? HDIFAT?
If our house burned down, could we dialogue on God's love the next day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize you are not coping effectively with stress?
Is it more important for me to be liked or to be right? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am experiencing disillusionment about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about picking up after our children?
Is lovemaking a value for us or merely an ideal? HDIFAT?
If I could give you one thing for Christmas, it would be _____. HDIFAT?
How do I like to pray? HDIFAT?
Where do I feel most alone in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your openness to me in our lovemaking?
What are my hopes for this Lenten season? HDIFAT?
HDIF when there is no time in the day for us?
How have we been judgmental of our people? HDIFAT?
Do we have things I consider to be only mine? (clothing doesn't count) HDTMMF?
Is our sexual union a joining of our hearts, minds, bodies and spirits? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making each day Valentine's Day, at least for a while?
Whom do I need to forgive? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about all the Holiday bustle? Describe in loving detail.
What hobbies of mine get in the way of my spirituality? HDIFAT?
Would I rather be a failure at something I love or a success at something I hate? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to apologize even when I do not think I did anything wrong?
How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT?
What would I do differently today if I knew I wouldn't have you tomorrow? HDMAMMF?
How well do I think I listen to you? What can I do to listen better? HDIFAT and sharing this with you?
What role do friends play in our marriage? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from you tomorrow? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I crave to be appreciated? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about being a sign of God's Love to our children or to other children? HDTMMF?
What qualities do I look for in a friend? HDIFAMA?
What changes do I have to do to make you number one? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say good things about you to other people?
HDIF about receiving gifts?
What do I think about the difficulties of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
Where or when did I last know real happiness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you heal me?
What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try holding my temper?
What one thing has most united us this past week? HDIFAT?
Whom do I admire that is not so good an example? HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
When do I feel close to God? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I gave a compliment to three people each day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
How do I feel about the way my ministry influences those around me? Describe in loving detail.
Can I see Christ in all people? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear about the sins of priests or ministers in the news?
What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAMA?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a series of little things goes wrong?
HDIF about giving and receiving the sign of peace?
HDIF when you undress in front of me?
HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, If you really loved me, you would do this?
What is my best quality? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the anniversary of Roe versus Wade?
What have I been holding back from you lately because I thought I was sure I knew what your reaction would be? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fact that other people are reaching out to us?
HDIF when we are asked to help the Encounter / Retrouvaille movement?
HDIF when you come home from work?
Is there anything I am doing by myself that I could involve you in? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone close to me dies?
When recently have I put your needs ahead of mine? HDTMMF?
What do I like best about you in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT?
HDIF after I have forgiven one of my people?
Is there anything I did this week that I regret? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear there is a big storm coming and you are not home?
What is the most difficult situation facing us as a couple right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the fine print in legal documents?
Eucharist is a family reunion. HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have that I am afraid to rely on? HDIFAT?
The couple that has most helped me to experience God's love is (or was) _____. HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
What are the three closest moments we have shared together? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten too much. HDIFAT?
HDIF about reminding a friend to return something borrowed long ago?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to dump on me?
Whom have I ministered to lately? Was I lifted up by their gratitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are slow dancing?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
How do we feed the hungry of the world? HDIFAT?
Is there anything you are doing by yourself that I would like to be involved in? HDIFAT?
How are you like your mother? HDIFAT?
Pick a current problem. What expectation of mine was unmet? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if I were there when Christ was crucified? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about having a long holiday weekend?
How do I see God acting in our lives? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I do not know something? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am unable to control my temper?
Where do I most take you for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my relationship with our children?
What are a few things I like to do with our family and HDIFAT?
What strengths do we have to offer each other as a couple? HDIFAT?
When I do not approve of the way a friend is acting, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing you did for me this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF on a date with you?
Do I make other things more important than you? What? HDIFAMA?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our church's rituals?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
What possession is most likely to bring us into disillusionment? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having to make a decision immediately?
Do my selfish desires create obstacle in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
How would I feel about changing places with one of my people for a day if I could?
HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings?
Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT?
When someone expresses tender emotions to me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
Do I use alcohol, caffeine, or nicotine? If so, for what? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about our relationship today compared to before our weekend? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I know you are proud of me?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, am I experiencing you differently? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I believe in myself? HDIFAT?
Do I admit when I am wrong? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem bored?
How do I respond to overtures of friendhsip from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAMA?
Is our love for each other greater today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
How would I like to celebrate Thanksgiving? HDIFAT?
What do I value least about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see God's hand in mine?
HDIF when you put the children ahead of us?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our lifestyle?
HDIF when we look back at what we have done for Encounter / Retrouvaille?
What romantic memories do I have from our dating days? HDIFAT?
If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I have been living?
What do I want to do together as a family this summer? HDIFAT?
When time is short, do I handle the situation well, or do I tend to go into panic mode? HDIFAMA?
I have discovered I am very dependent on you in these areas: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I keep a promise I made to you?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your job or career?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDMAMMF?
What expectations do I have as we enter a new month? HDIFAT?
What little kindness could I do tomorrow to spread love around? HDIFAT?
What characteristic of yours do I find irritating? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for tomorrow? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing Jesus loves me unconditionally?
Why do I stay married to you? HDIFAT?
What fear have I not shared with you lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF writing a dialogue letter to you?
My favorite weather is _____. HDIFAT?
What song would I dedicate to you today? HDIFAT?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAMA?
In the last week, what one thing you said to me, really helped make my day or week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our marriage influencing other people around us?
If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDIFAT?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about your carrying an organ donor card?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt your feelings?
A time when I/we went the extra mile to help someone out was... How do I feel recalling this?
HDIF when the boss reprimands me?
What is the one thing I like most about our Dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you try to mold me into someone else?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about going out to dinner together?
HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year?
Describe a time when I felt bored. HDIFAT?
How have our children experienced our love this week? HDIF sharing this with you?
How do I think people perceive me? HDIFAT?
What value do I see in changing the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you believe me instead of the rumors?
What is my favorite love song? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do for the sake of our relationship, to make it better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
HDIF when I call you up just to say ?Hi??
How do/would I feel if someone unexpectedly gave me a hug after a hard day? Describe in loving detail.
How much charity work do I do? HDIFAT?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAT?
What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of my grandparents? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are swamped with responsibility?
What activities strengthen our relationship with God and Church? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
What aspect of our lovemaking do I enjoy the most? HDIF sharing this with you?
Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT?
Is there anything about your job that I avoid discussing with you? HDIFAT?
What can we do to keep our marriage alive and growing? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
What need of mine am I most aware of as needing to be nourished? HDIFAT?
Our Sacrament calls us to a good marriage, not just an average one. HDIFAT?
In what way am I trying love my people the way God loves me? HDIFAMA?
In what aspect of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFA this?
HDIF realizing that my attitudes and judgments have caused us pain?
I am most likely to use sarcasm when _____. HDIFAT?
Would God be upset if I made you number 1? HDIFAT?
Recently, I thought it was selfish/thoughtless of me to say to one of my people... HDIF telling you this?
HDIF about our spending habits?
HDIF when I am able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking?
What area do I least want to talk to my people about? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about mid-life changes in a marriage?
HDIF about discussing religion with someone whose views differ from mine?
What sacrifices do I have to make to have you number one? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you believe the rumors instead of me?
We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our spending on gifts?
How have I changed in ways that you are unaware of? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
What kind of an example am I when I fail? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I told you so?
HDIF about the level of lust in our marriage?
Can I talk easily to people for as long as necessary? HDIFAT?
When did we last experience healing in our marriage? What made it possible? HDIFAT?
In what area(s) do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about spending time with your family?
HDIF about the prospect of beginning and extremely tough and demanding task?
HDIF while we are making love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to play a musical instrument?
The pantry is in need of food. HDIFAT?
How does dealing with your past make me feel?
HDIF when you surprise me with flowers?
How do I feel about spending the rest of my life with you?
HDIF when I have to deal with my past?
HDIF hearing God's words, I will never forget you?
HDIF when we leave our children for a few days?
What expectations do I have of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me to describe my emotion / feeling?
HDIF when I am holding you close to me?
How can I tell when you are listening? HDIFAT?
One of my heroes is... Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How is our day when we are not sexually desirous? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family celebrations?
What can we do to enrich our relationship with each other this Lent? HDIFAT?
When do we put up the Christmas decorations? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
How has dialogue made you more important in my life?
What gift have you given me in the past year that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
Is our openness about our masculinity / femininity reflected in our children? HDIFAT?
After I have had an argument with one of my people or my superior, what is the most positive that that comes out of it? HDIFAMA?
It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving.' -R. Braunstein HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to take a risk with someone other than you?
What do I like best about myself in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the coming end of the year and New Year?
Mary is the mother of our Lord. HDIFAT?
HDIF when our family trust level has been broken?
How do I feel when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the way I want to celebrate Valentine's Day?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sleeping in the nude?
What are my attitudes about sex in general? HDIFAT?
HDIF when dealing with your past?
HDIF when I am traveling to new places?
How does the image I try to project affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I usually deal with conflict in my relationships? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to help me understand God better? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT?
How do you respond to your failures? HDIFAT?
God already knows my heart. HDIFAT?
HDIF about us being a spiritual couple?
HDIF about going shopping with our children?
HDIF when I fix you a cup of coffee?
Describe a time when I felt anxious. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are apart for several days?
HDIF about the variety of our lovemaking?
HDIF about my job?
To what extent do I feel responsible for our children's learning? HDIFAT?
What conditions do I put on my love for my people? HDIFAT?
How does TV affect our lives? HDIFAT?
Jesus ascended into heaven. HDIFAT?
Long ago, I borrowed a book from a friend. HDIFAT?
Have I affirmed my love for you today? HDIFAT?
What would you do if you had a magic wand that could grant any wish? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when things go wrong at home?
What happens when I get mad? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite time of year, and why? HDTMMF?
HDIF about our friends who abuse drugs or alcohol?
I am one of God's gifts to you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hold the door open for you?
HDIF on those occasions when your family makes demands on us?
How do I feel about the role the Bishop played in taking my vows? Emotions"
What is my favorite Christmas tradition? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I listen patiently to your heartaches?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? HDIFAT?
Besides our bed, where would I most like to make love to you? HDIFAMA?
What are my hopes and dreams for my prayer life? HDIFAT?
How would I feel going to a school football game and sitting near the band? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the way our marriage/my ministry influences those around us? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear?
HDIF about your emotions / feelings last night?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT?
Holidays are a time for family togetherness. HDIFAT?
I experience rejection most when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF if you are out when I get home?
HDIF when we pray together as a family at mealtime?
What one thing this week did we do as a couple to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we spend an evening alone together?
HDIF when you get upset?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for self-worth? HDIFAT?
When lately did I judge my feeling(s) was one(s) I should not have? Why? Describe the feeling in loving detail.
What areas of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am able to tell you what pleases me?
What do I see as my people's uniqueness? HDIFAT?
We tend to compete against each other in _____. HDIFAT?
Sometimes failure makes me want to try harder. HDIFAT?
Where would I like to be next year at this time? HDIFAMA?
What parts of my life do I think I control? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing a dialogue letter with other dialoguing couples?
HDIF about you when I am filled with romance?
HDIF when I ask for your forgiveness?
Is marriage a covenant or a contract? HDIFAT?
How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT?
What miracle, small or large, did I experience today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment?
HDIF when I know we are going to have sex?
What do I want most for our family this Christmas? HDIFAT?
How am I living God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the freshness in our marriage?
On average, how many packs of cigarettes do I smoke a month? HDIFAT?
What holds us together as a couple? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy about our relationship right now? HDMAMMF?
I know I would never find another you. HDIFAT?
What are my thoughts about us being unique as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I attend a live musical performance?
HDIF when you see an old boyfriend / girlfriend?
HDIF sharing a bag of popcorn and a movie?
HDIF when I hear you say something complimentary about me?
How do I feel about marrying you every day? Describe in loving detail.
In our inter-faith marriage, do we celebrate aspects of both faiths in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you become violently angry with me?
In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth?
Are there any hurts between us that need to be healed of before our relationship can continue to grow? HDIFAMA?
As an adult, am I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAMA?
What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
What does our relationship need, the most? HDIFTYT?
What keeps me from being content? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are under pressure?
What would be my heart's desire right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see the first snow of the season?
HDIF about living our sacrament and what does this entail?
Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I think of one of our children dying?
HDIF about how much money we give to our parish or church?
HDIF when the weather forecast is wrong?
My greatest hurt in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
Would the world be a different place if I were not here? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we discuss finances?
Is it important for us to have a romantic bedroom? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations concerning our lovemaking? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you bring me a present?
Whom do I most want to be like and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you can experience some of what I am feeling inside?
Is sex good or bad? HDIFAT?
Would people say I am thick-skinned? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sex in the morning?
What have I done to show Christ my love for Him? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself a good joke teller? HDIFAT?
HDIF about encouraging our children to participate in sports?
HDIF when we miss mass or church?
HDIF in realizing our sexual union is God's command?
HDIF about starting a dialogue support group?
HDIF about our children leaving home and going out into the world to make their own choices?
Do I think I spend enough time with my people or is the time I spend with them quality time? HDIFAMA?
Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT?
When we first met, what I liked most about you was _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I say no to your request for lovemaking?
HDIF when our family goes to mass or church together?
We need medicine and the checkbook is low. HDIFAT?
Do I ever use my dialog letter for something other than expressing my feelings? HDIFAMA?
What is my gift to God today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no?
HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?
HDIF driving home from a meeting of our follow-up or support group?
HDIF about the peer pressures our children are under?
What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to you? HDTMMF?
When I disagree with something said, would I rather take issue or let it go? HDIFAT?
What am I most thankful for on this holiday? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted people's emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
Is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAT?
How do I see us living God's plan in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to God? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA(s)?
HDIF when I stay within my limits, undertaking only as much as I can handle?
HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when we try something different in our lovemaking? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you accept me but I cannot accept myself?
When was the last time I told you how special you are? HDIFAMA?
How can we inspire other people to dialogue? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
HDIF about the way you behave around other men / women?
You are the sunshine of my life. HDIFAT?
It was not raining when Noah built the ark. HDIFAT?
HDIF about how well I show my love for you?
What behavior of yours most lets me experience myself as a man / woman? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are striving to be open and honest with each other?
How do I feel when I would like to say no, but don't think I can? Describe in loving detail.
When was I lonely without you this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am talked into something I do not want to do?
What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
You keep growing more beautiful each day. HDIFAT?
HDIF re-reading what I wrote as we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF when I do something that causes one of people to feel happy?
HDIF when I put things off until the last minute?
Jesus will never give us more conflict than we can manage. HDIFAT?
Do I have a role to fulfill in couples relationships? HDIFAMA?
How am I playful with you? HDIFAT?
What are the major sources of stress in my life? HDIFAT?
What do my people do that tells me they forgive me? HDIFAT?
Have we been open in our daily dialogue? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when one of our children excels and the others do not?
HDIF when you reach out to touch me?
How can I be more intimate with you? HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank God for that I have not? HDIFAT?
Thinking about retirement, I feel... Describe in loving detail.
We need to have more fun in our lives. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you lost your patience with me?
What feelings do I have about selecting dialogue questions that appear difficult? HDIFA sharing this with you?
What expectations do I have of our children? HDIFAT?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
How can we continue to make our love visible in the church? HDIFAT?
Who or what am I guided by? HDIFAT?
What new friendships have I formed? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift?
In what way has God worked in my life today? HDMAMMF?" God/Theology"
Describe a time when I felt angry.
Which of us usually makes the decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying together?
How do I deal with conflict in my life? HDIFAT?
What do I do that I think helps bring us closer together? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about winter weather?
What emotions / feelings do I find most difficult to accept in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF realizing that you have given me the gift of being a father / mother?
If I could be anyone from history, who would I be _____? HDIFAT?
What is it about our charism of parenthood that calls other people? HDIFAT?
It is suppertime and I have eaten more than I should. HDIFAT?
What is it about our sexual relationship that I find most enjoyable? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize that God has spoken to me through you? Describe in loving detail.
What area(s) of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAMA?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT?
We are a sacrament. What does this mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are in each other's arms after we make love?
HDIF when we are not together as a family?
HDIF about our savings and retirement plans?
In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave?
HDIF when I see our children laugh?
How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we do something for someone as a couple?
How am I like my mother? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the role the pastor/priest/rabbi played in our wedding? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you really listen to me?
What does Valentine's day mean to me? HDIF sharing this with you?
When was a time we received support during our difficult times? HDIFAT?
What teachers of mine would I like to honor? HDIFAT?
What would it be like for me if you died first? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner?
How did your spouse propose? HDIFAT?
What sexual baggage am I dealing with? HDIFAT?
How do I feel hearing about the power of our prayer? DILD.
Which of the beatitudes do I find it easiest and which hardest to live? HDIFAT?
Right now, what need of mine (Love, Belonging, Self-worth, or Autonomy) is in most need of nourishment? HDIFAMA?
Jesus asks, How are you living your life for me?
HDIF when you come up behind and hug me?
Is there anything I need to share with my people but have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let _____ borrow my stuff?
Do I still judge you and try to change your feelings in touchy areas? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I have let you down?
What do I hope to gain in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
When our dialogue is stale and flat, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about Lent?
What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFA This?
HDIF about switching to low fat milk? Using less salt? Eating less red meat?
What is renewed in me now that summer is finally here? HDIFAT?
How much do our marriage vows mean to me now? HDIFAT?
What have I enjoyed most in the challenge to dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone else gets the parking place I am waiting for?
HDIF about how we share our possessions with others?
HDIF when I watch the sunset with you?
What keeps us from dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make you happy?
Was I pushed to excel when I was young? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our family?
What do I think is fun for you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the level of respect between us?
What does community mean to me? HDIFAT?
He is Risen! How does this make me feel?
As a child, I missed _____. HDIFAT?
What good habit can I use to overcome a bad habit of mine? HDIFAT?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop hiding my emotions? HDIFAMA???
What is most likely to distract me when I am trying to listen to my people? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?
How do I react to the emergencies that come up in my daily life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, That was stupid?
Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Jesus said, If you believe in me, you will never die. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I listen to my inner self instead of listening to other people?
I judge I failed as/at... HDIFAMA?
Does my attitude toward sex lock some doors in our relationship? HDTMMF?
HDIF when I consider what I had to give up to be successful?
How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do? Describe in loving detail.
What would it be like for you if I died first? HDIFAT?
HDIF about life's unpredictability?
What are my thoughts when I hear, ?God does not make junk??
HDIF when there is silence between us?
What is the area I least want to discuss with you? HDIFAT?
Do my personal goals conflict with the goals God has for me? HDIFAMA?
Recently, when have I felt the most alone? Describe in loving detail.
The areas where I have seen the most growth in you are _____. HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am on a diet?
When was the last time I cried? HDIFAT?
What gift have you given me in the last week, two weeks, month, etc., that I have really appreciated? How do I feel sharing this with you? (The gift can be a kind word at the right time, a hug when it was needed, a phone call, etc. It shouldn't be a material item.)
I believe I have failed at _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our growth (or lack of growth) in the area of sex?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I be more gentle with myself?HDMAMMF?"
HDIF when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do?
How much am I in control of our relationship? HDIFAT?
I enjoy hearing my people talk about _____. HDIFAT?
Our lifestyle is a reflection of our values. HDIFAT?
Do I believe it is important to be on time? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT?
What happens to us when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your feelings and how does this generally cause me to act? HDMAMMF?
What is the most delicate topic for me to try to bring up? HDIFAT?
HDIF this week living in the modern world?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
HDIF about my eventual death?
Sometimes I want to escape and be by myself. HDIFAT?
When I close myself to you, I close a channel of God's grace. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it?
How are you like your father? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do now, so I will not regret not doing it twenty years from now? HDIFAT?
My ideal lovemaking would be _____. HDIFAT?
Do I consider my people's feelings when making decisions that affect them? HDIFAMA?
How did it happen that we first met? HDIFAT?
How well do I really listen to my people? HDIFAT?
What can we do to enrich our prayer life this Lent? HDIFAT?
What leads us to difficulties in our decision-making? HDIFAT?
HDIF serving you breakfast in bed?
What example do I imitate that is a not so good an example? HDIFAT?
What is my idea of heaven? HDIFAT?
How does my / your traveling affects our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make you laugh?
HDIF when we put activities before our relationship?
HDIF about sharing emotions / feelings? Do I think it is risky?
HDIF when you say, What can I do to help?
What have I dreamed of doing for a long time? HDIFAT?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I was wrong?
HDIF about sharing the chores?
HDIF when I need to trust someone who may take advantage of me?
HDIF about my job or career?
HDIF when you are hungry for sex?
How can I tell that God loves us? HDIFAT?
What are my family's expectations of us? HDIFAT?
How do the attitudes and behaviors of others affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my friends? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see others suffering? DILD.
HDIF about deadlines in general?
How do I feel when we have a large number of people over? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I have to depend on you when I am ill?
What part of the day would I most like to share with you? HDIFAT?
Would I treat God as I treated you today? HDIFAT?
What was my favorite date with you? HDIFAT?
What is one of the greatest moments of my ministry or priesthood? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our level of indebtedness?
HDIF when I have the urge to call you during the day, but do not?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that you love me?
What guideline for fighting do I find most difficult to practice? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you are too tired to respond to me?
HDIF about your smile?
If I was about to die, and only had time to tell my poeple one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAMA?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What does maturity mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we plan dinner?
HDIF about when I balance the checkbook?
What is our couple image? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to get some point across to me?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What are my feelings when I receive my partner's personal reflection and dialogue? HDMAMMF?
Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do for God with the time He has given me? HDIFAT?
God wants to count me among His saints. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
When was the last time I really made you laugh? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children's grades?
Where am I when things are demanded of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when talk about our favorite memories?
HDIF about donations to charity?
In what area do I trust my people the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust my people, just the least) HDIFAMA?"
I hate people who _____. HDIFAT?
How would I feel working under someone who is always kind but not so fair? HDIFAT?
HDIF about funerals?
What chess piece do you remind me of? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we heal each other in dialogue?
God gave you to me. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT?
How have I experienced God's love through the people He has placed in my life's journey? HDTMMF?
If we could go anywhere for a romantic weekend, I would take you to _____. HDIFAT?
What defense mechanisms do I use when I fail to please you? HDIFAT?
Do I ague with you to win, or do I argue to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When we leave each other, do we make the effort to part with loving words in case we do not see each other again? HDIFAT?
What needs to change for me to give an unqualified yes to our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I punish myself because of past mistakes? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our friends who cohabit?
What is my strongest emotion / feeling about money? HDIFAT?
Is sex pretty much all or nothing for me? HDIFAT?
What has been the greatest area of growth in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing I am not promised a tomorrow?
What talents do we have as a couple? HDIFAMA?
How can we make God more present in our talk? HDIFAT?
What does the Fourth of July mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Christmas tradition?
HDIF about your hurried schedule?
You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT?
Is my attitude positive or negative? HDIFAT?
I think you are beautiful from within because _____. HDIFAT?
What nervous habits do I have? HDIFAT?
Is our diet life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think of all those who helped us get our marriage back on track?
In what area would I most like to reach out to my people? Why? (or Why haven't I before?) HDIFAMA?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAMA?
HDIF in my bathing suit?
How would I feel if one of my family decided to become a priest/minister/rabbi/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
How do we affect the marriages of others around us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider the latest trends and fashions?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF being with friends we knew before Encounter / Retrouvaille?
HDIF when our children talk back to me?
HDIF when I send you a surprise greeting card?
Our parents are growing older. HDIFAT?
What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? What good things have come from it? HDIFAMA?
Our neighbor lives alone. HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship as open as our dialogue? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I make love but do not ask in a clear way?
How well do I accept responsibility when it is put upon me? HDIFAT?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFTYT?
Does TV have a negative or positive effect on my life? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus Lord of our future? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about giving my time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
How are my parents still influencing my life? HDIFAT?
In what specific areas of sexuality am I reluctant to open up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a surprise?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
When I am pressured by my people, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
Before answering the question, meditate on John 9. --- I, too, like the man in John 9, was born so that the works of God could be made manifest in me. How are the works of God made manifest in me? HDIFAT?
Who among my friends will walk with me in both good times and hard times? HDIFAT?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going on living with you?
Where on my list of priorities did I place our dialogue today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I experience growth in our sexual relationship?
How have I changed recently? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having to delay a decision until the last minute?
HDIF toward you when we have to make a decision together?
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAT?
Where do I go to be lifted up as a priest or minister?
When I am pressured by time, How do I respond to you? HDIFAT?
What makes you cry? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we use our financial resources?
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