Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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How do I define love? HDIFAT?
If Jesus came back tomorrow, would I be ready? HDIFAT?
How do I feel attending church together? HDIFTYT?
HDIF taking a walk with you on a beautiful spring day?
What part of the Passion is most significant to me? HDIFAT?
In what aspect of our relationship do I think we have grown the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family?
Is our diet life-giving? HDIFAT?
What do I think about the difficulties of our dialogue? HDIFAT?
How does my attitude toward my mother affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ask for your forgiveness?
HDIF when I judge myself unlovable?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing each member of my household, what would I draw and why? HDIFAMA?
If I had known then what I know now about raising children, I would have _____. HDIFAT?
The one area which needs the most work in our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about making love in the morning?
How do I feel about the honesty and openness of our dialogue? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF being around people who have a compulsive need to please other people?
What does listening mean to me? HDIFAT?
How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT?
HDIF about yelling?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
Is it harder for me to adapt to a routine or to constant change? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about myself in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am separated from my people?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT?
What specifically could I do to break down the barriers between us? HDIFAT?
Who controls the bed in the house? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I deny my mistakes?
Is our sexual relationship life-giving? HDIFAT?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
What helps me confess my weaknesses to you? HDIFAT?
How easy is it for me to trust others? HDIFAT?
Were my Valentine's Day expectations met? HDIFAT?
What friend have I known the longest? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who demand and expect perfection?
What would I like to do in the next month if I knew I had only one month to live? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about shopping in general?
How can I be more aware of the unique goodness and worth of my spouse?HDMAMMF?"
HDIF about spending a romantic evening alone with you?
My ideal lovemaking would be... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about eating leftover food?
Do I usually initiate our love making, or do I wait for you? HDIFAMA?
In what ways do I feel weak? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of our courtship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about paying a therapist for advice?
When was the last time I cried? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of someone who has died? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reach out to touch you?
HDIF when you leave things up to me?
In what ways can I deepen our spirituality? HDIFAT?
How can our kisses be more meaningful? HDIFAT?
In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? How do I think that has make you feel?
HDIF about my office dress code?
What do I like best and least about our family vacations? HDIFAT?
HDIF about working weekends?
How would our neighbors describe our marriage? HDIFAT?
Which holiday do I like best? HDIFAT?
HDIF about observing Lent?
What is our special character as a family? HDIFAT?
In what area do I need to risk sharing more with my people? HDIFAT?
Can I see our children as gifts of God? HDIFAT?
In what way have you brightened my day today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am get useless unsolicited advice from others?
Of the memories I formed while experiencing the weekend, which is most pleasant and why? HDIFAT?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage?
HDIF asking you to help me when I fail?
HDIF when we receive the Eucharist together?
HDIF about spring cleaning?
How do I feel when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take that frustration or anger out on me? Describe in loving detail.
What do I think about the choices I have made in my friends? HDIFAT?
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
How can I change things to give you more time? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to my people's failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am holding you close to me?
How have we grown as a couple over the last year? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about hugging another couple?
What effect does music have on me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our efforts to share the Good News?
What listening skills could improve our communication? HDIFAT?
What makes you cry? HDIFAT?
What became of the good resolutions I have made in the past? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about our financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not know where to find the information I need?
How does my or your job affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What positive actions will I take to change a pressure into a blessing? HDIFAT?
Why did I marry you? HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with my people, do I sometimes treat them with less respect than they deserve? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing it is God's idea for us to be together?
How do I want to romance you? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite room of the house and why? HDIFAT?
What is it about death that frightens me the most? HDIFAT?
What first prompted me to think about the priesthood, religious etc.? HDIFA this now?
I lost a friend when _____. HDIFAT?
Do I compare my relationship with my people to other priest/religious with their people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF beginning another year with you?
HDIF when we are separated because of my job or career?
HDIF about shopping for furniture?
HDIF when we are aware of using our forgiving power to heal each other?
HDIF about sexy lingerie?
Whom do I need to make peace with? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we hear our song?
Have I acquired any new qualities this lately? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we walk hand in hand along a nature trail?
HDIF about part of our lives continuing through our children?
Very few burdens are heavy when everyone lifts.' -- unknown author Do we share our burdens with others to lighten the load, or do we suffer by ourselves? HDIFAMA?
What topics do we avoid talking about? HDIFAT?
How do I see you to be superior to me? HDIFAT?
I am attracted to people who _____. HDIFAT?
Is there anything you have done that I have not forgiven you for? HDIFAT?
What gets me out of the mood? HDIFAT?
Can I really be myself with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my sexuality?
HDIF immediately after I experienced the weekend?
HDIF about our bedtime ritual?
What makes our house a home?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when we miss dialogue?
What experience of romance happened today? HDIFAT?
In the last 24 hours, when was I most aware of God's presence? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about us ten years from now?
My favorite memory of Christmas is... HDIF sharing this?
Describe a time when I felt confident. HDIFAT?
Do I cope with my stress alone or do I share it with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me at night?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
Do I put my independence above my trust in my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF being with people who keep their enthusiasm under control?
If I died today, would I be ready to meet my Maker? HDIFAT?
If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home? HDIFAT?
When do we take down the Christmas decorations? HDIFAT?
HDIF about praying the scriptures with you?
Recently, how have I been judgmental of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me?
HDIF when we take down Christmas decorations?
In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for autonomy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women?
HDIF when I experience your total forgiveness?
How do I feel about us being needed by others?
What do I like best about myself in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to be fulfilled (sexually) by you? HDIFAT?
What is our best quality as a couple? HDIFAT?
Does out family have any traditional things that we do? HDIFAT?
If I could change careers, what would I like to do? HDIFAT?
Birth control pills can work by preventing a fertilized egg from implanting. Did I know that? HDIF knowing that?
HDIF at those times when I am sidetracked by self-doubt?
What do I like to do for pleasure? HDIFAT?
What area of our relationship do I, or do we, need to work on? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I did a Random Act of Kindness (RAK) for you? HDIFAT?
Where was I born? HDIFAT?
What would I like to take back if I could? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you heal me in dialogue?
What potentials have you helped me develop? HDMAMMF?
My favorite book is _____. I would like you to read it because _____. HDIFAT?
What are the things that make it difficult for me to talk about money with you? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about discussing politics with someone who's views differ from mine? Describe in loving detail.
How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I give you a sincere compliment?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAMA?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
What kind of seed am I? HDIFAT?
When I finish a task, HDIF about going immediately to the next task?
HDIF when I am talking to you and you do not seem to be listening?
My most favorite part of your body is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me an unexpected hug?
Why do I love you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about growing older?
What was the last romantic thing I did for you? HDIFAT?
What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT?
What effect did my family's ideas, experiences, etc. of priest/religious life have upon me and the way I lead my life now? HDIFAMA?
What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
What would I give you an Oscar for? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
Is my body mine or yours? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I wipe away your tears?
If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on extra work to have some luxuries?
How has our failure to live God's plan for our marriage affected us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am far away from you?
HDIF when we talk about my family of origin?
HDIF when other people break the rules?
How does dealing with your past make me feel?
What about me am I most proud of right now? HDIFAT?
What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?
Will we take advantage of the Sacrament of Reconciliation this Lent? HDIFAT?
What would be my idea of a good family outing?
HDIF when I attract attention to myself?
Who should we pass the gift of Encounter / Retrouvaille on to? HDIFAT?
What do I procrastinate on the most? HDIFAT?
I am God's hands and feet. HDIFAT?
HDIF about how I spend my time?
HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building?
HDIF when our children whine?
HDIF when I take you to a movie?
Has our house ever caught fire? HDIFAT?
How does Christmas buying affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What limits do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
What things crossed my mind this week that I have not bothered to mention? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about discussing religon with someone who's views differ from mine? Describe in loving detail.
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
What have I done recently that I should ask you for forgiveness, but have not? HDIF sharing this with you?
Do I accept your praise? HDIFAT?
When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT?
How do I think I ended up at my current parish or church? HDIFAT?
How would I feel working under someone who is always fair but not so kind? HDIFAT?
How has my love for you changed since our dating days? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I feel strong? HDIFAT?
Have any of my dreams come true? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I experience your total acceptance of me? HDIFAT?
What do I control that I should give up to help improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you suffering? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about tattoos?
What expectations do I have of my family? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
How do I want you to remember me after I die? HDIFAT?
What is my biggest block that keeps me from being sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF sharing an unusual ability or talent with others?
How does our relationship give witness to the Lord? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept? HDIFAMA?
How does the season summer, affect me?
Can I expose my innermost sexuality to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people say exactly what they mean?
HDIF about our couple prayer?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate my services / masses? HDIFAT?
How would I describe our non-verbal communication with each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have to be away from each other for an extended period?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What is the best way we can show our love to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you get sick during the holidays?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
What do I most need to change to be perfect as the Heavenly Father? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can attend a weekend? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I decide to do things your way?
HDIF about how our children spend their free time?
When was the last time we made love spontaneously? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we gazed at a sunset, sunrise or starry night together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about paying our taxes?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship?
I want to be enthusiastic about life but _____. HDIFAT?
What difficulties are we most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision? HDIFAT?
HDIF being in our home alone, by myself?
HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?
How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT?
Sitting very quietly, HDIF listening to Jesus say my name to me?
HDIF when I think of how our children are turning out?
How do I feel about being in our C.O.R.E. or Sharing group? Describe in loving detail.
When am I most frustrated with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What pain do I think you keep to yourself? HDIFAT?
As a child, my best friend was _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to listen to my people better? HDIFAT?
My favorite way to have you touch me during our lovemaking is _____. HDIFAT?
When do I think that honesty is not the best policy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot relax at home or at work?
What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIFAT?
HDIF having a one-to-one conversation with someone I barely know?
What mask do I wear in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when God's Will seems to be in conflict with my needs? Describe in detail.
What do I judge as the most important things I pray about? HDIF sharing this with you?
If someone close to me were to die, what would I most need from you? HDIFAT?
I need to know you are telling me the truth about _____. HDIFAT?
I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty admitting it to you. HDIFAT?
How do I think people perceive me? HDIFAMA?
What are my thoughts when we pray together? HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island with you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in?
HDIF when I am out of energy?
HDIF about funerals?
How have we been judgmental of our people? HDIFAT?
How does my relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
Is there openness in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we first met?
If we could go anywhere, where would I most like to take you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I bend the truth?
Do material possessions mean as much to me as they did before our weekend? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when I try to make light of a serious situation?
Where do I look for help when I find I am in over my head? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about loaning money to a friend or relative?
How can we inspire other people to dialogue? HDIFAT?
What gift of myself have I given to you today? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself smoothly diplomatic or brutally honest? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saving for a summer vacation?
HDIF knowing I am not promised a tomorrow?
What is fun for us as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I want to celebrate Valentine's Day?
Because of my familiarity with you, do I sometimes treat you with less respect than you deserve? HDIFAT?
What is the most effective way to communicate forgiveness? HDIFAT?
How much of a couple do I really want to be, and what am I willing to change to be that couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask for my forgiveness?
How does my relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT?
What makes it hard for me to seek forgiveness? HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I recycle old newspapers, bottles or cans?
The Lord is coming. HDIFAT?
What do I like best about us in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my failures?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our financial status after the holidays?
HDIF when I say ours but really mean mine?
HDIF about having a picnic in the park with our children?
When we are alone together, do we talk about us or do we talk about everything else but us? HDIFAT?
What are my expectations in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about saying Grace at meals?
What have I done to make you happy this week? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself a good listener? HDIFAT?
Who are my models for my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
If I could travel in time, I would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
What would I spend my last dollar on? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt disappointed. HDIFAT?
Is it difficult or easy for me to forgive those who have done me wrong? HDIFAT?
HDIF just before I tell someone something they will not like to hear?
Our relationship is like what kind of carnival ride? HDIFAT?
To what extent do I feel responsible for our children's learning? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am spending time alone?
HDIF when you bring up past hurts?
HDIF right now about your job or career?
I experience rejection most when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear that God comes to me through you?
IWhat barrier do I have the hardest time overcoming in order to love my people? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when I see others suffering? DILD.
When I consider the redemptive power of Jesus Christ in my life, HDIF about my past?
Is there any form of sex with you that I find repulsive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that you can / cannot do CPR?
When I do not approve of the way a friend is acting, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put activities before our relationship?
HDIF when I am proud to be with you?
HDIF when I have a particularly hard job ahead of me?
What values of mine differ from my people? How does this effect my relationship with them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF telling _____ about my problems?
HDIF about sharing our dinner table with strangers?
In what area do I most admire or respect your feelings?
Do I build a wall between myself and others because I am afraid of being hurt? HDIFAT?
Who or what am I jealous of? HDIFAT?
Each of us belongs to the other (I COR 7:3-5). HDIFAT?
How do you irritate me? HDIFAT?
What activity helps me grow as a Christian?
In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT?
As we read _____ (pick some verse from Scripture), what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
What are my attitudes in the area of our sexual relationship that could cause us not to be as close as we could be? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you sleep late?
If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT?
How do we usually handle conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When was it hardest for me to decide to love you this week? HDIFAT?
Can I recognize when I?m under stress? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about giving presents to those I love?
What image do I have of myself as your sexual partner? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when we talk about handling money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am the avoider and you are the seeker?
God rejoices in our sexual union. HDIFAT?
HDIF about people who arrive for work early?
I need your love the most when _____. HDIFAT?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIFAT?
What do I value most in life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we put our children ahead of us?
What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
HDIF when we pray together, just the two of us?
HDIF about one of our children being called to religion life?
Someone hit our car. HDIFAT?
At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT?
How do I usually feel when I don't want to dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
Of the people I know, whom do I judge has the best sense of humor? HDIFAT?
What is my attitude toward my work? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are beating around the bush rather than giving me a straight answer?
Who has left the biggest mark on my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we spend our money?
When I think about dying today, HDIF about our past week together?
I would feel really pampered if _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am trying to describe an emotion / feeling of mine to you?
HDIF when our children reject our values?
What do I need to do to improve my appearance? HDIFAT?
Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
How does my need for security prevent me from giving all of me to you? HDIFAT?
What anniversaries do I celebrate? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dining out or having a picnic together?
HDIF when I discipline our children?
What image do I have of myself as your sexual partner? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we have had a long laugh together? Does laughter help heal?
Is my image of God like my image of my father? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you reach over to cuddle with me when we first wake up?
I think our greatest strength as a couple is _____. HDIFAT?
What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but haven't been able to, yet I haven't talked to you about? HDIFAT?
Is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our diet or food choices at this time?
HDIF when I do not listen?
How do I feel about our relationship today compared to before our weekend? HDIF sharing this with you?
You are worth more than you are paid. HDIFAT?
HDIF about God having a stake in our marriage?
When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDIFAT?
HDIF holding a child's hand?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of death? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our family?
What are my attitudes about marriage? HDIFAT?
What changes would I like you to make in response to my failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF when summer is approaching?
What area is the hardest for me to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are not leveling with me?
HDIF about taking a short trip with you?
HDIF about getting our next pet from the animal shelter?
What things do I care more about than the people in my life? HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about my people? HDIFAMA?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAT?
What would I choose as the time and circumstances of my death? HDIFAT?
HDIF in high-pressure, difficult situations?
In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT?
Do I give or take too much from you/others? HDIFAMA?
Why have we not kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
Would I rate the level of trust in our relationship closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAT?
What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your eyes?
HDIF about having breakfast in bed with you?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about having an egg hunt for the kids?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) affect our purchases? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we have had a fight?
HDIF about the hopes I have for our children?
HDIF about paying bills on time?
HDIF when we are too tired to be lovers?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try repeatedly to phone you and it is busy or there is no answer?
How do I feel when there is no time in the day (week) for us? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about sending a card to you in the mail?
How important is financial security to me?
HDIF about growing old?
HDIF sharing our dialogue with other people?
We have activities, jobs and careers. What about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving you space when you need it?
What one thing do my people do that helps bring me closest to them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having company stay with us?
What do I think you most need from me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
What illness do you fear most for yourself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I put away the laundry?
When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT?
How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your involvement with work?
HDIF when I first heard about couples who dialogue regularly, even daily? HDIFAT?
What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIFAT?
What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to bed angry?
What is the side of me that I least like you to see? Describe it. HDIF sharing this with you now?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not being met? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to you? What can I do to listen better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you?
What does it mean to me to belong to you? HDIFAT?
How involved am I in our parish or church family? HDIFAT?
Have we changed enough since our weekend, that others have noticed the difference, too? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you are not able to handle the pressures in your life?
HDIF about your hurried schedule?
Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAT?
Life is what happens while we are making other plans. HDIFAT?
HDIF about facing the bills when there are too many?
HDIF when you act on your emotions / feelings, content to let the chips fall where they may?
Have I done my best to make a difference? HDIFAT?
What areas of a priest's / pastor's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with us? HDIFAT?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
When was the last time I felt very close to Jesus? HDIFAT?
What issue do we have facing us that I have not shared my emotions / feelings with you about? HDIFAT?
I have not had time to write my dialogue letter to you. HDIFAT?
How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDIFAT?
When do I feel close to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me?
Is there time enough for God in my busy life? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking you to make love?
HDIF when I am fighting for what is right?
Listening is most difficult for me when _____. HDIFAT?
What do I need to hear from you that would allow me to be more open? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to do something I really do not want to do?
In what area do I most need your help in living my sacrament/calling? HDIFAMA?
What is the meaning of Lent to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my co-workers?
In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we wash dishes together?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone we know is really sick or dies?
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAMA?
What can I do for you that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
HDIF about visiting the zoo?
If Jesus came to our house for a 24 hour visit, how would I feel?
What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know you are proud of me?
What do I do that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT?
How is Good Friday important to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave in public?
I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when... HDIF about my answer?
Is Jesus Lord of our future? HDIFAT?
Have I ever been fired, or had to fire someone? HDIFAT?
Lately, have I accepted peoples feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about how we handle our finances?
HDIF about the frequency of our lovemaking?
HDIF about healing?
HDIF when my people disagree with me?
How have I changed in ways that you are unaware of? HDIFAT?
Is there ever a time when I should not reveal a negative emotion to you? HDIFAT?
The song that I think represents our love the best is _____. HDIFAT?
What realistic thing can I do this week to make it better than last week? HDIFAMA?
What inhibits me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am doing things nobody else wants to do?
Our Lord calls us to love one another unconditionally. HDIFAT? HDMAMMF?
Would I treat God as I treated you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are making plans together?
How do I behave when my need for love is not met? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am hoping you keep your emotions / feelings to yourself?
What do I hope to gain in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF about helping other people who are out of work?
I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT?
If I was about to die, and only had time to tell my poeple one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our goals as a couple?
HDIF when others want me to take risks?
What stresses me out the most on a daily basis? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not getting through to you?
HDIF about working out a budget and sticking to it?
HDIF about my sense of humor, or lack of one?
HDIF when I get behind on my sleep?
What is broken in my life and in need of mending? HDIFAT?
What price am I paying right now for our financial situation? HDIFAT?
I try harder to change when I _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we celebrated our love on this special occasion?
HDIF tracing your face with my fingertips?
Someone offers me a breath mint. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the responsibility we have to other married couples?
What talent do I wish I had that I do not? HDIF telling you about this?
How would I feel if I found out we are pregnant? HDIFAT?
How do I recognize Christ in you?
What dialogue has meant the most to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going with you to an action movie?
What is special about you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our child's current boyfriend / girlfriend / best friend?
When was the last time I did not listen to you? HDIFAT?
When did I make the decision to love you lately? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I have to apologize even when I don't think I did anything wrong? Describe in loving detail.
In the area of sex, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I forgive an enemy?
How is today's society affecting our family? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMAs?
Is our love for each other unselfish? HDIFAT?
WAMF about our family vacation time?
HDIF when I have the urge to surprise you with an unexpected gift?
I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT?
What are the things that bring me closer to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of mine in one of our children?
HDIF about praying while I am driving or waiting in line?
HDIF when I judge you are angry with me?
What was the worst day of my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our couple love influencing other people around us?
HDIF when I am with good friends?
HDIF thinking this could be our last dialogue letter?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
What are my best qualities? HDIFAT?
What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDTMMF?
What do I hope for each child? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children make demands?
What joy did I experience today that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when other people look me in the eye?
Even though our masks are a barrier in our relationship, there is a reason we where them. They give us strength to deal with the world. If we can identify the strengths our mask give us, we can retain them when we lower the masks to be ourselves with our spouses. What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
What is the closest I have ever come to dying? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I take care of my body?
We are going to a picnic. HDIFAT?
HDIF being loved by you?
How do I see our lifestyle when we are retired? HDIFAT?
What gifts do we have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF when good friends of ours move away?
What did I accomplish today? HDIFAT?
What good quality do you see in me that I doubt the most? HDIFAT?
Where do we need to go in our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I pray, do I listen? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I work late?
What friend(s) of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when our family trust level has been broken?
What do I want most for our children and HDIFAT?
HDIF when you show your love for me in front of other people?
What do my friends say behind my back? HDIFAT?
When something bad happens to me do I allow it to effect our relationship and/or my relationship with God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for every area of my life?
HDIF when one of our children excels and the others do not?
How would our children describe our marriage? HDIFAT?
How can I reduce the level of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What does it cost us as a couple to be Jesus' disciples? HDIFAT?
In what ways has God worked in my life today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your father?
HDIF on those occasions when you discipline our children?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? HDIFAT?
Where have I experienced the greatest change in attitude? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be our last day to love?
HDIF when someone mentions my job title?
HDIF being sprinkled with holy water?
How well do I do trusting God to answer my needs? Describe in loving detail.
What expectations do I have of your family? HDIFAT?
Is religion something we do or something we live? HDIFAT?
The most interesting thing you have taught me is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
Can we hope to heal our relationship before we have clarified the issue? HDIFAT?
What was the best day of my life? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus Lord of my future? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my troubles with my people?
Does our home reflect our values? HDIFAT?
HDIF when job or career separates us?
HDIF when our families criticize our lifestyle and involvements?
What bothers my conscience the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about kissing you at midnight New Year's Eve?
What is my greatest fear about war? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making the decision to love you?
HDIF recalling my first communion?
HDIF when we would like to do something but can?t afford it?
How do your insecurities affect me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are submissive to each other?
HDIF when you give me a mushy card?
What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAMA?
Is it important for us to have a romantic bedroom? HDIFAT?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you wink at me?
HDIF when I try to hold my temper?
HDIF about your health?
How do I feel about the role God played in my vows? Describe in loving detail.
Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about a walk in the moonlight with you? Describe in loving detail.
How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
What is one of the greatest moments of our marriage? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when someone leaves a job unfinished?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think about the first car I ever owned?
What is my dream for my priesthood or ministry? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about giving our time to helping others? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about my dialog? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I make you laugh?
What do I usually do about things that hurt me? HDIFAT?
We have an opportunity to move. HDIFAT?
What song most makes me think of you? HDIFAT?
What friend(s) of my people would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAMA?
What keeps us from dialogue? HDIFAT?
Change makes me feel ________.
How can we share our Encounter / Retrouvaille experiences with non-Christians? HDIFAT?
Do I think we spend enough time together, or is the time we spend together quality time? HDIFAMA?
What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIFAT?
What actions or behaviors do you use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time?
God will give us nothing we cannot handle. HDIFAT?
Our children most need _____. HDIFAT?
In life, have I mostly done what I had to do, or what I wanted to do? HDIFAT?
What would I do differently today if I knew I would not have you tomorrow? HDIFAT?
What was our greatest lovemaking experience? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a list of our important documents and where we keep them?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt ashamed. HDIFAT?
What is the silliest thing I have ever done in public? HDIFAT?
Thinking about retirement, I feel _____.
How do parish or church finances affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
What have I invested in our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what areas of our relationship do we most need to grow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
What am I willing to sacrifice to make our relationship better? HDIFAT?
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF when we pray the rosary?
What difficulties am I most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision with one of my people? HDIFAMA?
What is the touchiest area in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
In what areas do I feel vulnerable to you? HDIFAT?
What do I want to do this Thanksgiving as a family? HDIFAT?
What would be my idea of a good family outing? HDIFAT?
Sometimes failure makes me want to try harder. HDIFAT?
What is fun for me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you show confidence in me?
How do I feel about our church? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I have written my dialogue letter but you have not?
Do I come as close as possible to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me get in touch or stay in touch with you? HDIFAT?
What specifically can I do this week to create a little more romance? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about disciplining our children in a public place?
HDIF being with people who do not seem to have emotional ups and downs?
HDIF inviting couples like us into Encounter / Retrouvaille?
Do I accept criticism or try to suppress it? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
What Dialogue has meant the most to me? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF about involving our children in a Lenten tradition?
When I feel sad, angry, frustrated, etc. (pick one, or one of your own) what is the best thing you can do for me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when making big financial decisions?
How do I need to change my life? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT?
What special moment do I remember? HDIFAT?
How do I measure up when I am given power? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our marriage reflected God's love in our world today?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD.
What do I want our priorities as a couple to be? HDIFAT?
In our relationship, do I tend to be detached or engaged? HDIFAT?
What are the positive signs of growth I see in us? HDIFAT?
How are we active in our community? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you talk to others about our fights?
Where do I find peace when things are chaotic? HDIFAT?
Where do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
What part of I COR 13 reminds me most of you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the birth of one of our children?
What things do I put first? HDIFAT?
Do I ever change what I write or say to avoid conflict or argument? Why? HDIFAMA?
What little annoyance(s) have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
What kind of Christmas present did I give you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about kissing our children good night?
How do I behave when I am disillusioned with God? HDIFAT?
When I am pressured by you, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fighting as a constructive means of communication between us?
What are the maybes in my life? HDIFAT?
What do my people do that tells me thye forgive me? How do I feel afterwards?
You keep growing more beautiful each day. HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people make a special effort to make me feel important?
HDIF about losing? Do I make excuses?
HDIF when my plans run off the track?
HDIF looking other people in the eye?
HDIF about getting other people's advice for solving our problems?
In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when my need for belonging is not met? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT?
What can we do for the poor, the homeless and the lonely? HDIFAT?
What particular event today caused me the most stress? HDIFAT?
If we ever stopped dialoguing for a while, why did we? HDIFAT?
What have you done recently to express your commitment to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people are depending on me?
What do I think is needed for another child in our lives? HDIFAT?
Can I see God in myself? HDIFAT?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
When I close myself to you, I close a channel of God's grace. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home right now?
HDIF I come across to other people?
What are a few things I like to do with our family? HDIFAT?
If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I've lived the last few weeks? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF at social gatherings when I meet a lot of new faces?
HDIF when I give you the benefit of the doubt?
How do I behave when my need for self-worth is not met? HDIFAT?
Is describing my emotions / feelings in a letter easy or hard to do? HDIFAT?
Do I give more than I receive, or receive more than I give? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our marriage being a living sign of love?
What do I most want for Christmas this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are part of a community that supports couples' growth?
How do I feel about my church? Describe in loving detail.
How do I feel when I/we receive a phone call from an old friend I/we haven't talked to in a long time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I receive more criticism than praise?
HDIF when there is not enough money to pay the bills?
What do I think are our limits as a couple? HDIFAT?
The car ahead of me pays my toll? HDIFAT?
HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up?
HDIF about the way I dress around you?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you use your dialogue letter to try to straighten me out?
Do I consider myself attractive? HDIFAT?
What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDMAMMF?
When did I feel closest to God and you in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What can you do for me to help me cope more effectively with stress? HDIFAT?
Does our marriage lack vitality? HDIFAT?
What compliment do I least like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God being a compassionate God?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make love but do not ask in a clear way?
HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift?
HDIF when we spend an afternoon looking at scrapbooks?
What are my resolutions for this year? HDIFAT?
What area is difficult for me to share my feelings about? HDIFTYT?
What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFTYT?
What aspect of myself do I still try to hide from others? HDIFAT?
What does success do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF about expanding our existing values to live God's plan?
Since we began dialoguing, what growth have I seen in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What kind of things frustrate me? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot finish what I had planned for the day?
HDIF about life after death?
HDIF about walking together?
What have I learned about you recently that surprised me? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I think I am most in love with you?
How has God blessed me today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking responsibility for my emotions / feelings?
What barriers or attitudes do I have that keep me from developing an intimate relationship with our friends? HDIFAT?
Are we as close to each other as we were just after our Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
How do I behave when I fail? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it is time to leave a tip for the table server?
Recently I thought it was wrong, unreasonable or selfish of you to say _____. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when things suddenly go against me? HDIFAT?
What about my relationship with God can be improved? HDIFAT?
Is our love strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT?
What could you do to increase my sexual anticipation? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt bashful. HDIFAT?
How can we, as a couple, meet Jesus' challenge to follow Him? HDIFAT?
What do I think are your priorities? HDIFAT?
Our missionary role is always to invite other people on our journey. HDIFAT?
What is my greatest sexual fantasy? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we start our day together?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the bills are due, but we cannot afford to pay them?
What is my greatest talent in listening to you? HDIFAT?
In what area of our relationship am I experiencing loneliness? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone drops in unexpectedly? DILD.
HDIF when you make a sacrifice for us?
What do I seek in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF when I find a note you have left for me?
HDIF when you touch me?
What is my favorite memory of our dating days? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me, but the compliment is not sincere?
HDIF when I am forced to swallow my pride?
HDIF about my relationship with your family?
What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAMA?
Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave?
What will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? What are my feelings about that?
Is it easy or hard for me to forgive myself? HDIFAT?
What unmet need did I experience today? HDIFAT?
How has our dialogue affected our family? HDIFAT?
What thoughts of mine do I need to change, to increase my happiness? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing the chores?
HDIF when I want to spend time with you, but you are too busy?
What are my dreams for us? HDIFAT?
When did I feel closest to you last weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not trust you with my emotions / feelings?
HDIF about summer weather?
How do I see myself as a member of Christ's body? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you working too many hours?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend on foreplay?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF beginning my dialogue letter by mentioning a good quality I see in you?
How do I feel about my sacrament as a sign of love to others? HDIFAMA?
Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of me to say _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I/you have an accident? Describe in loving detail.
What impact do our children have on our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to overtures of friendhsip from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAMA?
God often allows our hearts to be broken so that He can beautify our soul. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we compromise on an issue?
HDIF about taking a shower together?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself?
How can we improve our spirituality as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our neighbors?
What quality of Jesus did I see in our priest / pastor today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it has been a long time since we dialogued?
HDIF when I make the decision to love and have sex when I do not want to?
For what in my life do I feel most grateful? HDIFAT?
How has our inability to live out God?s Plan for our marriage affected us?
In order to solve a problem, am I more likely to use common sense or imagination? HDIFAMA?
In troubled times, do I resort more to tears or to sweat? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate my services/masses/etc. a... How could it improve? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we attend Stations of the Cross?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your job or career?
HDIF when I need you to give me space?
What do I like best about us in the area of money? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone misunderstands me?
When do I rely on emotions / feelings instead of on thinking? HDIFAT?
Is your quality of life better or worst than 10 years ago? HDIFAT?
What has kept me from being completely honest before now? HDIFAT?
No matter how often I am right, I will sometimes be dead wrong. HDIFAT?
How are we living God's plan and what can I do to improve it? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for a perfect romantic evening? HDIFAT?
What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT?
In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I laugh at you?
What do we have to be thankful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a member of our family points out my good qualities?
HDIF about our spending on gifts?
How do I listen to you? What is my pattern? HDIFAT?
Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I take a walk with you?
If I could do any other job than the one I am doing, I would do _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are in mass or church together?
HDIF when you have done something to make me happy?
HDIF when I tell you everything will be all right?
When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Would I rather have many friends with shorter contact, or fewer friends with longer contact? HDIFAT?
How can you help me realize my good qualities?
When I want to feel important, what behaviors of mine can be a problem? HDIFAT?
How honest is our tax return? HDIFAT?
What bad habit(s) would I like to give up? HDIFAT?
What effect does making love to you have on me? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we looked at our wedding album together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about deadlines in general?
How have I changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
What do I want for myself this weekend? HDIFAT?
When you criticize me, my reaction is to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we attend Stations of the Cross?
HDIF when I see Easter lilies?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
HDIF about your having to work overtime?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned? HDIFAT?
Would God be upset if I made you number 1? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I have to take a risk with someone other than my people? DILD.
How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAMA?
Do I apply Gospel values to my job or career? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for my attitude, good or bad?
What do our parents think about our marriage? HDIFAT?
What strengths do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA?
At this time, what concerns me the most about our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
HDIF about giving to a worthy cause?
How has my attitude affected our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear love each other?
Do I ever use our dialog letter for something other than sharing my feelings with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
What kind of example am I to the children around me? HDIFAT?
How do I love thee? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate our sex life a... How could it improve? HDIFA sharing this with you?
HDIF when I see others suffering or struggling?
I need support from you in the following areas: _____. HDIFAT?
How would your children describe me as a husband or wife? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAT?
How have I freed myself up in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not have enough money?
HDIF when you stand by me, even when I am wrong?
Am I more likely to voice my discontent and disapproval, or do I hold my tongue to avoid causing problems? HDIFAMA?
How do I make you present to me when we are not together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Lent?
What memory of our courting days is most alive today? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt close to you. HDIFAT?
This is Twelfth Night. Will we celebrate this day? HDIFAT?
HDIF after being with superstitious people?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF sleeping in a strange bed?
HDIF about the romance that remains in our relationship?
HDIF about keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
Am I satisfied with my life? (What would I change? What wouldn't I change?) HDIFAM answer(s)?
How have we grown as a couple over the last year? HDIFAT?
What is my most recent happy memory of us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I share an uncomfortable emotion / feeling with you?
What visions and hopes do I have for us? HDIFAT?
How do I usually deal with conflict in my relationships? HDIFAMA?
What activities are we involved in that cause friction in the family? HDIFAT?
Our relationship is most like what sport? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I made a conscious decision to love you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you come up behind and hug me?
How do I feel about the way I spend my spare time? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the openness of our dialogue?
HDIF when I accept love as well as give it?
HDIF when you are late and I have to wait for you?
HDIF when we dance in the livingroom?
How have our children experienced our love this week? HDIF sharing this with you?
Today I want to thank you for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I told you so?
HDIF about our grandparents' involvement with our children?
Our dialogue can be a prayer to our Father. HDIFAT?
HDIF when a child disobeys?
HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner?
How can we do something as a family toward world peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF about getting other people?s advice for solving our problems?
Who should I thank that I have not thanked? HDIFAT?
I judged you were being selfish when... How did I feel about this? Describe in loving detail.
What dream do I have for Encounter / Retrouvaille in our region? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my emotions / feelings from the past?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
Is dialogue a chore or a special time for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are lost?
HDIF when we do not talk after an argument?
How does my mask (personality style) influence my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone questions my faith?
HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you?
What is my earliest memory of you? HDIFAT?
What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I keep my needs and emotions / feelings from you?
HDIF about visiting our distant relatives?
HDIF when you bring up past hurts?
If we had to relocate, how would I feel?
What are ten qualities I want most in a partner? How do I measure up? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my priorities conflict with yours?
What do I remember most about our wedding day? HDIFAT?
How have I used my mask (personality style) this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have judged others harshly?
HDIF when I begin to believe in my own good qualities?
What have I kept from you in recent days? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the role I play in a wedding? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate the health of my ministry or priesthood? HDIFAT?
What have I done recently to bring joy or comfort to others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the last time I did something romantic for you?
When I reflect back on the grades I got in school, HDIFAT?
Who is or was my favorite teacher? HDIFAT?
What is my best quality? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we receive communion together?
HDIF when I write you a love note?
How can I tell when you are hurt? HDIFAT?
When am I not listening to you? HDIFAT?
What is my most compulsive habit? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we need to take out a loan for a major purchase?
HDIF when someone does a better job at work than I do?
Which of us comes to decisions more quickly? HDIFAT?
Our child has a special talent. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to depend on you when I am ill?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
How well do I take care of my true needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT?
What decision to love you has been hardest for me to make this past year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I help you balance the checkbook?
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