Yes, it can. Thousands of couples have rebuilt their marriages after betrayal - and many say their relationship is stronger than ever.
The Pain You're Feeling
Discovering infidelity shatters everything you believed about your marriage. The betrayal cuts deep - trust is broken, your sense of reality is shaken, and you may feel a devastating mix of anger, grief, and confusion.
These feelings are normal. You're not alone in this.
Is Recovery Really Possible?
Many couples not only survive infidelity - they emerge with a stronger, more honest relationship than before. This doesn't mean the pain disappears or that forgiveness comes easily. It means that with the right tools, support, and commitment, healing is possible.
Retrouvaille has helped thousands of couples navigate the aftermath of affairs and betrayal since 1977. We understand because our presenting couples have walked this path themselves.
Why Retrouvaille Works for Infidelity Recovery
- Peer support - Learn from couples who have survived the same betrayal and rebuilt their marriages
- Safe environment - A confidential setting where you can process difficult emotions together
- Communication tools - Learn how to talk about the painful topics without escalating
- Beyond blame - Focus on understanding, not assigning fault or rehashing past mistakes
- Long-term support - Follow-up sessions and community support for lasting healing
- No judgment - A non-judgmental space for both partners to be heard
What to Expect
The Weekend: A private weekend where you'll learn communication techniques and begin rebuilding trust in a supportive, confidential environment.
Follow-Up Sessions: Weekly or bi-weekly sessions help you continue the healing process, practice new skills, and address challenges as they arise.
Ongoing Community: Monthly CORE meetings provide continued support from other couples who understand your journey and celebrate your progress.
Common Questions After Infidelity
Should I stay or leave?
This is the most difficult question, and only you can answer it. What we can tell you is that many couples who were certain their marriage was over have found healing through Retrouvaille. Before making a permanent decision, consider giving your marriage one more chance with proven tools and support. You owe it to yourself to make an informed decision.
What if only one of us wants to try?
Retrouvaille requires both partners to attend. If your spouse is reluctant, try sharing that this is about learning new communication tools - not about blame or rehashing the past. Many reluctant spouses have attended and been grateful they gave it a chance. Read our page on how to talk to your spouse about attending.
Will I have to share details in front of others?
No. Retrouvaille is not group therapy. You'll never be asked to share your personal situation with others. The weekend involves presentations by the team couples followed by private time for you and your spouse to work through exercises together. Your story remains between you.
How long does recovery take?
Healing from infidelity is a process, not an event. The weekend provides tools and a foundation, but real healing happens over time through the follow-up sessions and ongoing support. Most couples see significant improvement within the first few months, but complete healing may take longer. The important thing is that you'll have the tools and community to support you along the way.
Your marriage doesn't have to end. Take the first step toward healing today.