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| What are my views about mid-life marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What do I like best about us in the area of use of time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live? |
| HDIF when I think about making a will? |
| HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow? |
| When you say no to me in sex, I feel _____. |
| HDIF about my ability to persevere? |
| What expectations do I have of my job? Are they being met? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I see us 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT? |
| What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about keeping secrets? |
| When there seems to be no hope, do I give up or keep on trying? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think are your plans for this new year? HDIFAT? |
| What opportunity did I have today to erase one of my failures? HDIFAT? |
| Why do I want to make you number one in my life? What stands in my way? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| If I did not need money, what would I be doing today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you heal me? |
| As we read _____ (pick some verse from Scripture), what is my strongest emotion / feeling? |
| Is orderliness important to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about doing routine tasks? |
| What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I like to make love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge you are angry with me? |
| HDIF when I am asked to work overtime? |
| What gifts do I/we have to offer Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA? |
| What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDIFAT? |
| What potentials have you helped me develop? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our children's education in music and art? |
| What does the season of Lent mean to me? |
| HDIF hearing you laugh? |
| After a fight, is it easy or hard for my to ask for forgiveness? Why? HDIFAMA |
| What activities weaken our relationship with God and Church? HDIFAT? |
| When I consider the increasing rate of inflation, I feel _____. |
| How have we benefitted by choosing to dialogue at home? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| HDIF about honoring the dead? |
| HDIF when I try holding my temper? |
| How has my attitude affected our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about helping teach someone? |
| HDIF about yelling? |
| HDIF when you ask me non-verbally to make love? |
| I need to learn not to _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I love most about you today? HDTMMF? |
| What do I miss about school? HDIFAT? |
| Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when we spend an evening alone together? |
| HDIF when I squeeze your hand? |
| We are blessed by the love of our families. HDIFAT? |
| How can we reach out to a single-parent family? HDIFAT? |
| How would I describe our non-verbal communication with each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you surprise me with something nice? |
| HDIF when you we'll see but I think you mean no? |
| Our neighbor has been burglarized. HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite way of wasting time? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT? |
| My greatest satisfaction in our sexual relationship is _____. HDIFAT? |
| In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who never laugh? Who laugh easily? |
| What are my hopes for the New Year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when God's will seems to be in conflict with my needs? |
| One of my big failures in life is _____. HDIFAT? |
| What is my mask (personality style) when we have an argument? HDIFAT? |
| Does our inability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other couples think they do not need to dialogue? |
| How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT? |
| In one word, my mother is (or was) _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you avoid a conflict between us? |
| God will give us nothing we cannot handle. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone snaps their fingers to get my attention? |
| How do I feel when someone asks me, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in detail. |
| What limits do I have because of the mask I wear? HDIFAMA? |
| How can we improve our non-verbal communication as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, how were my parents most critical of me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I (wife) / you (husband) wear make-up? |
| What attribute/ability/gift of yours am I most proud to share with others? How do I feel sharing this with you? |
| HDIF when others want me to take risks? |
| HDIF when I hold you as you cry yourself to sleep? |
| Where am I most selfish? HDIFAT? |
| What feelings do I have when I think about us being apart for several days? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| HDIF about planning for a New Year? |
| HDIF knowing there is a chance that today could be my last day on earth? |
| HDIF telling you each day in a dialogue letter that I love you? |
| How do I feel when one of my people brings me a surprise? Describe in loving detail. |
| What dream do I have for Retrouvaille in our area? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF about our relationship with God? |
| HDIF when you make me your favorite person? |
| I looked forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT? |
| It was not raining when Noah built the ark. HDIFAT? |
| What was my greatest fear as a child? HDIFAT? |
| A closed heart can only be opened from the inside.' Is my heart fully open to God? If not, where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA(s)? |
| HDIF about our combined strengths? |
| HDIF after I donate a pint of blood? |
| What is rubbing me the wrong way today? HDIFAT? |
| What did I do today to make life less difficult for someone else? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider that we are unique as a couple? |
| What are the if's I put in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Is my life pretty much the same from week to week? HDIFAT? |
| What hopes do I have for my people's future? HDIFAT? |
| How would I rate our level of intimacy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you heal me in dialogue? |
| What expectations do I have of God? Are they being met? HDIFAMA? |
| What is my dream for my involvement in Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA? |
| Whoever loves is a child of God. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sending secret gifts and notes to another couple? |
| HDIF when our daily routines do not allow us time for each other? |
| What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAMA? |
| Even though you might not expect it, what changes do I need to make in my behavior that will help me grow closer to you?HDMAMMF?" |
| Can I recognize when I am under stress? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about taking responsibility for my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF hugging our son or daughter after I have disciplined them? |
| HDIF about your co-workers? |
| How do I feel when I would like to say no, but don't think I can? Describe in loving detail. |
| HDIF when we do not dialogue? |
| What can I do to be more help to you? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel about today? HDMAMMF? |
| What was our closest moment as a family this year? HDIFAT? |
| How can we, as a couple, meet Jesus' challenge to follow Him? HDIFAT? |
| What thought of you makes me smile? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car? |
| How do I feel about my physical appearance? Describe in loving detail. |
| What mask (personality style) did I wear today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we pray together before we dialogue? |
| HDIF about tithing the first part of my wages to the Lord? |
| What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I want to invite a couple to experience the weekend but you do not? |
| HDIF about our recent vacation? |
| HDIF when someone does not treat me right? |
| What does this holiday mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I need to be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT? |
| We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT? |
| What does the baby Jesus mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you greet me warmly after a tough day? |
| How can we live a simple and more fulfilling life? HDIFTYT? |
| HDIF being around people who are always coming up with new ideas? |
| Is our love for each other greater today than yesterday? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing God planned for us to be together? |
| HDIF when I shake out the rugs? |
| What are the negative effects my mask (personality style) has on me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear The family that prays together stays together? |
| How are we active in our community? HDIFAT? |
| Why do I want snow at Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel about changing sexes for one day? HDIFAT? |
| God often allows our hearts to be broken so that He can beautify our soul. HDIFA this statement? |
| When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDMAMMF? |
| In what ways am I afraid to look ahead? HDMAMMF? |
| How do I feel when we cry after watching a movie together? Describe in loving detail. |
| What romantic things do I remember most from our dating or early marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What unmet need did I experience today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the divorce rate in our community? |
| What more could I do with what I know? HDIFAT? |
| Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct.' - Thomas Carlyle Do I live out my convictions? Where do I need to improve? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF about us spending time alone, just the two of us? |
| I am happiest when _____. HDIFAT? |
| If I could change one thing about me, I would _____. HDIFAT? |
| When have I felt the most loved this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think about your death, and what life will be without you? |
| How well do I concentrate on my people's needs? HDIFAT? |
| What can we do to renew our parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear about someone who has been abused? |
| HDIF when I consider what I had to give up to be successful? |
| What emotions / feelings about sex do I find most difficult to reveal to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you have to make a sacrifice for us? |
| HDIF when other people talk negatively about me? |
| HDIF when I bend the truth? |
| I think your strengths are _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF sleeping in a strange bed? |
| What can I do to show our children more love? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about when I hear the word Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| What does Valentine's day mean to me? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| Where we live is _____ to me. HDIFAT? |
| What emotions / feelings about God do I find most difficult to share? HDIFAT? |
| What hinders me from talking about money with you? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA? |
| What gives me goose bumps? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected? |
| HDIF when I put away the laundry? |
| God has a job for us that only we can handle. HDIFAT? |
| What is something we have suffered together in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What are my sexual desires? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our going out together alone more often? |
| What are my priorities in life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about encouraging our older children to take a part-time job? |
| HDIF about our lifetime goals? |
| Is Mass a celebration for me? HDIFAT? |
| What are my dreams for us as we grow older? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when I remember you in my prayers? |
| If I were completely free right now, I would _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are awakened at night by a crying child? |
| What would be the perfect escape weekend? HDIFAT? |
| This week, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAT? |
| Can I really accept God's plan for us? HDIFAT? |
| Why do I want to dialogue in the area of death? HDIFAT? |
| What is the biggest challenge facing us this week? What can I do to help you through it? HDIFAMA? |
| What do my answers tell me about myself? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept responsibility when it is put upon me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I cannot keep the schedule I have set for myself? |
| Do I allow Jesus to be in control of my life? HDIFAT? |
| How are you like your father? HDIFAT? |
| What does the Good Shepherd mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| What has dialogue taught me about my relationship with you? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel when you tell me, 'We'll see,' and I think you really mean, 'No'? DILD. |
| When one of my people gives me a hug, I feel _____. |
| HDIF about spring weather? |
| How do I fare when I try to put myself in someone else's shoes? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways does my mask interfere with how I listen to you? HDMAMMF? |
| How do I feel when I see you suffering? Describe in loving detail. |
| How do you irritate me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you tell me that you need me? |
| Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT? |
| When do I feel closest to all of you and HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT? |
| In the area of superiority what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail. |
| HDIF about getting other people's advice on a personal problem? |
| What do I hope to achieve through dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am on a diet? |
| What leads us to difficulties in our decision-making? HDIFAT? |
| What kinds of compliments have I received most often as an adult? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my prayer life? |
| What happens when I let emotions / feelings take control over me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going on a weekly date? |
| What have I learned about my people recently that surprised me? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going on living with you? |
| What actions or behaviors do I use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the little things you do for me? |
| HDIF about having this regular dialogue time with you? |
| HDIF about getting in shape? |
| HDIF when I ask for your forgiveness? |
| What was the most moving part of the last wedding we attended? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children misbehave in public? |
| HDIF when you give me your undivided attention? |
| HDIF about the way our marriage influences those around us? |
| What prevents me from asking questions about something I need to know or should know? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about wearing a cowboy hat? |
| HDIF about introducing you as my husband or wife? |
| How has our non-verbal dialogue improved during the follow-up period? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being with people who keep their enthusiasm under control? |
| Do I accept the burdens God has given me, or do I try to overcome in spite of them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive communion? |
| HDIF when you have to be the one to discipline our children? |
| How well do I think my people listen to me? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have as we enter a new month? HDIFAT? |
| If I died today, would I be ready to meet my Maker? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT? |
| What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What emotion / feeling of mine is most likely to result in behaviors that build up my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| Whom do I share my joys with? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I lie back and look at the stars? |
| HDIF about reaching out to other people today? |
| HDIF when we disagree in front of others? |
| HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll? |
| Do I believe I am taking everything too personally? HDIFAT? |
| When am I jealous or selfish? HDIFAT? |
| Sometimes life is not fair. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are intimate? |
| What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAT? |
| Our marriage is a sign of Christ's Love. How do I think others experienced our sign today? HDTMMF? |
| HDIF about trying to make something beautiful with my hands? |
| HDIF about helping other people who are out of work? |
| How important is physical affection to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I keep a promise I made to you? |
| What do I think about our sacrament of Matrimony? HDIFAT? |
| What quality in you helped me trust in our young marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Is control a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children say, I love you? |
| What have I learned about my people through the challenges we have faced together? HDIFAT? |
| What causes the most friction between my people and me? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel about the blessings and gifts God has given me? Describe in loving detail. |
| What one thing this week did we do as a couple to foster passion in our relationship? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF about taking on a ministry as a couple? |
| HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you? |
| What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| How do I respond to others when I am away from my people? HDIFAT? |
| Have any of my dreams come true? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am angry with you? |
| HDIF about you staying home with the children and being a homemaker? |
| HDIF when we dance together? |
| What emotions / feelings do I find most difficult to accept in myself? HDIFAT? |
| What effect did my family's ideas, experiences, etc. of priest/religious life have upon me and the way I lead my life now? HDIFAMA? |
| What keeps me from trusting my people completely? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF about having more children? |
| HDIF when other people forget my birthday? |
| Do I assume I already know what you are going to say? HDIFAT? |
| Do I love you more for you, or for God? (Do I think my love for you is more for you, or for God) HDIFAMA? |
| Can I see our children as gifts of God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about renewing myself during Lent? |
| I like to look at you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| In the little emergencies of everyday life, I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| How important is the Eucharist to me? HDIFAT? |
| How close do I come to loving everyone? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I said Thank You to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the values our children are choosing? |
| Where on my list of priorities did I place our dialogue today? HDIFAT? |
| What have I kept from you in recent days? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge myself as inadequate, guilty, or unlovable? |
| How can I stop evil from happening? HDIFAT? |
| What difficulties are me most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision? HDIFAMA? |
| To become more fully human and lovable and at the same time achieve a greater growth in my married life, how can I be more gentle with myself?HDMAMMF?" |
| What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? HDIFAT? |
| What good effect has the example of my parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT? |
| Is the money mine, ours, or yours? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept myself? Why or why not? HDIFAMA? |
| In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT? |
| How many times have I been stopped by the police? HDIFAT? |
| How would never having children affect my life? HDIFAT? |
| If I were President for a day, I would _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I go to bed knowing you will be home late? |
| When did I feel closest to you last weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT? |
| Our Sacrament calls us to a good marriage, not just an average one. HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of my Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA? |
| In what ways do I take you for granted? HDIFAT? |
| I need to know the answers to the following questions: _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am naked in front of you? |
| What prevents me from being generous to you and others? HDIFAT? |
| When I want some time for myself, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we reminisce about our favorite times together? |
| HDIF when you shut me off? |
| HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken? |
| HDIF when you respond quickly to my requests? |
| What am I willing to do to make our dialogue more regular? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about starting over after a reversal or failure? |
| What have we done this week to help do God's work? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when I check on our children as they sleep? |
| In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? HDIFAT? |
| What happens when I am still lonely or feel used after we make love? HDIFAT? |
| What is the motivating force in my life? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when I am caught by off-guard? |
| I hate people who _____. HDIFAT? |
| If Christ dropped in to visit today, would He feel at home? |
| Our love is a prayer. HDIFAT? |
| What do you do that tells me you forgive me? HDIFAT? |
| Would I feel resentment if you died? HDIFAT? |
| What effect has dialogue made in our daily lives? HDTMMF? |
| HDIF when you are open with me? |
| What compliment do I least like to receive about us? HDIFAT? |
| Since we added dialogue into our lives, am I experiencing you differently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize that God is speaking to me through you? |
| HDIF when we cuddle? |
| Describe a time when I felt anxious. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a teacher does not like my child? |
| HDIF about sharing you with our children? |
| How can we incorporate prayer into our daily life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone blames me? |
| How well do I think I show my love to God? HDIFAMA? |
| I love you today because _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about recommitting us to regular dialogue as a way of life? |
| Today, where am I with myself and with us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF tracing your face with my fingertips? |
| HDIF when I have to change a tire? |
| Do I believe we are children of light? HDIFAT? |
| What did I want you to hear but you did not? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we take a drive together to see the beautiful fall foliage? |
| What am I most disillusioned with in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people notice our closeness? |
| What makes our house a home? HDIFAT? |
| What are my feelings regarding how I spend my time? HDIF sharing these thoughts with you? |
| Is my self-worth based on the opinion of others? HDIFAT? |
| What emotion / feeling have I not shared with you yet today? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I told you how special you are? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I control my temper? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas of our relationship do I think I am number one with you? HDIFAT? |
| How do I try to control you? HDIFAT? |
| In our relationship, do I spend more time on the construction gang, or on the wrecking crew? HDIFAT? |
| What risks should I be taking to keep our communication timely and alive? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our current financial situation? |
| HDIF when I work late? |
| How well do I accept others outside of Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA? |
| The most interesting thing you have taught me is _____. HDIFAT? |
| What has been the effect of my job or career on our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our relationship with each other's parents? |
| HDIF when I had scheduled time with my family, but need to be with my people instead? |
| Is my lifestyle original or conventional? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way we use our spare time? |
| HDIF when I think about us saying I do each day? |
| What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT? |
| What do I consider my strengths? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you working too many hours? |
| How is our community helped by our activity in Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation? |
| HDIF when you warn me that I am about to make a mistake? |
| What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive a gift that suggests I need improvement? |
| HDIF when I go out of my way to please you? |
| On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate myself at forgiving you? HDIFAT? |
| When my attention is fully occupied, is it because I am concentrating or because I am worrying? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel when someone close to me dies? Describe in loving detail. |
| What touches please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| Are we free to ask our friends for help anytime we have a problem? HDIFAMA? |
| What do I consider my strengths? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| HDIF when I am sexually aroused? |
| What guideline for fighting do I find most difficult to practice? HDIFAT? |
| How long has it been since we called or wrote our prayer couple? HDIFAT? |
| Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT? |
| In which direction are we heading? HDIFAT? |
| What smells have an emotional association for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF holding hands during mass or church? |
| What do I think you most need from me right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to understand what is bothering me? |
| What areas have I closed my ears to listening to my people? HDIFAMA? |
| What behavior of yours most lets me experience myself as a man / woman? HDIFAT? |
| If you died, what quality of yours would I miss most? HDIFAT? |
| When I pray, do I listen? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, What is your problem? |
| How do I feel about the way my ministry influences those around me? Describe in loving detail. |
| HDIF toward you when we have to make a decision together? |
| I am a better person because of my people. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us when I hear our favorite song? |
| HDIF about leaving our children for a few days? |
| HDIF about living our sacrament and what does this entail? |
| HDIF about you liking me as a person? |
| What was the most difficult thing I had to overcome to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear love is a decision? |
| HDIF when I first learned we were going to be parents? |
| HDIF lying in bed when you are sound asleep but I am wide awake? |
| How do I think the world will end? HDIFAT? |
| What family memories of Spring do I have? HDMAMMF? |
| What special strength do I see in my in-laws? HDIFAT? |
| How has dialogue helped me meet my need for self-worth? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do not trust you with my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way? |
| What about my relationship with God would I like to improve? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when we hold hands in public? |
| How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail. |
| What helps me confess my weaknesses to you? HDIFAT? |
| How have I used my mask (personality style) this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I know that I have hurt you? |
| How well do I listen to my people when they talk about family? HDIFAT? |
| What gifts do I have to offer to Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| What obstacles do I need to overcome in order to love you better? HDIFAT? |
| How do other people experience our lack of sexual desire for each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to be punctual for your sake? |
| How well do I trust you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get the silent treatment from you? |
| What do I dislike most about myself when I fight with one of my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my work? |
| Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT? |
| What power do I see in our prayer? HDIFAT? |
| Do I make other things more important than God? What? HDIFAMA? |
| What things crossed my mind this week that I have not bothered to mention? HDIFAT? |
| What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the responsibility we have to other married couples? |
| If I was about to die, and only had time to tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIF telling you this? |
| HDIF about giving away what I have? |
| HDIF about my co-workers? |
| Do I consider myself a good dancer? HDIFAT? |
| How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way we handle money? |
| HDIF knowing there is life after death? |
| HDIF when our routines separate us? |
| HDIF about sending Christmas cards? |
| What is my fondest memory of my father? |
| HDIF about having to work overtime to make ends meet? |
| When is the last time I made the decision to love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about writing about my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF when we enjoy each other's sense of humor? |
| How do I respond to overtures of friendship from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAT? |
| Can you count on me in a time of need? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who are negative? |
| What is the area I least want to discuss with you? HDIFAT? |
| The way to salvation is through Jesus. HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I most need the Lord's help? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going out alone in the evening? |
| HDIF when people say exactly what they mean? |
| HDIF about having breakfast in bed with you? |
| HDIF when there is no time in the day for us? |
| How supportive are we of our extended family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you brag on me to your friends? |
| Take and eat, this is my body. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I wipe away your tears? |
| HDIF at those times when you lose control? |
| HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song? |
| HDIF about my life staying like this? |
| What bad habit(s) would I like to give up? HDIFAT? |
| What changes would I like to make in response to my failures? HDIFTYT? |
| In what areas do I have difficulty putting full trust in God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God's plan for our friendships? |
| Do my personal goals conflict with the goals God has for me? HDIFAMA? |
| What do I want most for our family this Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA? |
| You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT? |
| In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF trusting God to guide our lives? |
| HDIF on those occasions when I think about calling our relationship quits? |
| What emotion / feeling does Jesus' death on the cross stir in me? HDIFAT? |
| What are the strongest emotions / feelings I had during our times of trouble? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when winter is approaching? |
| How do I react to the emergencies that come up in my daily life? HDIFAT? |
| What would I say about you at your wake? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having a drink? |
| What does it cost us as a couple to be Jesus' disciples? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our diet or food choices at this time? |
| How have I experienced understanding in our relationship? HDMAMMF? |
| When other people want to help me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| What more can I do in the time that I have left? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? HDIF Sharing this with you? Sex" |
| What causes the most friction between my people and I? (Not conflict, but the little things that rub each other the wrong way.) HDIFAMA? |
| If I could live my life over again, I would. . . HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you surprise me with flowers? |
| Would I rather be a failure at something I love or a success at something I hate? HDIFAT? |
| When I am center of attention, does this feel natural or strange to me? |
| How patient am I with the faults of others? HDIFAT? |
| What quality of yours do I experience when I am away from you? HDIFAT? |
| How do I show my love for my people? HDIFAT? |
| What does listening mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF approaching Christ as a couple? |
| How well do we communicate with God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the birth of one of our children? |
| HDIF when you come home from work? |
| In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT? |
| When I?m lonely, I think of _________ . HDMAMMF? |
| Share with each other the things in life that make you content. HDIFAT? |
| How do I react to pressure? How does my reaction affect you? HDIFAT? |
| How can I bring the joys of Christmas to other people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am competing for something? |
| HDIF when I am talking about my personal life? |
| HDIF at those times when you are passive and uninvolved? |
| How do we support the marriages of our relatives? HDIFAT? |
| You help me to be a better person. HDIFAT? |
| What might be fun for us in the future? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your volunteer work? |
| What are my expectations of tomorrow? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I unavoidably hit some small animal with the car? |
| What do I think about the choices we have made in our friends? HDIFAT? |
| Can I perform the Heimlich maneuver? HDIFAT? |
| What are my best qualities as a parent and HDIFAT? |
| HDIF in realizing our sexual union is God's command? |
| What do I hope for in my heart for my people? HDIFAT? |
| Recently I succeeded at _____. HDIFAT? |
| At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT? |
| How could our dialogue be better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about snakes? |
| HDIF when you touch me in public? |
| Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT? |
| The first Christmas I remember was _____. HDIFAT? |
| Where do I see myself 5 (10, 15, 20...) years from now? HDIFAT? |
| When I do not know something, what am I most likely to do: pretend I do, ask, or ignore it? HDIFAT? |
| What tempts me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I like best about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT? |
| How important are material things to me? HDIFAT? |
| When do I most need my people's support? HDIFAT? |
| What problems do we have because of differing values? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us when we hear our favorite song? |
| HDIF about your promotion potential? |
| How much a part of our marriage is God to me right now? HDIFAT? |
| How many hours of TV do I watch a day? HDIFAT? |
| What is my idea of heaven? HDIFAT? |
| How have I been separate from you lately? HDIFAT? |
| When was I most aware of you today? HDIFAMA? |
| If I knew I were going to die tomorrow, what would I do today? HDIFAT? |
| Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAT? |
| If I had my life to start again, what would I change? HDIFAT? |
| What are my hopes and dreams for our future? HDIFAT? |
| How am I pro-life? HDIFAT? |
| What am I willing to do to make our dialogue better this coming week? HDIFAT? |
| If loving you were like eating candy, would I be fat? HDIFAT? |
| Do I challenge others to live their values? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about telling you what I like or do not like? |
| How do I feel about being in our C.O.R.E. or Sharing group? Describe in loving detail. |
| HDIF when I know someone is cheating on their wife/husband? |
| In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT? |
| What special features do I see in you that fill me with warmth and tenderness? HDIFAT? |
| How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDMAMMF? |
| HDIF when I know we are going to have sex? |
| If it were possible, I would like to become a _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about putting more fireworks into our life? |
| Who controls the mood in the house? HDIFAT? |
| If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go, and why? HDIFAT? |
| When you go away on a business trip, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe we are part of God's plan? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am with good friends? |
| When I want to feel important, what behaviors of mine can be a problem? HDIFAT? |
| What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| Who has more fun, adults or children? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest gift I could give to you? HDIFAT? |
| Whom do I most want to be like and why? HDIFAT? |
| God loves you more than I do. HDIFAT? |
| What are my attitudes in the area of our sexual relationship that could cause us not to be as close as we could be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are slow dancing? |
| What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when I look at pictures from my ordination / marriage? |
| Do I pray for love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF making a surprise dessert for you? |
| HDIF about our financial pressures this time of year? |
| HDIF inviting couples like us into Encounter / Retrouvaille? |
| How have our children experienced our love this week? HDIFAT? |
| The time I feel most alive is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you undress in front of me? |
| HDIF when my family makes demands on us? |
| What do I most want for Christmas this year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do? |
| HDIF when you fall asleep early in the evening? |
| How do we handle anger in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing that we will always have to work for real closeness in our relationship? |
| When we are alone, we usually talk about _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF hearing you say you love me? |
| How has my perspective changed over the last 5, 10, or 20 years? HDIFAT? |
| What precedents have we set with family members? HDIFAT? |
| What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT? |
| A time I felt closest to my people was... How do I feel recalling this? |
| HDIF about the coming of Christ? |
| HDIF when work makes demands of me that seem unfair? |
| HDIF when someone mentions my job title? |
| What mask am I wearing today? HDMAMMF? |
| What do I like best and least about our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving presents to those I love? |
| HDIF about looking the person in the eye when I say, I am sorry? |
| When we have disagreements on Retrouvaille, do I/we play fair, or fight dirty? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when we spend an entire day communicating only with non-verbals? (Try it!) |
| What things, actions, ideas, do I find the most threatening? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I think I show my love to my people? HDIFAMA? |
| Do I take credit for other's work? Do I give credit where credit is due? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF about my sacrifices to make the family meal enjoyable? |
| HDIF about receiving the Eucharist with you? |
| What do I like best about us in the area of child raising? HDIFAT? |
| With what aspect of our relationship am I most comfortable? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| Is my tongue like a double-edged sword? HDIFAT? |
| What do I have responsibility for that I would like to give up? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| I am most likely to criticize you about _____. HDIFAT? |
| Recently, how have I been judgemental of you? HDMAMMF? |
| What have I learned about myself in the past month? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am too tired to sleep? |
| Can I enjoy my successes for a while, or do I have to move on to the next challenge? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most like to do in my free time? HDIFAMA? |
| What do I like best about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, You are just like your father? |
| Can I program a computer? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my ability to speak to you freely about our sexual relationship? |
| HDIF about dialoguing on death? |
| HDIF about reminding a friend to return something recently borrowed? |
| How do I feel when you feel hurt? Describe in loving detail. |
| When something bad happens to me, do I allow it to affect my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| Whom do I blame most of the time when things go wrong? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the differences in the way we discipline our children? |
| What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I listen to my people when they talk about finances? HDIFAT? |
| What is my listening pattern when we talk about handling money? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you tell me that you need me? |
| If I could change my name, what would I change it to? HDIFAT? |
| Life is what happens while we are making other plans.' HDIFAT? |
| Lately, have I accepted your emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we have a large number of people over? |
| What quote do I want on my tombstone? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after we had experienced the weekend, but before we left the facility? |
| I am most confident when... HDIFAMA? |
| How good our marriage is affects other marriages around us. HDIFAT? |
| What is today's gospel reading saying to me? HDIFAT? |
| What is the effect of our sexual intimacy on me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I use alcohol, caffeine, or nicotine? If so, for what? HDIFAMA? |
| If Jesus asked, What have we done to build the Kingdom? |
| What non-verbal expression, gesture or behavior helps me understand how you feel? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel about telling others about Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA? |
| What can I do to build a better community? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel using my favorite picture of you as a bookmark? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe in the power of prayer? HDIFAT? |
| I am about as happy as I make up my mind to be. HDIFAT? |
| How well do I live up to the dreams I had for myself when I was young? HDIFAMA? |
| What do I see as my people's strengths? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sleeping late? |
| What sacrifices am I making for my family now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our neighbors? |
| What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| Lately, have I accepted your feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAMA? |
| What difficulties are we most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think I most need to change about the way I use money? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after I have exercised my right to vote? |
| How do I feel after I have forgiven you? DILD. |
| HDIF in my role as a mother? |
| So the Lord answers, 'Can a woman forget her own baby and not love the child she bore? Even if a mother should forget her child, I will never forget you. Jerusalem, I can never forget you! I have written your name on the palm of my hands.' Isaiah 49:15-16 What does this mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you hug me after a rough day? |
| What does being an open and honest couple mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| Why have we not been dialoguing regularly? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, Okay, let's try it your way? |
| HDIF when we laugh together? |
| In the area of God and our faith, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT |
| What strengths do we bring to the Lord? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I accept love as well as give it? |
| HDIF about starting a family? |
| What would I like to do in the next month if I knew I had only one month to live? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me? |
| HDIF knowing I am not promised a tomorrow? |
| HDIF when someone wins a game and gloats over it? |
| What emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to reveal to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we play games with our children? |
| I am worth more than I am paid. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to say, I am sorry? |
| HDIF about my reaction toward sex? |
| What are my goals for our children's sexuality? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing my troubles with my people? |
| HDIF about the atmosphere in our home? |
| HDIF when I consciously put aside my emotions / feelings and reach out to you? |
| HDIF when you are passionate? |
| Should we start planning for a vacation this year? HDIFAT? |
| What is going on inside me in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think you are paying more attention to others than to me? |
| HDIF when I forget other people's birthdays? |
| HDIF after a good dialogue? |
| HDIF about our materialistic lifestyle? |
| HDIF sharing our dialogue with other people? |
| HDIF when there is a last minute change of plans? |
| You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards? |
| HDIF about the phrase, Dialogue is my gift of myself to you? |
| How has our dialogue made you more important in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when cashiers ask for several pieces of identification? |
| HDIF when I have to apologize to you? |
| Do I consider myself as a conformist or a nonconformist? HDIFAT? |
| Is one of us always the first to forgive? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consult with my people when a decision that affects them needs to be made? HDIFAT? |
| What are some of the most tranquil times we spend together? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about planting flowers in the spring? |
| What are my most important values for our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How are we growing closer or becoming more distant as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What am I doing to bring joy to our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I am busy, am I really accomplishing anything? HDIFAT? |
| When is the last time you forgave me, and HDIFAT? |
| Do I have someone with whom I can be open when I feel stressed? HDIFFAMA? |
| HDIF about the death of my parents? |
| In order for us to succeed as a couple, what strength of mine do I need to develop? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am around positive people? |
| HDIF when we pray the rosary? |
| What re-evaluation of the way I am living do I need to make right now for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who are wrapped up in their careers? |
| How well do I accept my own aging? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about hugging people we do not know all that well? |
| What perfume or cologne do you wear most often? HDIFAT? |
| I enjoy my relationship with people the most when. . . HDIFAMA? |
| Where have I experienced the greatest change in attitude? HDIFAT? |
| What gaps do you fill in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do something that I think pleases God? |
| What can I do to make you smile more? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a member of our family compliments me? |
| How do I feel when your needs seem to be in conflict with mine? Describe in loving detail. |
| What compliment do I most like to receive about me? HDIFAT? |
| When recently did you do something that made me feel special? HDIFAT? |
| God sees me/us as very special because... HDIFAT? |
| What did I do today to make life less difficult for you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAMA? |
| In what aspect of our relationship do I think we have grown the most? HDIFAT? |
| If we had to wait 5 years to receive our wedding license, would we still have married? HDIFAT? |
| What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with my people better? HDIFAT? |
| How do I act (behave) when I am upset (angry or mad) with you? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| What proof is there in my life that dialogue is important to my relationship with my people? HDIFAMA? |
| My top priorities in life are... HDIFAMA? |
| What is my earliest memory of death in my childhood? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about telling a lie? |
| How do I show my love for you? HDMAMMF? |
| What kind of store would I like to own and operate? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my attractiveness? |
| How do I think I ended up at my current parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you do not reveal your emotions / feelings? |
| How do I feel about the Blessings and Gifts God has given me/us? Describe in loving detail. |
| How and why did you get back to dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we receive the Eucharist together? |
| How can I drop the conditions I put on my love for you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my father? |
| When am I most frustrated with you? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see as your non-verbals when you want to make love? HDIFAT? |
| I usually settle arguments by _____. HDIFAT? |
| Am I still striving for a deeper more loving relationship with God, or Have I stopped because I judge I've done enough? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF about having children in daycare? |
| Romance is a decision. HDIFAT? |
| Where would we be if we had never experienced the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What do I like least about myself in the area of prayer? HDIFAT? |
| What are our plans for this new year? HDIFAT? |
| You are my sweetheart because _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about growing old with you? |
| Do we make the time to pray with our friends? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when I let you know what I am really afraid of? |
| How can I help you when you are under pressure? HDIFAT? |
| If I could change my career, what would I like to do? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our fertility? |
| HDIF looking other people in the eye? |
| Sometimes I worry about _____. HDIFAT? |
| What prevents me from helping others? HDIFAT? |
| In times of trouble, where do I look first for solace, you or God? HDIFAMA? |
| What can I do this week to make memories? HDMAMMF? |
| I am very thankful about _____ but I have difficulty telling you. HDIFAT? |
| What makes our house a home? |
| What makes you cry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone insults or belittles one of my ideas? |
| Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT? |
| We have a meeting to attend and no baby-sitter. HDIFAT? |
| What am I doing to promote Christian unity right where I am? HDIFAT? |
| What was the nicest thing someone did for me this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are open to increasing the size of our family? |
| My life is a prayer. HDIFAT? |
| How am I hard on myself for things I have done in the past? HDIFAT? |
| What chess piece do you remind me of? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult part of my/our dialogue? HDIFAMA? |
| HDIF when I should reach out to you but do not? |
| HDIF when we sign our Christmas cards? |
| What can I do to improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I find it most difficult to reach out to you? HDIFAT? |
| I admire people who _____. HDIFAT? |
| Can I recognize when I?m under stress? HDIFAMA? |
| What is the first step I take to cope with the stress in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What talent do I wish I had that I do not? HDIF telling you about this? |
| What do our parents think about our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you surprise me with a gift? |
| HDIF when you call me sweetheart, honey or baby? |
| How important do I think romance is in our relationship? How do I feel about making romance a priority in our relationship? HDMAMMF? |
| When do I have time for private prayer? HDIFAT? |
| What do I do that goes unappreciated? HDIFAT? |
| Where in my job do I experience stress? HDIFAT? |
| What song most makes me think of you? HDIFAT? |
| Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished. HDIFAT? |
| Where would we turn for help if our families were not available? HDIFAT? |
| If I could change one and only one thing about the world, I would change _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about spring cleaning? |
| HDIF about my eventual death? |
| HDIF when I hear, Love is not love until you give it away? |
| HDIF about the upkeep of our home? |
| When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of my people? HDIFAT? |
| If I found out I was going to die today, how would I feel about the way I have been living? |
| In groups, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the unfinished business in our pasts? |
| HDIF about using the media to proclaim the Good News? |
| My ears are my most important communication tools. HDIFAT? |
| What message am I sending others on how I want to be treated? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT? |
| What do I like best about myself in the area of money? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are not dialoguing? |
| What do I pray for? HDIFAT? |
| When I am at a party, HDIF about leaving other people alone to enjoy themselves? |
| What mask do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel about being a sign of God's Love to our children or to other children? HDTMMF? |
| Thinking about retirement, I feel _____. |
| One of my heroes is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Our children want to play more. HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about when I cannot fall asleep? HDIFAT? |
| What was my most exciting emotion / feeling today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people see our togetherness? |
| If I believe we are not heading in the right direction, what can I do to change it? HDIFAT? |
| Is our light under a bushel basket or on a lamp post? HDIFAT? |
| Do I prefer grand ideas, plans, and dreams, or more achievable ideas, plans, and dreams? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| I am a better person because of _____. HDIFAT? |
| What difficulties am I most likely to experience when trying to make a hard decision with one of my people? HDIFAMA? |
| Is our sexual relationship life-giving? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I take time to read to our children? |
| What non-verbal expression, gesture, or behavior of yours do I most often rely on to help me understand how you feel? HDIFAT? |
| What power do I hold over my people that may be a barrier to me growing closer to them? HDIFAT? |
| What barriers keep me/us from being romantic? HDMAMMF? |
| HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results? |
| What areas do I least like to dialogue on? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I laughed? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to fight to stay awake? |
| What fear do I think you keep from me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I hope to gain in the area of God and our faith? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when something works out exactly as I planned? |
| HDIF when someone asks us, How is your dialogue? |
| Do we challenge others to live their values? HDIFAMA? |
| I forgot to buy you a card. HDIFAT? |
| What issue do we have facing us that I haven't shared my feelings with you about? What are my feelings about this issue? HDTMMF? |
| When do I know you are proud of me? HDIFAT? |
| What emotions / feelings do I have about children? |
| Listening is most difficult for me when _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people tell me they cheat on their taxes? |
| What do I think about the choices I have made in my friends? HDIFAT? |
| Who should we pass the gift of Retrouvaille on to? Misc" |
| I would feel really pampered if _____. HDIFAT? |
| Our garden is dying and we need the food. HDIFAT? |
| When did I last put your needs before mine? HDIFAT? |
| It is difficult for me to listen to God when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I think our love makes/has made a difference in the neighborhood, community, state, nation, world (pick one)? HDIFAMA? |
| When I hear the Lord's call, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I want from this relationship right now? DYFID |
| HDIF being around a room full of children? |
| HDIF when someone close to me dies? |
| HDIF when I am direct and honest, putting all my cards on the table? |
| What are my feelings when my family's aging and health related problems become our concern? HDIFTYT? |
| HDIF when you are refusing to make up? |
| How do I still let my mask (personality style) prevent me from making you number one? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite form of recreation? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I lose? When I win? |
| What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT? |
| When we talk about Encounter / Retrouvaille, some reject us. HDIFAT? |
| Our Lord calls us to love one another unconditionally. HDIFAT? HDMAMMF? |
| HDIF when I have a chance to learn about art, culture and history? |
| HDIF about treating other people like Christ? |
| HDIF when a couple says yes, they want or need to experience the weekend? |
| What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT? |
| Is there time enough for us in our busy days? HDIFAT? |
| What have I done recently to bring joy or comfort to others? HDIFAT? |
| Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA? |
| How does my need for security prevent me from giving all of me to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about French kissing? |
| HDIF when I am not included in other people's activities? |
| HDIF when you want some time alone? |
| HDIF when you make unreasonable demands on me? |
| HDIF about my family name, my family tree, my relatives, my ancestors? |
| HDIF about our dialogue? |
| How can I be more intimate with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you tell me, We'll see, and I think you really mean, No? |
| I do not ever want to be seen as _____. HDIFAT? |
| What about our relationship can be improved? HDIFAT? |
| It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we stick to our budget? |
| HDIF about your tenderness with the children? |
| HDIF about our experiences in the church? |
| When things are humdrum in our lives, do I compare us to other people? HDIFAT? |
| Is our sexual relationship routine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am indifferent toward you? |
| Is demanding a problem in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What have I learned about myself in the past year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to depend on you when I am ill? |
| HDIF when you sincerely compliment me? |
| What in our relationship gives me the most joy? HDIFAT? |
| What visions and hopes do I have for my people? HDIFAT? |
| How do I react when people sing Happy Birthday to me in public? HDIFAT? |
| What do I do that annoys my people? HDIFAT? |
| God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF? |
| What am I doing to bring joy to our relationship? HDMAMMF |
| How have I given up control in our relationship lately? HDIFAT? |
| What am I like when I am sick? HDIFAT? |
| What are my desires? HDIFAT? |
| Our relationship to my family is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our plans are changed? |
| I am most likely to use sarcasm when _____. HDIFAT? |
| What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything? HDTMMF? |
| HDIF about staying home with you? |
| HDIF sharing an unusual ability or talent with others? |
| As a child, my best friend was _____. HDIFAT? |
| In what ways am I still ?wrapped in a cocoon?? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we had an ice cream social type of evening together? HDIFAT? |
| How can this holiday literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel towards you when I am filled with romance? HDIF sharing this with you? |
| HDIF when I have to deal with low-level, nitty-gritty details? |
| HDIF when I have to make a difficult phone call? |
| HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us on a hot issue? |
| How do you respond to my failures? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest gift we can give to each other this Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept gifts well? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we negotiate a compromise between us? |
| HDIF about giving the children an allowance? |
| What do I remember as the most romantic moment in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I did a Random Act of Kindness (RAK) for you? HDIFAT? |
| If I could be remembered either as having an agile mind or a caring heart, which would it be? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of seed am I? HDIFAT? |
| What do I need to thank my people for that I have not? HDIFAT? |
| If I could have one wish, what would it be and why? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when an old friend of yours wants to spend time with you? |
| What mistakes have I made because I did not learn my lesson the first time? HDIFAT? |
| My whole life should be a prayer to God. How well do I live this? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt ashamed. HDIFAT? |
| When I am angry, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite memory of someone who has died? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail. |
| I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT? |
| It is suppertime and I have eaten too much. HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept others outside of my parish, convent, etc.? HDIFAMA? |
| What things should I make time for? HDIFAT? |
| What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| What is my present attitude toward writing a dialogue letter? HDIFAT? |
| What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT? |
| Can I always find reasons to laugh? HDIFAT? |
| How do I feel when we have a large number of people over? Describe in loving detail. |
| Intimacy is a challenge for us. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving a month's worth of dialogue questions to a favorite couple? |
| How does the image I try to project affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How much money would we need to retire on? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about family prayer? |
| What do I want to change most in you? HDIFAT? |
| What is the greatest challenge we face as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| Would I ever go through an 8-item checkout with 20 items? HDIFAT? |
| How do I handle defeat? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most need from you tomorrow? HDIFAT? |
| What ideal(s) do I pursue that could cause conflict with others? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think is fun for you? HDIFAT? |
| What emotion / feeling did I have today that I want to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT? |
| How important is spoken communication to our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I feel sad, angry, frustrated, etc. (pick one, or one of your own) what is the best thing you can do for me? HDIFAMA? |
| What kind of things frustrate me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF immediately after we make love? |
| How has our Lent prepared us for Holy Week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when discussing our sex life? |
| HDIF when you seem to be rejecting my emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF when I visit people in the hospital? |
| What are my hopes and dreams for our children concerning prayer? HDIFAT? |
| When I think about the sacrifices Jesus made for me, HDIF? |
| God expects us to be our brothers' keeper. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me? |
| How well do I show my love to my people? HDIFAT? |
| God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you call me by my pet name? |
| What would be my idea of a good family outing? |
| HDIF when I do not want to dialogue? |
| What do I feel most inadequate about in sex? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having a drink with friends? |
| HDIF about living my daily life without to-do lists, using only my memory? |
| HDIF when I receive Christ's forgiveness in the Sacrament of Penance? |
| What did I not try because I was afraid of failing? HDIFAT? |
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