Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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HDIF when I am aware that you have had a bad day?
HDIF when our children misbehave?
HDIF when I receive a compliment from someone outside our family?
Can I identify with doubting Thomas? HDIFAT?
What has been the most painful experience in our family this past week and HDIFAT?
How would I feel about the idea of having to spend Christmas without you? Describe in loving detail.
I have little patience for _____. HDIFAT?
When you withdraw into your shell, HDIF?
HDIF about growing old together?
HDIF about sharing our Thanksgiving dinner with strangers?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
What is my earliest memory of death in my childhood? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you seem annoyed with me?
Would I ever go through an 8-item checkout with 20 items? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you take most of the bed or most of the cover?
HDIF about my lifetime goals?
When you go away on a business trip, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the fun, or lack of fun, in our relationship?
When am I most likely to lie to others? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I ride in a car with bad brakes or slick tires?
What is the biggest challenge my people and I this week? What can I do to help them through it? HDIFAMA?
One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when people say exactly what they mean?
What is my favorite thing for us to do as a couple? HDIFAT?
What good habit can I use to overcome a bad habit of mine? HDIFAT?
HDIF about moving from where we are now living?
HDIF about the risk of pregnancy?
HDIF when I hold the door for you?
What are my hopes for this Lenten season? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing you love me?
HDIF when I am sitting upright? When I am slouching?
God does not make junk. HDIFAT?
What are my best qualities? HDIFAT?
Here is a little quote from _Illusions_ by Richard Bach, 'There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands.' HDIFATS?
I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you compliment me in front of other people?
In what ways can I be more tender in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT?
What was the most difficult thing I had to overcome to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
Where do I most take you for granted? HDIFAT?
What will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do not meet your expectations?
The Lord is coming. HDIFAT?
Obedience belongs to us - results belong to God. HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave civilization for natural surroundings?
What outfit do I like best on you? HDIFAT?
When was a time you touched my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about past Christmases (As a child)? HDIFAT?
How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am indifferent toward you?
HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year?
HDIF about going to relatives' homes for the holidays?
How do my people help me up when I fall down? HDIFAT?
How can we improve our non-verbal communication as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our grandparents' involvement with our children?
HDIF when someone asks me to compromise a value I believe in?
In what way am I trying to love you the way God loves us? HDIF sharing this with you?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my relationship with my family?
How well am I able to adjust to new ways of doing things? HDIFAT?
HDIF about Scripture dialogue?
HDIF when things go wrong at work?
HDIF when we attend a wedding ceremony together?
I feel most uncomfortable with you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when the weather forecast is wrong?
What is the greatest pressure affecting me during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize one of my people about _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my conscience? HDIFAT?
At parties, am I often bored or do I usually have fun? HDIFAT?
HDIF about World Marriage Day?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF about paying our taxes?
What do I perceive to be the biggest threat to our relationship? HDIFSTWY?
Since we began dialoguing, what growth have I seen in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when your family makes demands on us?
Do I usually initiate friendships with my people, or do I wait for them? HDIFAMA?
What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our parish or church involvement?
HDIF about the reactions of our friends to Encounter / Retrouvaille?
How has our family benefited from our experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF thinking about the first time I knew you were for me?
Does our sexual relationship affect our closeness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the alarm goes off in the morning?
HDIF when my life is slow-paced, unstructured and laid back?
What family atmosphere do I dream of for our home? HDIFAT?
In our same-faith marriage, how close are we in celebrating our one faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who harbor smoldering resentments?
How do I feel when we are lost? Describe in loving detail.
What do I really like about myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF about family prayer?
Eucharist is a family reunion. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we heal each other in dialogue?
What do I think and feel when I hear the statment: 'Love isn't love until you give it away?'
What can I do to make myself more sexy to you? HDIFAMA?
What have you done that I have not forgiven you for? HDTMMF?"
HDIF when we are criticized for our beliefs?
When was I most aware of my people today? HDIFAMA
How do I feel when you say no to me? Describe in loving detail.
Do I love you more for you, or for God? (Do I think my love for you is more for you, or for God) HDIFAMA?
HDIF about taking a test to predict Alzheimer's disease?
I am most happy when _____. HDIFAT?
How do my childhood dreams of growing up compare to what I am now? HDIFAT?
Is there enough laughter and relaxation in our relationship? HDIFAT?
Where did you grow up? HDIFAT?
If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDMAMMF?
What makes it hard to ask for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
Who is or was my best friend and why? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about myself today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you demand I change before you will forgive me?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAT?
What have I learned about myself through dialogue? HDIFAMA?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
You keep growing more beautiful each day. HDIFAT?
How do I think people perceive me? HDIFAT?
How have our roles in our marriage changed? HDIFAT?
Would other people say I am a show-off? HDIFAT?
What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, That was really great?
HDIF when we take down Christmas decorations?
Our dialogue can be a prayer to our Father. HDIFAT?
Where is my favorite place for dialogue? HDIFAT?
How do you most help me? HDIFAT?
If our house were burning down, and I could only save 3 things, what would they be and why? HDIFAMA?
Here is my description of the ideal husband: _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my superior does not share their plans with me? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about the advice, ?forgive and forget??
After a fight am I still pretending not to care? HDIFAT?
My greatest satisfaction in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
What can we do to improve our dialog? HDIF sharing this with you?
What would I change about the way I was raised? HDIFAT?
What is the main driving force in my life? HDIFAT?
What compliment do I least like to receive about us? HDIFAT?
What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT?
What mask do I wear in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we stick to our budget?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT?
Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?
What scares me? HDIFAT?
If we doubled our present income, would we be any happier? HDIFAT?
What became of the good resolutions I have made in the past? HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize you about... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I clean out the car?
HDIF when you smile?
What are the activities we have planned that I want most to do this Christmas? HDIFAT?
Looking back on this month, has it been a good month or a bad month? Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of money we pay in taxes?
Is one of us the toucher and the other aloof? HDIFAT?
How would I feel if, this Christmas, you put a wreath on the car's grill? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
How have my people helped me to become a better person? HDIFAT?
Was dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT?
This is Twelfth Night. Will we celebrate this day? HDIFAT?
What can we do to enrich our relationship with each other this Lent? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I would like to say no, but do not think I can?
How does my mask (personality style) cause me to be a married single? HDIFAT?
Do I think I, in my vocation, and my love for my people makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am trying to be strong in the face of difficulty?
What are my expectations concerning celebrating mass, services, etc.? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we have to be away from each other for an extended period?
HDIF about how we use our financial resources?
How do I feel when I want to spend time with you, but you do want to/are too busy/etc.? Describe in loving detail.
Can I see God in myself? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you say no to making love? Describe in loving detail.
What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my ability to share my relationship with God with you?
Have I been critical of you or accepting of you this week? HDMAMMF?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF at those times when you are controlling and manipulative?
HDIF about our going out together alone more often?
Why am I most likely to tell you no when you want to make love? HDIFAT?
You cannot compromise another person?s right to be an individual. HDIFAT?
When someone criticizes me, do I give it right back to them? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my (or our) dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
What do our parents think about our marriage? HDIFAT?
How do I behave so that others will accept me? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make myself sexier to you? HDIFAT?
How can I be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF ending my day lying in bed next to you?
How do I behave when I crave to be appreciated? HDIFAT?
I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT?
What does our church mean to me? HDIFAT?
Does our inability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
How does the season (spring, summer, winter, fall) affect me? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I get an answering machine instead of a live person?
HDIF when I receive a special favor?
HDIF when we are separated because of your job or career?
How have I changed in ways that you are unaware of? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a time out when we are in conflict with each other?
In what ways do I believe I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking on a ministry as a couple?
How do I handle my jealous feelings? How could I handle them more constructively? HDMAMMF?
How do I feel about the way my priesthood/etc. influences other people? DILD.
HDIF about the level of our spending on Christmas gifts?
HDIF about forgiveness?
How have we been a sign of love to our people? HDIFAT?
How do parish or church finances affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we snuggle in front of the fireplace?
How do I feel about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can attend a weekend? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our preparations as Christmas approaches?
HDIF serving you breakfast in bed?
How do I feel about my sacrament as a sign of love to others? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we dump on each other?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite memory of my grandparents? HDIFAT?
HDIF about learning to use a pistol or rifle?
Does TV have a negative or positive effect on my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our relationship today, compared to before we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
HDIF when you ask me to dance with you?
In sex, does it matter if we are meeting the national average? HDIFAT?
How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the unfinished business in our pasts?
What do I need to work on, in order to get better at it? HDIFAT?
Knowing the choice is ours to continue what the weekend started, HDIF?
Why do not I trust you with helping me with sex? HDIFAT?
Is there anything I need to share with you but have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF being with people who go up like a rocket and come down like a rock?
What happens when I let emotions / feelings take control over me? HDIFAT?
What is my favorite name for God? HDIFAT?
What do I think is missing in our experience of lovemaking? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you cry after watching a movie together? Describe in loving detail.
In what areas do I most need the Lord's help? HDIFAT?
How well do I think I listen to you? HDTMMF?
Sometimes my burdens seem just too great to carry. HDIFAT?
I need to learn not to _____. HDIFAT?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest emotion / feeling?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
When I reflect back on the grades I got in school, HDIFAT?
What gift that I received from you today am I most thankful for? HDIFAT?
Do I love my people more for them, or for God? (Do I think my love for my people is more for them or for God?) HDIFAMA?
HDIF about us when I hear our favorite song?
When recently did I experience some romance in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF at parties when guests have had too much alcohol?
HDIF when I try to hold in my joy?
HDIF about our possessions, taken as a whole?
What is my deepest regret of last year? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when there is no time in the day for us?
How does my relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you warn me that I am about to make a mistake?
Do material possessions mean as much to me as they did before our weekend? HDMAMMF?
What do I like best and least about you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I look back at things I have done?
HDIF about my home? HDIFAT?
Why do I think you chose me to be your lifetime partner? HDIFAT?
What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love you better? HDIFAT?
Is our involvement in this program helping us as a couple? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
How well do I use the talents given to me by God? HDIFAMA?
HDIF if one of our children died?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT?
HDIF today about all the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas?
HDIF when a little dispute threatens a long friendship?
HDIF about fall weather?
HDIF after I donate a pint of blood?
HDIF when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do?
When I think about all those who made our Encounter / Retrouvaille program possible, I feel _____
In what ways am I still a mystery to myself? HDIFAT?
What do I think there is to be thankful for this year? HDIFAT?
Can I put you before myself? HDIFAT?
What was the most important discovery I made about you as we experienced the weekend or after? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a house full of company?
HDIF about our children going back to school when fall comes?
HDIF about the love I bring to this family?
How is Good Friday important to me? HDIFAT?
Can I go one whole day without criticizing anyone or anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let you down?
HDIF when we have a large number of people over?
What kind of Christmas present did I give you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are open to increasing the size of our family?
When am I most frustrated with you? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF being around people who are always coming up with new ideas?
HDIF about playing bingo for money?
What is the healthiest trait of our family? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
What are my hopes for our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the role God played in my vows? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I reveal my emotions / feelings, and you respond as expected?
What have I done recently that I should ask you for forgiveness, but have not? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we put activities before our relationship?
HDIF when we miss dialogue?
HDIF about our children attending college?
When do I feel the least romantic? HDIFAT?
When did I feel closest to God and you in our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDMAMMF?
What has kept me from being completely honest before now? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the amount of time we spend on foreplay? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I admit my sins?
You are my mirror. HDIFAT?
I feel rejected most when... Describe in loving detail.
Do I believe white lies are all right? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
What quote do I want on my tombstone? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your smile?
Can I enjoy my successes for a while, or do I have to move on to the next challenge? HDIFAT?
Would I like to plan some changes in our life this next year? HDIFAT?
What do I do to get relief from emotional pain when I am tired, lonely, angry or hurting? HDIFAT?
Recently, when have I felt the most alone? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we sat together and listened to the quiet like hearing the wind blow? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me meet my need for self-worth? HDIFAT?
How can I be more open to you and to your love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about planning a holiday with you?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? How do I feel sharing this with you?
HDIF when someone I do not like loves me?
HDIF about crying? About other people when they cry?
HDIF about the current political atmosphere in the country?
What are some things others have done for me which have brought me joy or comfort? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am poking fun at other people?
HDIF when we are with couples who are working on their marriages?
HDIF about the amount of time I spend preparing myself for mass / services.
Would I change jobs / careers for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
What would other people say is my worst habit? HDIFAT?
What special moment do I remember? HDIFAT?
Why do I love my people? HDIFAT?
What feeling is most likely to be the source of my anger? Describe the feeling in loving detail.
HDIF when my people say no to God?
I try NOT to be seen as _____ (weak, dumb, frivolous, impractical). HDIFAT?
In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT?
What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this week?HDIFAMA?"
HDIF when I sleep late?
Is it difficult or easy for me to forgive those who have done me wrong? HDIFAT?
I COR 14:4-7. HDIF about these words as I reflect on our relationship?
How well do I avoid temptation in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spending time with in-laws at the Holidays?
How would I feel going to a school football game and sitting near the band? HDIFAT?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way I express myself?
What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT?
The saint you remind me most of is _____. HDIFAT?
I enjoy my relationship with people the most when _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see others suffering? DILD.
When am I most likely to ignore God? HDIFAT?
What curse word do I use most often? HDIFAT?
Do I consider myself successful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF when I try to be punctual for your sake?
How much do we use the sexual turn-ons we know work for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given a task without guidance or clear expectations?
HDIF about fighting as a constructive means of communication between us?
What do I most depend upon you for? HDIF sharing this with you?
When our calendar is full, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Which one of our friends am I most comfortable with? HDIFAT?
Can I identify with hurting couples? DYFID.
How do I see myself handling my responsibilities for our family finances? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a reflection of you in our children?
Have I achieved my values? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the expectations my family has for us?
Our decisions usually revolve around _____. HDIFAT?
What are my family's favorite springtime activities? HDIFAT?
The driving force behind my life is _____. HDIFAT?
I think I am best known for... HDIFAMA? (Since we wear different masks, and use different behaviors depending on where we are and who we are with, you could split this up for work, home, M.E., etc.)
HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am?
I would feel better about us if we could make these additional changes: _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we have a garage sale?
I am most likely to use exaggeration when _____. HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDIF when this is the only comfort I can offer someone?
In what ways can we prepare ourselves for eternity? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others? DILD.
HDIF about Washington politics?
HDIF when I avoid a conflict between us?
HDIF when we spend a day with our extended families?
HDIF when I have to ask you for money?
HDIF putting things off until the last minute?
How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT?
HDIF about forgiving and being forgiven?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
My favorite romantic song is _____. HDIFAT?
What place do fasting and sacrifice have in my spiritual life? HDIFAT?
How can I reveal my emotions / feelings to you outside dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF about how we live out our faith?
In the area of child raising what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
HDIF about us today?
HDIF about my privacy or lack thereof?
When recently have I shared an emotion / feeling that I did not want to have? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
What does the Fourth of July make me thankful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I clean off the ice from my windshield?
HDIF about us being a Sacrament?
Is it important for us to have a romantic bedroom? HDIFAT?
HDIF seeing animals in the zoo?
When did I realize that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you? How do I feel recalling this? What are my feelings sharing this with you?
How do I behave when I fail? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a major purchase that will put us in debt?
HDIF about the direction our life together is taking?
What do I value most about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIF sharing this with you?
What is my gift to my people today? HDIFAT?
Where do cars fit into my life? HDIFAT?
If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go, and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am holding on to resentment?
Where would I most like to see growth in our relationship this year? HDIFAT?
How do the attitudes and behaviors of others affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
If I could start over again, what would I change? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are driving very fast?
HDIF when I get a sincere thank you note?
HDIF when I am talking to you and you do not seem to be listening?
What negative emotions / feelings do I experience most frequently? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken?
HDIF about the way I dress around you?
How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are driving and I am a passenger?
What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when it is time to file income tax forms?
What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt angry.
HDIF about the influence of my mother in my life?
I need your love the most when _____. HDIFAT?
What illness do you fear most for yourself? HDIFAT?
After I have had an argument with one of my people or my superior, what is the most positive that that comes out of it? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way I handle money?
HDIF when I have to compromise my integrity?
What thoughts of mine do I need to change, to increase my happiness? HDIFAT?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our current level of involvement with our extended families?
HDIF when other people break the rules?
Why do I want to make you number one in my life? What stands in my way? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about waking up beside you?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the unmet expectations about our relationship?
What emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to reveal to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my service to God?
HDIF about our couple prayer?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about God sending His son to be a human presence in the world?
What are / were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
What were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAMA?
My thoughts contribute to my self-image. HDIFAT?
How can I tell when you are angry? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray aloud together?
HDIF when I hear about someone who has been abused?
Lately, have I accepted your emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
HDIF when we are asked to help the Encounter / Retrouvaille movement?
How are we working for the coming of His kingdom? HDIFAT?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIFAT?
What effect does making love to you have on me? HDIFAT?
Why did I take my vows/become ordained/take up my ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when we have to work together on a project? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you say, Do you always have to be right?
HDIF when I work late?
HDIF about having an Encounter / Retrouvaille information night in our home?
WAMF about our family vacation time?
What barriers or attitudes keep me, or keep us, from being more romantic? HDIFAT?
How do I see you to be superior to me? HDIFAT?
Since we added dialogue into our lives, how am I experiencing you differently? HDTMMF?
My favorite book is _____. I would like you to read it because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time?
Is there anything I am doing by myself that I could involve you in? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt?
On a scale of 1-10, I would rate the health of our marriage a... HDIFSTWY?
What causes me to criticize you? HDIFAT?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT?
How important is financial security to me? HDIFAT?
My fondest dream for you since we experienced the weekend is _____. HDIFAT?
How can you help me recognize my good qualities? HDIFAT?
I forgot to buy you a card on this special occasion. HDIFAT?
Do I act younger or older than I am? HDIFAT?
How does your relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT?
What need of mine am I most aware of as needing to be nourished? HDIFAMA?
If I were President for a day, I would _____. HDIFAT?
Does our marriage lack vitality? HDIFAT?
How are we going to make better use of our free time this summer? HDIFAT?
Which Retrouvaille couple do I feel closest to? Why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship?
What sacrifices am I willing to make for our daily Dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children misbehave in public?
HDIF about discussing our goals and values with you?
I felt proud of you this week when you _____. HDIFAT?
In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? How do I think that has make you feel?
What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?
What hopes do I have for the coming weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that God needs us?
HDIF when you brag on me to your friends?
HDIF when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me?
HDIF when a teacher does not like my child?
The most interesting thing you have taught me is _____. HDIFAT?
What are the things that we have that money cannot buy? HDIFAT?
Have we changed enough since our weekend, that others have noticed the difference, too? HDIFAMA?
Marriages around us are affected by how well they see ours working. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the role God played in my vows?
Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAMA?
Why do I want to be fulfilled (sexually) by you? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about renewing myself this Lent?
HDIF about hiring help with childcare?
What is most threatening to my spiritual growth right now? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I went to God in prayer for the sake of our relationship? HDIF?
Is our love for each other stronger today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to change a tire?
What area do I least want to talk to you about? HDIF telling you this?
What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about today's movies?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our children going back to school?
What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about sexy lingerie?
Do I consider myself a hawk or a dove? HDIFAT?
When do I close my heart to you? HDIFAT?
What can we do to renew our parish or church? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are awakened at night by a crying child?
HDIF when other people notice our togetherness?
HDIF about your co-workers?
How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do something for another couple?
Why have we not kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
What do I do to gain acceptance and profit emotionally? HDIFAT?
What have you done in the last week to make me feel romantic? HDIFAT?
What do I do that annoys people? Why do they react that way? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think of praying with you?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
HDIF when you say, We'll dialogue after the next TV program?
HDIF about dialoguing on health?
As a family, what does the birth of Christ signify to us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the Easter bunny?
What kind of a 'sign' do I think we have been to others this week? HDTMMF?
HDIF when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDMAMMF?
What sacrifices am I willing to make to be more romantic with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am the center of attention?
What bad habit(s) would I like to give up? HDIFAT?
You made me very happy this week when _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I accept criticism? HDIFAT?
HDIF when people take advantage of me or push me around?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAT?
In what areas of our relationship do I think I am number one with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are on a trip and have a breakdown or flat tire?
Is it easy or hard for me to admit that I am wrong? HDIFAT?
HDIF about dialoguing with another couple?
HDIF when you try to influence my decisions?
If I could change one thing about me, I would _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time I left you a love note? HDIFAT?
HDIF when the telephone interrupts something important?
How would I feel if one of our children would want to enter the ministry? HDIFAT?
Do I think you would consider me to be a romantic? HDIFAMA?
What does graduation mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see our marriage influencing other people around us?
What emotions / feelings about God do I find most difficult to share? HDIFAT?
If you died, what quality of yours would I miss most? HDIFAT?
What feeling have I not shared with you this week because I thought you would not accept me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about spanking?
Is there a decision that I have made recently that I perceive my people have disagreed with? HDIFAT?
If I had tons of money, what would I give you for Christmas? HDIFAT?
What attitude am I struggling most with today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you talk to others about our fights?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
What are my reasons for keeping my distance? HDIFAT?
If I had all the money in the world, what gift would I buy you? HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me from sharing with my people my unnourished needs? HDIFAMA?
In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?
Whom do I most want to be like and why? HDIFAT?
If I were in a Circus Act, I would be _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when friends invite us but do not come over in return?
You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT?
What am I most disillusioned with in my life? HDIFAMA?
How well do I communicate with you? HDIFAT?
In what area do I trust my people the most? HDIFAMA?
How has Lent prepared us for Holy Week?
HDIF when we have argued with family members?
When you are passionate, what are my feelings? HDIF sharing this with you?
Something new I have discovered about you is _____. HDIFAT?
Do I go to church to give or to get? HDTMMF?
How can I give more and be more for you in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How does my attitude toward your mother affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when a new situation comes up that conflicts with my plans?
What do I have to be most thankful for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are asked to do something, and you say yes when I would rather say no?
Where do I find peace when things are chaotic? HDIFAT?
What advice would I give a young bride or groom? HDIFAT?
HDIF being in our home alone, by myself?
HDIF about sacrificing financially to attend an event for married couples?
HDIF about my relationship with your parents?
How do I respond to you when I have had a bad day? HDIFAT?
When did God last surprise me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about where we live?
Your most endearing quality today is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about our fertility?
HDIF about my relationship with your family?
How do I behave when I am asked to do something I do not want to do? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when my people say no to God? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be our last day to love?
What do I need to change in myself to become who I need to be? HDIFAT?
What changes do I have to do to make you number one? HDIFAT?
What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF?
How do I feel when I have to take a risk with someone other than my people? DILD.
HDIF when you are not in the mood, but I am?
HDIF when I am caught staring at someone?
HDIF about having a picnic in the park, just the two of us?
What things do I care more about than the people in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to mass or church together?
Do I ever change what I write or say to avoid conflict or argument? Why? HDIFAMA?
What can we do for the poor, the homeless and the lonely? HDIFAT?
If I were a musical instrument, which one would I be and why? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
What has Our Father given us in the past year? HDIFAT?
How many hours of TV do I watch a day? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I check on our children as they sleep?
In what areas do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?
Is there anything you've done that I have not forgiven you for? Why? How do I feel about my answer?
What can I do for our parish or church? HDIFAT?
What is my most vivid memory of our honeymoon? HDIFAT?
Do I cheat on my taxes? HDIFAT?
What is the most scared I have ever been? HDIFAT?
What kind of store would I like to own and operate? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you wink at me?
HDIF when I have to confront someone about a problem?
Do I think I release my anger and frustration appropriately or inappropriately? HDIFAMA?
What do I want to do this Thanksgiving as a family? HDIFAT?
What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT?
What is my purpose in life? HDIFAT?
Recently I thought it was wrong, unreasonable or selfish of you to say _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we invite a couple to experience the weekend and they accept?
What sacrifices am I making for my family now? HDIFAT?
What talent of mine should I be using more, and how? HDIFAT?
Am I as close to my people as I was just after my Retrouvaille weekend? HDIFAMA?
What is my greatest concern in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I visit you in the hospital?
When it is time to take action, I prefer to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you show confidence in me?
What are my expectations in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together?
What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT?
In order for us to succeed as a couple, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT?
What gift have you given me in the past month that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?
In what ways are you still a mystery to me? HDIFAT?
How can we live a simple and more fulfilling life? HDIFTYT?
What strengths do I think I might have, but I am afraid to try or rely on? HDIFAMA?
Would what I do be missed if I was not here to do it? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing Jesus is our protector?
What do I judge as the most important things I pray about? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about taking a trip with you to the mountains?
How does God's love for us enable us to forgive each other? HDIFAT?
How well do I think my people listen to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we entertain friends at home?
What changes should I, or should we, make to keep from being disillusioned? HDIFAT?
What conditions do I put on my love of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the taxes we pay? HDIFAT?
I see myself as I was at 10 years old. What do I see? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let other people talk me out of pursuing a great idea?
What have I learned about myself through the challenges I have faced? HDIFAT?
HDIF when one of us is the subject of an ethnic joke?
What kindness do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
What is the thing I find most difficult to forgive in myself? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone mentions my job title?
HDIF when I take a walk with you?
HDIF about the way my prayers are answered? HDIFAT?
What is it about you that makes me want to ask your forgiveness? HDIFAT?
Thinking about retirement, I feel _____.
How does our stuff compare to our neighbor's stuff? HDIFAT?
Is sex good or bad? HDIFAT?
What does our relationship need the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing God used me to bring about a conversion?
What one specific thing would make our lovemaking even more beautiful? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I missed you today?
Here is my description of the ideal father: _____. HDIFAT?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? How do I feel about my answer?
What am I doing to make the world a better place for those who come after me? HDIFAT?
You are my gift from Our Father. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening?
HDIF when someone we ask to experience the weekend says no?
What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT?
When did I make the decision to love you lately? HDIFAT?
How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
What do I think God wants for us? HDIFAMA?
When someone hurts me, do I seek revenge or forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we plan dinner?
What are the topics I avoid in dialogue? HDIFAT?
What can I do for my people that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
What helps me learn the most about my people? HDIFAT?
How do I best use non-verbals? HDIFAT?
How does our closeness reflect God's love? HDIFAT?
If I was stranded on an island what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the way we celebrate Easter?
Do I keep my pain, hurt, or disillusionment to myself? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?
How seriously must I fail before I consider asking for help? HDIFAT?
What do I think is my most serious fault? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
HDIF when we pray with our children and hold hands?
As an adult, am I closer to my mother or father? HDIFAT?
HDIF about heights?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD.
What do I like best about us in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
How do I like you to touch me? HDIF when you touch me that way?
What has been the hardest experience of my life? HDIFAT?
What areas have I closed my ears to listening to my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you accept a part of me that I had difficulty sharing?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings?
What does it mean when I do not pick up after myself? HDIFAT?
What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to break a promise because it conflicts with something even more important?
Would I have been able to stay at the Garden of Gethsemane knowing what was going to happen? HDIFAMA?
My favorite weather is _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF looking back at our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary?
What is the greatest gift I could give my people? HDIFAT?
In what ways do I try to change myself to please you? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am unable to stop laughing, especially at an inappropriate time?
If I died without a chance to see you, what would I wish I could have told you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see others suffering or struggling?
I would really feel special if _____. HDIFAT?
What do I most need to do this weekend for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone asks me what my goals are?
How have I shown my love for you today? HDIFAT?
What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you minimize my emotions / feelings or pay no attention to them?
HDIF when I stop doing something I want to do because other people are watching?
How have we shared our relationship with other people in our community, parish, and neighborhood this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we go to see your mother / father in the hospital?
Has my love for you changed since we were first married? HDIFAT?
How have I helped myself in the effort to help others? HDIFAT?
What have you done recently to express your commitment to me? HDIFAT?
What values of mine differ from yours? How does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What is my dream for tomorrow? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone makes unreasonable demands on me?
On most matters, do I already have an opinion? HDIFAT?
HDIF using the gifts of the Holy Spirit?
HDIF about our current financial situation?
HDIF about the phrase, Dialogue is my gift of myself to you?
There is so much to do before Christmas. HDIFAT?
What is the greatest gift you could give me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to start a project over again?
HDIF when I hurry to answer the phone and it is only a solicitor?
What gifts do we have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
In what area do we have hurt in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What values of mine differ from my people? How does this effect my relationship with them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I am away from my people?
HDIF when I am naked in front of you?
If I was about to die, and only had time to tell my poeple one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAMA?
What do I think you find difficult to tell me? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do with you that we have never done before? HDIFAT?
Recently I succeeded at _____. HDIFAT?
How well do I show my love to God? HDIFAT?
How do I try to hide my faults? HDIFAT?
What is it about you that arouses me? HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
HDIF holding hands during church?
How do I feel about going back to school?
HDIF about unexpected company?
What is your best quality? HDIFAT?
What was our greatest lovemaking experience? HDIFAT?
Who are some couples that I see Christ's love in? HDIFAT?
What does the season of Lent mean to me? HDIFAT?
How selective am I in selecting topics to argue with you about? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you how important you are to me?
HDIF when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take it out on me?
HDIF when we go through the family album together?
HDIF about eating out on holidays?
In what situation am I most likely to use exaggeration? HDIFAMA?
Can I always count on you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am jealous?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to you? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA?
I am most confident when... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards?
What romantic things do you do for me? HDIFAT?
When I pray, do I really mean the words I am saying, or is it just rote? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your family's expectations of us?
In what kind of relationship (besides spousal) do I try to fill my needs? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am an object of someone's joke or ridicule?
How well do I accept others outside of Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we show God's love to other people?
HDIF about trying different parishes / churches?
Where am I with you and God today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone else gets the parking place I am waiting for?
HDIF when I see a tiny baby?
What area of my relationship with my people do I need to work on? HDIFAT?
HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner?
When do I feel unappreciated? HDIFAT?
How does our individuality strengthen us as a couple? HDIFAT?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our sexual relationship? HDIFAMA?
What kinds of compliments did I receive most often as a child? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray together before we dialogue?
HDIF when we part in the mornings to go our separate ways?
HDIF about the way our marriage influences other people?
What gives me hope when I most need it? HDIFAT?
What do I see in other marriages that I want for us? HDIFAT?
How are we active in our parish or church? HDIFAT?
When my work is set back by some unexpected difficulty, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about looking the person in the eye when I say, I am sorry?
What is the area I least want to discuss with you? HDIFAT?
How do we share our faith with each other? HDIFAT?
I find it difficult to listen to you when... HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I realize your family's problems become my problems and vice versa?
HDIF when you yell at our children?
What divides us and causes us to become married singles? HDIFAT?
HDIF about giving my two best friends a key to the house?
HDIF about taking food to a shut-in?
In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?
God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
Can we talk about money easily? HDIFAT?
When was the last time we mentioned Encounter / Retrouvaille to a couple? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways am I least responsive to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are coming home to me after a long trip?
The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT?
What friend of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAT?
With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIFAT?
Which of your characteristics or traits cause me the most difficulty? HDIFAT?
What is one of my treasured values in life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our children make demands?
How am I failing to live God's plan for my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not together as a family?
One thing that brings me joy in our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
What are the sources of my pain or frustration? HDIFAT?
What are my needs? HDIFAT?
My ideal lovemaking would be... HDIF sharing this with you?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you compliment me, but the compliment is not sincere?
HDIF giving to other people?
For our growth, we need God to be part of our marriage. HDIFAT?
In what ways do I daily affirm my love for you? HDIFAT?
Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am talked into something I do not want to do?
Do I presume the best or worst about you? HDIFAMA?
Am I satisfied with our relationship? If so, should I be? If not, why? HDIFAMA?
Which of our possessions enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT?
Intimacy is a challenge to forge our future together. HDIFAT?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT?
What kindness did I do today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the cross I must carry?
HDIF when you stand up for me?
How has our dialogue affected our family? HDIFAT?
In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT?
How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about encouraging our older children to take a part-time job?
Describe a time when I felt determined. HDIFAT?
Do we make the time to pray with our friends? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I tell you everything will be all right?
HDIF when I forget our anniversary?
How do I tell you I would like to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about we are the church?
If I was stranded on an island without you, what one thing would I take to remind me of you and why? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am naked in front of you?
HDIF about shopping for furniture?
What is the greatest challenge we face as a couple?
When I am best I am _____. Can I be this way and be with you? HDIFAT?
Whom have I failed to love this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am a tourist?
I just realize the driver of the car has been drinking. HDIFAT?
A statement: 'As long as I have love in my heart, I will always have something to give to others.' HDIFAT?
HDIF about our savings and retirement plans?
What does success do to my self-image? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we pray the rosary?
When our dialogue is alive and strong, so is our prayer life. HDIFAT?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What quality does Mary or Joseph have as a parent that I would like? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am following a schedule? When I am free of schedules?
Our neighbor lives alone. HDIFAT?
When God made me, what do I think were His dreams for me? HDMAMMF?
HDIF about the outside influences that are causing hurt between us?
The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is ____ .
When did I feel closest to God and my people in celebrating mass/conducting service/etc.? HGIFAMA?
What piece of music is especially meaningful to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when God's Will seems to be in conflict with my needs? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about God having a stake in our marriage?
When I am pressured by time, How do I respond to you? HDIFAT?
What lifetime dream am I still trying to realize? HDIFAT?
What talent or quality do I most admire in you? HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our lifestyle?
When confronted with a problem, am I more likely to become a better person or a bitter person? HDIFAT?
How have I grown from the pain I have experienced in my life? HDIFAT?
What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAT?
What routine activity do I hate the most? HDIFAT?
What do I do that goes unappreciated? HDIFAT?
In what areas is it most difficult for me to let you know how I feel? HDIFAT?
We are committed to each other for the rest of our lives. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the roles I play in our marriage?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIFAT?
HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we handle money?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
What are the outward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT?
If someone close to me were to die, what would I most need from you? HDIFAT?
This week, what have I avoided talking to you about and why? HDIFAT?
Does our home reflect our values? HDMAMMF??
If I could live in a different era, what era would it be? HDIFAT?
What do I think you most want from me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am not open to discussing our sexual relationship?
How can we bring new life into our relationship? HDIFAT?
Recently, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about increased sexual intimacy?
What value do I place on playfulness? HDIFAT?
In what areas or ways do I compete against you? HDIFAT?
When I talk with deeply religious people, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put your arm around me?
What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
HDIF when you decide to do things my way?
What have I kept from you in recent days? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our friends that we never get to see?
What can I do for God that I have avoided doing? HDIFAT?
In the presence of trouble, some grow wings, others will grow crutches.' Do I grow wings or crutches? HDIFAMA?
What song reminds me of our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I compete against my people? HDIFAMA?
In what way has God worked in my life today? HDMAMMF?" God/Theology"
When I am really down on myself, I feel _____ and I see myself as _____. HDIFAT?
Our child has a special talent. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the advice, Forgive and forget?
Why do I love you today? HDIFAT?
Can I identify with romantic couples? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you brag on me to your parents?
The values I hold most important in my life are _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about my divorced / separated neighbors and friends?
HDIF when I am get useless unsolicited advice from others?
In what areas do I find I lack confidence in dialogue? HDIFAT?
Do I avoid telling others the truth to avoid offending them? HDIFAT?
What do I find relaxing? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the coming end of the year and new year?
HDIF when outside activities keep us from spending time with our family?
If dialogue is so important to our relationship, why do we miss? HDMAMMF?
HDIF at the kiss of peace?
What do I preceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood/ministry/etc.? HDIFAMA?
How would I feel about changing sexes for one day? HDIFAT?
Is our love for each other greater today than yesterday? HDIFAT?
It is said that we are an Easter people. Are we an Easter couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you cry?
What mask do I wear in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my people only share superficial things with me?
HDIF on those occasions when our families criticize our involvements?
What are my thoughts about love is a decision? HDIFAT?
Recently, I thought it was wrong, unreasonable, thoughtless or selfish of me to say _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about family reunions?
HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live?
HDIF after I have forgiven one of my people?
Do I listen better to you or to others?HDTMMF?"
How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we make the issue more important than the relationship?
Recently, when have I felt the most alone? Describe in loving detail.
What values of mine differ from my people's? HDIFAT?
In what areas do I feel inferior to you? HDIFAT?
I am summoned to jury duty. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we cry after watching a movie together? Describe in loving detail.
Is our relationship ready for the Lord? HDIFAT?
As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT?
What difference does the Eucharistic celebration make in my life? HDIFAT?
How would our children describe our marriage? HDIFAT?
What about me am I most proud of right now? HDIFAT?
How have I let myself down? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I need to take a big step?
Do I consider myself emotional or detached? HDIFAT?
How important are material things to me? HDIFAMA?
What happens to me when I reveal more of what is behind my mask (personality style)? HDIFAT?
In thinking about our finances, what is my strongest feeling? HDIF sharing this with you?
What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I remember you in my prayers?
HDIF when I realize you are not all I thought you were?
What do you expect from me that is most difficult to give? HDIFAT?
Is it easier for me to give or to receive? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with God, or have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
In what ways can I deepen our spirituality? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are too busy for each other?
What is it that most unites us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you parents visit?
In my relationship with others, do I rely more on diplomacy or straight talk? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are close during and after our dialogue?
What is the most difficult situation facing us as a couple right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you change the subject before I am finished?
How honest is our tax return? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hugging another couple?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about family? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF knowing we are part of a community that supports marriage?
What do I like best about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
Do we physically touch enough? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about the little things in our marriage relationship?
When was the last time I acted like a little kid? HDIFAT?
What expectations do I have of our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend?
What are my thoughts about us being special to Our Father? HDIFAT?
What is most likely to cause a disagreement when we are trying to make a decision? HDIFAT?
Someone forgot to wipe the honey jar before putting it away. HDIFAT?
What gets me out of the mood? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your tears?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
HDIF when someone lies to me?
HDIF about driving inexpensive cars?
How can we put more fireworks into our marriage?
HDIF when it has been a long time since we dialogued?
HDIF if we won the Lottery?
What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIF sharing this with you?
What happens when I am still lonely or feel used after we make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about having relatives over for the holidays?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think you are angry with me?
What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going on living with you?
Do I believe that making love after an argument or misunderstanding is an easy way out? HDIFAT?
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