We are doing well, and want to make sure it stays that way. We want to be proactive to assure that we don't fall into the pit that causes so many relationships to fail. We just don't want to take any chances.
If we don't do something soon, this is not going to last. Or perhaps we are just at the end of our rope. Or maybe we have tried it all, separated, and want to give it another shot, but know we need to know how.