Dialogue Questions

Dialogue Questions Database

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What listening skills could improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF if you are out when I get home?
HDIF about the advice, Forgive and forget?
How often do we throw a party? HDIFAT?
Can I program a computer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way things have been going lately?
Which Encounter / Retrouvaille couple do I feel closest to? HDIFAT?
What dreams do I have for this year? Are they realistic? HDIFAT?
Whom do I share my joys with? HDIFAT?
What do I like to do for pleasure? HDIFAT?
How has my confidence in you changed since we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT?
What is the greatest joy or pleasure for me in dialogue? HDIFAT?
How can I tell that you?ve had a bad day?
Why is making love mostly a non-verbal experience for us? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find out, after the fact, that _____ has lied to me?
Is Jesus/God in my heart, or just in my mind? HDIFAMA?
Can I speak in public easily or do I get scared? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my health?
What have I learned about myself in the past month? HDIFAT?
We are blessed by the love of our families. HDIFAT?
I think our greatest weakness as a couple is _____. HDIFAT?
What were the dreams we had for our children? HDIFAMA?
What is my awareness of us as a couple right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your body?
What is my favorite time of year, and why? HDTMMF?
Do I usually initiate our love making, or do I wait for you? HDIFAMA?
How can I keep the winter doldrums from affecting me and those around me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to _____, a place where I have always wanted to go but have not gone?
HDIF when other people see our togetherness?
What frustrates me most in working with others? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the charismatic style of prayer?
HDIF about our children's education in music and art?
HDIF when you are holding me in your arms?
HDIF about our relationship as we begin this week?
Do I believe in work before play? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I try to make light of a serious situation?
HDIF when my parents come for dinner?
HDIF about my family name, my family tree, my relatives, my ancestors?
How can I be more tender? HDIFAT?
What are my non-verbals when I want to make love? HDIFAT?
Your most endearing quality today is _____. HDIFAT?
If you are not free to reject, you cannot accept. HDIFAT?
I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone insults one of my ideas? Describe in loving detail.
What place do priests / ministers have on our journey? HDIFAT?
Can I forgive myself for my faults and mistakes, and then move on? HDIFAT?
What do I most want to be remembered for when I die? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your relationship with your family?
Faith goes up the stairs that love has made, and looks out the window which hope has opened.' -C. H. Spurgeon HDIFA this quote?
Who should we pass the gift of Retrouvaille on to? Misc"
HDIF when someone compliments you (but not me) on our family?
HDIF about praying together?
HDIF about our relationship today, compared to before we experienced the weekend and follow-up?
What specific change do I need to make in myself? HDIFAT?
What makes it difficult for me to write my dialog letter? HDIFAT?
What one thing has most united us this past weekend? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt threatened.
How do I recognize Christ in you?
What values of mine differ from my people's? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building?
What limits my ability to love my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am left out of your activities?
Does TV have a negative or positive effect on my life? HDIFAT?
In what way(s) do I need to alter my attitude to alter my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the stake we have in other people's marriages?
HDIF when activities take the place of our lovemaking?
Husbands, love your wives as your own bodies. HDIFAT?
In the area of God and our faith, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make a specific sacrifice for you?
What do I value least about our lifestyle? HDIFAT?
Because of my familiarity with God, do I sometimes treat Him with less respect than He deserves? HDIFAT?
What am I willing to sacrifice to make our relationship better? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I realize I have done something thoughtless that hurt someone?
HDIF holding a child's hand?
What are my goals for our children's sexuality? HDIFAT?
HDIF about telling you what I like or do not like?
What do I need to change in myself to become who I need to be? HDIFAT?
God will give us nothing we can't handle.' What this doesn't say is that we must ask for His loving assistance sometimes (most of the time?). But with His assistance, we can truly perform wonders! HDIF when this is the only comfort I can offer someone?
HDIF when we kiss in public?
Is my attitude positive or negative? HDIFAT?
What are some of the things I pray for? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are not dialoguing?
HDIF when I see you totally open to me in our lovemaking?
What are my thoughts about us being special to Our Father? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the pain-killers that I use (alcohol, drugs, hobbies, TV)?
How am I pro-life? HDIFAT?
Do we make the time to pray with our friends? HDIFAMA?
If there were a death in our family this week, how would I feel? HDIFAT?
What is the nicest thing I have done for someone anonymously? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our trying to de-clutter our home?
How could I refocus my priorities to better serve my neighbors? HDIFAT?
Where do I have an attitude of inferiority? HDIFAT?
How can we bring new life into our relationship? HDIFAT?
What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIF sharing this with you?
What have I learned about myself through the challenges I have faced? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do in the next month if I knew I had only one month to live? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our lifetime goals?
What fears do I have of growing old? HDIFAT?
What are my behaviors when I most need peace in my life? HDIFAT?
One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT?
How am I hard on myself for things I have done in the past? HDIFAT?
What do I judge to be my greatest weakness? HDIFAT?
What did you do today that made me feel special? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I hear Jesus' words, Love each other as I have loved you?
What do I think is important for your happiness? HDIFAT?
What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my attractiveness?
HDIF when I put away the laundry?
What would I/we personally like to try to help make Retrouvaille better? HDIFAMA?
HDIF after I have had a fight with one of my people?
How well do I do trusting God to answer my needs? Describe in loving detail.
How do I think my people perceive me? HDIFAMAM?
How important are friendships to the health of my relationship with God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone questions my faith?
What makes our house a home? HDIFAT?
When do I feel least recognized as a capable person?
What do I like best and least about us as a couple? HDIFAT?
What value do I place on playfulness? HDIFAT?
Star bright nights stir emotions / feelings in me of _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a gift that suggests I need improvement?
Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT?
What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
Why have we kept dialoguing? HDIFAT?
What makes it hard for me to seek forgiveness? HDIFAT?
HDIF during the candlelight reading or singing of the Exultet on the Easter vigil?
How have I used my mask (personality style) this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we do not dialogue?
HDIF when I realize that I am responsible for my own feelings?
What kind of person would I like to become? HDIFAT?
HDIF about one of or children becoming a priest or minister?
HDIF when the telephone interrupts something important?
What is our special character as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about exercising together?
HDIF when I do not think you understand me?
HDIF about God being the one who brought us together?
HDIF when you are not in the mood, but I am?
What will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for _____. HDIFAT?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
What does being a parent mean to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we use our financial resources?
What values do I want us to give to our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I reveal my innermost emotions / feelings to you?
HDIF when I react rather than respond to you?
HDIF when you tell me, I need a hug?
What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about using seat belts?
HDIF knowing you care more about me than about anyone else?
I get people to cooperate by _____. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you suffering? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go?
HDIF when someone criticizes me?
How do your insecurities affect me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am too tense to sleep?
What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIFAT?
If we volunteer together, which charity or cause is most important to me? HDIFAT?
What would I like to try doing that is different from anything else I have ever done? HDIFAT?
I need support from you in the following areas. HDIFTYT?
HDIF about planning a vacation?
HDIF when you say yes to _____?
HDIF when someone in our family helps me?
HDIF about your ethnic background?
Where with our children do I experience stress? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my fear of intimacy?
HDIF when I judge myself guilty?
What do we do to help the nearby poor? HDIFAT?
What promises did I make to you on our weekend? How well have I kept those promises? HDMAMMF?
HDIF relying on hunches or intuition when things cannot be proved?
HDIF when my life is slow-paced, unstructured and laid back?
How do I feel when I look at pictures from my ordination/taking vows/etc.? DILD.
What would I like to improve? HDIFAT?
Can I, or can you, give me what I want from this relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
What have I done to help other people in our family feel special? HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT?
Do I love my people beyond the confines of my church, parish, synagogue, etc? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you are close to me?
Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?
What do I like best about myself in the area of death? HDIFAT?
HDIF when God's will seems to be in conflict with my needs?
How have I grown from the pain I have experienced in my life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I go to bed knowing you will be home late?
Who in my childhood most affected my life? HDTMMF?
Today we had the opportunity to make our relationship stronger. Did we? HDIFAT?
What kept me from making the most of this past weekend? HDIFAT?
What can I do to change the world? HDIFAT?
HDIF asking for romance?
What quality of Jesus did I see in our priest / pastor today? HDIFAT?
What little dreams do I keep in my heart? HDIFAT?
Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20) years from now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to do housework?
HDIF being in our home alone, by myself?
What good effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT?
What relationship(s) do I need to heal? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I resist the efforts of others to control me?
HDIF when I let you down?
Do I wish to deepen the experience of God in our relationship? If so, how? HDMAMMF?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I asked you for forgiveness? HDIFAT?
What did I accomplish today? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making a will?
Where would I like to be next year at this time? HDIFAMA?
What is it about our charism of prayerfulness that calls other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I call you up just to say ?Hi??
How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail.
How would I feel if we won the Lottery? HDMAMMF?
What do I think is important for our happiness as a couple? HDIFAT?
Have I done my best to make a difference? HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank God for that I have not? HDIFAT?
How have our in-laws contributed positively to our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF the first time we could not pay a bill?
HDIF when I remember that all good things are gifts to us from God?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAMA?
Why do I want to dialogue in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we look back at what we have done for Encounter / Retrouvaille?
HDIF when we work together to get a tough job done in a short time?
How do I feel about our church? Describe in loving detail.
What is the best way we can show our love to God? HDIFAT?
What do I consider my strengths? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about our minister / priest / pastor?
HDIF about taking a test to predict Alzheimer's disease?
HDIF about shopping for furniture?
HDIF about spending an evening alone with you?
How do you most help me? HDIFAT?
HDIF about going to bed earlier or waking earlier so we have time for us?
HDIF when I cannot relax at home?
HDIF writing a dialogue letter to you?
HDIF when I receive more criticism than praise?
HDIF before and after making a decision?
HDIF discussing our sex life?
What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? How do I feel about my answer?
What realistic thing can I do this week to make it better than last week? HDIFAT?
What things crossed my mind this week that I have not bothered to mention? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment?
HDIF about the steady, routine parts of my day?
What are your best qualities as a parent? HDIFAT?
What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT?
What do I think you most need from me right now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a reflection of you in our children?
What of my emotions / feelings is most likely to lead to an expression of anger? HDIFAT?
What topics are most likely to result in me picking a fight? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of superiority? HDIFAT?
This is the start of a new year with new possibilities. HDIFAT?
What friend of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about taking a short trip with you?
What do I hope to gain in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?
HDIF looking through a photo album or scrapbook?
What stage of love do I think we are in: romance, disillusionment, misery, revival, or joy? HDIFAT?
Is my image of God like my image of my father? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
What keeps me from being more completely honest in my dialogue letter? HDIFAT?
Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I give you an unexpected gift?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply?
How do I feel about being missionary a for God? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you are passive in our lovemaking?
What are my expectations of you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our vacation plans this year?
How do I handle defeat? HDIFAT?
What are my priorities in life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I witness a baptism?
What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAMA?
What do I like best about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
Joseph and Mary are at our front door. Do we have room? HDIFAT?
How do I feel just before I tell you something I don't think you will like? Describe in loving detail.
You are the light of the world. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am naked in front of you?
Do I sometimes write something different than what I feel in order to protect you or myself? HDIFAMA?
How do I like to have fun? HDIFAT?
Listening is most difficult for me when... How do I feel about this?
If I could live my life over again, I would _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about dying to self?
HDIF about Lent?
HDIF about the violence on TV?
What environment is best for listening? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you go out of your way to do something nice for me?
What kind of death frightens me the most? HDIFAMA?
Recently I failed at _____. HDIFAT?
When was a time we received support during our difficult times? HDIFAT?
Who has left the biggest mark on my life? HDIFAT?
How do my childhood dreams of growing up compare to what I am now? HDIFAT?
Is my life a having and a getting or a being and a becoming? HDIFAT?
I am being pressured to do something I do not want to do. HDIFAT?
What in our relationship gives me the most joy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?
HDIF about the coming Holidays? HDIFAT?
How would I feel about changing sexes for one day? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make the holiday season less materialistic? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my life is fast-paced, structured and intense?
My favorite way to have you touch me during our lovemaking is _____. HDIFAT?
If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAMA?
What inhibits me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF growing older with you?
HDIF when I am caught staring at someone?
How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I squeeze your hand?
In what specific ways do I see us responding to God's call to Unity? HDIFAT?
HDIF about roadside litter?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue is important to our relationship? How do I feel about my answer?
When was the last time I felt complete inner peace? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I find a note you have left for me?
HDIF about making you feel good about yourself?
HDIF when I can trust God to guide our lives?
If I had known then what I know now about raising children, I would have _____. HDIFAT?
When was the last time we sat together and listened to the quiet like hearing the wind blow? HDIFAT?
What is the one thing I like most about our Dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way our yard looks?
How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT?
HDIF about you liking me as a person?
HDIF about my responsibility or irresponsibility in managing our finances?
HDIF when we sacrifice to help a couple to experience the weekend or follow-up?
What do I want this weekend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have the urge to call you during the day, but do not?
HDIF about the changes taking place in our lives right now?
What can we do to enrich our prayer life this Lent? HDIFAT?
HDIF about receiving massages?
HDIF about hiring help with childcare?
What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you are overworked?
HDIF when we go to visit our families?
What quality do I most admire in your mother / father? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we laugh during lovemaking?
HDIF when you give me love taps?
HDIF about expanding our existing values to live God's plan?
What is the wildest thing I've ever done? HDIF sharing this with you?
What did I do today to make life less difficult for someone else? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for my attitude, good or bad?
What can we do be become closer as a family? HDIFAT?
HDIF about involving our children in a Christmas tradition?
HDIF having you to share special times with?
What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDIFAT?
In what aspect of my relationship with my people have I grown the most? HDIFAT?
Which is easier for me, abstinence or moderation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV?
We could improve the way we make decisions by _____. HDIFAT?
Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDMAMMF?
On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our relationship right now? HDIFAT?
What is the most sentimental possession I have? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am overcharged by a cashier?
What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT?
How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD.
HDIF when winter is approaching?
What one thing did we do this week to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about lovemaking by candlelight?
HDIF about giving a list of dialogue questions to a favorite couple?
How have I used my mask (personality style) when we have an argument? HDIFAT?
Would our children stand up for their faith if they were in a difficult or threatening situation? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my appearance?
If we could go anywhere, where would I most like to take you? HDIFAT?
Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAMA?
In what ways do I behave like a child? HDIFAT?
What is our basic way of dealing with marital conflict? HDIFAT?
Good Friday is the only day of the year we do not celebrate Mass. HDIFAT?
What can I do to make you smile more? HDIFAT?
How do we show our respect for each other in front of others? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make prayer a bigger part of our life? HDIFAT?
Can I see our children as gifts of God? HDIFAT?
No matter how often I am right, I will sometimes be dead wrong. HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone reminds me of all the favors they have done for me?
HDIF when we have a garage sale?
What foods do I dislike the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we cry together?
HDIF when you change your mind after we have agreed on something, or made a decision?
When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
Am I sometimes guilty of empty or insincere affirmation? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about my inhibitions about sex?
What aspect of my life brings me the most peace? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when our children reject our values?
HDIF about observing Lent?
HDIF when I have to be the one to discipline our children?
HDIF about our neighbors?
Considering my upbringing, what should I avoid with our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF when my family makes demands on us?
How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT?
What do I control that I should give up to help improve our relationship? HDIFAT?
In what way does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF about following a schedule and making to-do lists?
HDIF when we are not together as a family?
HDIF when we do something for another couple?
When was the last time I laughed? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am aware that you have had a bad day?
What quality of yours makes me want to trust you? HDIFAT?
What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from you? HDIFAT?
What gifts did we give back to the Lord today? HDIFAT?
What can I do to make myself more available to my people? HDIFAMA?
What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT?
What is the most effective way to communicate forgiveness?
What have I done to show Christ my love for Him? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the septuplets?
HDIF when I see the beauty of God's creation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I eat with someone who is on a diet?
What do I need to hear you talk about in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAMA?
What can I do to make it easier for my people to trust me with themselves? HDIFAMA?
You are my sweetheart because ________.
What phobias do you have? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you after a long day?
How do I feel about the way I spend my spare time? Describe in loving detail.
We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIF about the way they have changed?
HDIF about inviting couples like us to experience the weekend?
Who or what am I guided by? HDIFAT?
There will never be another you. HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I realize that God has spoken to me through you? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I need to be loved?
What mask do I wear in the area of death? HDIFAT?
What couple has most affected our life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you ask me to make love to you?
HDIF about the amount of time I spend preparing myself for mass / services.
Do we have a role to fulfill in other couples' relationships? HDIFAMA?
HDIF conversing one-on-one versus conversing in a small group?
HDIF when you express need for leisure time?
Who was your first crush on? HDIFAT?
A time I felt closest to my people was... How do I feel recalling this?
What material things do I worry about most? HDIFAT?
What do I need to thank you for that I have not? HDIFAT?
Was there a time, in the past week, when I felt joy in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDIFAT?
It is easier to leave angry words unspoken, than to mend a heart those words have broken.' -- unknown author Lately, have I said any words that were angry and may have hurt you? HDIFAMA?
How do the attitudes and behaviors of others affect our relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when you share with me your hurts, disappointments, fears and failures?
What aspect of our lovemaking do I enjoy the most? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our vacation?
HDIF when I am singing in the shower?
Where would I most like to spend this Christmas? HDIFAT?
What is my listening pattern when you tell me that I am tender? HDIFAT?
What part of the day would I most like to share with you? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when it is difficult for me to do the right thing?
I feel most uncomfortable with you when _____. HDIFAT?
How important is financial security to me?
How can assumptions hurt our relationship? HDIFAT?
Is our sexual relationship life-giving? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to invite a couple to experience the weekend but you do not?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?
How patient am I with myself? HDIFAT?
Have we shared our material blessings with others? HDMAMMF?
In what area do we have hurt in our relationship? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the coming Holidays? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you want sex and I do not?
HDIF when you are late coming home from work?
What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIF sharing this with you?
What way have I shown my love to our daughter / son lately? HDIFAT?
Be not afraid. When I consider these words of Jesus, HDIF?
HDIF when you call me by my pet name?
HDIF when I think about us ten years from now?
How do I usually feel when I don't want to dialogue? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about Santa Claus?
What is my greatest joy in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
When do I most need my people's support? HDIFAT?
Sometimes my burdens seem just too great to carry. HDIFAT?
How well do I trust my people? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about your/my/our involvement with work? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I am on a diet?
Do I consider Jesus a friend? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you leave things up to me?
What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing that you love me for a lifetime?
How have I been separate from you lately? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have of my people? Are they being met? HDIFAT?
What can I do this week to make memories? HDIFAT?
God wants to count me among His saints. HDIFAT?
What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAT?
Is our life together a celebration of love? HDIFAT?
How has dialogue helped me get in touch or stay in touch with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see myself in photographs?
What happens to me when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?
What nice thing have I noticed about you this week and have not told you? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing Jesus died for us?
What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this week?HDIFAMA?"
How do I feel about the honesty and openness of our dialogue? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about sending secret gifts and notes to another couple?
Our intimacy is renewed each time we communicate more deeply. HDIFAT?
HDIF on those occasions when I criticize how you discipline our children?
HDIF about how active I am in our children's schooling?
How does my mask (personality style) prevent me from always being intimate with you? HDIFAT?
What romantic expectations do I have of you? HDIFAT?
What do I wish I had known five years ago about sex? HDIFAT?
If I could receive a sixth sense, what would it be? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt cautious. HDIFAT?
When I consider the increasing rate of inflation, I feel _____.
HDIF about giving my two best friends a key to the house?
Do I criticize just to criticize, or with the intent of helping? HDIFAT?
How close do I come to loving everyone? HDIFAT?
What do I see as your strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?
Our dialogue is our recurring yes to each other. HDIFAT?
What do I hope for each child? HDIFAT?
HDIF about your travel schedule?
What is my favorite memory of our dating days? HDIFAT?
How have our past failures helped us to grow? HDIFAT?
HDIF about demonstrating one of my unusual talents for you?
HDIF about the way our marriage reflected God's love in our world today?
HDIF right now about my job or career?
HDIF when I see the house in a mess?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we plan something together?
Is describing my emotions / feelings in a letter easy or hard to do? HDIFAT?
I have seniority at work. HDIFAT?
In what area do I trust my people the least? (this does not say _NOT_ trust my people, just the least) HDIFAMA?"
HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?
HDIF when we appear as partners and not as individuals?
Where on my list of priorities did I place our dialogue today? HDIFAT?
When was the last time I went to God in prayer for the sake of our relationship? HDIF?
HDIF when I let my emotions / feelings get the better of me?
What struggle am I currently facing that I need to learn from? HDIFAT?
What do I wish was better about our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I go out of my way to please you?
How do other people experience our lack of sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you behaving tenderly with our children?
HDIF being around people who are chronically indecisive?
HDIF when we plan a vacation?
What would you do if you had a magic wand that could grant any wish? HDIFAMA?
What does it mean when I do not pick up after myself? HDIFAT?
How would I rate our level of intimacy? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you hold me in your arms?
What are my expectations for our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
We need to have more fun in our lives. HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
HDIF when a member of my family is ill?
What do I have responsibility for that I would like to give up? HDIFAT?
Do I compare our relationship to those around us? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you?
HDIF when my gift of help, time, friendship, etc is refused?
How do I feel when we are lost? Describe in loving detail.
How aware of you sexually have I been the last week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have a chance to take a nap on Sunday afternoons?
HDIF when I exceed my limits, undertaking more than I can handle?
HDIF when I get tipsy?
HDIF when I laugh with my people?
HDIF being around people who are easily irritated?
Does our sexual relationship affect our closeness? HDIFAT?
If our house were on fire, what one object would I most want to save? HDIFAT?
I lost a friend when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when people say exactly what they mean?
Till death us part. HDIFAT?
What changes would I welcome in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What does our church mean to me? HDIFAT?
Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with my people, or have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA?
What I think you love most about me is _____. HDIFAT?
What is the biggest challenge my people and I this week? What can I do to help them through it? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about driving inexpensive cars?
What do I hope to gain in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
What in my life is life-draining? HDIFAT?
What friends help me see our goodness? HDIFAT?
You are the sunshine of my life. HDIFAT?
What keeps us together as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am given a task without guidance or clear expectations?
I am the loneliest when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I think that you are judging me?
HDIF about winter weather?
HDIF about your reaction when I fail at something?
What TV shows do I watch most often? What does this tell me about myself? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I know that you are proud of me?
What do I think about the statement, open to you, open to God? HDIFAT?
How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What are my dreams for our sexual relationship? HDIF telling you this?
Who among our friends will walk with us in both good times and hard times? HDIFAT?
HDIF about escaping to a bookstore and having some fun?
What place do fasting and sacrifice have in my spiritual life? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I sympathize with you while you are sick?
HDIF when stock market trends increase the value of our investments?
HDIF when our loved ones refuse to do anything to improve their marriage?
It is said that we are an Easter people. Are we an Easter couple? HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize you about... HDIFAMA?
How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important?
HDIF when your job or career interferes with our relationship?
How is Good Friday important to me? HDIFAT?
What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDTMMF?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What things should I make time for? HDIFAT?
What do I most need from my people today? HDIFAMA?
I am a better person because of my people. HDIFAT?
HDIF about kissing our children good night?
HDIF when your parents visit?
What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?? Expectations"
Do I love you more for you, or for God? (Do I think my love for you is more for you, or for God) HDIFAMA?
HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time?
HDIF when stock market trends reduce the value of our investments?
What emotions / feelings do I have the most trouble expressing? HDIFAT?
What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA?
How have you helped me to become a better person? HDIFAT?
What did experiencing the weekend and follow-up sessions do for our faith in God? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you put a love note on the bathroom mirror?
HDIF about today's meals?
HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up?
How do I feel hearing about the power of our prayer? DILD.
How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAT?
What acts of kindness did I do today? HDIFAT?
Do I believe it is important to take a yearly family vacation? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you kiss me?
If I was about to die, and only had time to tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIF telling you this?
What kindness do I still remember from someone who has passed away? HDIFAT?
How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone close to me dies? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when I make the decision to love and have sex when I do not want to?
HDIF when facing a deadline?
What was our closest moment as a family this week? HDIFAT?
How am I like my mother? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when we are both tired, but still have a lot to do before we can go to bed? Describe in loving detail.
What is my gift to my people today? HDIFAT?
An admission of error is a sign of strength rather than weakness.' Is it easy or hard for me to admit my mistakes? HDIFAMA?
How do I recognize Christ in you? HDIFAT?
What chess piece do you remind me of? HDIFAT?
Why have we been unable to work out all our problems? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I work late?
What has dialogue taught you about yourself? HDIFAT?
How have I experienced understanding in our relationship? HDMAMMF?
What mask do I wear in the area of possessions? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that we are special to Our Father?
HDIF about praying with our children?
How does my mask interfere with our lovemaking? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I sleep late?
When you go away on a business trip, I feel _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when the phone rings and they ask for you?
How do I behave when I am hurt? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the atmosphere in our home?
What quality do I not like in myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT?
HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow?
If our house were on fire, what possession would I want to save? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I want to make love and do not tell you?
What is my most sacred memory of our wedding day? HDTMMF?
Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about teaching Sunday School / CCD / RCIA?
HDIF about the love I bring to this family?
HDIF when other people look me in the eye?
HDIF about God having a stake in our marriage?
HDIF when I delay acting on a good idea until it is too late?
When over the last week did I not accept your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring help with yard work?
In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus my shepherd? HDIFAT?
What is fun for us as a couple? HDIFAT?
How do our children?s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
This week, how have I been judgmental of others? HDIFAMA?
How do I feel about spending time with your/my family? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about our financial status after the holidays?
When do I feel most alone? HDIFAT?
I see you as someone very special because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I let other people talk me out of pursuing a great idea?
How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, Let me show you how?
How do we promote intimacy in our marriage? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I tell you everything will be all right?
We are the church 7 days a week, not only on Sunday. HDIFAT?
What do I think are our limits as a couple? How do I feel about asking others for help in these areas?
What do I want to do together as a family this summer? HDIFAT?
HDIF about sharing my emotions / feelings from the past?
Do I consult with my people when I am making plans? HDIFAT?
Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities this week? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I admit that I am wrong?
How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIF sharing this with you now?
HDIF when you help me discover a new good quality?
What has the strongest positive influence on my sexual experience? HDIFAT?
Do I allow God to work in me? HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT?
When I fight, am I more likely to get defensive, attack the other person, or withdraw? HDIFAT?
HDIF when waiting in line at a crowded restaurant?
What is my deepest regret of last year? HDIFAT?
HDIF telling you something I assume you are not going to like?
HDIF realizing my attitudes and judgments have caused you pain?
Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt determined. HDIFAT?
Which of life's pleasures do I cherish most? HDIFAT?
How do I respond to others when I am away from my people? HDIFAT?
Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT?
In what areas do I most need the Lord's help? HDIFAT?
What gift of myself have I given to you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I build a wall between us?
How can I stop holding onto my fears? HDIFAT?
HDIF when our friends let us down?
HDIF when you touch me in that certain place?
HDIF when someone blames me?
How have I experienced God's love through the people He has placed in my life's journey? HDTMMF?
How well do I listen to my people when they talk about sex? Do I truly listen to them, or do I just hear them? Are there behaviors that get in the way of me listening to them in this area? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I agree to do it your way?
How long before missing dialogue affects our communication and closeness? HDIFAT?
What power do I hold over you that may be a barrier to our relationship? HDIFAT?
Our children will be grown and gone too soon. HDIFAT?
What do I remember as the most romantic moment in our relationship? HDIFAT?
What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to say, I need help?
How do I respond to my people's failures? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our child leaving the nest?
What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
What mask do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?
What would be the ideal place and time for us to make love? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?
HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day?
Do I allow my sexual values to interfere with my response to you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when am coming home to my people after a long trip?
HDIF when you believe me instead of the rumors?
If our house were burning down, what possessions would I most hope were spared and why? HDIFAT?
HDIF about stopping to organize a job carefully before I start?
What part do I play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you do not share your plans with me?
HDIF when I have to get rid of the junk in my closets and drawers?
HDIF when you apologize to me?
What happens when I let emotions / feelings take control over me? HDIFAT?
In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT?
What is our best quality as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time?
HDIF knowing that today could be our last day to love?
Do I believe in miracles? HDIFAT?
How important are material things to me? HDIFAMA?
Whose day did I brighten with a smile today? HDIFAT?
What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFA This?
What emotions / feelings do I have about children?
What would I like to do now, so I will not regret not doing it twenty years from now? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I consider that we are unique as a couple?
HDIF when you say, If you really loved me, you would do this?
When have I experienced your acceptance of me this week? HDIFAT?
What can I do to help you listen better? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when illness strikes close to home?
What do I say about you when you are not around? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when I give you the more comfortable chair?
At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT?
How can we inspire other people to dialogue? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone makes unreasonable demands on me?
How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDMAMMF?
What is my impossible dream for us? HDIFAT?
How can I most help you at this time? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the current political atmosphere in my/our country? DILD.
How do I feel when I have to do most of the work for a ministry project? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when you seem bored?
What specifically could I do to break down the barriers between us? HDIFAT?
HDIF about God being a compassionate God?
What is my attitude toward punishment and HDIFAT?
HDIF about hiring people smarter than I am?
What is the biggest barrier to loving you more? HDIFAT?
If I could convince people of only one aspect of Jesus' message, what would it be? HDIFAT?
What do I least want to talk with you about? HDIFAT?
What emotions / feelings about God do I find most difficult to share? HDIFAT?
After conflict, am I still feeling hurt? DYFID?
What specialness do I see in our family? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, I can never understand you?
HDIF when people change the rules?
I am romantic and you are not. HDIFAT?
What difficulties am I most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision with one of my people? HDIFAMA?
What expectations do I have of my Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about loving someone who does not particularly deserve it?
What helped me be open to change during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
What do I like least about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?
What is my greatest financial concern right now? HDIFAT?
What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me?
HDIF about the demands people place on me?
What can I do to make God a bigger part of our life? HDIFAMA?
To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I stop holding onto my fears? HDMAMMF?
Our Love is a journey, not a destination. HDIFAT?
Lately I have felt distant from you when _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we want to make love and cannot?
Do I consider myself a trend setter or trend follower? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I have to shovel the snow?
How do I feel when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people? Describe in loving detail.
What song reminds me of our relationship right now? HDIFTYT?
What mask do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are under pressure?
Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? Is this a value or an ideal? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when I think of one of our children dying?
When someone expresses tender emotions to me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
When one of my people feels threatened, I feel... DILD.
HDIF when I have the house looking neat for you?
What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? What not so good things have come from it? HDIFAMA?
How will we celebrate Christmas? HDIFAT?
What areas of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAT?
What do I do in a group of strangers to be accepted and HDIFAT?
HDIF about seeing God in you?
What gifts or talents am I embarrassed to share? HDIFAT?
While they were at home, did our children buffer our relationship? HDIFAT?
What traditions are meaningful to me? HDIFAT?
Are the activities our child(ren) involved in an ideal for me or a value? HDIFAT?
How good our marriage is affects other marriages around us. HDIFAT?
HDIF when we offer each other the Peace of Christ at mass?
HDIF when I look at my naked body?
HDIF about our bedroom?
How would I describe you to a blind person? HDIFAT?
When things bother me, can I tune them out? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about my parish/church/convent/temple/etc. financial situation? Describe in loving detail.
When recently did you do something that made me feel special? How does remembering this MMF? Romance"
How do I feel about us being needed by others?
What emotions / feelings do I most like to share? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we rake leaves together?
What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you call during the day just to say hello?
HDIF about putting my life in God's hands?
HDIF about the way my ministry influences those around me?
HDIF when I write you a love note?
HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently?
HDIF when another couple asks, How is your dialogue?
How does God's love for us enable us to forgive each other? HDIFAT?
HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it?
How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT?
HDIF being around people who harbor smoldering resentments?
What proof is there in our life that dialogue helps our relationship? HDIFAT?
What sacrifices am I willing to make for our daily Dialogue? HDMAMMF?
What is my dream for our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT?
What hinders us from making better decisions? HDIFAT?
What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAT?
In the area of money what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail.
HDIF when I have to apologize to you?
What did I do today to help someone in need? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we are torn between our families?
HDIF when our lovemaking is interrupted?
How do I see our weaknesses as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF about we are the church?
What would I say most represents a symbol of our loving relationship? HDIFAMA?
HDIF when people tell me they cheat on their taxes?
HDIF about us as a family?
HDIF when I ask one of my people to forgive me? HDIFAT?
I think you are beautiful from within because _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when the actions of other people come between us?
HDIF about sending a card to you in the mail?
What new desires for our relationship have we gained this week? HDIFAT?
What do I do that annoys you? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the Trinity of God? HDIFAT?
HDIF about drinking champagne with you?
HDIF when we pray the rosary?
HDIF about our bedtime ritual?
Is our involvement with Encounter / Retrouvaille done as a couple? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see a characteristic of yours in one of our children?
Would I feel better having great opportunity or great experience? HDIFAT?
What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT?
What would I like to do during Advent this year? HDIFAT?
Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAMA?
When do I most need your support? HDIFAT?
Does your family have a reunion? HDIFAT?
Where is my favorite place for dialogue? HDIFAT?
Is Jesus in control of our future? HDIFAT?
When am I least open to listen to you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you gently touch me?
Jesus will never give us more conflict than we can manage. HDIFAT?
What do I value most in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about myself when I make a mistake?
How have I let myself down? HDIFAT?
It is difficult for me to listen to my people when _____. HDIFAT?
How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT?
HDIF when we attend a greet-off?
How is our relationship affected when we strive to love unconditionally? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my successes?
HDIF about my co-workers?
HDIF about the influence of my mother in my life?
What are your best qualities? HDIFAT?
What does your touch mean to me? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when someone points out my failure or weakness in front of others? DILD.
Our decisions usually revolve around _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I cannot keep the schedule I have set for myself?
Our parish or church family is planning a dinner. HDIFAT?
Can I see God in our children? HDIFAT?
What do I enjoy doing for the public good? HDIFAT?
HDIF about my relationship with our children?
What value do I see in changing the world? HDIFAT?
What do I do that keeps me from being closer to God? HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help in my relationship with my people? HDIFAT?
HDIF about our spirituality?
HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents?
If I could change your name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about our sex life? HDIFAT?
What is our marriage language like? HDIFAT?
One thing I missed out on in my childhood was... HDIFAMA?
HDIF knowing it is God's idea for us to be together?
HDIF about preparing a heart-shaped meatloaf for dinner?
How is our day when we are not sexually desirous? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I watch our children play in the snow?
How can our family gain strength in the Holy Family?
In what ways has God worked in my life today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I visit you in the hospital?
Would I have been able to stay at the Garden of Gethsemane knowing what was going to happen? HDIFAMA?
How does our support group enhance our relationship? HDIFAT?
How are we responding to our Lord's call to unconditional love in our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about paying the bills?
How do I feel when we try something different in our lovemaking? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when the alarm goes off in the morning?
How can I be more open to you and to your love? HDIFAT?
I am most likely to criticize one of my people about _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF about having regular medical and dental checkups?
Am I afraid of something that God would give me strength to overcome, if I prayed to Him about it? HDIFAT?
What can I do to show you more love? HDIFAT?
Marriage should be full of the joy that God desires for us. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am telling you about my failures?
Am I satisfied with my life? (What would I change? What wouldn't I change?) HDIFAM answer(s)?
What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT?
How would I feel receiving a friendship card from you?
Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?
What can I do to improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?
Given the time and money for a long trip, where would I want to go? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say, It is my fault?
What can we do to keep our marriage alive and growing? HDIFAT?
What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?
How is our community helped by our involvement in the program? HDIFAT?
HDIF about listening to other people tell jokes?
HDIF when I think you are taking a superior attitude into our dialogues?
HDIF when you stand up for me?
HDIF when I help you carry in the groceries?
What dialogue has meant the most to me? HDIFAT?
HDIF on a date with you?
What can I do to share my strengths with other people? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are sick or hurt?
HDIF when I stay within my limits, undertaking only as much as I can handle?
What romantic memories do I have from our dating days? HDIFAT?
How do I feel when I see you suffering? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF about my self-worth as your lover?
What gift of myself could I give to everyone this Christmas? HDIFAT?
HDIF about fighting as a constructive means of communication between us?
What do I want to do this Thanksgiving as a family? HDIFAT?
Happiness is inward and not outward; and so it does not depend on what we have, but on what we are.' -- Henry van Dyke. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I am accepted and cared for?
What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT?
HDIF reading my favorite Scripture to you?
When we have to change roles, how does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
HDIF about the taxes we pay? HDIFAT?
HDIF about loaning my books or tools?
How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT?
What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDIFAT?
What do I hope to gain in the area of use of time? HDIFAT?
Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT decision now?
HDIF when our family trust level has been broken?
HDIF when our children scream?
HDIF when I watch the sunrise with you?
How can I delight in your goodness without trying to possess you? HDIFAT?
How can I be more intimate with you? HDIFAT?
What effect does music have on me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you are jealous?
HDIF as the winning lottery numbers are being drawn?
What do I like least about you in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?
What financial needs do I see coming between us? HDIFAT?
Does our parents' style of marriage have an effect on us? HDIFAT?
How do I feel about us being important to the church and the world? HDIF sharing this with you?
Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT?
HDIF when your eyes sparkle?
What are my expectations for our journey into this New Year? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I see you struggle?
If I could change any one thing about you, I would change _____. HDIFAT?
Who am I a hero to? HDIFAT?
HDIF when you say you are sorry?
HDIF when I discover the assumptions I made about you are not true?
HDIF when I think we are not as romantic as other people?
I think we need to negotiate the following: _____. HDIFAT?
Where do I look for help when I find I am in over my head? HDIFAMA?
HDIF thinking about the first time I knew you were for me?
What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT?
I need to learn to _____. HDIFAT?
What charism (strength) do I have from the Spirit that helps the world believe? HDIFAT?
Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I wake up and you are not there?
Where am I most selfish? HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF when I am asked to love, to give, or to forgive but will receive nothing in return?
HDIF about living our sacrament and what does this entail?
Would I ever go through an 8-item checkout with 20 items? HDIFAT?
How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT?
Describe a time when I felt bashful. HDIFAT?
How do I feel about the last time we made love? Describe in loving detail.
HDIF when our lovemaking is interrupted?
HDIF when I serve you breakfast in bed?
HDIF about visiting an arts and craft fair with you?
HDIF when a little dispute threatens a long friendship?
What can we do to promote peace? HDIFAT?
Intimacy is a challenge to forge our future together. HDIFAT?
Can the new people I meet tell what interests me right away? HDIFAT?
What is the main driving force in my life? HDIFAT?
What was my biggest challenge in loving you today? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I do some household or yard chore without being reminded to do it?
We need new clothes. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I make love but do not ask in a clear way?
Why have we been dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live?
HDIF when I have to make major changes in my plans at the last minute?
What should our children be learning in school? HDIFAT?
When other people expect a lot from me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT?
HDIF when I listen patiently to your heartaches?
What tempts me? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I bend the truth?
In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? How do I think that has make you feel?
When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT?
HDIF having a one-to-one conversation with someone I barely know?
What about our lives would I like to change? HDIF telling you this?
HDIF when a couple enters Encounter / Retrouvaille because of our example?
HDIF about the Easter bunny?
HDIF when our other activities become more important than the two of us?
What is the greatest gift I could give to you? HDIFAT?
What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?
HDIF about participating in league activities (softball, bowling) with you?
What good do I find in dialogue that keeps me coming back? HDIFAT?
I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT?
Our love for each other is a reflection of God's love for us. HDIFAT?
HDIF about the way we play together?
Does our love make a difference in our community? HDIFAT?
There really IS a New World somewhere! HDIFAT?
HDIF knowing we are growing old together? HDIFAT?
Do I think we talk about our lovemaking enough? HDIFAMA?
In what specific way have I brightened your day today? HDIFAT?
Does our home reflect our values? HDIFAT?
What are my attitudes about our having a vacation this year? HDIFAT?
HDIF about making myself more appealing to you?
Jesus would have died for me even if I was the only person on earth. HDIF about this?
I am most vulnerable when... HDIF sharing this with you?
HDIF about where I am this year compared to last year at this time?
What are the things that make it difficult for me to talk about money with you? HDIFAT?
HDIF when I know that I have hurt your feelings?
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?
HDIF when you give me a massage?
What values of mine differ from my people? How does this effect my relationship with them? HDIFAMA?
HDIF showing affection in front of our children?
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